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carmelion: ^^^Guys are usually guilty of this,they follow you bumper to bumper like their life depends on you. All of a sudden they stop calling,leaving you in the dark,wondering what went wrong.

What went wrong is that most girls will start to misbehave, some start making frivolous demands... When there guys want to visits them what u hear is "wetin u go bring for me?".. If they call to remind u of their birthday what they will say is "tomorrow na my b'day o, wetin u go buy for me?", etc... Most girls are too demanding... I have this friend that is looking for a girl to marry, he wants someone from his local govt., he was introduced to a beautiful girl in the uni. (Delsu), she came to stay with him, saw his house that he has the cash that was when the problem started... If they go to supermarket to buy stuffs, she will start pointing @ stuffs on the shelves, demanding to be given this and that just like that... The guy was angry but he jusy kept quiet... When the girl left, he just called her and asked her to stop calling him and not to come to his house again..

... Frontpage already... Just 1 post.

My mum did her's today ( 03/03/13)... I did my best for her... I bought her.........

Ivynwa: I mean some humans are so fragile that "rejection" send them into depression.

This is so true... But I don't think I go into depression, I just try to avoid doing that particular thing even with other girls... On fb, I BEGGED a girl for her number, she refused initially, later she started telling me later, later... I stopped asking her.. There is a very high possibility that she will give me if I ask her now but I just can't bring myself to do it again.. (We still chat as good friend's though).

konfessor: she is 31 and single,i hope u guys see one of the problems with some of our ladies; stubbornnes!

You guys are still dating and you say she is single?... Cos nowhere in ur write up did u mentioned that u have left her...

konfessor: my girlfriend is 31 and i am 32 going on 33 in september. we plan on getting married, but i am having secound tots because of some reasons below
1. im anglican and she worships at winners,i have followed her to her church several times but she refused to follow me to my own church.she even went as far as telling me that she will never stepp into my church and that when we have children, our children will follow her to her church and she wont allow me to take them to my own church..now how can we as a family ,every sunday worship at a different church?

I raised this same issue on another thread... Ladies now see it as a must for their husbands/ boy friends/ fiancee's to leave their church and follow them to their's.... Are we not serving the same God?.. You will see a lady after dating a guy for some years the relationship will collapse just because of church matter... I know of a man (though he is late), he is a catholic knight while his wife is a deeper lifer... They lived a happy life, none of their children were in the country then... But the man was assasinated on his way from church.. (this happened @ rumuodara area... Like 4 years ago)..

This pix is simply HILARIOUS .... I pray it doesn't come to this for Naija gals...

Don't like them that much... But they are good when with kids.... If u've watched "despicable me" u will know what this means... "It's so fluffy I'm gonna die"..

fubbyy: very wrong bro, you said many men think with their dick that's to tell you that what those men need Is just 5ex and nothing more

If hot women get married @ any age like you said that means there will be no single hot woman

Come to ph and I will show you hottest single women who's frustrated looking for a husband, dey plenty

True talk... They are many in numbers...

fubbyy: And most of them are rich which chase men away, men are scared of such women, investigate on this matter and you will know better

If u noticed, some of these ladies went after aristos and alhaji's during their youthful stage thinkin that they can get married whenever they want...

bukatyne: Hello, I am a lady. Are you saying if you see a woman you love, is compatiable with you etc and she's 35, you wouldn't marry her because she's 35?

bukatyne.... U insisted on ur guy cooking dishes, should it be always or once in a while (how many days, weeks or months interval?...)

kandiikane: Lmfao! Listen I am very Young, this is the age I should be catching fun and education. I don't need to worry about the fact that I'm single until I clock 25.

Then when u do clock 25 and God forbids it but u still remain single, will u then toast and propose to the guy u truely admire?.

bomly: No disrespect but When you see your papa beat your mama or you see your papa marry 5 wives and your mama just dey there all in the name of marriage or even your society dehumanizes a woman then you cannot be blamed if you then say it's a mans world.

Since I was born and now I am ..............., I have never heard/seen my dad raising his hands on my mum... Never... Violence isn't what I meant by the world being a man's world..

bomly: However there are world where things are operated equally. I nor insult your papa or mama oh I am referring to society no make you nor respond to my post with an insult. Just trying to say what we see and experience shape our minds to a very large extend.

@bolded, don't worry nbright try not get angry by insults or " referring to society" talks... My mama train me well.. So me na ice water... All the same, try ur possible best to leave my parent's out of it...

StateOfMind: If a woman opens a thread today on why
She doesn't need\want to get married, you'd see heaps of insults on that thread, but let a man open a similar thread, he'll receive pats on the back.

Eyahhhh.... Yet they all join beyonce to say they run the world... It's a man's world.. That's the simple truth..

bigx: Isaiah 4:1 Check it

Here is it

DailyNews: And pls am nt siding for guys cos all ladies by default ought to knw that men generally are cunning, most dnt come to u for good; they see women as a reward for their hardwork n for relaxation, majority dnt take relationship too serious until they r ready to marry too bad, but women ought to have known this n preserve themselves

@bolded... U re so right... Nkem Owoh sang a song "love me when I am poor, not when I am rich".. I keep saying this.. Most Nigerian girls love money more than any other thing... They don't believe in starting small... They wanna blow big @ once.. They go for guys with money, they got played, they complain that "all guys are the same"....

DailyNews: Sometimes I wonder- if I were a female, men wud have fought n even compete to marry me. And I mean wonderful men cos even as a male, I am on top of my game

Oga DailyNews na Gay thought be that o.......

