ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

mechanics:
Really, don't know that one o.

mechanics:
Sure, but not in these case, but she didn't say she does not have peace of mind since when they have been together.

mechanics:
For her to leave a hard-working man that has a future surprises me o, she's really confused.

Funjosh:

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Where you go bring this one come now

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

kponkedenge:
That's a subtle way of telling her to pack out. But I've always been discussing this with my friend, I can't pay more than 500k rent to any landlord in Lagos.....even if I'm earning millions monthly. Is better to stay in a room and parlour self-contain or two bedroom flat.... While working on building yours, than just cross leg in a rented apartment and paying exorbitant fees for a temporary luxury that can come to end at any time.

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

dayveed1:
Cute kid.

Sexy mama.

bestpunterever:
so you are Ben, God punish you

JubrilBuhari:

A friend is currently asking for refund and you Mr Ben has been hiding under various names on social media.

Benjamin okoroafor refund my friend his hard earned 25k now!

FlutterDollar99:
We will not take it. Nnamdi Kanu was rite.

First it was Airpeace now its kalu

JubrilBuhari:

Third eye loose cannon Benjamin Okoroafor, Nairalandbuzz ; you sound frustrated, no one the scam with your pee pe tv again?

peeps4u:


Your game is over,you can only resort to insults

Ishilove:

How's the social life in Sask?

peeps4u:


If Ben could deny his other WhatsApp profile "third eye", he can as well deny his nairalandbuzz moniker.

Lying is an attribute of Ben and pimple TV sycophants

Ishilove:

Almost there.

Ledafaze sounds familiar

Gabflex:


abeg no mind my lame questions.
i did HND, and i would like to do masters, am aware i cant do it with HND, pls which program will i do

vivipink:
You cant's change the world by hiding on a mountain. you must do it through action

devlishGINGER:
As long as there are those that remember what was, there would always be those who are unable to accept what can be. They would resist

Gabflex:
pls is there any good cheap school there in the city.

Ishilove:

Yes dear. In my dreams

georgee:
I think this Nairalamdbuzz is Ben, just like we know Loose Canon in the Telegram group na Ben


Lies.. Lies... Lies.. Lies upom lies.. This Ben no dey tire with lies

peeps4u:
Nairalandbuzz, you guys have shifted the date from January to any time next year. You're all a team of robbers stealing innocent Nigerians' 25k.

malabioni:


Lol I don’t need to like my own post. Bro like it’s too funny. They are people here who know the truth also. See it’s okay I know what is going to happen quote me in January please. See even if they get partnership with 9mobile there is no f***** way that is going to be 3500. You guys just don’t get it, ordinary 1g is close to 1k let’s even say miraculously 9mobile gave them wholesale price on data because I need to let you know how gullible you really are. If you are base in Nigeria you will understand that cost of data no be joke. Let say they gave them at 100# per gig. That’s 35gig which in a week and half it’s gone like that. Some of you that stream IpTV know what I’m talking about. When I use to subscribe to spectranet I use up 80gig in 2 weeks and I renew again for another 80gig just to watch IPTV. So 35gig is noting and that is even if all the 3500 goes toward data. Which means they are not making a dime. Does that make perfect sense to you now or you still living in your gullible world.

Odinaka00:
So you go now count yourself as people wey follow dey stay for Canada?

malabioni:


This is to still tell you that you are talking out your but hole. But guy they are not hosting notting. All the mask IP is doing is redirecting them to the original stream. You are very clueless. They are not using 9mobile server. God when will all this people get Sense. All of you using it in Canada and UK good for you but it’s your internet so it’s okay I’m talking about the free internet to stream this in Nigeria. Some of you I believe don’t even read this. You just feel like replying to defend your pipul TV lies. But is okay. Your don’t even have enough Amy compare to what MMM had. We’re are all of them am still waiting for the day when you will all keep mute and say notting after hearing you will need to use your own data. I sure all of you will still get mouth same people defending it now will come and say hen what if you have to use your own data how do you expect him to give you all of that for just 3500. That’s what I predict for January or b they simply vanish to tin air.

malabioni:


Lol okay let me schooled you again because I’m a nice guy. You can believe me or not but after I say this do your own research then come to your own conclusion. Yes I see it and guess what it’s real but not in the way you are looking at it. Do you know I mentioned something about local area network in my previous post. In other to connect to a global world you need a business hosting account most ISP provider will allow you to use a static IP Address to get your content online. Does that mean that Pipul TV is hosting there own IPTV hell Na. So what’s going on is this after getting the static IP address they integrate it into an account or server there using to host the IpTV service so for example the original ip may be 1.2.3.4 and I can go in and tell my server to not display this dns that it should display 2.3.4.5 which is 9mobile server. It’s same way when you trying to create an external domain name. You purchase a domain name from A&b domain company and you change the dns to you hosting account which is b&s hosting service. So my brother if you don’t understand this I can break it down more. I won’t be surprise if 9mobile eventually find out about this they can block the actual IP they are streaming from. Which will stop them from using 9mobile. Look bro online is very educational. If you just take time to read information you won’t be fool easily. Don’t worry January will be here soon. When PiPul TV will be back. Do you actually believe an honest true company will go silent without informing it’s pioneer customer about what’s on ground or clear the story spreading. See when it come to illegal content in Nigeria it’s not as strong as it is in USA there is so much crack down on this kind of things. Hide your head. I’m not bad mouthing Pipul TV I don’t care what he does or how he does it. But don’t lie to your client just to get sales it’s quite wrong and it is riding on the intelligence of some smart people here including you my brother. Good Luck.

cashflowpc:



So you telling me US, Canada and UK citizens that have better options for IPTV services are paying for your epileptic pirated contents

You ain't rating nairalanders I swear.

malabioni:
Lol the truth they come out small small. I’m okay my brother. I hope people eyes has open. Lol