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Smartie gurl: lolz! Long time dear, school thngs i presume.

Yes...

carmelion: @nbright,your post about forgiveness.Weird

but that is how I see it...

Smartie gurl: huh? Bright ar you denying our 3years relationship? #dnt be scared#Lollzzz!! Whats good dear?

Smartie gurl... I am fine.. 3 years ke?.... It would have been...

carmelion: @nbright.*smh*You never cease to amaze me..

Carmy, what did I do that you are shaking ur hand at me for?.

Afam4eva: [size=14pt]I was surprised when she couldn't extend the same treatment to Jonathan when she was invited as one of his interviewers.[/size]

Wow... Afam you of all people shouldn't have been suprised at that na... This is Africa and some people still respect their elders even if others tend to see only the wrong in their doings.... (No be mock I mock you o)

everything has it's expiring date... It will soon fizzle out.

@dailynews, I did comment maybe someone or something stylishly hid it... Here is it again.

DailyNews: Above everything, I want to advice everyone reading this to strive daily to practice these:

- honesty
- openness
- friendliness
- humility
- forgiveness
- patience
- tolerance
- respect

And lastly, strive to LOVE people no matter how u feel about them. I am using this medium to ask u people to join me in saying a big THANK YOU to God for His several grace, blessings and unmerited favours in my life, even today, God showed me that He is God, join me in thanking Him, and pls forgive my going off point a bit, just overjoyed

Forgiveness is a sin... I am not Jesus Christ
that I should be giving out scarce
resources (forgiveness) freely... I believe
that if I'm offended and I forgive, it will
give others more reason to offend me
knowing that I will still forgive them again
and again... I so much believe in the
Mosaic law of an eye for an eye...

Iceslizer: Is it a good idea to remove my battery permanently and use the direct power source, since I use my laptop mostly at home?

I won't try it... With this phcn and their wahala you will now expect me to plug my system direct to a power source without battery!.... Na lie o...

adaobi123: my laptop battery is shyte ! it doesnt work anymore......the charger has to be in the laptop whenever i use it, so that the laptop can stay on

congrats... You are now a proud owner of a desktop... Na play o

Mine gave me problems after a year and some months of purchase... (HP) I am saving some money to buy a brand new battery rather than go for an "acid recharge" (whatever that means)..

DailyNews: Above everything, I want to advice everyone reading this to strive daily to practice these:

- honesty
- openness
- friendliness
- humility
- forgiveness
- patience
- tolerance
- respect

Forgiveness is a sin... I am not Jesus Christ that I should be giving out scarce resources (forgiveness) freely... I believe that if I'm offended and I forgive, it will give others more reason to offend me knowing that I will still forgive them again and again... I so much believe in the Mosaic law of an eye for an eye...

carmelion: Meanwhile something happened today in the office .I wont really go into details.Maybe am just the one feeling this way.

But i just don't like the way some women,talk to their male counterpart.I mean there are a thousand and one ways to drive home your point without bruising a man's ego.You need to see the way this colleague of mine commands/abuses the male subordinates. It is really an ear/eye sore to me.

The worst is those women that goes ahead to slap a man,just because you are higher than him in the work place? jeeeeeez!THAT IS SO UNLADYLIKE.

To the ladies,please let's learn to control our temper.I understand that sometimes,our hormones takes a better control of us but the ability to control it makes us a full woman.

This is weired... Same thing happened in my prescence in school on thursday... This one was between a girl and her bf, you need to see the way she treats the guy... It happened in our faculty... Whenever the boy friend tries to help her out with anything she will just shout at the guy to stop, she sends the guy to go and photocopy some documents for her "baby go and photocopy these ones for me", the olodo go run go.. It's not as if the girl is that pretty or tall... (maybe she's a wildcat on a bed).... (or she's the money bag in the relationship).. I was so embarrased/angry that I had to stop helping her before I said something to her that will make her to order her "baby" to deal with me.... Most girls are just too arrogant.. @ carmy, u said mayb I've had my heart broken before by a girl.. I want to use his opportunity to tell you that I have NEVER EVER been in a relationship before.... But that doesn't mean that I am a green horn when it comes to some matters of the heart...

carmelion: lol ,was that the only thing you saw there?eh, this man

Not yet a man.... Still a boy..

carmelion: Until then,dolls be strong, keep your heads up like your nose is bleeding. Goodmorning(((group hug))))

You girls will be exposing your throats...

vivacious vivi: I sing wella under d shower. Its one of the only times I can really let my voice go without odd stares from pals or passerby. My fave is usually any Christina Aguilerra songs.

You just reminded me of Christina Aguilera...

I do but not always and it's mostly blues and R&B....

I remember when I dey zaria, one Akwa Ibom girl celebrate her b'day so our compound boys (6 of us) pack go the venue, we drink and dance till 11 p.m then go house.... I just crash till morningg, when I wake up around 6 a.m to go piss for bathroom I see vomit everywhere (beans) and na 5 of us eat beans before we go the bash... I no throw up for nite when I ask the remaining 4 wey sleep for the same room all of them start to deny (3 na Lagos boys 1 na warri and them be regular dope men)...

