iPrincess:
he earns way more than me. Like x10.

I give him gifts not money. Like the last time, I noticed his toothbrush was already rough and when visiting I brought one.

Not much but I think he appreciated it. Him no too sabi show emotion sha

Yeye dey smell, he give you 50k, you give am toothbrush. Una gender na ndi ara most of una be, but I no blame una sha, na foolish men dey cause all these.

iPrincess:
Giving your woman dating allowance is something most guys should do more often.

It's not easy been a girl and honestly maintaining the standards you like as a guy takes a lot of effort, resources and time.

While it is not implicitly a requirement for dating, it's something you should do without even being asked to do it.

So, if you have not been doing it, oga try and be giving your girl something at the end of the month.

Make she de look fine and sexy for you.


If you do give your girl dating allowance, how much do you do per month?

Before she meet me how she take dey fun her things? How come when she meet me he no come dey easy for am?
You, your type and people who reason like you are not alright in the head.

mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....

Leave that girl now. She no dey serious, you sef use your head for once. I know it's hard, but dump her. Make she go find who go finance her dreams, cause you no be bank.

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Shame no dey even catch you.

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

How do men marry wives who don't listen sef? It beats me. Bro you're the husband, you spent money to marry your wife, she has to listen to your opinion. Which one be insecure? You say you no like something, she has to stop it whether she likes it or not.
All these things were evident when y'all were dating but love blind you, but it is what it is, stamp your authority on that household, you're the boss in that house, simple and short.

DaInferno:
Like someone once said.. People are mistaking toxic masculinity for Redpill. Worse, this particular pic attached to the write up is just foolish and its just Pathetic!

Pathetic asf.

Your friend who bleeps your girl would probably Bleep your wife, even your mum.

That same friend would kill you for a substantial amount of money.
Stop capping redpiller, you shouldn't be friends with someone without self control.

We've all been there, women are naturally stubborn and disrespectful, if you give them a yard, they'll take a kilometre. Stamp your authority on your household, tell her straight that you told her not to go, if she tries that again, there will be severe repercussions, say it and mean it.
It's easier said than done being the man in a relationship, but that's the natural order of things, she should and must be submissive to you for peace to reign, else you'll just keeping living an unhappy life. It's better she respects you with just a little fear than love you, for me respect is better than love.