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Why is he shocked, didn't he date her to know the kind of person she is?

When the only reason why you married your wife is because of her front and back, don't act surprise when she starts showing you shege in the marriage.

This shouldn’t even be up for debate. For me, once such information comes to light, whatever feelings I had would naturally fade. Some things fundamentally change how you view a person, and it’s completely valid to step back when that happens.

HgAkpobomeEr:
Nigerian government must investigate the protester to find out who paid him and what the agenda is.

They won't cos they know he's saying the truth.

preciouswoman66:
AI Is getting better that we start to doubt everything as AI-generated

I recently built a voice agent using Vapi and ElevenLabs, and honestly, if not for the fact that they haven’t perfected Nigerian accents like Igbo or Yoruba, you wouldn’t even know it’s AI. The quality is that good.

I’ve been telling people that in the next 2–4 years, actors and actresses are going to feel the impact heavily. Cos producers won’t always need physical actors anymore. With strong LLMs and realistic voice models, you can literally create your own characters from scratch.

We’re already seeing the signs. Most short ads and commercials you come across these days are made with AI, not real actors. That’s how quickly AI is eating into the acting space.

fergie001:
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So much joy in my heart 😂

Liverpool wouldn't make top 10 this season. Bookmark this post.

GloriousGbola:
If at first you don't succeed in naija...

Try try try again.

So we should be expecting another coup plot be that na.

All I can say is congratulations to her.

At least our young girls can go into Agbo business and stop disturbing us for urgent 2k.

NairaX:
You're right....GPT is def in its own world . They've been around for years before Google caught the AI fever.

I think GPT-6 may be aware. I mean it may possess something close to human conciousness.

ChatGPT 6 isn't out yet na

I actually had to delete my previous LinkedIn account and wait the full 14-day window before they finally approved my email for a new one.

I didn’t do it on impulse. I was genuinely tired of the madness on that platform. The noise, the fake motivational culture, the constant pressure to perform…it became mentally exhausting. Logging in started to feel like a chore instead of a professional space.

So with the new account, I decided to be intentional. I used Apify to generate targeted leads in my field. CEOs, founders, decision makers, the right audience for what I do. I followed them, and some followed back. Others didn’t, which is fine.

The important thing is, my feed is finally clean, my updates are structured around my niche, and I’m actually engaging with content that matters to me. Anyone who is tired of the madness going on in LinkedIn can do the same.

Seun:
I plan to put up a challenge to discover people with strong vibe coding skills. People who can build good software with AI very efficiently.

You will be tasked with building a software project with minimal specifications. You'll build the backend and frontend. Everything.

To provide a level playing field, I will urge all contestants to use a frontier model such as Gemini 3 Pro in AI Studio for planning.

AI Coding will not be mandatory but you will likely not win if you don't use AI because of lack of velocity. You'll be too slow.

Great initiative. I’m definitely in.

But honestly, I’d still pick GPT-5 over Gemini any day, any time. The reasoning capabilities are on another level, especially for complex planning, debugging, and architecture decisions. Since I already have API credits for GPT-5, it just makes sense to stick with the tool I’m fastest and most efficient with.

In his mind he's enjoying his life to its fullest.

Na wa o

fergie001:
This is the club I am well pleased with.

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Imagine me shouting UP Blues thunder faya Amorim.

I actually wanted barca to win, cos I see the Chelshit as our rivals.

Angelfrost:
That 3rd goal wey Ref dey block don finally show.

It's game over!


This is proper football!

Not a certain team losing to another that got red carded early in the game.

Fergie001
Kyase
Dfrost
Ray07
Kalulu44
Nazgul

Barca is an embarrassment

I don’t drink those roadside drinks, cos I don’t trust how they’re made. The water they use is questionable, the bottles are usually picked from trash piles and road gutters, and many of them don’t even own refrigerators. They just buy ice blocks to keep everything cold temporarily.

So you can imagine what happens to the ones they don’t sell. Once the ice melts and there’s no refrigeration, that drink is already on its way to spoiling. No way I’m risking my health on that.

I honestly love zobo though. I used to have a babe back then who made it for me, and hers was the only one I trusted cos she makes it right in my kitchen. But ever since she and her family relocated to the East, I just stopped drinking zobo entirely.

As for kunu, I've never tasted it in my entire life.

Arizoner:
whats your thoughts on urgent 2k gals

My thoughts on them are simple...they're not looking for relationships, they’re looking for sponsors. Their entire strategy is built around finding the next person to bill. It’s never about love, connection, effort, or reciprocity.