Doncolio: Do u do lady things? If your answer is no. Let the ladies be. Profer advice if you can but don't trivialize their pains by acting like u know it all. Ladies know how best to give a fellow lady advice coz dey all look from the same side of the mirror(I.e they knw where the shoe hurts).
If you really understood what carmelion is saying, you wouldn't have replied with such a comment.
But like I said, if you wanted to counsel the ladies, do so without acting like you know them more than themselves. Or open a new thread for them. No offence intended.

That's what I also noticed... Might soon do like my friend smartie gurl and be a VERY SILENT FOLLOWER .

missblanche: @ carmelion:thanks barbie i love gowns,especially the long ones and i'm so used to not exposing my legs cus they are slightly bow and i'm skinny so i do jeans all the freaking time but i think that i would get some gowns ..thanks a lot

Avoide wearing leggings....

Smartie gurl: I have being a silent follower of this thread and i must confess to have learnt a lot here, from both the dolls nd gents!! Thanks to you all.

Very SILENT

Idowuogbo: Lmao! Merit? U go sabi how to yab and fight wella.

Just teasing... It basically highlights d importance of getting dat education. Get dat Benjamin bebe! It's all about villas in palm beach.

Merits:.. 1). Sharp/witty retorts (2) Street Wiseness (3) Socialization either positive or negative (4) First hand knowledge of different customs and beliefs, (5) Rugged/Toughness (6)..... Make una add

Idowuogbo: dats my MIL

So you are married?.. Interesting... Well, congrats and happy married life to you..

Idowuogbo: U no remember me? Kafayat wey dey pour u fish water.

The only Yoruba woman I remember then na Mama Bose, them dey attend Cherubim Church... Na you b that?.

Na wa o.... Since June 2012 till 12th of March 2013 not a single comment.... @op ur question hard pass jamb own o... Make I comment so that e no go b like say people no know am.... Me no know the name of the architect o, neither do I know when it come into being...

I remember when I was staying in one.... The men were kinda united it was the women that always cause troubles... During one of their fights, a woman from Ndoni poured pepper that she mixed with water in anticipation of the fight on another lady... Looking back, I am kinda glad I experienced that stage...

Shollypopz: LoL...never had a reason to live in one. The electricity bill story is freaking hilarious though. That must suck!

I would freak out too if I don't have light just because some dude can't pay his bills. Tell us more! Did you have an affair with any of your neighbors? We want dirt, juicy gist.

Girls... Always wanting to hear dirty gists from guys but they hide theirs... Are u gals James Bond?, do u work with the S.S.S?....

alutacontinua: me keh....no be me oo....nah taio luv ask qweshon...me, i just gave answer.
@taiodoll, ova to u, answer d qweshon!

sorry... I saw the mistake too and I thought I had modified it... My bad.

@taio luv, did he ask your friend to convert?, or did your friend ask him to convert?.... Why I'm asking is that b4 most muslim marry someone that doesn't practice the same religion with him/her, they will ask them to convert b4 the wedding nikkah could be performed...

DailyNews: Agreed, Nigerian ladies, most, love money and material wealth, but that seems to be d nature of women in general except in western world where poverty is not high which makes their women not to be as desperate for money and material things like our own women.

Go to Northern Nigeria... There, girls are not that desperate for material things... I have seen ladies marrying into a family that the husband still stays with his parents... I believe it's more of a cultural thing to us and our girls easily imbibe the things they read and see...

DailyNews: I always blame the past leaders and present politicians for impoverishing Nigerians such that one must indulge in immoral things to feed thrice a day, a female student must sleep around to meet her basic needs and what have u.

Why can't they be contended with what they have?, why can't they make do with what their parents or guardian give to them?... Just because they see their peers having bb and stuffs they will do anything to get same in other to be considered as a happening babe... You will see a girl that in their family house they don't have a plasma tv but in school she's staying in a well furnished self contain apartment, has a bb porsche, changes her wardrobe every three weeks, travel out of the state every weekends, etc. In my school (uniport) boys do come to school with different electronics but I have disciplined myself not to own even a bb while I am in school... If I was the type that crave for it, I might have done something bad in other for me to own it...

PointB: A very weighty allegation. Government over to you!

As usual they will blame Goodluck Jonathan and P.D.P... Just wait and see.... They do it like shifting cultivation, the only difference is they do put the blame on a particular group of individuals... Edited

All these "SPARKS" in this thread is frightening... Is it electric spark, spark plug, sparkling water, or what?.... Where is maya that brought it up?.. Let her come and clear the air around this her "SPARK".

carmelion: My dear ,a lot could go wrong in just one minute.Have you seen a marriage without a problem.Personally I have not.Some couples let everyone know that they have a problem, while the matured ones scale through it silently without the world laughing at them. We all might not be on the same page about this(we must not be),but i just want single ladies to know that marriage is not usually what some of us fantasize about.You have to be emotionally matured to carry on.

@bolded... That's my mum for you, some married women will start calling their husband's people (in-laws), shouting here and there letting every persons and anybody know what's wrong, but my mum hardly talk about it... It got to an extend that my dad became cautious (cos she's always quiet) that he stopped doing some things he thinks she doesn't approve of..

Ladies, if you are the nagging kind, please try to tune it down low, if u complain too much that's a lower version of nagging, when you eventually get married, you will upgrade the complains to nagging..