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PoliticsRe: Governor Kashim Shettima Convoy Attacked In Maiduguri, Many Cars Destroyed by Namady(m): 12:39pm On Feb 23, 2015
appini:
By who?
Ali Modu Sherif of course! grin
PhonesRe: [] Post Your Android Phone Problems Here And Get A Solution[] by Namady(m):
I cant upgrade my s4 OS from 4.2.2 to 4.4
below is the screenshot of wat I see weneva I try d upgrading.

#Modified
If dem tell me say dis thread go make FP I go no blivam.

The space below is not for sale
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keep off grin grin

PoliticsRe: Mtvbase Media Chat With President Jonathan by Namady(m): 9:53am On Feb 19, 2015
They Should ask him to dance SHOKI and I will vote 4 him grin grin
PhonesI Cant Upgrade My Android OS. Please Help by Namady(op): 9:41am On Feb 19, 2015
Hy Guys... Please I need Help on how to upgrade my Galaxy s4 android OS from 4.2.2 kernal Version to 4.4 kit kat.
I have tried it several times but its not working.
below is the screenshot of what I see when ever I try the Upgrading. Your help will be highly appreciated. Thanks and God bless

EducationRe: 10 Words Nigerians Use That Are Not In The Dictionary by Namady(m): 2:52pm On Feb 18, 2015
The way I dey use go-slow eh grin grin grin
Science/TechnologyRe: Samsung Galaxy S6 To Be Charged Wirelessly by Namady(m): 10:48pm On Feb 17, 2015
Waiting....
PoliticsRe: PDP Faction Wants Jonathan Out As Candidate, As Party Faces Deepening Schisms by Namady(m): 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2015
Nawa ooo undecided undecided
Romance5 Ways To Make Her In The Mood by Namady(op): 10:01pm On Feb 17, 2015
Hy Guys.. check this out

You have to put her in the right mood so she can do the work. As a guy, you’re probably the one who initiates s*x in your relationship. It’s not that your girlfriend isn’t in the mood or doesn’t want as much s*x as you do— you’re just the one who rings the dinner bell 99.9 percent of the time.

Couple-In-Bed

Why is that? “This comes from many things, but one of them is that women are afraid that if they step out of traditional gender roles, they won’t be seen, accepted, and appreciated as feminine being,” says psychologist and relationship expert Tracy Thomas, Ph.D. “It also becomes another area where she could potentially fail, and be rejected—and most women are terrified of being rejected.”

But you can fix this, Thomas says, by creating an atmosphere in which she doesn’t feel like she needs to be perfect. “You want to get her in the mood—make her Hot—but what does that mean?” Thomas says. “What you really want is to make her feel like it’s safe for her to let go, like she can surrender to her s*xual desires.”

Here are five tips to get her in the mood, so much so, that she’ll come onto you.

1.Start early

Seduction starts long before any clothes come off, notes relationship expert April Masini of AskApril.com. “Women are a lot slower to warm up, so if you start their engines early and often, you’re more likely to score later,” she says.

If you want her to be in the mood later, start pre-intimacy (or, well, a PG-13-rated version of it) in the morning, before you leave for work. Don’t overdo it—the idea is to plant a seed in her mind and leave her wanting more, not annoy her with over-the-top romance while she’s trying to do her makeup. Keep it up throughout the day with a short, strategically-timed text message or phone call, and by the time you get home she’ll be ready to jump you.

2. Choose your battles

Arguments don’t make for a very sexy atmosphere (unless you’re in a movie), so would it kill you to just let it go? “Being right is sometimes the obstacle to being happy, and often the obstacle to romance,” Masini explains. “If there’s the potential for argument on the table, just ask yourself if this really is the hill you want to die on.”

Obviously, if you’re arguing about something important—such as your relationship—it’s another story. But if it’s just a heated discussion about politics, or world peace, or pirates versus ninjas, then giving in to her point of view, at least temporarily, will do wonders for keeping her in the mood.



3.Help her de-stress

This shouldn’t come as a surprise, but it’s hard for her to get in the mood when she’s under a mountain of stress. “When we’re under stress, we’re primarily designed to not seek out pleasure,” Thomas says. “It’s a survival instinct. Something is wrong, so we have to fix it!”

It sounds simple enough, but Thomas says the key is to help her de-stress in a constructive way—not just help her check off boxes on her endless to-do list. “If she says she can’t relax because she has to clean the bathroom, that’s not necessarily your cue to clean the bathroom,” Thomas explains. “It probably wouldn’t hurt, but once you’re done she’ll remember that she has to clean the kitchen, and so forth. It’s less about cleaning the house and more about helping her see that a clean house doesn’t need to take priority over the relationship.” So pursue that track with her— you’re happy to clean up once you’ve had some quiet time with her.

