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spiceadole:
If my husband demands for DNA test, I will gladly obliged him . I am 100% sure the 3 children are his.
But then, no trust in the marriage.. It can never be the same.

DNA results strengthen trust. The man's respects for you will only grow stronger. Fact is more believing than Faith. Humans!

kushme:
My elder bro changed after he got married, I dey mostly sense contempt when we talk. He just dey try hide am just for humanity, and probably blood sake. I think the wife did a good job on the divide. She basically sabi many things about we his siblings. Afterall, I just be math teacher wey no get level to them...

Hahahaha….Please, don’t give up on him.

Some fully grown adults are not really good with women. It takes time for them to learn, learning from self experience.

Inyaky:
What exactly are women benefiting, your mom dropped her father's name, took your father's name, by that she chose a new family. She cooks, clean and nurture you, what do you guys want from women, aren't men supposed to be the head of the table and provider? Being Married is far better than baby mama.

This things you talked about are joyful things to do, things that makes one life feels useful, meaningful, and the best part; they cost no monetary value.

This are things one will do everyday whether married or not. Now getting monetary rewards to do and live this things is just one sweet deal. The sweetest deal in the world!!

I envied women!

yordha:
Kpekus wey everybody dey use release stress, e reach your turn, you turn am to private property.

Hahaha…Please, can you just not say this anymore?

Omoawoke:
I agree with everything apart from saying Christinity isn’t a lie

Sorry, Christianity is a lie….
Bible stories are majorly lies… there’s no way you can sugar coat it.

Bible story of Adam’ and Eve, Noah’s ark, and other myths and rubbish written together…
We are not descendants of Noah and Tower of Babel isn’t true.. apart from the fabricated stories… the stories are too horrible…
How can bible god be the god of the universe… imagine bible god so obsessed with worship and killing everyone including children and babies

The stories in the Bible do not mean exactly what they depicted. This stories are just illustrations, sayings, that are actually unraveling something far deeper.

It just like your native’s folklore, we all know animals cannot talk but the old ones are trying to teach you something complex in a very simple terms, describing animals as if they were humans.

Don’t take the Bible’s stories the way you read it, they are stories unraveling something far more. The humans mentioned (Adam, Eve etc), objects mentioned, are just symbols representing something else.

I TELL YOU, the Bible is the greatest book ever written, it is a cheat code to life.

SixSeven:
All animals have their sexual cycle. Why man will deny his own to 'control' himself surprises me. Sex never stopped the lion from being the king of the jungle yet that sex is the one that will chase him out of the jungle in due time.

Edit: when you work with people who do what the OP does, you will understand how they are. They work like slaves and are often obsessive because they surpressed their nature and biology. For your health, you need sex. It was not there by mistake. It's the responsible use of it that man created marriage for. The OP already rejects a supreme being in life and masks SELF-WORSHIP in the name of these theories.

On a serious note, life is more complex than what the OP is trying to lay out for us. No one alone can see the complete picture of reality. You can only grab just a very small, minute, tiny part. This is true for me, for you, and for everyone.


It's like having 20 ants staying on your body; each ant will see a different part of you. If care isn't taken, each ant might begin to pass what they see as the everything that is to see (due to their own limitations, physical or mental).

Note that each ant sees something, but what they each see is not everything, and they all see different things. I say it again: no ant can see the whole you because it's just too tiny, physically or mentally, to see the whole you. So the one standing on your finger sees your finger and goes on arguing, describing your existence and how you are, based on how the finger is. So it goes for every other ant.


If all were to give a description of you, these ants might begin to fight each other, wondering if the other ants were really on top of you.

This is how humans are: they think they have the greatest mind and can grasp everything or has finally grasp everything. Humans are yet to grasp 0.1% of the universe, yet with the so little information they have acquired along with their limitations, they still think the information they have is accurate. No wonder the passage of time always humbles us, showing us that what we use to believed to be true is not really true, and this won't stop now.


Christianity, Science, Judaism, Sango, Amadioha, and the OP dogmas etc., aren't lies; these are just fragments of reality that some people were able to see but tried to pass on as what the whole reality was built on.

23jerryking:
Lies upon lies
At 31 years of age, I still haven't been with a girl, I've always had a strict moral code and by the grace of God have been careful enough not to get my priorities messed up. No sex till date I'm telling you, and yet why am I not succeeding in all that I do?

And it could be maybe you need Sex. What do you think?

KosiGee:
Early 40s?, never had sex!! You and the Kenyan motivational speaker need medical help.

