Authority1o1:
Okay...


I recently saw a caricature of the frontline contenders in the forthcoming election, and in it, Wike was depicted as an attention-grabbing damsel who these aspirants all want.

I think Obi more perfectly deserves a similitude of such a caricature.

In it, he should be shown as a liitle, 'structureless' boy who continues to quake the structures of establshed parties, and who suddenly became the name in the mouths of every person, both of the opposition and otherwise.

All I'm saying is that Obi is as much a citizen of Nigeria as these disgustingly entitled Northerners who think Igbos must always 'support' and deputize them.

Neduzze5:
This is true.

So far, I'm how I am because I never saw my father raise hands to beat my mum once.

That's why I can firmly stand and believe in family.

Also, where I currently stay, neighbors don't also shout and raise their voices and cause mayhem amongst family members.

So it's really important that we are careful with what we do around both children and adults as well.

I wish to experience this kind of environment for my kids.

T

Ok

UyaiIncomparabl:
Birds of a feather. See the kind of friends you keep. A friend who sleeps with his maid. I can't imagine the greater atrocities you will commit in your time.

What advice do you want from us? I guess you are looking for solidarity from us to give your friend a go-ahead to do what exactly? If I knew his wife, I'll personally break the news to her and have her divorce him. Husband from hell.

Best bet, let him marry her as a second wife because if na me, I no go agree to be babymama or else I go scatter your home. I can never be sidelined. In his next life, he will learn to have restraint and keep his infested diick in his pants.

A man sleeping with a paid adult maid can also be equated to an employer sleeping with his employee.
If she wasn’t comfortable or felt she was being abused, I think she should have escalated to her madam or better still left the ‘work place’. Maid jobs aren’t that difficult to get really.

While I make NO excuse this man’s behavior, the woman had her options and there are so many (saying NO, using a condom, using a pill if it was just a one time, escalating to service provider, or leaving the job completely), and if one of them included being a 2nd wife, so be it to her

Maverick777:
Top of the day Fam!

A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!

HOW IT UNFOLDED
Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.

The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.

I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice).
Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).

So technically, his wife might even return before him.

He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.

I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.

The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!

I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...

Any mature suggestion is welcome.

Both your friend and the maid are both adults that consented the sex, although your friend should have controlled himself seeing that the position of the lady as a maid puts her in a more ‘lower’ position and that might just have made her have sex because he’s just the the ‘boss’. The sort of thing that happens between employers and employees

So I’d suggest they should both decide what they want, keeping the baby, aborting, marrying...

The only person I just feel for here is the wife, she no know say an wild dog she keep for house travel

This is so sad

Ok

Ohh

Woo

Congratulations lala

OK na

Beremx:
The current situation of the country made him to still be living under your roof. Don’t frustrate him and make him misbehave. He’s still a good boy unlike some sons who are jobless and shameless. Give him more time to look for a better job and let him move on

You're very correct.

I think the man's issue is that the boy doesn't contribute. And I think the son should contribute in at least one bill pending when he is stable to contribute for more.
It shows responsibility on his part

PaedophileProph:
Where do you stay

Lagos

Wow

But on serous note, I personally like Tinubu. I mean based on history, the guy is an inclusive person.

Apart from the fact that he campaigned for Buhari ( whom I don’t like), I don’t see anything wrong with Tinubu’s candidacy.

And we all know his campaign for Buhari is all part of the politics every politician plays. No one is a saint Abeg

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

It’s better you go for what you want, so that you don’t stress out that 32 year old lady because you will marry her not out of your desire

Ojiofor:
Ochendo and his son choose the poor Ngwa man so that he will forever remain grateful and loyal to them.
I wish another party can take over power from PDP in 2023.

Don’t think! Work towards it in Abia (if you’re from there)

Sometimes I don’t feel for Abia people.
They have everything in them to chase bad government in their state, but No! MBA! They like oppression and stagnation, and after supporting this their so-called leaders with their silence, they come on social media to wail.
Is it social media that will do the voting for you?
Funny thing is how they ( Abians) always think they have a say in the way other states are governed, when theirs is in shambles

Tueh!