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Many thanks Emo, so what do you think about this topic?

My Nigerian sisters are suffering lool

what about you dabrake?

Emooooo!!!
Yeah I'm fine sweety how are you, missed you

Poster as for me I have both African and "Western" name but the thing is this is not because you'll have an African name that you'll be more african than another one, I think this is just a detail, some people have African names and behave like they've never herad about the Continent, and the contrary also exists

WebSurfer:
oh my nayah, what is it you have wanted to reveal to moi?

LOL Hello Websurfer, actually I was not refering to me but thanks for your interest
@ all of you thanks for sharing, but the thing is that sometimes, you prefer testing and knowing if you have a chance before talking, to avoid suffering, means you have to be very discret and do things without the person suspecting what's going on, and that's the difficulty I think

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Lol Mrs Chima good evening though

queensmith:
Someone in my life needs this advice sooo badly.

I think the person needs to reflect on how he/she feels and the genuineness of these emotions before approaching the other.

Then just be natural and admit to it, don't expect anything just be glad to get your feelings out in the open no matter the consequence.

Respect the other persons response, it's possible for him/her not to feel the same. Beating youself up about it isn't going to do any good.
Or employ me to do it, I like gettin up in everyone's business

Heheheh I'll remember that

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Good. I hope everyone has this mindset. But since it's not possible for all ladies to have this mindset, guy's should be on a safer side by making sure they can cater for her. It's just commonsense! [/color]

Lol but Killz you know brother, I've always tried not jugding easily people because we don't know their background: Look, if a lady comes from a very poor background we can't blame us to want a better life and think to have a fiance who has a better background, but yes better loving him too of course
Just to say life it's quite difficult and we need to balance our point of view, cases are different

But I agree using someone just because of money, this is not what I call love

Jay bee I'm quite ok dear just came from home

pendo89:
lol nayah gal. someone's comment is classic.
I talk to the person differently.Not the way I do to everybody else
And yep I make myself available for communication.
Lastly,I throw in signs like body language.If you are not quick to notice,I intensify but in moderation,if you still don't it! then you are a dunder head and am done cz the feelings die with that assumption > dull head and slow.

Good one My Pendo !

Kokoye yeah quite a complete answer, because people are afraid of the answer

pendo89:
you hit the nail on the head.

Habari oh my sweet sister, what do you mean by that??

Means I don't want a second father, I can also help and I would definetely not putting money on top before love and respect

Killz actually what I wanted to point out is that I prefer building my wealth with my husband or fiance rather than counting on a tutor, hope I made it clearer now

Hi Poster, I'd say not really, we can diner together without having one's heart but yes if you're funny, simple and respectful now I might pay attention, but we would have to go out regurlarly before I may fall in love

Hey kokoye what a description!!
Hi Bee how are you? lol some people are shy

With discretion and softly if someone has some ideas it would be cool
God bless you 

Lugbenga:
I really lyk dis topic,may God bless d moderator.dis is exactly wat hav been happenin to me,dere dis girl dat i'm dating.i'm spendin 4 her,but i'm not gettin i derserve from her.which true luv,i want to be luv,i want som1 dat w'll truly luv me.

Be patient, sure it will happen

Hi poster, for me it's simple, I do prefer evolve with my fiance, having approximatively the same income, status or a bit less than him and evolve in order to avoid some " disrespectful" phrases such as " I do put the food on table"or "you got nothing when we met"and for the couple and its stability and story better evolving together

Mike Ezuronye and Ini Edo

hehehe, this NL always funny

As soon as you're ready but on the evening better

A-ZeD:
Nayah would you be my french tutor

lol ok if you and ONESS promise me to be wise students

Sometimes some people give some importance to some others
How come you don't want people don't have "superior complex" when you post many topics about them and their ( beautiful) women?


Africa as a whole has treasures, no one is on top this is just about westerners considerations that some people like following or venerating as the absolute truth.

chuqudy:
You can only speak for yourself. You are not in their minds to know what they actually want and what motivated them to desire so. Women and human beigns generally are deceptive and corny.

This is exactly the same thing I meant , so you can't affirm like in your statement " the dream of every woman" no one knows what the neighbour wants, and that's why I said previoulsy : each lady is different

Acidosis:
Oui! comment çava?

lol another one?? cool, je vais bien merci et toi?