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RomanceRe: Dating Before Getting Engaged: How Long? by nbright: 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2013
[quote author=huni_naija]Who told you? Must the man be the one to do everything?? Keep on deceiving yourself.[/quote]Tell am o...
RomanceRe: Dating Before Getting Engaged: How Long? by nbright: 4:09pm On Mar 21, 2013
chubysoft1: That's very wrong girl. A guy ought to propose to the girl. Not the other way round, okay!
As for me, it's roughly 2yrs. After my NYSC next year I'll propose to her.
@bolded... I disagree with you..
RomanceRe: Dating Before Getting Engaged: How Long? by nbright: 3:38pm On Mar 21, 2013
jam04: Lie! Lie!! Lie!!! As at the last time I checked, you said you have a BF. And this was on your last post in here:

www.nairaland.com/1188848/boss/1
hahahahaha busted!.. I saw your post were you said you have a boyfriend and hera you are on this thread saying you got married last year.. Na wa o..


nikkypearl: Thanks @ all..but the man is turning to something else,he can't even talk to a client unless am there with him in his office..@Acidosis..of course I have a boyfriend!
That's her post
CareerRe: Which Would You Prefer To Work With, A Male Or A Female Boss? by nbright: 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2013
Dorcas Karuana: Men are easy to work with and will not carry around something wrong you did months ago. to the present. They are sensitive and understanding.
Thank God o.... After some girls will say men are not sensitive and understanding...
RomanceRe: Advise From Ladies Only by nbright: 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2013
peacemaker27: don't get it twisted,we have engaged already but not that ok financially because of the situation in d country now.i neva had s3x with her without protective b4 but i did dat just to save situation of a thing because i was about to lose her .
Then be happy if she's pregnant cos you ain't gonna loose her anymore.... She will be yours to have..
RomanceRe: Advise From Ladies Only by nbright: 3:20pm On Mar 21, 2013
DOUBLE POST
RomanceRe: How To Find Out If Your Bf Is Cheating by nbright: 3:18pm On Mar 21, 2013
Unfortunately for you and fortunately for him we don't have P.I's in Nigeria capable of trailing someone unnoticed..
RomanceRe: Advise From Ladies Only by nbright: 2:54pm On Mar 21, 2013
peacemaker27: i had fun with my girl last week Friday and she was expecting her period this week Monday/tuesday....means she has missed her period;could it be am the one responsible for the stuff? Telling me that i impregnated her when d s3x we both enjoyed not up to a week.
So you had unprotected sex now you are scared and you want us to give you ways of denying your responsibility.
HealthRe: Dangers Of Taking Codine Cough Syrup By Mi Abaga by nbright: 2:13pm On Mar 21, 2013
xtrafly: what about the gains of taking sizzurp? I'm sure they take it for a reason grin
As if M.I doesn't dope.... Dope has it's own side effects too.
HealthRe: Dangers Of Taking Codine Cough Syrup By Mi Abaga by nbright: 2:09pm On Mar 21, 2013
This past Christmas, I saw guys mixed 3 bottles of codeine, hollandia milk and vodka together in a big jug... They called it "super slow"... It was kind of frightening and at the same time funny to see them downing it as if they were drinking shai'e..
FamilyRe: Were You Threatened With Ojuju Calabar Story? by nbright: 1:39pm On Mar 21, 2013
Ojuju calabar, willy willy, ayamatanga, ekpo
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 12:02pm On Mar 21, 2013
bukatyne: Hi, how is your day going?

She shouldn't do so because she can't hide it for life. Else the guy will feel lied to or deceived if he later finds out and this leads to hatred which kills a relationship.

