Omo, sometimes when I read news like this, I thank Allah for making me grow up where such vices doesn't exist

deewhydoski:

You better go back to Minna and collect that civil service job. That civil service will give you enough time to learn skills in IT. The job won't stop you from during remote job for Frontend. That 33k still dey shark you, by the time you stay and Kaduna and you didn't see any reasonable job for three months you will understand.
Many opportunities dey your front you still dey ask questions. Come and ask us that stay 1 year at home looking for job after NySC

Thank you 😊 for your advice

joinnow:

It sounds like you have a few compelling options ahead of you, each with its own set of considerations. Here's my advice:

Consider your Career Path: Reflect on your long-term career goals and which option aligns best with them. If your passion lies in web development or another field related to your digital skills, pursuing opportunities in that area might be the most fulfilling path for you.

Evaluate Job Offers: Assess the job offers you've received carefully. Consider factors such as career growth potential, job satisfaction, work-life balance, and location. If the job offer from your boss in Minna aligns well with your career goals and offers a promising trajectory, it might be worth considering.

Explore New Opportunities: Since you enjoy Kaduna State and feel like you'll grow more by leaving your comfort zone, consider exploring job opportunities in Kaduna. Being in a new environment can present new opportunities for personal and professional growth.

Stay Open-Minded: Keep an open mind about different career paths and opportunities. Your degree in estate management doesn't necessarily limit you to that field, especially with your digital skills in web development. Explore diverse opportunities that align with your interests and skills.

Or
Go back to Minna and be coming to Kaduna for vacation every six months

Thank you for the lengthy advice .

Quality20:
Get urself into some trading or other business

Thank you

FitCorper:
Hope u were not like the foolish corpers who spent their allowances on female corpers hoping to get some kitten in return. If u saved up like 6months of your allowances, the transition from a corper to a working class, either self employed or employed would be seemless.

Trust me, 33,000 naira isn't a lot considering the cost of foods, transportation to my PPA etc in this economy.

Also, we had to get a house with a friend of mine for 125k 3 months after coming to Kaduna.

So, that isn't even an option.

And no, I have no girlfriend to begin with

Good day guys.

I'm a serving corp member currently serving in kaduna state and would be finishing my service year in a Month time.

Now, my question is: did you stay back in the state you completed your youth service and searched for a job, or did you went back home to your parents?

For me though, I'm loving it here in kaduna state (I'm from Niger state, Minna precisely).

Also, it's literally my first time traveling out of my state to another state, and it's also my first staying alone (I completed my degree in Minna, from my parents house for that matter 😔). So, it's my first time getting freedom.

Now the thing is, I had a boss in Minna (where I finished my IT from) who wants to employ me in his estate firm (I studied estate management), I also received a call from my dad this morning that the civil servant recruitment portal has been opened today and I should register.

Now, I don't really want to end my life in Niger state (like I literally grew up there, schooled all my life there).

I know most people will be willing to jump on both offers (citing the unemployment rate in the country).

I have a digital skill in web development (React frontend developer precisely), but I've not really had luck with getting a job.

I actually applied for cyber security science and was given estate management instead, so I'm not keen on really going into practice even though I graduated with a good grade (strong 2:1).

What do you advise I do at this point? I really love kaduna state (maybe because it's my first time traveling out to another state?).

And wouldn't want to go back home.

Also, I feel like I'll grow more if I leave my comfort zone, and not going back to my parents house .

Ps: I'm 24, and would be 25 this year.

At this point, I feel like I'm not even in control of my life 😑

Good day guys.

I'm a serving corp member currently serving in kaduna state and would be finishing my service year in a Month time.

Now, my question is: did you stay back in the state you completed your youth service and searched for a job, or did you went back home to your parents?

For me though, I'm loving it here in kaduna state (I'm from Niger state, Minna precisely).

Also, it's literally my first time traveling out of my state to another state, and it's also my first staying alone (I completed my degree in Minna, from my parents house for that matter 😔). So, it's my first time getting freedom.

Now the thing is, I had a boss in Minna (where I finished my IT from) who wants to employ me in his estate firm (I studied estate management), I also received a call from my dad this morning that the civil servant recruitment portal has been opened today and I should register.

Now, I don't really want to end my life in Niger state (like I literally grew up there, schooled all my life there).

I know most people will be willing to jump on both offers (citing the unemployment rate in the country).

I have a digital skill in web development (React frontend developer precisely), but I've not really had luck with getting a job.

I actually applied for cyber security science and was given estate management instead, so I'm not keen on really going into practice even though I graduated with a good grade (strong 2:1).