I believe him! A man going that long without Sex; Yes, it not that rare.

A woman going that long without Sex, absolutely No!

Fearyourcreator:
You don dey buy data then watch these guys , smiles

If there was Data then, it will be a good use of Data.

Fearyourcreator:
You sabi wella , na Abija ... That list no complete sef , Arakongudu, Edaonile ola, sokoti alagbede, Dagunro, agbako

These names brings back nostalgia feelings. Those are the days when I could use my hard earned money or data to buy/download Yoruba movies.

With the new generations of Yoruba’s actors, Yoruba movies these days seems like skits.

obembet:
This hypothetical Yoruba babalawo face-off, although it’s really hard to choose, they’re all legends in their own right. But judging by their iconic roles, who do you think would outlast the rest with the strongest juju and unshakable grit?

Source: obembe Tosin

È mí Abíjá wá rá bí èkún.

Emu4life:
A Nuclear weapon and Intercontinental Ballistic Missile keeps "Democrazy" away

This is the funniest thing i have read in a while. There is truth in the saying.

Zackattack:
No I’m not. There are so many rich people that don’t have what I listed up there.

Like I said somewhere earlier, education can be obtained from anywhere, it is not constrained to a building or a particular geographic location.

When it comes to morals, values, ethical behavior, I learnt none of this things from school (primary to university) for real. This virtues were instilled within me at home. My mum set for me a tremendous example on how to live and behave, she was the one that thought me this mental virtues.

During my days in school, I have friends that came from good homes and their lives were shattered in the very place where they were sent to become fine men (I am not saying school is all bad)

Anyways, my focal point (if you read my previous comment) is that everything we strive to do simply originate from our animate instinct or desire which we might not be consciously aware of, regardless this primitive instinct fuels our life’s struggle and it been so for ages, and that inherent instinct is simply…………….

“Seeking to reproduce under the best possible conditions and to survive”

This is what is responsible for why you will value certain things and i will not. Why you will walk and speak well of certain people, organization, religion, philosophy, a way of doing things and someone else will speak against it or see it has bullshît. It all because this things preserves your own existence, improves the odds of you reproducing under the best condition but for someone else it does not have the same impact that you enjoys and such person will flag it as rubbish and praises that which preserves his own existence over yours has been better.

It is this inherent “surviving mode” imbedded in our brain that will help you decides if what I am saying is bullshït or not and vice versa.

Now at a point in time, school creates the best possible path to having the best life possible even a ding dang will know (during the industrial revolution) people where making cool money working in factories, mega companies and what do expect of humans wired to constantly look for the best opportunity to do? It simple, they jump on this next big thing.

However, that world is long gone but some are yet to see, especially people born during the industrial revolution (those that gain from it and those that missed the massive opportunity it create), they still think we are in a world where school offers the best possible path to big pay check but not anymore.

Omoawoke:
Yes, my comment is not meant to be understood… your brain power can’t process it, (not an insult in any way ) but that’s just the fact… like I said, all humans were born into that system so it would be so difficult to comprehend.
Just like how it’s almost impossible for animals to understand the concept of looking into a mirror and seeing their reflection

Anyways, the system has got rules and laws which is open to us all like a book.

I am sure with your brain power you are more than capable to understand (this is no complement; I am stating the obvious) how the system works, using it to our advantage and Making our life as great as it can be.

higgs:
Scarcity is not a myth.Resources are finite. To eat you must work. Before the discovery/invention of agriculture,finding food involved walking for miles to gather edible fruits or hunt wild animals, today you need money to buy the food farmers have toiled to produce. Every manufactured item you use e.g soap,clothes,perfume etc,someone worked hard to produce it.Working hard to earn money is your way of contributing to society while being able to enjoy what other people also worked hard to produce. Money made it possible for people to specialise and become doctors, teachers,cement distributors etc, without money, you will only consume what you produced yourself. Hence,money as a medium of exchange made modern society and civilisation possible.

Some people are just to lazy to even chew the food you put in their mouth.

Omoawoke:
That’s the sad reality of the planet earth and the order..

I feel this current earth is the real hell, like a prison..
Earth is meant to be beautiful but it seems to have been hijacked by satanic forces and they created money system and a survival mode… eat or be eaten…

It’s hard to imagine a world without money because all humans were born into the system of paying to exist.

But imagine a far away planet, in another star system… imagine a more civilized and intelligent life that don’t dwell on money and you don’t need money to survive but wealth is measured by goodness, love and values and contributions to development, knowledge and evolution…
Just imagine how it would be? That is the real heaven…

How do you measure goodness, love, contributions to development and knowledge?

