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i love my privacy. i could be in my room a whole day and no one knows.i hardly make friends but love the ones i try to make and tend to be jelous if they have other friends i just want them all to myself.i can use a whole week rehearsing what i will tell a friend but when that person comes everything disappears i cant say it anymore and i keep wondering which type of person am i? but i love myself as an introvert because no one can come and say u did this or that, and that part i feel everything has to be perfect as a perfectionist is keeling me alot. i can sweet a room like 10 times in two minutes

yorubaisevil:
They do, especially when they don't have time to such things as exactly as they would have wanted... It is normal... And celebrating success is a put off...just a nor mal perfectionist

they do not procastinate at all.its the sanguine who is playful that procastinate and will never get anything done at all only talking.
perfectionist when given any task to do will want to do it by all means because he does not want to fail anyone.they celebrate success but they do not show it because they are introverts.

PaperLace:
I don't agree with all. This perfectionist seems like an extreme one.
My husband is a perfectionist. He rarely delegates, and he doesn't exhibit some of these traits either.

I also think perfectionists don't procrastinate (unnecessarily), they love to get things done as soon as possible. I might be wrong though.

you are very correct.perfectionist are not procastinators.its the sanguine temperament that are procastinators.
they like to please others thats true,and they are true friends though they do not make friends easily and they have just few friends,they are loving to be with just that they dont like mistake and they are indifferent which is their weakness.i stop here ooo

I have dated him for 4 years and he was my first love.we quit the relationship after 2 years and after a year we came back again.but this time promising to change and fix things up was the opposite instead.i was really tired of enduring and wanting to keep up with my principle of 'THE FIRST MAN I WILL DATE WILL BE THE LAST'' and had to come out of the mess for a broken relationship is better than a failed marriage.when i told him i cant continue this again he started threatening me saying if i marry another person he will shoot me,the man and himself.it became violent really violent and he tells people i left him and he will make me regret ever leaving him.when it became hot that i could not bear it and know not what to do GOD then gave me a job outside the state.it was a miracle.he kept on calling and threatening me until i told him am in a relationship already so he should move on which is a lie and he said YOU COULD NOT EVEN MORN THE RELATIONSHIP IN JUST THREE MONTH YOU ARE ALREADY IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.i told him that to make him stop calling me and insulting me even though he insulted my life when i told him that.there was no contact between us for months.lately he visited my elder sister who was ill and i was on call with her when he came and she told me,your friend is here and not wanting to ignore him i told her to give him the phone and we greeted after several months.the next day he started calling me and showering me sweet names but i told him to please stop all that because what happened the first time that i came back will not repeat itself and am in a relationship already and this time i was really in a relationship and its just 3 weeks after staying and leaving in fear of getting hurt again for over a year and he appears from no where to start calling me again.imagine someone who was calling me all the sweet name on earth,when i told him please am in a relationship so no need of all the sweet names please.he changed on phone immediately and started insulting me and calling me all bad names on earth.he said i will block on all social media i thought he was joking and he truly did.i really do not like violence.what should i do

And this your boy friend can't fend for himself ba? He can't join NL and follow us in job hunting?. Well he's not yet serious that's all I can type for now.
thanks for that

MY FRIEND GRADUATED FROM UNI AGRIC WITH EDUCATION COURSE .PLEASE HE NEEDS A LECTURING JOB.CAN SOMEONE IN THE HOUSE HELP PLEASE.THANK

intead of counting her pics you will only hurt urself.be the one to complement on all of her dp.when you start doing that you will love her changing her dp.instead of allowing other guys complement will start complementing her.

praise God.................
the kids have been found by their parents

praise God......................
the kids have been found by their parents at Aliede in benue state

a priest or pastor can not just burn idols on his own unless someone submitted it to be burn because he does not want to worship the idols anymore giving his life to christ so please do not insult ministers like that.those idols cant breath,cant eath,cant talk there are mere molded sculpture.
the priest did not invade he preached christ and they submitted.

its not just opinion but reality,fact and truth

dating is a process. you either going somewhere or going nowhere.courting is when you are heading somewhere which is both of you planning to end up together as couples but not a basis that the person will marry you

I want to share my view on relationship and dating.you can not date or go into relationship with just any body.you have your dignity,respect,integrity to protect.As a believer you have dating and relationship process and following this wont make you single forever because the image of God you must portray and believe in youself and your God.speaking out of experience.coming back just a start.