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pencillite1:
Gbagan ,what if it is meant for protection ? Like it wards off certain spirits 👻

xavuv:
God bless you foe this piece.

"Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth"

Nonetheless, sex is spiritual.

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

immortalcrown:
Again?

How many times person dey die?

11 more characters needed

inoki247:
Lol this question again.


Eating outside is cheaper...


Cooking at home is costly if u want to eat quality and not just anyhow meal and Cooking at home makes you eat like Bandit...


U no fit keep food for pot mak u get rest of mind..

Ur mind go always dey if u cook 3 to 2 cup of rice to eat till night before 12am u go don finish am...

Celestialsword:
forex training is not an empowerment because it is not a sustainable skill that can improve the lives of the Nigerian youth..

johnmartus:
Can you imagine introduce youths to gambling. This government is not just serious so this is all they could do by engaging youth in something that could destroy their future.

Truths9ja:
what the young man said is 100% truths

lymelyte:
Unmarried men please take note.

One of the most important decision you will ever make in this life is the woman you chose to marry.

That decision should not be taken with a kid Glove.

Vetting,cross-checking,observation is a must. Don't go and marry because society is putting pressure on you to marry. The same society won't rescue you when problem arise.

In this Era across the globe, most men are coming to the realization that marriage is not even beneficial to a man.

immortalcrown:
Her desperation for marriage seems to be the secret of her love for you.

Marry when you are willing and capable, not because you are being pressured.

She is waiting on you for marriage because she has not found another man that meets her requirements. But you might think that she is rejecting good men for your sake. A woman who is desperate for marriage goes into it with a man not because she loves him nor because he loves her. She goes into the marriage because he is ready.

If she is yours, she will not be able to find another man until you are ready to marry her. If she finds another man now that you are not ready, she is not yours. Don't ask her to wait for you. What if she waits and you later choose another person?

segenton:
Please help me too.
I am expecting a mail for assessment as I was just contacted today but the woman said they only accept a permanent means of ID which I don't have ATM.
Please how can I go about this?

Techsupport:
This is swap meet. There is one on Highway 6 and Bissonet for my East Texas hustlers.

PressMyButton:
Kanayo O Kanayo and Asaba Nollywood movies should share a part of the blame. They glorify blood money and ritual killing as a means to high social status. The plot of the movies is mostly about a poor village man who after being mocked and scorned by family and friends, decides to join a cult of wealthy men with the demand that he donates either his beloved mother or wife in exchange for riches.

Cerebellum:
Very simple, Sue their Assssss

Jazzman01:
Don't mind them. I don't understand the sudden hype about Lukaku or Is it not the same Lukaku that played for Everton and United? Dude is an average player. I won't be surprised when Tuchel starts benching him.

seunny4lif:
Because the ball was going straight to the net
Same as na Red card for last man

Sterope:
At first I was angry with the girl and her family then I realised that you deserve every thing they do. I hope they make your life more miserable. You are a very selfish man.

You ruined her life when you confessed. Now she is expelled while you still have a chance to be a saint and further your education.

You must marry her. I don't care if the pregnancy is not yours.

Meninmen:
Rubbish post full of nonsense. Why didn't you address that fact that the woman brought two of her sisters (girls old enough to be in their husbands house) to come and live with her in the house?

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

Iceyjayz:
Shut up!