What do you advise I do at this point? I really love kaduna state (maybe because it's my first time traveling out to another state?).

And wouldn't want to go back home.

Also, I feel like I'll grow more if I leave my comfort zone, and not going back to my parents house .

Ps: I'm 24, and would be 25 this year.

Badmashii:


Wallahi kuwa. Kaga dabaran daya sa magabatanmu su ke aure yanmata da sun balaga.

Duk wanda yace zai biyewa yan kudu ya auro tsohuwa ya yi kuka da kansa da abinda zai gani.

In auro yarinyar da gayu sun shanye mata nonuwa da komai? Allah ya kiyaye

Amin Amin, Allah ya sa mu dace

Badmashii:


Baba kyale munafukai. A south a ka haife ni kafin kaga 15+ virgin girl wallahi sai ka sha wuya.

Anyways ni burina shine in samu sweet 16. Kutumar burouban koma waye da zai hanani

Maza, kace jirgi daya ya kwashe mu wallahi.

Nima inayi shirin yin awre, yar 17-20 zan nema. Saboda matar mu yanzu suma sun bude ido

Welcome back boss, it's been a while I've read about your Lamentations as usual.

I'm really learning from you.

Keep on doing the God's work

abba190:
what about child fornication in the south ? i swear to god u start having sex before u reach 18years of age hypocrites

18 you say? Mutanen Nan pa, tun a primary schools suke dating kananun yara pa

As in, wo mean gan egi Nupe zhi acha lalache yijin?

Jompsy001:
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The Nigerian government aims to finalize the details of the deal with the Kingdom within six months. If successful, Nigeria could potentially process around 450,000 barrels of crude oil daily from
See more: https://naijatask.com.ng/nigeria-and-saudi-arabia-to-sign-a-refinery-deal-naijatask/

You're the one who purchased my former website?

omojesu202:


She's young. sds
Please transfer that travel opportunity to me. I will be giving you anr agreed percentage monthly . Me I'm ready to leave mine even if no just 3 years.
If you want to knack my wife go ahead ..i need to get out of poverty .

She's even pregnant now... Give me 300k and knk

I swear this guy na werey

Good day everyone, please the computer engineers in the house who sale laptop and batteries.

Do you know how long a replacement battery for the Dell latitude E7470 last for? Right now, my battery only lasts for like 2hours which is horribly low. Compared to when I purchased the battery.

Also, is there anything I should look out for while purchasing a battery?

Thank you

Teenwolf:


Sadly I wished I had stopped early, I wouldn't have been suffering from the side effects I am facing currrently..

To stop/reduce the side effects, I'll advise you to start jogging a few kilometers everyday and also do pushups and situps, and eat lots of fruits like watermelon and oranges.

That's what I've been doing, and I no longer experience the side effects .

DaTruths:
Op is on point.

1)Masturbation will cause your eyes to become watery when you think girls are staring at you.

2)It will make you not be able to sleep easily at night, unless you masturbate.


3) it will make you not to have long lasting erection, you cannot effortless use your dick to do that agama lizard head nodding.

4)you will always be sexualizing women, once you sight woman you would be looking for attractive things on her body instead of seeing her as a normal human being.


5) you will always feel tired and be sleeping anyhow especially in day time.

6) it can weaken your immune system, you will be feeling feverish sometimes that you would think mosquito bit you, but no it's excessive masturbation.

7) you wouldn't look as much handsome as you should, it makes your face cheeks look boney and hungry.

Omo the tori long.


Stop Masturbation oh.

Well captured points. I wish I could add this to my points too which I forgot

fuckingAyaya:
Just the physical side effects, if only they know the spiritual side effects of masturbation

Been suffering from the claws of masturbation for 8years now, and it's been a year now I've engaged in the act.

Out of drugs, gambling and masturbation, I'll say that masturbation is the hardest addiction to stop

MyVILLAGEpeople:


You are absolutely right on this. I'm suffering from one of the worst form of PE and ED because of excessive masturbation previous years. I can relate with everything even the eye sight. There are some time I will masturbate and couldn't walk well(imagine masturbating 4 different times in a day, now calculate in a week). Porn induced masturbation is evil. Coming from a chronic masturbator of 5 years. Thank God i stopped but I'm still on medications for the PE and ED

Thank you for sharing your story boss. I pray more people learn from this.

@obembet @dominique please save more youths from the effects of masturbation

badboyTee:
You are very right bruh, the last effect is you forget things 😹😹😹

omor thank God for self discipline it got to a point normal pórn couldn't make me jerk off I had to watch anime porn, dwarf and disabled people pórn 😹😹 ( I cursed myself the day I watched the disabled one that if I ever go back to it I should die but guess what in a week I went back to it.