If every conversation you have with a girl somehow ends with a soft joke about money, a coded hint, or a direct request, just know that you’re dealing with someone who has turned begging into a lifestyle. And once you start giving, she'll see you as an ATM she can shake anytime things are tight.

Any lady who bills you constantly without shame has shown you exactly who she is. The best thing you can do is step back and let her find someone else to fund that behaviour.

That guy clearly has a passion for teaching.

One practical way to understand a girl's intentions when planning a date is to suggest a simple, reasonably priced restaurant first. If she immediately rejects an affordable place and insists on a much more expensive spot, without offering to cover her own bill, it's clearly a sign that she's more interested in the cost of the outing than the actual connection.

It’s usually better to walk away from situations like that. Anyone who genuinely wants to meet you won’t make the location about your wallet.

july21st:
Ok. I see. Do you listen to any online stations?

Back then, I used to listen to Radio Biafra before it was shut down, and the live streams consistently pulled in hundreds of thousands of listeners.

That’s why I said earlier, if your content is solid, people will always show up. At the end of the day, audience growth is driven by the quality of what you put out. Content is everything.

All Tinubu’s online supporters seem focused on celebrating Nnamdi Kanu’s conviction and trolling Peter Obi. You’ll hardly ever see them hold their own principal accountable for the serious failures happening under his administration.

This constant deflection is part of why the country keeps sinking. Instead of facing reality, they turn every national issue into a tribal or political battle.

Nigeria deserves better.

Frigga13:
This is what a Yoruba man from their ritualistic enclave is trying to raise


And the mods and bots will leave this

Only if igbos know how deep the hatred from this Yoruba people runs

Haba!

Yoruba make Una rest..

Una too Dey hate and envy

They don’t marry for love and so what?

Yoruba wey Dey use their wives and parent for rituals Dey talk love

Imagine


Very careless and useless

Relax. Vivian is actually an Igbo lady. I know her very well on Twitter. If you follow her you'd see how clearly she tells anyone who cares to listen that she's of Igbo origin

It's profitable provided you have good content.

GloriousGbola:
Yes a salary is a right - but the fact of the matter is a lot of bosses do not always meet their obligations and as a naija mater, there is nothing you can do about it.

my first job - my salary was i think 15 or 23k per month and it was always in trickles. we never got the salary in full.

one time my old employer a proper corp had serious cash flow issues and we were all collecting half salary for months

i am an employer today and i have clients who owe us big money for months on end. we don't cascade the same down to our team.

as a naija matter if i choose not to pay you your salary as at when due - there is really not that much you can do if you are not a person of means to begin with

I get what you’re saying, and you’re right that in Nigeria many employers don’t meet their obligations. Delays, half pay, trickles, the whole thing. Workers often have no real leverage, and that’s the sad reality of our system.

But that’s exactly why people shouldn’t start treating salary like a favour.

The fact that a boss can decide not to pay doesn’t turn salary into a privilege, it only shows how broken the system is. Your experience reflects this, but it also proves the point, dysfunction shouldn’t become the standard.

And the fact that you, as an employer, don’t pass your cash flow issues down to your staff shows you understand that professionalism is your responsibility, not a gift to them.

So yes, Nigeria is tough. But tough conditions don’t change this simple truth:

Salary is earned. Salary is a right. Not a favour.

janeedema:
I totally get your thought.

However this is about an individual’s wiring or mindset.

I’m sure with your mindset, you would also have an issue in saying Thabk you tö those who are in your employ or offer you service— like artisans, drivers, cleaners, etc.

Saying Thabk you doesn’t make you less nor does it mean the person is your source, it simply tells more about the state of your heart— one filled with gratitude and not taking anything for granted.

I thank drivers, artisans, vendors who work for me even after paying them. It is me placing value on their services and letting them know they are appreciated.

I worked with a woman some years ago whom I always thanked after she sends me a very meager sum. That little act I believe was why she didn’t find my replacement even though I wasn’t indispensable.

I am wired tö thabk people for everything— little or big. If they get prideful over it, it reveals their state of heart to them, and it is hardly my issue.

My own role is to spread positivity with every opportunity I am given.

There are lots of competent people who can take up any job I am offering, rhat the employer gave me a chance, is him/her choosing to patronize me above others and that deserves my Thabk you.

As I Thabk God for helping me stay engaged and not being jobless, I also remember the channel He chose to bless me through. Again, it doesn’t make me less, it simply shows me the state of my heart.

And I am fine with it.