It easy for the human mind to count money…Yeah! There is flaw but money is still the best for the measure and rewards for efforts.

If you really are making contributions to the society, money will find you. It will take it time to move and get to you but it will.

emmanuelewumi:
Both of them are Surulere boys

Well, I fear him. He takes too big risk, risks that put him on the edge of extinction.

For one who already has billions to operate like that is just crazy to me. Elon musk is another billionaire that act like this. I don’t own a single share in any of their companies, their constant jumping around into Anything and betting big on it, just scares the hell of me.

It feels good though to always see them coming out victorious.

AndroBlaze:
Make una continue dey blame adopted children for bad parentage, while those who do it and take it seriously like the families of Tinubu and Steve Jobs continue to benefit from God.

If Steve job was a Nigerian and took the path he followed in life, he would have caused his Un biological parents grave pain. In fact, they would have disowned him before he became what we know him as today.

Racheal45:
Nairaland people are funny but real
I was having a plan to adopt a child with what you said I don change plans
Do they actually know if the mother is mad
That is very correct
Mad people children na orphanage dem mostly Dey end up waiting for adoption

Can’t you just find a man to impregnate you rather than adopting another man’s kid?

Getting a man especially with no emotional attachment should not be that hard, I guess.

emmanuelewumi:
N1000 to 1 USD won't be bad by December 2026

Lol... The way Otedola always screams 'Dangote my brother' at every given opportunity, as if Dangote is a Christian or a Yoruba man, goes to show you how much Otedola really admires that man.

Zackattack:
Don’t allow poverty deceive you. The whole concept of money is just a social construct. If you’re sending your child to school for majorly landing big jobs and making money, you’re behind. Creating value, thinking cognitively and independently, adaptability in a changing world are things you must learn from a wide range of experienced tutors to grow into a formidable character.

Hahahaha…At the end of the day, you are still saying what I am saying….

The needs to survive!

qanda:
Not true. Education is not all about money.

You think people want to become an engineer, so they can make free car for people? Or Spending years, ignoring life of partying around to later become a doctor just so you can treat people for free?

Let them cut the salaries of this guys today and see what will happen tomorrow.

We are humans, every decisions we make are unconsciously engineered into making sure they are one that will be of benefit to us first, to our survival.

We all at one time wanted to be a doctor, pilot why? because this things then to us and to our parents has the highest possibility of giving us a great life. There is no other reason beside this. It how we are biological wired.

We are just an animal, seeking to reproduce under the best possible condition (unlike real animals) and to survive.

Zackattack:
School wasn’t designed to make you money. You go to school for knowledge. It is a must for everyone to be educated.

…If this was the purpose of school all from the start, no parent would have wasted mental, physical efforts and even taking some risks to send their children to school, things some parents still do today. Education can be gotten from home, church etc

The idea of school started during the industrial revolution, when industrialists needed a form of specialized labour to work in their factories, in exchange for a piece of money.

It all about money, life has always been all about money. It a biological design. Over many centuries, this human desire has not changed, it is how we obtained it that continues to change; the means, the technology, the philosophy we use that changes.

From being a warrior, to farmer, to trader, to scholar, to builder and now to this new age we are currently witnessing….

In every Ages, Those who quickly see the trends and jump on it, either by jumping on it themselves or sending their children along that part while they themselves clings to old ways of doing things usually go on to become the tycoon of that Age, they stay at the apex due to their early advantage.

It either one adapt or one die, this goes on forever. It is the painful process of evolution.

Sirianese:
Daddy Freeze is a low-IQ dude

Is there any lies in what he said?

buygala:
To live is Christ

To die is gain

At this point, death is gain for you my sister .. Terminal Cancer is a one way street regardless of what its victim thinks

You rest, your family rests, your loved ones rest

You can then, if the universe permits, reincarnate in a better place and personhood

A person can will thought into reality, that reality manifesting can take on any form.

A man burning desire to fly leads to the birth of aircraft, to go longer distance gives birth to automobiles, to speak to one at the end of the earth, birth the telephone.

You don’t try to bend the spoon because there is no spoon, when you realize this, you will see that it is not the spoon that bends but you-Matrix

Death will always expose us.

megawealth01:
As chatgpt don't have answers I have to ask my oga

Lol…You must have converted mega NSEMPA money into cryptó ooooh.

We don miss you on the other side…Leave express and Come back to your lane.