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Grayjoy:
traditional makeup 4rm Mzansi or SA in general??

Mzansi =south africa .

XhosaNostra:
Which Amanda Black song? Can you please post your playlist. I wanna see the songs/music you're into, Dali.

Lol, I listen to all types of music.

Yes , Amanda Black's *ndiyavuma*. Lol, playlist? Do I even have one? No. I always go insearch of a feel good song to satisfy my mood and please stay away from me when I start blasting Eminem . I don't know why I'm suddenly listening to , Dionne Warwick 's; *age of miracles * and * that's what friends are for *, joy's * paradise road* , Zahara's * ndiza* , our national anthem lmfao, Letta mbuli's * music in the air * , Brenda fassie's*my black president *. I don't know the Gqom people who made the song *gobisiqolo* but I like that too . When I travel alone morning or evening I will listen to those and some few others till i get to my destination.

Well , when it comes to which genre I listen to the most ? I don't know. Anything goes with me , african jazz and house come first though.

What and who do you listen to the most ? .

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I do. Don't you?
What's surprising about it though?

Yeah, it's some old skool stuff. Brings back memories.

I do . ( I do , ndiyavuma ah) lol...I love that Amanda song by the way. Anywho, I don't know why I thought you wouldn't be into house music lol.

Awe!.

XhosaNostra:
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Lol, my God!. Haven't heard this for sometime . You listen to house ? Lol. I'm suprised.

XhosaNostra:
Yey! Maybe ngumguvela now lol. Good you made him pay though. He deserved that. Bloody creep.

Lol@ umguvela. I doubt it though, you know how these things work. I'm sure u daddy paid for i protection and nice food through out.

XhosaNostra:
Where was he all this time kanti? They're a match made in heaven if she's a typical Coloured. Bazokhobozana until they're hardly recognizable. Thank God you got away. Yerrr.

Emjiva kalok rha, I couldn't let him get away with it hence me and some of his people aren't besties. Lol, bathi she doesn't seem like a " typical " coloured though but asazi. Phindutsho. Nigga almost turned me into another karabo.

XhosaNostra:
Yho, this ain't no shrug life, it's serious. Ndizibona zonke but attempting to take a life is a yeses lol.

Lol, for sure. Levels chap...levels. I hear ubuyile and dating some coloured chick pha e east London. Feel sorry for her in advance if usenjeya .

XhosaNostra:
Smh.

Awwwww

Kaak happens I guess....*shrugs*

Grayjoy:
By d pix?
I mean what kind of white design is it dat goes round ur eye.

I don't get what's surprising about that . It's our own traditional makeup .

[quote author=judgedredd22 post=65057174][/quote]Lol, I'm glad I do.

XhosaNostra:
Eish ja. How long were you guys together? I honestly understand why you became close off afterwards. Emotional trauma is legit. What was the reason for the break up, again? I remember you said the relationship was volatile for some time. Did it become too volatile or were there other underlying issues besides that & iziyobisi? But man, you're strong. I'll give you that.

For almost 2 years but sihleli together for like 8 months or so, and uyazi ke it's always sweet and romantic ekuqaleni . It's legit sana. With iziyobisi getting out of hand by the day , it became too volatile . Zinto got worse ke after losing umsebenzi, I was fckd. That was like two months before I decided uba siprinter chap . And I think ne pride of going to live with my sister and her family or cousins yandinyisa so I stuck it out like a champ . Stupid, I know. The day ndadikwa and decided to bounce, is the last day I saw him.......wait ........



Not before wandidubula ndanya with a crossbow, as I was pushing my bags out of the door . Paula Zahn kinda shyt lol.

Grayjoy:
Okay, i was suprised though.

BY?

judgedredd22:
come to naija first, after we do the do, then we can find who to blame it on later!

LMFAO, you are a sicko

XhosaNostra:
Awwww @ ouma & oupa. I LOVE that. The aim is not to sweat. Kukude eBhakubha! Jonga, IDK you guys from Adam but that's honestly the kind of relationship I admire. Laidback & relaxed, not in competition with the world. Keep it up

Date night in front of the TV sounds romantic lol. Le love thing has...

Lol, sana inde lendlela. Sweating is not an option . Yeah , say no to ukuxhamazela lol. Thanks , hun .


Lol, different levels chap . Always a bit challenging climbing to the next one though lol.

XhosaNostra:
I see the truth in your 1st paragraph. So true. Yile kaka ndikuyo now.

You mean the breakup with the cheeseboy from East London or another one? He did you stron' tin, nne?

LMFAO @ moving to another country. That really got me cracking. You're INNNNNN. May it never come to that point

Yho sana , for me the moving out part was the worst kulakaka ye relationship. You know xanihlala together , many things become intertwined moss and to go start afresh takes a lot but I had to coz the wholethingy was rotten and there was no salvaging it.


Lol, ja that one. Very strong thing .


Lol, very INNNNNN. It scares me. Eish, ja ne .thanx lol.

XhosaNostra:
Yho wena ndinentlungu e-serious, but that's a story for another day, offline. Enough about that for now.