Everyone should stay with what works for them. There are no rules tö this.

I understand your perspective, and I respect that gratitude is something you practice intentionally. But let me clarify something important. This not an issue of mindset, it’s an issue of context.

You said someone with my mindset would also struggle to say thank you to drivers, artisans, cleaners, and others who offer services. Well, you're absolutely wrong.

There’s a clear difference between basic human courtesy and feeling obliged to thank an employer for releasing the salary you already earned.

When I thank an artisan or driver after paying them, it’s because they delivered their service and I’m acknowledging it out of politeness. But thanking an employer for paying me salary is different because....

Salary isn’t a favour. It’s an exchange. You offer skill, time, stress, commitment, and execution.
They offer money in return. Both parties benefit. Neither is doing charity.

So it’s not about being wired wrongly. It’s about recognizing the power dynamics involved.
A boss giving salary is not choosing to patronize you, it’s entering into a contractual agreement that both sides have agreed to. Your value is what keeps you employed, not just their benevolence.

Your personal example about thanking a boss for sending a small amount is valid for you, because it worked in your specific situation. But such should not be regarded a general principle.

Gratitude is good. But feeling indebted for your own labour is not.

Also, not everyone who believes salary is a right lacks gratitude. Some of us simply understand that appreciating your job is different from acting like you’re being blessed with something you worked for.

So yes everyone should stick with what works for them. But we should also admit that a lot of Nigerians (yourself included) have been conditioned to see their basic rights as privileges. Sadly, that’s why this conversation even exists.

Thanking your boss for paying you for services you rendered seems awkward to me.

Your salary is not a gift. It’s not charity. It’s not a personal favour. You showed up for 30 days, dealing with stress, deadlines, pressure, sickness, unexpected tasks...etc, and all the wahala that comes with the job. Yet you still gave your best to keep the company moving. That is value. And value deserves compensation.

Sadly, a lot of Nigerians have been conditioned to see basic their rights as privileges. So instead of standing confidently on the fact that you earned your pay, they act like the boss did them a special favour by releasing the salary they already worked for.

Yes, you can be respectful, professional, and appreciative of good working conditions, but collecting your salary is not something you should feel indebted for. You’re not being blessed, you’re being paid what you deserve.

It’s time people started valuing their effort and understanding that compensation is a Right, not a privilege.

fergie001:
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If Liverpool make top 10 this season it would be a miracle.

This is pathetic. I just don’t understand why some Nigerian ladies behave like this.

This guy literally risked his life to steal indomie for them, and they couldn’t even spare a thought for his safety by visiting him in jail. What if he got shot or got bitten by dogs during the act?

It's hightime these ladies stop acting heartless and start showing some concern for indomie thieves.

Justice for the indomie thief.

If at 25 to 35, you still have no idea what niche to focus on, you've already failed in life.

Confusion at that age is a sign that you’ve been moving without direction, letting life push you instead of taking control.

By that age you ought to have enough experience, exposure, and self awareness to at least know where you’re headed. Drifting into your 30s with no focus is negligence. Life won’t wait for you to figure it out at your own pace. Cos before you blink you're already in your 50s, wretched and depressed.

The interior doesn't look like a 319L freezer.

But who am I to judge. After all I'm not buying it.

When you keep integrating so called repentant Boko Haram members into the military, what exactly do you expect?

The security system becomes compromised from within. You can’t bring people who once operated as insurgents into sensitive positions within the military and not expect leaks. It’s only natural that some will still have loyalties outside the uniform and feed intelligence to their old networks.

Our military is struggling partly because there are insiders working against the system. Once you have spies embedded in the ranks, the entire structure becomes vulnerable.

This is the reality we’re facing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWHx6zodyDc?si=etHuxaZ1YHldkAOb


25 school girls kidnapped, a Brigadier General killed, yet the President has not addressed the nation. The silence alone speaks volumes.

Watch this (old) video and look closely at how a senior military officer, someone who has buried countless soldiers was reduced to begging terrorists to repent, even going as far as telling them they could become president if the lay down their arms. Meaning he's indirectly saying that they won't be tried in court, to pay for the atrocities they committed once they repent.

That clip isn't just embarrassing, it reveals the depth of the rot within the system.

When you observe how these terrorists continue to advance, kill, and terrorize innocent citizens with little to no resistance, it becomes painfully clear that something is fundamentally wrong. Our military seems compromised, unprepared, or completely unwilling to confront this menace head-on.

At this point, anyone still pretending everything is under control is simply deceiving themselves. The signs are in front of us.