₦airaland Forum

Olawalesmarter:
Deep down she still need a Yoruba demon in her life

freemanbubble:
Brother to be sincere las las school nor be scam but you must be street wise.
School teaches us how to read but the street teaches us how to read between the lines

you must master the huzzle so you can conquer the struggle

Take a part-time program and last las you will be alright

Satan66:
School of prostitutes
I just hope there's no afonjas schooling there before they form a skull mining industry!

chris31:
Stop wasting ur time guy Look beyond her u will see hundreds of girls u will still love more than her If u will like suffer keep suffering ur soul

JayIlych:
Nicely written and well worded.

But I want to bring a slight tweak, a small variation to what you said.
Slapping her back or throwing her phone on the ground too or spitting back on her is you playing into her hands.


Key here is UNPREDICTABILITY.

Don't be too simple to guess. If she knows that if she slaps you, you'll react this way or that, alas, you're in her hands.

On a fateful day, she slaps you, you might simply walk away.

If she does it again and again and you always play the gentleman and walk away, she knows you have a definite pattern and she can use it against you anytime she wants.

If you slap back and beat her and give her bruises, she knows what to expect and if she wants to frame you or set you up, she knows all she have to do is slap you and boom, you land in jail (in civilized countries).

Be unpredictable. Be like the ocean. Never being still. Unpredictable.

If she shows some unsavory attitude, you can decide to laugh heartily as if it's the best joke you've heard all your life(even if it hurts you to the bone marrows).


Believe me, she'll be put off balance and be scared.

Another time, you can walk away, give silent treatment, either cutting off communication totally or slightly.


Another you can bring out your inner tiger. Slap her back, beat her up savagely, rape her even (if you're masochistic and sadistic), just give her what she expects and a little more.


Keep her on the edge.


Women are simple but they try so hard to make themselves seem obscure and enigmatic.


Op, sorry if I'm deviating or if it seems I'm trying to take over your thread. Not my intention.

Bayur01:
Before the advent of books. Common sense rules and still till today. It's possible to read lots of books and still lack common sense.
Reading books is a means to an end not the end in itself. Wisdom is for the wise.

Zhirinovsky:
Chief! Taking your life tonight will just land you in he'll in 2 days time I.e by Thursday. Hell fire is eternal remember. Give your life to Christ, start taking arv and hope for the best. May God bless and be with you.
It bleeds my heart that you seem like a good lad
Who fell into the hands of a delilah.
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MJBOLT:

upload your picture

Miznay:
. They are not ready to do something

BdorianGray:
100% misleading gobbledygook post for cretins to swallow..

Biglittlelois:
You are a psycho, the reason why you were a psycho to that lady was cos you were not attracted or in love with her, and she, having a depressingly extreme low self esteem chose to believe otherwise, do not justify your silly drama as being a real man, you were only playing a mind game to yourself, like a kid bored with life, a real man will concentrate on his career and also be available for his lover, not scheming for unnecessary child's play.

catwalq:
Pragmatically valid points but everything you listed above is like playing on Defence..
No matter how careful one is,life still finds a way to tease you.

Jestin:
Love is strong but fame can actually destroy LOVe

Funkyswagzz:
To be under a woman is like hell fire� I could remember how my mum treated my dad like shit just because his illness could not allow him to carry on as a lecturer.

The place I stay currently the family about me are always having issues just because the man is retired as a nepa officer and the wife keep on cursing him everyday for no good reason. She even threatened to bit him if he dear tries to touch him.

I can go on and on about how woman can be ruthless if they have the power and money over you. Just count urself dead if you find urself in such situation and not strong enough to survive

MariaLavina:
By self esteem you mean ego right?

Many Nigerian men have nothing to offer in a relationship aside Money.You want to make a Nigerian man feel worthless, then don't ask him for anything , spend your own money. He either accuse you of cheating, not loving, not being submissive and then breaks up with you for a depending leech.These ladies they can easily control to do their will by restraining financial flows.

Most Nigerian men feel threatened by independent /successful women because they have their own money to spend.You can't tell them what to do you can only admonish. A typical Nigerian Man is a power drunk egoistic fool.

Preshy561:
Just pray to marry a good woman.
There are many homes today being funded by the wife and the family is still very peaceful.

The woman's action can be justified if the man is lazy and not attempting to go further to enhance his career and help in building the family.
No woman will be happy seeing her husband spending her money on bars and women, cos, that's what hopeless men, who has lost sight and hope in their future do.
So, most times, these actions by their husbands breeds hate or scornful attitude from the wife.

Honestly, many Nigerian home today are being run by the women, but you won't hear their voice cos they still want to protect the image of the husband.

At the end, pray for a good woman who will help build the family and who you can fall back on when the chips are down.
Whether she's richer than you or not.

Brandonx:
Exactly what happenes when the daddy isn't in the picture. When I see guys acting like sissies it could only mean one thing, no father figure in their lives. To all father's out there please make out time to be in your sons live these hoe's don't know how to raise a son. They are only going to make him weak like a sisy.

pansophist:
I was that guy, I used to always give anyone that ask money from me, I was that generous. Until it dawn on me that my discretionary act of kindness was seen as their right, and a medium to be exploited and ransacked, to a point where I was ridiculed for refusing to be used. Imagine hearing gossips by people you helped, calling you stupid and disclosing all the nice things you've done for them. That's humans for you.

Right now, the only people I'll ever assist are my parents. That's all. Sometimes, the meanest people are the kindest, whom have been bitten and refuse to be a victim for their own sanity.

Offpoint:
lol, op you're in the wrong place... NL ladies won't respond until Benz is included. dem form online, but offline shoemaker dey shine their shoes.

peacettw:
That feeling you think you are having is nothing but a release of some chemicals playing havoc on the pleasure centers of your brain. Give it time, it will fade and you can take your life back.

MissRaine69:
Male virgins exist it’s not a myth and and just like their female counterparts also have to endure a lot of mocking.
Some are still virgins for religious purposes, some because they are not into women and being openly gay in Nigeria is a death sentence. And for others they are frightened of vagina plain and simple.!

dheaven:
Motivational speech only last for some hours and fake out. Just be serious in life thats all.