Sorry I am taking this thread backwards.
Gbam..
CrimeRe: Wife Poisons, Stabs Husband To Death Over Second Wife by nbright: 3:22pm On Mar 20, 2013
rezzy: This man caused his own death, he shouldnt have dared to think of bringing the other lady into their home. RIP
He did a very wrong thing.... He shouldn't have argued it with the wife after her objection... But the woman is very strong hearted.... Poison plus stabbing.. Double major
RomanceRe: Interesting Marriage Proposals And Fails? by nbright: 10:39am On Mar 20, 2013
patholaw: No time 2 propose oh...na 2 give her belle den she park cum dey live with u...na marriage be dat oh...
so the toasting na im be the proposal?.
EducationRe: 2012/2013 Uniport Post-utme Updates by nbright: 3:12am On Mar 20, 2013
otokx: Hope you guys are enjoying the unique & expensive university.
Very expensive
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 2:25am On Mar 20, 2013
alutacontinua: Pls, is it possible that nbright is the guy in question herehuh
Why is he really dragging this issuehuh
Haha! let it go jor....wetin
No na, it's not like that. You girls look for qualities in a guy, these are mainly qualities that he has no control over, like his height, complexion and handsomeness now why can't a brother also look for qualities that he wants in a girl?...
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 2:05am On Mar 20, 2013
madridsta007: I've noticed those who are calling you otherwise do not have pictures up- perhaps trying to hide how they look.
You noticed that "those" who are calling her otherwise?. What are "they" calling her?, to the best of my knowledge, I have never called any female/male poster here names... I try my best to avoid any confrontation with people on nairaland, I will rather stop being an active contributor on the thread... Arguements are good as long as it is constructive and devoid of curses..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 1:54am On Mar 20, 2013
temi4fash: dats ur perception....
Its all abt preference....
@nbright....
I hail ooo
Chairman I hail too..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 1:51am On Mar 20, 2013
missblanche: @nbright: how would you feel if i told you that you have ugly short fingers or that your teeth are ugly or maybe you have an ugly face...Believe me,there are other ways of passing my message across without hurting the next person..
If I know that I don't posesse that, why would I be angry?. There was a time carmy said that maybe I am "fair and short" that's why I was saying something, me knowing that I am neither "fair nor short" didn't get angry or disoriented... If you know your forehead is normal, just ignore him and move on..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 1:41am On Mar 20, 2013
carmelion: And you believed that his reasons are genuine?.Well I don't know how long they have known each other,but I believe no one has a detachable forhead. Meaning,he saw it the firstday he walked up to her and asked for her phone numbe cos she did not leave it at home.

Besides foreheads do not increase or reduce in size,so its not like he does not like the size anymore.

*I wonder why am even following this topic,cos am yet to see the forehead*

@Missblanche,please I hope you guys didn't.......?By the way,please don't go close to such 'child' again.*sighs*
Hmmmm... Carmy, I am actually suprised you wrote the words that are in bold.. Don't you know that there are styles of weavons/wigs that cover the forehead?... Maybe she was wearing that kind of style when he approached her for the first time, but when he noticed the said foerhead, he might have started looking for another excuses to leave her but since there was none, he had to tell her..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 8:46pm On Mar 19, 2013
biolabee: Note wat i said its not ideal but u dont destroy a girl becuase you found a physical flaw unappealing
Just my own sha

If she's not good enuff for you, leave her and move on
If you just leave her and move on, she will either tag you a player or that left her without telling her what went wrong between you two... Don't you know that girls are very inquisitive by nature?, so it's better he told her the reason why he took that action rather than to keep her wondering what went wrong between them... It's obvious that she's over him with what she posted earlier... "to hell with him" I believe that was how she put it..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 7:21pm On Mar 19, 2013
missblanche: i really don't know why some guys would settle for catfish rather than caviar?whatever suits you...
it all depends on taste... That's how it is with the female folks too.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright:
biolabee: dude i have nothing against you

if i dont like a girl because of a physical xteristic (you know how ladies are touchy on this subject), its best you avoid mentioning this
Sorry it sounds dishonest and moreover its actually quite shallow