Later on I set limits to it instead of masturbating everyday I set days like 3 days interval then 7 days and so on till I stopped permanently now

Wow congratulations boss. And yes, it causes extreme forgetfulness.

Those who aren't caught up in the web wouldn't understand us until it gets to them

Teenwolf:
I curse d day I knew porn.. That nonsense stunted my height and muscle growth 😞😞

I'm glad you realized early that porn and masturbation is a disaster

whitejs:
From points 3 & 7

Do you mean it causes extreme shyness?
@ Naijatask

@
ITbomb

& others

What's your view, please?

Yes it does in some cases. Me and a friend of mine as a case study.

After leaving the act, I regained back my confidence.

Naysayers would say I'm saying nonsense, but that's my experience at least

FitCorper:
I’m at a point in life where I am tired of advising porn viewers, they will always call you names to justify their habits. Do what makes you happy but when you start facing the consequences, do it alone and don’t run to Nairaland seeking for help.

I know right? Some wouldn't listen now until it's too late

YorubaPrince:
OP, you deserve to be awarded Yaba-Left V.I.P.

Lol, they are already here

Nice, I just made a post about stopping masturbation.

Maybe I'll link back to the Google play store url from the post, but I couldn't find a url

Here are some reasons why you should never indulge in pornography and masturbation as a male:

1) It causes erectile dysfunction (believe it or not, addiction to porn and masturbation eventually renders your pim pim useless when you eventually want to get down with a real girl). Why you may ask? It's because porn has skewed your idea of how a woman's unclothedness looks like as such, you'll only get aroused when you watch porn.

2) it causes back ache. Been feeling back ache lately? Believe it or not, masturbation causes chronic back aches. Reason? I don't really know, but at least those were some of the symptoms I was having before I eventually stopped the act.

3) it causes heavy depression and anxiety. Yup you heard me right. Porn and masturbation causes heavy depression and anxiety that will make you want to avoid people and stay hidden in your room for the whole day.

4) it makes you unproductive. Porn and masturbation makes you unproductive because you always gets tired after the act even after some few days, the tiredness is still there. I can remember a lecturer of mine who said that the sperm released from having sex, is equivalent to running for about 20km non-stop. Now imagine fapping and that sort of energy drains away from your body

5) if you're someone who's religious, you'll feel that the act gets you away from your faith and God.

6) it causes blindness! Yes, masturbation eventually causes your eyesight to go slowly blind. And yes, I've experienced this symptom before when I was indulging in masturbation. But after stopping the act, my eyesight is coming back to normal.

7) it causes low self-esteem. Porn and masturbation causes low self-esteem and you would want to avoid women at all cost.

it corrupts your mind and you eventually become a degenerate pervert. That is, from seeing hard core porn turning you on, to watching transgendered porn and eventually other lewd category of porns.

If you experience one or more of the above-mentioned symptoms, you need to stop porn and masturbation at all cost.

PS: some nairanders who are addicted to porn and masturbation will eventually come here to debunk my points, just so that they can justify the act. They'll come with how some footballers or wrestlers engage in masturbation and are doing well for themselves etc.

You think the effects of porn and masturbation are a joke? Haven't we all seen similar posts such as mine on this forum several times?

You think the same person made those posts? Of you think the people in the stop masturbation thread challenge are all bots?

Please stop masturbating as fast as you can and get your life back.

Read about benefits of semen retention and you'll regret ever masturbating in the first place

GYBABA:
Una go just come with ridiculous stories just dey lie up & down. Kuku add say she added maggi, salt & pepper to it since her bumbum is now food being cooked on fire.

True true, mad people full this forum

rockhillz:
Where do y'all read manga for free? I gats dey ahead for this TYBW

Search for tachiyomi and download it

Solofresh2:
Why post your own picture on a public faceless forum?
Why must you as a be the one to satisfy your partner all the when it's not even reciprocal or is it?
Why is your environment so dirty,especially the second picture yuck!

Lol, person wey even him wife and children pictures dy nairaland already?

Just go through his posts

BoldBrainz:
Nigeria is upside-down, na sex be priority for 24year old boy. Come with your father to the next PTA meeting.

Stupid boy!

.

Even though I'm 24, I don't know why this sounds very funny to me.

But like seriously, at 24, I still see myself as a kid sha

Why do you want to become gay?

richebony:
This is really nice .Hope u dont mind my asking , whats the name of the course ?

I believe it should be a course by Bruno Simmons. But I may be wrong though