₦airaland Forum

ayanle456:
nayah ur people cant ignore us, unfortunately, theyre is an entire discussion about our dna, lol,

Good Girl:
Jeeez Dr. Shrewd !! You didn't have to stoop to Ayanle's level.

And using a suffering population to prove a point? Oh c'mon !! Those are Ayanle's antics. Just rise above that Doc.

Good Girl:
^^^You're right. Like I said, Ayanle had a point, he just went on about it the wrong way. Like myself, he's wondering why his kinsmen are always being discussed on here like demi-gods. Having said that, I'd ask you to go through NL my sister and tell me which nationality is never discussed on here anyway? And am not talking about simple foreign affairs stuff. Am talking DNA (like Ayanle put it). I mean, I don't know. . . . Maybe it's just human nature to be fascinated by exotic stuff. [/quote
Yes my sister but I truly think people just need to know how appreciate what they have, and promote them rather than envy his neighbour (I'm not talking about Nigerians only)

Zilja:
? If this poster posed this question, then is it not the mentality of the Nigerian women to seek after men to take care of them? Not saying all, it must be based on the maturity level of the women or should I say "girl". What is the age group is he speaking of?

There has been several post about women in relationships for "money" My thought is "this must be a culture thing" and not a individual thing.

I was brought up to be independent in everything I do. I don't generally look for any man to do what I can do for myself.

Do the Nigerian women want that?

You got money; me too. . . . . lets put it together.
Complementarity, that's what love means to me

Good Girl:
^^^ Eh Nayah !! Am very fine my sister. 

As for this Ayanle guy, I really don't have much respect for him. Not because he doesn't have a point, but because he went on about it in the worst manner possible. Using derogatory words such as apes/slaves/Bantu made me lose A LOT of respect for him because he's giving good Somalis a very bad name.

We do have people who worship Somalis/Cushites in general, but Ayanle doesn't want to believe that there're many more who don't. Instead of raising his issue with the obsessed lot, he goes ahead to lump a whole group of people just because of the few I've tried to drum into his head that Nigerian men worship women from many other nationalities and races but he just won't listen. There's really no need for him to panic like he is doing.

You also realize he's avoiding some issues which I raised before. The "race" he's insulting have delivered beauty queens - Miss World (Miss Nigeria), Miss Universe (Miss Angola and Miss Botswana). I brought it up and he's not saying anything about it. He's shutting his eyes and his ears on that because it reveals the reality which he'd rather not hear- THAT THERE EXISTS BEAUTY BEYOND THE HORN OF AFRICA.