Yey man, people are really outdoing themselves ouchea. They're really showing us fairytale stuff today.

Oh, at least you guys have set up a tempo that works for the both of you. NICE. Life is what you make of it. You don't have to live by the ideals of others.

I've not met anyone that makes me feel like doing what you described lol. I'm always angry. Hahaha. Maybe one day I'll experience it. I hope.

Enjoy your date tonight, love. Do everything I won't be doing

Eish Sani. K ke dear let's leave it for some other time.


Lol, you mean maxing up their credit cards on rubbish ...I'm hating forgive me lol.


Exactly , even though we are labelled as ouma and oupa . We like our comfort though, fck 'em all .


Lol, here I thought you were the romantic type. But I get you.

Lol, I will enjoy screaming at politicians on tv for sure .

Grayjoy:
Ok, if u wish.
Is that you on ur dp?

No, it ain't.

XhosaNostra:
Yeah. I can also see both sides, but how does one even begin to purge & forget 2 decades worth of memories? After twenty years, surely you've been everywhere together etc. What I personally like to do after a break up is AVOID, AVOID, AVOID until I'm strong enough to face certain things. Meaning that everything that reminds me of us, especially "you", is out of the question. So after twenty years? I'd be a recluse for sure lol.

How do you handle breakups? Do you have a method?

Yeah . That must be some difficult change but if the relationship was empty already i think it would be less depressing to start over or continuing with your loneliness lol.

Lol , I get you. Personally, I can't remember any break- up that got to me...except that one ....perhaps I never gave that much of me to anyone else before that. Lol, that one showed me how fragile I could be . I did what you do , AVOIDED everything and everyone who knew us . I even had to move to a different city coz my mind was fckd up . I only started connecting with those people recently after so long. So , I clearly can't handle breakups well. If lena would cease to exist , maybe I would move to a different country .

XhosaNostra:
Ndibhorwa ngulo wam. Hayi ngeke, I'm single! Unyile! The morning is a bit blah as you can imagine. I'm just watching people receiving huge bouquets of flowers & the likes. Seems people are going extra this year.

Lol, isn't he into Valentine's day? Are you into it? Do you have expectations on the day? TBH, I don't really know how to feel about today.

Lol, ukwenzeni now?. Lol , stop being dramatic and take it like a champ . Hahaha , you mean people are getting cheesier by the day ? .


He kinda used to be but I knocked the sense into him lol. No, I was never into that's why when I joking around ekuseni endiphoxa lol. Lol, I only expect a bottle of wine in the evening while watching depressing news on tv . Lol, going out in the evening while holding hands like you just met last week ain't your thing ? . Or sometimes ?

XhosaNostra:
It must really hurt to be married for that long & for it to end like nothing. How do you start over? Geez.

Gosh, can you imagine? . Perhaps that's why these old mamas stick it out even if there's nothing to hang on to. But on the other hand , I think it must be refreshing being free and not having to compromise here and there .

XhosaNostra:
Hayi sana, I thought you & dzaddy have a "Do not disturb" sign on the door today. Been wondering where you at.

LMFAO, oh please! Lo undithukileyo ndisathi " happy valentines" . Was just a little busy . How's your morning?

Grayjoy:
can you expatiate on dat pls?

Let's let it be .

judgedredd22:
it is your environment that pushed her to it and your kinsman as well!

LMFAO, you are crazy. So if I came to naija and did the same, should I blame you and your environment for not zipping my pants title ?

Grayjoy:
funny write up, atimes, variety will make u lack a choice and then u 4get about making a choice don't u thnk so?

It depends on the person and their focus .

Grayjoy:
Your assumptions are correct. Just wanted to be sure of where u thnk I come 4rm. Lol
Having a larger pool of women doesn't mean, it depends on what catches ur fancy.

Ok. My point was that you are likely to find more variety in a larger population than a smaller one .

Grayjoy:
But u just assumed am 4rm Nigeria.

Yes, where are you from then ?

Grayjoy:
Am not willing to answer that Mzansi talk anyway.
Where do u think I come from?

Ok then . Don't know .

Grayjoy:
Thought we are over dat "Mzansi" talk.
Weird? What made it weird?

But you never answered. Never mind anyways. Weird because you guys have a bigger pool of women than us ,and you would have the cultural and home ground advantage over there than here.

Grayjoy:
just to see if I could find one there. Funny isn't it?

Lol, I was still waiting to her what comes to mind when you see the name " Mzansi". Not funny but kinda weird.

XhosaNostra:
Oh, OK.

Lol, he threw tantrums? You became a babysitter by force, girl.

Lol , tjo ! . Plus u boy was an attention seeker yerr . Lol, exactly.

Grayjoy:
Thank you.
I may come all d way to SA for that. Lol.

Lol, for ?

Grayjoy:
Hoping to find mine soon, I mean really soon.
Whenever I hear d word Mzansi, two things comes to my mind, can u guess?

Good luck . Nope, what comes to mind ? .