Winneygirl: Bros, its hard 2 teach.

A lot of guys get carried away wt wat they see.

Ask a guy 2 look into a lady's eyes and tell U wat he sees. U'll hear....

'She's got lovely eyes....piercing, captivating...I could spend my whole day looking into those beautiful eyes'

Ask a fellow lady, she's likely 2say..

'Erm...her eyes are o.k.....I guess...But when she looks at U, dat look in her eyes tells me she's out 4 Ur money. I hope U haven't emptied Ur account because of her...'

Haven't U noticed how hard it is 4 some 'girlfriends' 2get along wt other female friends of Urs??
D enmity is usually thick.

They knw we will read them and read them well.

@ bolded, girls are there own worst enemies.. Just as we guys can't read the facial expression of a girl or what's on her mind so also girls can't tell what's going on inside a guy's mind...

Kenistry: dont wanna marry a virgin eida cos i feel dey got notin to offer me, most of dem are du.mb, no sense of humour, introverts & boring as deeper life church sermons.

Chairman... Deeperlife sermons are one of the most exciting sermons I have ever listened to... Still listen it on Radio Rivers. Whenever I'm chanced though..

[quote author=huni_naija]Nothing is wrong with marrying a virgin, notin is wrong in marrying a non-virgin...

There are virgins who have done blow up jobs, oral, or from behind and are just trying to hide behind the cloak of "virginity"

What am i trying to say? Virgins or not we are all not perfect and have made mistakes, what should matter is the character of the person and not what's beneath or behind there legs![/quote]Naija gals dey do am anal?.

[quote author=Eye of an Eagle]Nothing is wrong with it infact right now am looking for one to marry! [/quote]one step @ a time... Whichever comes my way, I take as long as she's good...

Da gr8tosyn: I don't subscribe to someone being a serious born again at 34yrs of age because of marriage, when you have flexed and flirt all years back thinking a rich guy somewhere is coming for you, and despising the days of little beginning.

so TRUE..

realdon: What defines the word'less'?

Aiming too high is the genesis of all these problems. Ladies tends tend to b materialistic than realistic.

May God help us all

And may God bless u a thousand fold for this comment of yours... Amen.

DailyNews: and pls remember the watch word- NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE.

I remember a gospel song I loved back then (I've forgotten it but when I quoted this comment of urs, I just remembered it again)... It's titled "O test and see"... You are saying no sex till after marriage, what if a guy decieded to do just that then when he want's to consumate the union he finds out that he's just like a straw in a coke bottle?... No friction, she's as wide as a saclux paint.... (him don fall mugu to for better or for worse na).. Or if the lady has a high libido and the guy can't go more than 1 or can't last up to 1 min (Missy Elliot 1 min man).. To me (unless maybe I born again)... My watchword and hit track is O test and see ... Let me quote this portion of the Bible... " Be ye as wise as a serpent"...

DailyNews: And even if their story of how they helped a guy become Aliko Dangote and he later dumped them for a younger girl is true.

Most girls brag to hell.. A guy can't just dump someone that helped him achieved something in life without no just cause, the lady in question might have insulted him just because she's the bread winner in the relationship... Stories abounds like that... Most girls lack that spirit of humbleness in their life... Some girls might innocently tell a friend a secret (na me dey feed my guy, buy cloths for am) that friend will tell another friend and that's hw the "secret" will be circulated untill it get's to the guy... How do u think he will feel?.. The guy will just deciede to play along untill he gets what he want's then it's to ur tent o Israel...

[quote author=Okija_juju]You remember that matter abi?[/quote]Yes o... Like yesterday sef... I know the guy wella...

[quote author=Okija_juju]My take on this;

He was most likely a cult member.

This hit was definitely carried out by a rival gang as retribution for a sin he must have committed in the past.

I am surprised that he wasn't packing a gun himself as most marked men do.

Final year cult members who have a history are more likely to be killed.


Reminds me of a case in Rivers State years back when a final year student was killed immediately after he finished his defence. He had anticipated it and had stationed his crew around the hall, but the guys who came for him where hellbent on closing his file that day.. Got hit in the leg with a pump action and then was slowly and painstakingly hacked to pieces.



MORAL LESSON: The wages of sin is surely death.. There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof is destruction. [/quote]The guy was an Ibo guy... He was into aluminium windows (G.M.P)... He was staying @ woji then...

some people dope inside there too

Cutejay: I have something to share but that will be later.

I have one I have been fighting with myself not to share but I really want to share it.. Maybe when I win, I will share here..

I noticed this behaviour in "most" ladies... Why is it that when "most" of these girls are either dating a guy or married to the guy they will want (by FIRE or by FORCE) the guy to start attending the same church with her?... Isn't it the same God that we are worshipping?... Isn't it through the same way (Jesus) we serve him?.. Why can't they (girls) leave their church and start attending the church that their guy/fiancee/husband attends?...

DailyNews: to the extent the guy went and registered her for WAEC/NECO and have already hired a machinery to seat for her by May/June.

DailyNews: Now you may ask how she met the guy? Long story, but she met the guy some time last year when she was still working and she agreed to date the guy but refused blatantly to sleep with him saying its against her religion and will,

She seem to be a very dedicated Christian too, and well principled,

She isn't a dedicated Christian... If she is, why would she allow someone to write her exams for her?. I know of people that will say I'll rather fail and read harder next time than to cheat... U all should forgive me o... My mum taught me to always ask questions and not be gullible..