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Winneygirl: All d guys here scrutinizing d Lady's list, we will soon turn d tables.

Get ready to post Ur list soon.

Ladies, let's get ready 4 some serious scrutiny....

DailyNews, nbright...I'm giving you a heads-up....

fellis: Not every girl likes money and fame. It is possible that she has no regrets for leaving him.

chichi254: tnx bright. I agree wit u dt love is meant 2 be nurtured 4 it 2 grow but what if there is no seed/plant of love at all, wat then is 2 be nurtured?

chichi254: Hi preties. I woke up 2day feelin so depressed n lonely. Wishin 2 have dat special som1 beside me. I keep wonderin y life seems so mysterious n partial 2 me. This has been my feelin lately. I keep wonderin y its only peopl i dislike that show serious interest. Sometimes, i consider settlin 4 one of them hopin that likeness/love may develop wit time. but i'm very scared. Wat if it doesn't? So lonely (sobbing)

carmelion: ^^^
@the bolded part,you should learn the act of moderation by using "some" instead of generalization. I believe you re talking out of experience,you have really been unlucky with the opposite sex.I pray you meet that one person who will change your orientation.

simayanki4real: 3) Spice your relationship every once in a while by giving your man a treat (if you have one) either in a date, romance or whatever he loves.

simayanki4real: 4) Be prayerful in your relationship as most men want dedicated christians as wives.

simayanki4real: 6) Finally, for the influential, mature, educated, & financially stable women (i adore your kind) and while most men (like me) may feel uncomfortable walking up & actually undergoing a special woo-ing process for you; try and put up a smile, be accomodating, be friendly, be social and you JUST MIGHT find a guy who gets you (irrespective of his age).

Hope this helps!

Maya2pretty: u have a history of misunderstandin my posts, I said they r damn too hard and am not used to it, would rather not if there was an option

milychocs: I remember my secondary school days and how I used to see those single, female teachers we called 'aunties"
They mostly were slim, "wicked", and wore too much make up
I would look at them, and wish that they were not unhappy

I would see them chatting and laughing with the male teachers, not so much with the married female teachers, etc
These ladies must have all been between 30 and 40....I always thought they needed men to complete them

Fast forward to this day, I am them, lol...I am a single, working lady in this age bracket, well behaved (most times sha), nice, hard working, and content....usually happy and chatty with guys, and not so much with married female folks (apart from my friends)...had my heart broken once, thoroughly, broke 2 hearts definitely, and 1 possibly, still rolls eyes at the thought of menopause,(maybe cos I have a niece I adore and think of as mine?) and still know I cannot settle for less just so I can belong..(maybe the fact that I earn money, and am older and wiser has also made me maybe too independent/strong

Point is, I wonder what teenage girls like me then see when they look at me? A real, happy, good at her job/life lady? Or
a spinster with too much attempts at trying to be young, pitiable and old, who should get married already or move in to a nursing home!

I wonder sha...

SimplYeahmee: ℓ̊ know say ℓ̊ no holy pass U̶̲̥̅̊. Even if ℓ̊ am no one knows. My disgust is the fact that some pple are simply misquotin d bible and working based on a misconstrued lie.
Shikena.
Crucify me all U̶̲̥̅̊ want, dats just d way ℓ̊ see these things.

DailyNews: Its very much easier for a lady to befriend a guy than for a guy to befriend a lady, so use that as an advantage.

Maya2pretty: ask who out? oxygen or hydrogen? pls b reasonable

eimuhb: Complain??!

missblanche: Not just for you doll...most guys have this crazy orientation about a lady and its so annoying..if a lady is rich,she can't get a man,if she has more than a masters degree..its f..king hard..she's independent and the guys want to take advantage...most of these ladies just want to be loved,that's all they crave for..but our men don't see that..i wonder what it is they see..

Maya2pretty: I wonder what my soul mate is doin that he hasn't found me yet

Maya2pretty: it's ur fundamental human right to believe whatever u want to believe, it's funny how guys feel they understand women better than d women themselves, do u think single female billionaires r happy bein single, y do we have d cases of sugar mummy and sugar son so rampant in our society? no offense but I cant even start to argue, am not in d mood now

Maya2pretty: D 1st reason that makes we women desire a relationship is companionship, no matter d money we acquire, d heights we attain, d children we have, we still need that man that'l look at us wit deep admiration, that we'l run 2 when we r sad, angry and even excited, what of d lonely cold nights (like dis one) being single is depressin sometimes, it hurts when there's no one u have an intimate attachment to, emotionally, physically, psychologically, mentally and what have u. It hurts, alot, sometimes

eimuhb: Because It won't be easy working, schooling, doing chores and taking care of the children. It's either you get a maid (not forgetting the fear of being impregnated by your husband if the maid na girl) or you plead on your husband to help you out with chores (and if the demand should increase, he will tell you you're leaving your responsibility and start keeping late night) or lastly you not working (then your husband might nag about you not contributing to the welfare of the house and threatens you to stop your schooling).
Sefini.....

DailyNews: pls n pls, if u know u dnt want a girl for good, that u just want to satisfy ur randy mood or u just want sex, pls dnt deceive d girl,

DailyNews: Come on guys grow up, sex is nothing if u groom urself well to understand that sex is in fact, nonesense that tarnishes conscience, religion aside, how do u feel after sex? Most guys confess that they feel guilty, empty, angry, rejected, and so many other negative feelings, so y indulge it so randomly with no justifiable reason