₦airaland Forum

Meetmeat:
@op nice one
I would advise guys to go for a hardworking girl so DAT both can grow together. for d Ladies learn a trade such as fashion design,hair making since der are no job by so doing u are increasing ur market value in d eyes of a potential spouse

Why would a woman go through formal education for so many years and then consider becoming a hair dresser?

ogechieku:
That is what they told a man some around my area, he got married after presure here and there. His wife delievered triplet last week. Tue this week is naming ceremony he has not been able to rase money to discharge his family from hospital,he has been runing around here and there nobody to help him. They advised him to go to office of the first lady when he got there they told him since b.o.k.ohari became president offices of first lady have been closed down in many states in nigeria...last time i saw him i was seeing eyes of a man who wanted to run away. YOU BETTER STAY SINGLE IF YOU CANT AFFORD BASIC NEEDS OF LIFE.

He is the cause of his problems. Why didn't he wait till they had enough money before impregnating his wife? Must he do a naming ceremony? Also the article is saying you don't have to wait till you have made it before you get married. It isn't encouraging people to have kids when they can't afford to. There's no law that says that you must have kids immediately you get married. Some sensible people wait at least two years so that the couple can get to know each other well before starting a family.