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And other countries like Nigerians too

ichidodo:
I go beat am well,well. Make e no im place 4 d family,even if she manage get smal money pas mi and im come dey do iyanga 4 my side. I go beat am well well cuz na mi get d joystick 4 d house and i no want rubish.

Sure of the contrary

Anybaba, first of all good afternoon, secondly this a discussion not a boxing club thirldy have you read all I've written or do you prefer selection??
Am I saying Nigerians are the only criminals on Earth?? I said many Nigerians spread bad image of their country, even though nobody's perfect
so please come down, thanks

Jaybee are you saying my mom is a devil?? loool

Digriz and Sandysprax, I do know some sisters can be very irritating and disrespectful I've said it previously and I do know guys don't like this, but you as men shloud know your physical force and should know how to handle your partner

My mom used to talk when she was upset and talk, talk talk but my father has always known how to handle her, but shouting his mouth and go out, then when my mother calm down he used to come back to communicate and point out the fact that there's no need to shout and talk to much cause he would'nt exchange while she shout and believe me she improves herself ! this is what I call self control and maturity

Digriz:
a slap is just a warning and nt beating, if u cal a slap a beating then what wl u cal punching and kicking? Pls a slap is no beating since u didnt apply others.

Then it starts from that, you can warn with your silence you know

Actually both sides ( Nigerians and those who push back) are responsible
Nigerians, you're my brothers but let's face it a lot of Nigerians have spread really bad image of your country throughout the world and deny it would be a mistake and a lie, because to improve ourselves we need to accept some facts, even though nobody's perfect a lot of countries are complaining about Nigerians and just this should lead to auto critics from you

African nations that push Nigerian back are also responsible and quite narrow because we always need someone to evolve and a lot Nigerians are hard working, dynamic and quite nice so generalization it's not the solution, if they want to condemn those who commit crimes, then they're right but chasing a whole community like they're nothing, I completely disagree

ajbabs:
Respest is recipocal .Ladies should not provoke their men the first place.Also,men should try to be gentlemen.

I seconded!

Demdem do you know other countries except Nigeria?

Well Demdem you're probably right about the others African brothers, but you can't live alone, you always be someone by your side
We're African and you know we like comparing ourselves and think we're better than others countries, but I think this is our role to make understand people that Nigeria is not just division, ethnic groups troubles or whatever, this is also a very diverse country with nice and welcoming people with a great potential

As for Nigerians I do really believe they need to seat and talk about their future, because this Boko Haram things it's a visible part of the iceberg

Be careful to much confidence can hide something else

Onosy:
Marriage is between 2 persons becoming one, its a personal thing, U should be the one to choose how u want to run ur home and not someones opinion,

Onosy you should re read what I've written, when I say "personnally" it means I do not integrate every single lady to share my opinion, I said I could do it but it doesn't mean another lady could, so there's nothing to do with how can I run my home dear

PBundles:
You are so correct, self control is the key indeed. When you sense the situation is getting out of hand, leave the scene to collect your senses.

Yes my dear and I would tell you something: as a woman I can admit sometimes we are very diffucult to handle because some like shouting, insulting or disrespecting their fiance or hsuband, but men have this or should have this capacity to maintain their self control, this is what I call a balance whithing a couple

Demdem:
of cos i still want us together but it should be a collective and majority decision. the terms and conditions also needs to be spelt out well to avoid any ambiguity.

Ok my dear, and what do you think about Nigerian fame throughout the Continent and Worldwide? I mean some African brothers chase Nigerians from their land do you think it's because of a weak governement?( the Nigerian one)

Blims many thanks, it's very pleasant to hear that, even though woman has to be the mirror on her "half" too 

Benzora:
@poster if you marry my daughter and lay your filter hands on her for whatever justifiable reason then I ll make you regret why you got married in the first instance. I ll clear whatever doubts that made you start this thread. Don't even think it as you obviously don't ve any idea what it takes to bring up a girl child.

The father has talked! you see op, violence involves violence self control is the key

Demdem:
i honestly don't want it. that's my personal opinion though. what i want is simply a re-arrangement and restructuring of the whole entity called Nigeria.

I'm glad to hear that, because some really agree on division which would be a big mistake according to me espcially for "poor oil regions"

Demdem:
Of cos its possible. at one time you guys decided within yourselves to be together and the basis of ur togetherness. It hasnt been so in our own case, One foreigner initiated and forced it on us and the military bastardised it the more. That explains the reason why we just have to sit, talk and decide.

So brother you would support a separation?

It depends on what you want, personnally I can do it without any pb but saying this is compulsory I don't really think, this is about what you feel

Demdem:
as it is right now, the people are only one just in name and probably during football matches. Not one in deed and in truth.

Seriously, I think this is sad we can be very diverse ( like in my countries) but feel first from one Nation!! Nigeria has to rise

Dabrake, lol relax, I've always been aganist violence and especially towards females sorry

Poster, good morning there's always a solution to avoid violence especially towards your wife!! the mature way to handle some argues is self control, just go out and try to go round and round, then when you feel the atmosphere is better to talk, just communicate and see what's happened and tell her what you don't like

Violence doesn't solve NONE problem, trust me

Poster, don't worry she won't divorce for that even though that would have been flattering if you had celebrated her birthday, the most important is you apologize, and if it's an understanding and lovely lady ( I'm sure) she won't pay attention on that

Good morning everyone, my vision as a Non Nigerian lady is that Nigeria is always viewed as "North", South", "East" and "West" and not enough Nigeria as itself, that's a bit curious

My Godness may their soul rest in peace, I pray for Nigeria, really because it becomes really worrying

Complementarity, that's my vision of love

Op, twins if God want to ( one girl and one boy) then I'd stop but even though I don't have it I would stop at 2 children

patriot2:
I used to be a defender of Islam even though I wasn't a muslim. I have many arab friends and I felt their religion was just as peaceful as them. But now we should open our eyes, the image of Islam is long dead. I advice every muslim, especially non arab ones to rebuke Islam the way germans rebuked nazism, because if you fail to do that then I don't see the difference between you and a terrorist.

Hi patriot actually I'm a protestant and I have a lot of people that I know who think like islam= terrorists, but this is what some people want us to think, MUSLIMS ARE NOT TERRORIST the pb is that minority use politics to do bad things putting the name of ALLAH ( SWT) in the foreground, do not the same mistake we should be able to make the difference

But yes muslims have to realize how bad their image is nowadays and how distant people are because of some "illumniated"