₦airaland Forum

akpunda86:
I had a child out of wedlock and when i met my wife, I told her and the mum and they said okay, five years into our marriage my wife told the sister, in fact all my secrets with my wife, the sister knows.

Not that she did it in private but made a call to her in my presence, was my life secret with her but now her whole family knows, even if they know bf, no problem but now making me to know they know, I just hate her.

The love i had for her died immediately, I see more as a room mate now as she irritates me, our kid just bond between us.

What happened......what is cause of problem, it's a pity but she has had 9 miscarriages and i told her I'm tired of hearing that news, well she flared up and said she be packing out, any small problem she packs her bag well i told her if she packs, i will go and bring my ex gf and daughter bk.

My marriage to her was a mistake, I'm just hating her everyday cos the worst i hate is my in-laws meddling in my affairs, Am i the first guy to have a kid out of wedlock, then why she threatening me.

For five years I have not seen my daughter but now i will, if my wife wants to go, she is free to go.

All you guys and ladies in the house i think it will be better we either stop responding to this guys post or we tell him the bitter truth.he was wrong in the first place to have hidden the fact he had a child form his in-law except he was longing for something that he doesn't want us to know.this am saying based on the fact that the wife keeps threatening him that he will be sacked.
its possible in the first place that he has information he his not letting the whole house unto.
How can you as a father deprive your own flesh and blood that love she was entitled to for 5yrs. This i find difficult believing .seeing that he was claiming to bring back the wife and daughter he had not seen for 5yrs.
3. His attitude to the fact that your wife had miscarriages is absurd.this is enough ground for her to start behaving the way she does.
4. in our African settings it his possible for the wife to start believing there is more to her situation based on the fact that you had a woman outside that had giving birth.She had every right to inform her parents.
6.you have started threatening her that you will bring the supposed woman you have not seen in the past 5yrs into the house.Guy stop being clever by Half

NwaAmaikpe:



Every human resources personnel knows that Unilag graduates are incompetent for corporate responsibilities.

Guy why u dey lie.its obvious that unilag is one school many of you still wished you had gotten admission into.deep down in your hearts you had wished for.

Paperwhite:
So wasteful a government.

please truthful.how many jona get. patience had more than buhari and Osinbajo put together

NaijaMutant:
How can a minister of transportation have over 50 security personnel in his entourage
Is he going to war?

I know that's obviously a fat lie

But Amaechi should quit his childish show of power. His much clamoured federal might is really intoxicating him.

I trust Wike to give it to him as e dey hot

At the end the grass (Rivers state) will suffer for it.

i do wonder what manner of memory we have in this country.i guess is the fake substandard type sold in otigba computer village in ikeja.This is simply season 2.remember what wike did when he was minister to Ameachi.now he his at the receiving end of what he dished out.why now complain

Jaynom:
I tried to forget but iCant

i still remember.from that day na him i start to dey watch nigerian football in ghost mode

erico2k2:
U ready for me ke, how I go hide, U nor reach, me I get unlimited Fiberoptic internet, you two things go happen,PHCN go take light or your MB go finish,xtreem mumu

see your mufu self wey claim say him get masters for uk.you wey no fit differentiate wetin real development mean.i go boldly tell you say ur masters fake.education no pass thru you. for you to claim say until south east get port before them blow na stupidity on all level. nobody stop anybody. Lagos state tire for Fg. them decide to build there own International Airport.They tire for NPA .them decide to build the largest seaport in Africa.can you beat that.Nobody stop anybody from doing .That.Mind you na the same Nigerian Uni i go and also got my own masters .
https://constructionreviewonline.com/2016/11/construction-begins-on-africas-largest-deep-sea-port-in-nigeria/

erico2k2:
I dont blame U, I blame MTN, anyway I have what it takes to zap ur MB, by the time I make U see 40 meme your MB would zap.HUnger wan main U for where u dey,I understand your frustration,trust me i do, but nor B me do una but

