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Natasha,,:
@sexkillz lol don't get mad you know you're not an albino so why stress yourself, even me i've got friends that call me unfortunate albino   or that I narrowlly escaped it, don't know if you've seen my pic but I'm no where near albino lol some people are just crazy

sexkillz:
^^She watches too many Romance Movies!

oswardic:
NAYAL

Something is definitely not right with your point or maybe am not getting you right. BEST MALE FRIEND means something more than your placement. For a strong and long lasting relationship, there's always a strong defense of not letting what happens in the home get outside, not even parents talkless of a friend, I'm definitely not saying somethings shouldnt be let known to your parents. If that is the case, what do you need that EXTERNAL BEST MALE FRIEND for? I need an ANSWER, List to me what you NEED from that MALE FRIEND NOW! and lets judge it one time. We all understand how relationships occur, firstly, making friends, getting to know each other (Emotions Growing) and feelings getting involved, and later the heart is not able to hold it anymore but to let out what it feels and before you know it, something serious occurs and you are known as BF/GF, Fiance/Fiancee, Now tell me, what do you think having MALE BEST FRIEND would occur to in the latter? I am waiting for a reply as soonest.
Lest I forget, how much time do you spend with your so-call brother thing? Whats the length of what you people discuss?
Marriage has its responsibility, and doing away with old time friends as in reducing your closeness is one of the major responsibilities. Meaning if they use to be your very very close friend, then that turns to a FRIEND, infact a casual friend.

ibx1976:
Its so hard to admit it when you are wrong Anyway. I'll allow you an escape route from this difficult situation you put yourself in. Lets accept you misunderstood the post from the start and thought best friend can also mean a close family member.  
Absolutely!

Dirac:
Until I joined Nairaland, I did not realise a lot of ladies lack common sense. How can the idea of a male best friend even be vaguely realistic. Look at it the other way, would you like your husband to have a female best friend?

Creamish:
Lemme get your points right . . . .  r u saying the MAN will remain eternally JOBLESS?? Its not compulsory dat the man must work for someone. I have alot of friends that are their own boss. At the point i married my hubby, he wasnt working. U can term him "JOBLESS" . . .  Now he has his own business. Dont generalize your opinions or step flatly on those who claim they can take the bold step cos none of u has lived the life of the other.

. . Speak for urself . . its your own opinion. Im still happily married.  

ebonyvibe:
Nayah you remind me of these young young girls that go into marriages on fairy tales and end up very quickly in divorce courts cos they soon realise they didnt get it right.

A man cannot be a man if he can provide for his family just as a woman cannot be a woman if she cant have kids even if she has an understanding partner all her life she will still hope and dream one day she will wake up and things will change.

No self respecting man will enter a marriage without a job only one that is ready to use u. Dont enter a marriage with this mentality cos you might be desperate for a boyfriend or getting old and not getting the basics right.

If it is too long for you to wait for him to get a job how long do you think you will be waiting in marriage for him to get a job the fact remains that yo will be marrying a depressed man who will look for a woman who he is higher that to boost his ego and that is why these men with high flying wives cheat.
Dont try to change a man cos it doesnt matter it like saying it desnt matter if my man cannot make love marriage is not about se, x

ebonyvibe:
Nayah you remind me of these young young girls that go into marriages on fairy tales and end up very quickly in divorce courts cos they soon realise they didnt get it right.

A man cannot be a man if he can provide for his family just as a woman cannot be a woman if she cant have kids even if she has an understanding partner all her life she will still hope and dream one day she will wake up and things will change.

No self respecting man will enter a marriage without a job only one that is ready to use u. Dont enter a marriage with this mentality cos you might be desperate for a boyfriend or getting old and not getting the basics right.

If it is too long for you to wait for him to get a job how long do you think you will be waiting in marriage for him to get a job the fact remains that yo will be marrying a depressed man who will look for a woman who he is higher that to boost his ego and that is why these men with high flying wives cheat.
Dont try to change a man cos it doesnt matter it like saying it desnt matter if my man cannot make love marriage is not about se, x

Then you'll be surprise, to see I know what marriage is, and I've never talked about fairy tales on the contrary I've always said that life is not always WHITE OR BLACK and this is the beginning of everything, but sorry my sister, concessions enter in account when it comes to love, of course I couldn't be with someone who will want me to work while he's completely away because bills, food and children school fees are key questions, but I wouldn't blame someone who try hard and have difficulty to find: it's like saying to a child who don't have good marks at school, but hard worker, you're useless

ibx1976:
Should I continue to suspect you've been cornered!
It was clear from the start the OP was not refering to family or "brothers". I think its wrong to make your husband suspicious by introducing a male rival into a happy relationship. No woman likes that either. Any man, as well, who feels comfortable having a married woman as best friend has some hidden agenda! Go look for your own wife!