4. Make her pleasure a priority

Be generous in bed, and you will find that s*xual success is yours, Masini explains. “She wants to feel good in bed, and if she does, she’ll want to please you—and have more s*x,” she says. If you haven’t figured out what she likes in bed, you should make that a priority, stat! Luckily, it’s as simple as asking her, providing you ask her when you’re not between the sheets. “If you think she’s holding back, coax it out of her by opening the conversation when you’re not in bed,” Masini suggests. “That way, she’ll feel like the pressure is off.” Ultimately, your goal is to have as much s*x as possible, Masini says. “It sounds stupid, but the more s*x you have, the more s*x you’ll have. It’s a lot easier for her to be in the mood to initiate when s*x is a regular part of your lives.”

5. Pick up on her cues

You want her to initiate s*x more often? Don’t shut her down when she tries—even if her attempt is pretty half-assed. “The first time, or times, she initiates, she’s going to be nervous that you might reject her,” Thomas says. “For the most part, women are not used to being rejected when it comes to s*x, so it’s really important that you do not, under any circumstances, give any indication that she needs to do it better, or initiate more often when she’s in the middle of initiating.”

It’s basic behavioral conditioning, Thomas explains: She initiates, you are super-positive about that, and she’ll do it again and again.

Meanwhile.... if e no come work abeggg no force am grin
PoliticsRe: PDP Sharing Rice And Yam At Campaign Venue (Photo) by Namady(m): 1:43pm On Feb 17, 2015
valboy20:
RICE OR NO RICE
YAM OR NO YAM

#MARCHFORGEJ
we wont march4GEJ we would March4Buhari
why the copy-copy nahuh
RomanceRe: 22 Types Of Nairaland Guys by Namady(m): 12:09pm On Feb 17, 2015
23. The comment readers... (where I belong)
This crew are more interested in going through people's comment than the topic.
24. The lazy readers (I belong here too undecided)
We hardly read one-third of the topic and we just jump to last paragraph and conclude.
PoliticsRe: Is Professor Osibanjo Right With This? (PICS) by Namady(m):
Sunnybobo3:
For Prof. Osinbajo not to be able to calculate how long Jonathan has been in power, he has to present his First School Leaving Certificate.

Jonathan has been in power for 4 years and 9 months as president and 3 months as acting president.
#True wink

are u expecting the statement to be like "4yrs 9mnthhuh
PoliticsRe: Thumb Printed Ballot Papers Allegedly Intercepted In Niger State (PHOTOS) by Namady(m): 6:45pm On Feb 15, 2015
datguru:
APC

This are the reasons they were insisting on holding the election yesterday because they've won already even before the elections
APC againhuh
Bross na NIGER state dem talk ooo not Zamfara or Sokoto. Abi u blind?
PoliticsRe: Strictly For Hausas, Let Us Register Here. by Namady(m): 11:33am On Feb 13, 2015
Abokiii Abdul
from kebbi state. Kd based tho
PoliticsRe: "Northern Youths" Threaten To "Extinguish" AIT If Buhari Doesn't Win (Letter) by Namady(m): 11:31am On Feb 13, 2015
Seun:
Asari Dokubo is also a Muslim! :-)
mayb Tompolo and henry are also muslims rythuh
PoliticsRe: Naira Hits N206/$, CBN, Bankers Meet. by Namady(m): 12:39am On Feb 13, 2015
shocked
PoliticsRe: "Northern Youths" Threaten To "Extinguish" AIT If Buhari Doesn't Win (Letter) by Namady(m): 12:07am On Feb 13, 2015
They are threatinig AIT and you are calling them terrorist! Please define ASARI DOKUNBO for threatening the entire nation if GEJ loses?
I am not trying to depend them or justify their action because it is very wrong.
When A muslim does something is terrorism but when a non muslim does thesame is a normal thing.
the entire global media wants us to believe that all muslims are terrorist but not all terrorist are muslim.
I think its ILLOGICAL
RomanceRe: 10 Strange Things All Women Have Done At Least Once by Namady(m): 6:32pm On Feb 11, 2015
Being a Physics teacher, wen we were treatin SHM. I said we're goin to study amplitude, frequency and "the PERIOD" and d gals in my class were like wow dis is gonna b soooo interestin... and I was like Idiots your mind is corrupt cheesy cheesy cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: TB Joshua Predicted Election Postponement (Video) by Namady(m): 6:45pm On Feb 08, 2015
They can delay it but they can not stop it from happening Inshaa ALLAH/ In Jesus Name.

the longer it takes, the more we love GMB/PYO

SECURITY
CORRUPTION &
EMPLOYMENT.