i don ready for you .you don hide

erico2k2:
I dont blame U, I blame MTN, anyway I have what it takes to zap ur MB, by the time I make U see 40 meme your MB would zap.HUnger wan main U for where u dey,I understand your frustration,trust me i do, but nor B me do una but

make we start.define hunger. you wey na only okro and akamu your ma take train you.am ready to give that your flat brain sense.hold on while i fry some turkey.i get your time today.make una develop una region una no gree.always blaming others for your own fault.lets start

erico2k2:
NAH SUFFERMENT put you for this line so, nor B me tell Ogun state govt not to sell una that farm land,Instead of you to keep your small money to chop, U dey waste am for MB expired mumu.
Unger is Real

i no expect anything good from pikin wey him mama tot... they smell.from available fact them always they think through their Anus. when people with brain they all this mufoo whey we dont try empower too go they talk.

erico2k2:
your papa na MU MU and your MAMA nah bigger MUMU, and all of una mumu don DO!
make U and U STICK TO farming!

shut u you son from a mother with smelling P......y

erico2k2:
let me ask you QUESTION,btw the SW and teh SE, which is closer to ASIA?

chief your mumu don do.

Alisegun:
Lies.

for every one of you saying a father could lie about his son's death .then i have this to say to you.may you have the same opportunity to hide the truth when yours come

stanluiz:
Tell the fg to put an international airport and seaport in the east and ss and the population of Lagos will reduce. Many people trooping to Lagos to do their business was because of lack of federal present in their region.

seaport and Airport is not the reason for the eastern economic issue

Toks2008:
This thread is not about women bashing but the need to let our ladies know that they can not afford to live a sexually reckless life and expect the man in their life to respect them when they eventual settle down in marriage cos men juxtapose respect for a woman with her sexual decency and expecting faithfulness from a man goes beyond the fact that the lady in question is faithful but it has a lot to do with her past sexual life style...little wonder why it is extremely difficult for man to divorce a virgin bride or a woman who has a very decent sexual past.

I find it amusing that there are ladies who have lived their lives in total sexual recklessness but when they eventually decide to hang their boots,they will also be looking for a man that will be 100% faithful to them.

I know many people will be quick to compare sexual chastity of a man and woman and expect equal measure but this is very unrealistic and a school of thought only for the ignorant.

My point is that a lady who has slept with John,chidi,James,Richard,Muhammed,Okon,Johnson,Davido,Wizkid, ..... should never be in the league of ladies clamoring for faithful men because in most cases,their past usually haunts their present and this might make the man in their life feel insecure and eventually stray even when he never wished to philander. Their past will also prevent them from accepting the man as he is as they cant help but compare the size of his manliness,his sexual prowess,his persona,his... with other men they have been with thereby creating some resentment towards the innocent man.

Ladies must understand that today is tomorrow's past and should prevent any ugly past by maintaining proper decorum today.You can't just sleep around recklessly today just to wake up tomorrow and say "everybody has a past"Ladies should be determined to live a sexually decent lifestyle so that the man who eventually marries them will be proud of them and they will be at a vantage position to demand for faithfulness from the man cos most men place little or no marital value on a woman with numerous body count.

In my opinion,i believe every faithful woman regardless of her past deserves faithfulness from her man but only a lady with a decent sexual lifestyle truly deserves and should demand 100% faithfulness from her man but that remains my opinion.

So Nairalanders what do you think?

100% on Point

Mr Obasanjo's lead Student union saving the life of one of our biafran sisters.Irony

kg:
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[quote author=Donbiggi post=61339992][/quote]you are not. from the post of some i discovered that the truth is very difficult to understand.in as much as i have some reservations on el-rufia .for once i would agree with his statement. we have all lost the real picture of what it is meant to be Nigerians.many knows that the statement are factual but because of the percieved or imagined bias of el-rufia would not want to agree

bonnylight003:
plent of Obiano media clowns..

una wan win election by running Obi down.. what a waste ofspace time and resources.. tryin hard to initiate politics of hate to anambra.

how much dem dey pay una.

election 2013.. you dey talk refunds in 2017..shamelessly..

google it .the same guy has been on tv and radio requesting obiano to pay up

DWJOBScom:
This woman should be let go abeg
She has been victimized in several ways as no judgement has been given against her
She has been persecuted on the pages of newpapers , blogs and feebled brained supporters of the present Govt.