I know ladies can be ver shallow but a man has to show he is the man
The one he dey meet for front no get bowlegs but hin get wor wor teeth
ish
even if he pretends?.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 5:12pm On Mar 19, 2013
carmelion: He did exactly the bolded,that was exactly what he did.He left without an explanation.
In fact he never came in.He just felt like saying something.
Carmy check her post again.... He sent her an sms telling her why it couldn't work out between both of them... Now he might be right or wrong, but to each his own.. They say unease lies the head that wears the cap/crown and he who wears the shoes knows where it ....... Help me out there.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 5:03pm On Mar 19, 2013
maddiii2586: Hi to all..
A lkady can single but she become complete you.....
+255 unlikes
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 5:02pm On Mar 19, 2013
biolabee: dude .. not cool

Misswhite..once again, pls ignore such crass comments
thank you.. I believe this isn't the first time you've said such to me..
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2013
carmelion: No sensible lady,would tell a guy the real reason why she left especially if it is something beyond his control like stammering,k-legged.e.t.c
We all aren't gonna think alike, that's how life is, that's how it has been and that's how it's gonna be... I still ask if she'd have prefer he leave without an explanation?.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 3:53pm On Mar 19, 2013
alutacontinua: @nbright, i'm a VERY BLUNT person too and I know all about trying to say your mind the way it is...[s]my post history on this thread can attest to that[/s] sad sad but telling a lady who probably has feelings for you that you cannot date her or marry her because of the shape of her forehead is DAMN RUDE AND INSENSITIVE! The fact that you do something doesn't make it right, most especially in this case, it's not fair on the other party! He could have been a little nice about it.
Thank God o.... So you ladies don't know how that's how guys feel when a lady will tell them that they are not up to their level?, when ladies shun a guy because he is "short, k-legged, fat,stammers etc".... How do you suggest he should have communicated to her how he feels about her fore head?. If he put it another way that's lieing and "most" guys don't like doing that.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 2:58pm On Mar 19, 2013
ichidodo: What right does he have to CASTIGATE anybody, can he create a mosquito not to talk of a human-being,create he cannot do, the sweet one God created, he wants to use his mouth to destroy it. If you don't like an item, why don't you quietly move along instead of 'casting' it. The other lady in question did not do so bad, at least she listed out her heart's desire and the last time i checked everyone is entitled to one no matter how far-fetched it is, if you don't fall in you quietly fall out instead of casting and drawing bad blood. cool
Fine, then the dude in question is also entitled to his opinion no matter how far fetched it might be too... If he hadn't sent her that sms she might have come online to say he left me without telling me why or without a reason. Now that he was not that bold enough to tell her facially but had to send her an sms you are criticising him.
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 2:50pm On Mar 19, 2013
JudgeDredd: One thing I seem to have learnt about ladies is that, your words must come in silky form, even if you're trying to tell her she doesn't meet certain criteria. You had better project it as diplomatically as possible.

Btw, the guy sef for no go that far naa! If she nor meet ur requirement why not simply ignore, why send her PM to start with?

Anyways, make we continue our parole. . . back to stealth mode! tongue
I know... But guy I can't help it that much. I don't know how to put it in a "silky" way, I feel it's pretence on my part and I hate pretence when it has to do with the emotion of a person...
RomanceRe: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by nbright: 2:21pm On Mar 19, 2013
missblanche: Why are some guys just useless?
All he did was send me a msg saying "joanna,you are beautiful but your forehead spoilt everything"
F**king troll..dear lord!!!my forehead!!what's wrong with my forehead?for the love of God...*whew*
All he was thinking about was my head..
He is not useless, he is perfectly normal. Just because he said your forhead spoilt everything doesn't make him useless.... When a lady poster dropped the qualities and characteristics she wanted in her man did anybody tagged her useless?, maybe you didn't match all the guy is looking for in a woman just as most guys come short of what a woman is looking/expecting for in their man..

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