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SimonAndal:
Je suis grande. Je l'ai appris de ma mère.

Cool et tu es Nigérian??

Poster, just try to find more hobbies, trust in yourself and tell yourself that if the person is dumping you, it means she doesn't deserve you

heheheheh

js_pac:
"You are good looking
you are funny
you are a nice guy
you are a good friend."
All fake! Hmmm a real compliment is a gift am yet to recieve.

lol so you don't think you're nice guy or funny?

lol poster, definetely not okay! I mean the strengh of someone is self control, normally you should control yourself and avoid such situation, I'm completely against violence, as I would be completely against if your wife disrespect you

Je vais bien et vous? où avez vous appris le français?

SimonAndal:
Ah! Oui. I gets the joke now. Ha. Funny, no?

You speak french brother??

My Vicky:
I am not usually comfortable with compliments because I have come to understand that over 90% of the compliments we receive are either insincere or with ulterior motives.

Yeah I got it, I really think sometimes some people are not sincere, but whatever, life goes on

Dear poster, I really think that "bad" girls don't have particular nationalities
Just try to be optimistic, you'll find the one ( Nigerian)

Bijosh thank you for the compliment, but I truly believe this guy exagerated!

chuqudy:
It a dream of every woman to get married. It is only a lesbian or someone who has a sexxual problem like lack of sexxual feeling for men decides not to marry.  Moreover one may sacrifice the pleasures of marriage for religious purpose like in the case of reverend sisters. Most unmarried ladies are desperate to marry. This is the truth but one thing I have learnt about women is they like to pretend a lot. Most of their no is yes. A girl would say she don't even care if she is not married. But this same girl fasts and prays for husband.

With all due respect I'd tell you you should look around you that things have changed, sorry but this is not automatic nowadays, I know some women who really don't care to get married and they are definetely not lesbian, this is a choice, their choice I respect because everyone is different and has his own life plan you should accept it without judging

Now if you talk about Africa maybe it's different because in some regions in this World many things have changed, as for me I really think having a family is a good thing and may contribute to happiness, but I wouldn't blame someone who doesn't think like I do

But sometimes some people are just too funny, once someone told me my parents are terrorits because I'm a "bomb" it was soooooo hilarious I'll remember it forever

Goldieluks:


Am okay dear, good to have you back.

Many thanks sister, so the best compliment for you what it was?

Goldieluks:
Nayah. Lovely hairdo.

Thanks Goldielucks how are you?

I'm ok nice to see you again Rokiatu and thx for the pic, well yes for me this is one of the best compliment I remember from a very nice guy but he was just a friend  

lol this 190 made my day

Hi Rokiatu
Mine is a "woman to settle with"

I'm not fan of Mrs Biya's hair but I'm sorry she's a beautiful lady, and a real peaceful Cameroonian one.
http://www.google.fr/imgres?q=chantal+Biya&hl=fr&sa=X&biw=1280&bih=823&tbm=isch&prmd=imvnso&tbnid=jtYGh4yEEd0UCM:&imgrefurl=http://www.bonaberi.com/ar,chantal_biya_nommee_ambassadrice_de_l_unesco,5590.html&docid=oN0OkTYJR1jeHM&imgurl=http://www.bonaberi.com/images/rubriques/4/2698.jpg&w=180&h=297&ei=2CROT4L6BIeBhQep_9wn&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=187&sig=117552678480161785310&page=2&tbnh=140&tbnw=102&start=26&ndsp=30&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:26&tx=51&ty=102

slimyem:
yeah!
i get it and that's why it makes sense to be with someone who appreciates you just for who you are!
besides,these insecurities should have been discussed before getting deep into the relationship.
that way,your partner will know if to flee or stay and help you through it.
positive words do a lot to help people's self-esteem especially coming from an important person in their lives.

I seconded sister!

Poster good afternoon, everyone has his own way, dreams and challenges: means that not every woman want to get marry at 27 have you ever think about that?

Now, yes some are desesperate because society judges them, whereas we can not marry just like that or by claping hands we need to find a correct person who respects and loves you, and what about women who study until Master and look for a job in order to be "independant", so taht guys will stop labelling them as golddigger

Conclusion: Try to see further and balance your point because every single lady is "different"

slimyem:
why would anyone want to hide the jiggy from their partner?
not cool!

Hi sister sometimes some people have so many psychologic issues

loool my Pendo yeah you seem to be happy today
Odiaero yes still in France

Lol hi odiaero travel and work a lot, but answer the topic also

Guys, hope you had a good day, just tell us how can you comfort your half when she feels insecure, has complexes and refuse to be n aked in front of you because of that

Hope it can help some sisters or brothers about this big issue

for real karibu tena
Habari oooooo

Love doesn't have color poster

Kiss my Pendo
About the topic hummmm too tough for me lol