It could be you tomorrow

can you honestly claimed that the money in question was as a result of hard-work and legitimate salaries earned as a civil servant

Piiko:
Lool why would I want to play the victim card, I find many people on the Internet boring most of you try too hard to sound important or relevant, I am Igbo but I have never spent up to 2 weeks in the south east at a stretch, I was born in Lagos and I currently live in the North, I have diverse friends from all divides so I am more nationalistic than most can imagine , I have been interested in Nigerian politics since I was 8 years old so I am more knowledgeable than most of you Internet warriors, I know I lot of politicians personally but I am civil servant and have no current interest in politics, I find all these arguments childish and boring, anyday I have the spare time I will come online to school some of you

in my life sojourn i have had the cause to be to most state of the federation .lived in the north and visited the east and south south on numerous occassion. hidding behine beign nationalistic we all know is a farcade.Nigerians are first Tribalistic before beign Nigerians and that is a fact even shown by your post.The issue was simple how are the igbos beign marginalized.this have been shown over and over again to be half truthful.every part of this country is experiencing the same.talk about the south west south south or even the north it self.People should learn from visionary leaders.go to lagos a see leaders that are dreaming big for their state.while many state Governors are busy flying prostitute from over seas into their country serious ones are working day and Nigth.lagos generate a lot of VAT but gets peanuts.instead of shouting the state is presently building the largest deep seaport in Africa.this will enable it to generate more money.its building it own Airport which will be the best this country have ever seen.what is stopping other governors especially of eastern extraction from following similar path .Ogun state is catching up too.The east it self must get its acts together.by pulling it capital and human resources together.Nigeria is the largest market you can ever wish to trade with.all other markets in Africa put together will never meet your need.go back home and elect good governors that would seriously think of developing their states

Piiko:
Lool that don't impress me try harder, you aren't intelligent coz I am sure you lack human relationship skills for you to be uncultured with how you voice your opinion on a comment that doesn't concern you

when opening your protracted mouth calling someone an asshole you felt you have the sole right to insult.this is the issue with you guys.when you meet people who are ready to stand you up in terms of facts and boldness.you run back and start claiming victims.any way i never expect less from you.your hero kanu was shouting i am the lion of Abiam .biafra or death.imagine even brainwashing children as small as 5yrs old.now he's running up and down, hiding like a cat under newspaper shouting mew mew .go back to the begin of our discourse and correct your self.And i beg you stop playing the Victim card we all know this it wont work

Piiko:
you are just a town crier it's your type that there will give N POWER job and you will be jubilating while your slave masters position their wards in cash cows like CBN and NNPC, keep being an e-rat on empty stomach

for your information i have over 10 person's in paid employment. mumu-nado you need to know when to keep shut and learn from senior brains if you want your low brain to develop maximally

LoudNdclear:
You want make they send Nigeria army after me?

then you should not claim to be loud and clear anymore.simple question you they dodge

Piiko:
Mr Asshole never in the history of this country has a president glaringly made lopsided appointments without any attempt to ensure a balance among all the major geopolitical zones

And you Mr mumu-nado.have you tried looking at the various post he made appoints into who were the previous occupants and the region they came from?.many of the positions were filled by mainly southerners of eastern extraction so when northerners are filling it now we start shouting.why didn't we caution jonah then.cause it was in your favour.your mumu dont suppose do nowww.

attackgat:
Whoever write this trash is just another "one Nigerian" apologist. In less than 2 weeks, these so called Nigerians will go to celebrate their independence day. The average Nigerian agrees that it is a good thing that Nigeria got its independence from Britain but the same Nigerian will turn around and say he doesnt know why Igbos should be seeking independence as Biafra.

Isnt that pure hypocrisy?

Nigeria is just 103 years old and some people think that we are all siamese twins joined forever.