#March4Buhari
PoliticsRe: Gunmen Storm Lagos Press, Confiscate Book On Jonathan by Namady(m): 6:27pm On Feb 08, 2015
GeneralMarch4Buhari Giving Clueless and Shoeless Sleepness Night Since 650BC
PoliticsRe: Buhari Wants NTA, AIT Sanctioned Over Alleged Hate Campaign by Namady(m): 6:28pm On Feb 03, 2015
jzdoberman:
WHEN 99.9% of ur tribe(hausa) no no how to speak and write in English language....dats y BBC and DW dey help enlighten dat una cow brain.
e be like say trans4ma dey near ur house... go hug am 4 all I care grin
PoliticsRe: Buhari Wants NTA, AIT Sanctioned Over Alleged Hate Campaign by Namady(m): 11:06pm On Feb 02, 2015
utytill:
pls go to bbc hausa.
Thank God there is BBCHausa! grin grin grin
Is there BBC Igbo or watsoeva ur tribe is tongue tongue tongue

Keep hating...there is even DW hausa and VOA Hausa

PoliticsRe: Buhari, Tinubu, Amaechi Meet USA Secretary Of States, Kerry (Photo) by Namady(m): 6:52pm On Jan 25, 2015
Nogen:
Hope they got Kerry an interpreter because he won't understand a word that comes out of his mouth. As a Nigerian, I'm still struggling to understand the meaning of kworupsion. Searched all my dictionaries and encyclopedias in futility.
check am well... U fit see "chai diaris God ooo"
grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Katsina College Releases Buhari’s WASC Results by Namady(m): 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2015
sbaks:
grin gringrin if this is true, it shows he lacks calculation and creativity.
Nawa ooh... enemies will see you walking on the water and they will say it is because you cant swim

GMB2015
Jokes EtcRe: . by Namady(m): 9:43pm On Jan 19, 2015
I did about 80% of them...

I think its very hard to find a 9ja kid (born and raised) who is not a guilty of any of that...


Meanwhile GMB2015
PoliticsRe: Rivers State Prepares For APC Presidential Rally. by Namady(m): 7:21am On Jan 04, 2015
temitemi1:
Waiting for ur stage drama with ur general without certificate grin grin... Come feb ameachi go run comot for Nigeria... GEJ till 2019!!!
thank god u just called him "a GENERAL" am pretty sure u aint got "CAPTAIN" in ur dynasty tongue tongue

and beside, NIGERIANS prefferd dat GENERAL without certificate (according to the NA) than SHOELESS, CLUELESS and DRUNKARD president. grin grin

Its not jst d cert dat matters but d wisdom to rule. And ur presido lacks it.
RomanceRe: Assuming You Were Told To Slap Your Lover For One Million by Namady(m): 12:31am On Jan 03, 2015
I will stop assuming!!! Shikenan grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Photo: Check Out Jonathan's Campaign Bus In London by Namady(m): 5:33pm On Dec 26, 2014
I am tired of GEJ
You are tired of GEJ
We are tired of GEJ
North is tired GEJ
South is tired of GEJ
East is tired of GEJ
West is tired of GEJ
Muslims are tired of GEJ
Xtians are tired of GEJ



GEJ please are you deafhuh
PoliticsRe: Lucky Boko Haram Survivor Warns Nigeria..(Photo & Video) by Namady(m): 7:21pm On Dec 22, 2014
temitemi1:
The only warning to Nigerians is to vote MASSIVELY against their father(buhari) come 2015. Let GEJ continue n come 2015 boko haram will be a thing of past... God bless Nigeria!!!
I DISAGREE WITH YOU BRO! IF REALLY GMB IS THE FATHER OF BH. THEN FG SHOULD PROVE IT AND BRING HIM TO JUSTICE.

ON THE OTHER HAND, IF GEJ COULD NOT ADDRESS AND END INSURGENCY BTW 2010-2014, WHAT MAKES YOU THING HE COULD DO IT BTW 2015-2019huh
SportsRe: The Ten Most Beautiful Stadium In Nigeria by Namady(m): 9:43pm On Dec 19, 2014
Wait ooo! Whr is ABS kaduna huh huh huh











Anyway dax none of my businesa.... grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: An American Special Ops In Borno by Namady(m): 9:17am On Dec 15, 2014
GBTYO:
They are not there to bring back anything mumu. They are there to assist your bokos achieve their caliphate.

For more details on your missing girls ask Gov Shettima, Chibok School Principal, Sen Ndume, and your Chieftains in the APC who were behind the abduction.
Ogah why u dey vex na huh huh huh
If really they are the ones behind it, GEJ should prove that, let the whole world know about it and he should bring them to justice grin grin
Worry not bro. GMB will rule this country come 2015 and that shoeless, clueless, drunkard and corrupt mumu will go back to Otuoke where there is no food.

Laughing In swahili tongue tongue tongue

PoliticsRe: An American Special Ops In Borno by Namady(m): 2:28am On Dec 15, 2014
Hope they will be able bring back our girls undecided undecided undecided

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