Scotland has been part of the UK for over 300 years but even them agitated for independence and got referendum in 2014

But peoole are still looking for reasons why Igbos should remain part of Nigeria

Tufiakwa unu

This is usually the problem you see an opinion that should be properly analyzed .the next thing you ipobians do is run it down or discredit it. it sad cause all he said are facts

Desyner:
Just make sense. Is that so hard?

you mean make i give you sense.
which one you need. real sense or Ipob sense

Princewell2012:
I pray that what was done those Ipob shall be done to your families and your generations. if you did not say amen thunder will fire you there.

Also that which was done to the police sergeant should also be your own too.case balance

Piiko:
has King of the North given any reasonable appointment to people of the South East minus ministers that the constitution makes mandatory, he is a disaster, very outdated and vengeful, I only like how he has curbed corruption, See how Afonjas are masturbating over the hacking to death of harmless IPOB members, Nigeria as it is is a sickening contraption many empty skulls spewing trash all over the cyber space

this is one of the stupid thought process we keep having. those that were given post in the previous government from the east.what did they do for their people

SwiftME:
Their people are Poison, don't you see Peter of Psquare - since he got married to that Yoruba bitch,it has always been divisions amongst the duo. Even Tecno "his career has been on a steady decline" is currently towing that same death Lane... Nothing good or productive ever comes from dating or marring a Yoruba lady.

you see your hatered without facts why do you think the guy defended is wife over his brothers.cuase he was true to his heart .here was a girl from a rich home. who had everything. she fell in love with a nobody then. even this guy confirmed when she came to their house and saw how poor they were ,leaving inside serious heat .she bought the first ever Ac the entire family would ever have. she stood by them all through the difficult times.she was there to meet any financial need of the family.when they became famous that was when the mother realized she was not igbo.This boils down to appreciation. appreciating people of other extraction is what i find difficult with the home igbos unlike those that were born and grew up outside the east. generally there is this feel that others are inferior .which have always shown is not the case .rather otherwise in all calculation. so guy research you story well about peter and paul and their wives before saying rubbish.
and mind you the southwest made them

DutchBruh:
Evil and wicked man

photoshop

Desyner:
What are you yarning? Make sense pls.

yarning you say,is your mind really ready for the truth or you are after that which soothes you ear

1nigeriamyfoot:
The reason why I don't want to engage you in any further argument is because you are filled with hatred & insults so much. As I said in my earlier post, I'm not that a soft person both online & offline but I decided to act Mr nice guy these days.
If you have any quarrel with the person of KANU, go & look for him.
IPOB is more than Nigerian things but you don't see beyond your nose. My post is beyond what I read online OK.

You are just like eni ti o ro wipe ohun gbon ti o so wipe elomiran ko gbon, irufe eni bee no baba obo.


Go and play with your mate lad

EOD

The truth they say is always bitter.the fact that i disagree with you on your bogus claim that it was the hausa fulani soldier that came to Abia was your problem. i spent all my childhood and part of my adult life in military settings.in as much as i dont subscribe to some of the actions of the military , i will always stand by the fact the military is the closest to what a true Nigerian should be. Igbos soldier were among and where majority in the team that came to Abia for the exercise.let me give an example.couple of weeks back in Lagos prior to the Local government election. there was a show of force week which comprised of all security force within the state and guess whose contingent was the largest.The Army. this sent a cold chill down the spine of the would be thugs,with Lagos having the freest local election ever. they moved round the whole six division of the state.even if it is more than any fucking Nigeria thing ,it as no right threatening people. on my recent visit to the east you need to see how apprehensive it is to even have an alternate opinion. Boko started like this.we all know the story.if your so called wisdom could be so myopic and short sighted then . i pity this country.Learn from the basque separatist or from the IRA.what did they achieve after all the blood they took nothing.9 out of 10 igbos dont support Kanu's antics they know in their heart what they want is a restructured Nigeria or you saying you are more wiser than Ojkwu himself who regretted and vowed never to take such path again.
People like you are the weak ones who hide behind their keyboards to massage their small-sized delusional Ego which is tied to a got-tish thought process.E.O.D