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NYSC / Re: NYSC Registration: NYSC Set To Begin Batch B 2019 Registration, Mobilization And by Neemcie(f): 8:10pm On May 16, 2019 |
Hello. I did my jamb regularization on 18th april 2019. Then I took the print out to my school as instructed. The person I submitted it to in the Senate building gave me a stamped(from the school's registrar) copy asked me to expect an email from jamb in three weeks but I haven't. I checked my jamb status online and it says "no admission given yet ". Few days ago my school released the Senate list and MY NAME WAS THERE, including my state, martric number, class of degree, and jamb reg number. But yet no email from jamb to confirm the regularization process was effective and no jamb admission letter. I keep checking admission status online and it keeps saying no admission given yet. Meanwhile it's already 16th may and nysc batch B registrations will be commencing soon. Please what do I do? |
Health / Re: 8 Steps To Grow Your Edges Back Within 2 Months! by Neemcie(f): 9:18am On Oct 18, 2016 |
meetmal03:surreal! wow. please. how much. and details of the purchase. thanks! |
Fashion / Re: Help! I'm Transitioning To Natural Hair. Please Advice by Neemcie(f): 6:32pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
udysweet:Nice to have a partner! |
Fashion / Re: Help! I'm Transitioning To Natural Hair. Please Advice by Neemcie(f): 6:30pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
flakeStar:okay, Shea butter. thank you |
Fashion / Re: Help! I'm Transitioning To Natural Hair. Please Advice by Neemcie(f): 12:45pm On Sep 17, 2016 |
flakeStar:wow. six years is quite a long time. please can you let us in on your routine? |
Fashion / Help! I'm Transitioning To Natural Hair. Please Advice by Neemcie(f): 6:19pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
Hello beautiful nairalanders.. My name is Neemah... and I just made a decision that took me exactly a year to resolve. A LOT of ladies are transitioning to Virgin/natural hair from relaxed hair, some call it 'taking a big chop'. and I'm not left out! I've always known myself with a relaxed hair. no thanks to the nature of my stubborn kinky hair and damned delicate scalp, and then, my my loath to making my hair, my mom was forced to relax my hair at a very young age OKAY, LETS CUT TO THE CHASE... The last time I relaxed my hair was in July this year. which means, I already have an inch long "undergrowth". I don't plan on bringing a scissor (or its likes) any close to my hair. I just want the relaxed hair to break off. I've heard of cowashing, conditioning, honey, natural oils, even Indian hemp. and I've read a lot of grammar on blogs. I just need something like a schedule, right amounts of the various natural oils to mix and apply. My hairline is receding too So pleeeease, beautiful people, I need your help. Tips, tricks, advises, sermons, DIYs, anything. just. anything would do. I'd be expecting your apt contributions. Thank y'all!! |
Celebrities / Re: Angela Okorie And Son Stun In Beautiful Photo by Neemcie(f): 4:02pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
vizkiz:that flower pot is just everything! |
Celebrities / Re: PHOTOS: After 3 Kids, Caroline Dajuma Displays FIRM BOOBS by Neemcie(f): 11:52pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
kennygee:sister, calm down kennygee:sister, calm down |
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Looks At Kate Henshaw And Akpororo's Reconciliation Show by Neemcie(f): 11:02pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
prciouschika:Well, I said feet, and not leg |
Food / Re: The Best Curry Powder by Neemcie(f): 2:07pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
[quote author=jennybright post=47366223][/quote] Well fried tomatoes and enough onions should make your stew have a nice aroma Generally, herbs/spices like nutmeg, garlic, ginger, yellow pepper, 'Ghana pepper', should do the magic. even crayfish! |
Jokes Etc / Re: 6 Lies Nigerians Tell When They're Hitting On You by Neemcie(f): 1:57pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Cutehector: oh lord! *facepalm* what is this one saying Now who said anything concerning that? |
Celebrities / Re: Another Pre-wedding Photos Break The Interent by Neemcie(f): 1:35pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Trashy... and their friends are "putting asunder" lol |
Jokes Etc / Re: 6 Lies Nigerians Tell When They're Hitting On You by Neemcie(f): 1:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Cutehector:No. the crime here is this: telling a lie |
Food / Re: The Best Curry Powder by Neemcie(f): 1:26pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Ducros or Tiger. I hardly depend on curry for aroma tho |
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Looks At Kate Henshaw And Akpororo's Reconciliation Show by Neemcie(f): 1:23pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
They'll come and start talking about her feet now... 6 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Son Jamil In New Photos by Neemcie(f): 9:32am On Jun 27, 2016 |
ychris:k |
Fashion / Re: 16 Most Expensive Shoes In The World. by Neemcie(f): 7:36pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
kossyablaze:Thanks hunney. I'm sure surprised |
Forum Games / Re: Game Time - What Can You Buy With The First Letter Of Your Name by Neemcie(f): 7:29pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
Necklace... a diamond Necklace 1 Like
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Romance / Re: Can You Kiss A Nigerian Girl? by Neemcie(f): 7:13pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
"All this food they eat in Nigeria" Nah, op pls go and kiss girls that eat crocs, roaches, frogs, and lizards |
Nairaland / General / Re: Mark Zuckerberg Shares Adorable Photo With His New Born Baby & Wife by Neemcie(f): 7:09pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
Zulash:Lol.. chillax bruv |
Celebrities / Re: 6 Nigerian Celebrities With A Particular Spot For Taking Pictures(photos) by Neemcie(f): 2:21pm On Dec 02, 2015 |
Haaaa OP! you forgot to include mercy aigbe! Mercy Aigbe and her car 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Mustapha Audu Tells His Side Of The Sugabelly Story In Interview With Signalng by Neemcie(f): 4:48pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Toktee:Tsk |
Crime / Re: Mustapha Audu Tells His Side Of The Sugabelly Story In Interview With Signalng by Neemcie(f): 3:59pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Toktee: Bruv, why are you bringing religion into this Its so uncalled for |
Crime / Mustapha Audu Tells His Side Of The Sugabelly Story In Interview With Signalng by Neemcie(f): 3:37pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
The man facing major allegations is speaking out for the first time. Ever since Sugabelly ‘s harrowing story of abuse, rape and manipulation broke, there has been no official word from the other side. In this exclusive interview, Publisher of SIGNAL , Ohimai Amaize and Editor of SIGNAL, Yemi Adebowale which took place in Asokoro, he tells his side of the story. Who is ‘Sugabelly’ to you? Lotanna (Editor’s Note: It is BN’s policy not to reveal names of rape victims unless they waive anonymity which Sugabelly did via her blogpost on the incidents ) as her real name is called, is someone who we were colleagues together while I was serving at an IT firm in Abuja called Alteq. She was a staff at Alteq. We were colleagues for a while and at some point we dated for about two months. I came back to Nigeria in 2006, and it was at Alteq I first met her. I’m not sure how long she had worked there before I came to the company for my NYSC. It was a long time ago. I was about 24 then. We talked like every other person. There was a time she had a party for the office, I thought it was a party for the office but it was her birthday party, her 18th birthday party. It was in March of that year. I didn’t go for it. I usually don’t go to office parties. I had another business. I was working at my company and at the IT firm as well. So one day at the office she came to me and harassed me that I missed her party and I said, oh, don’t worry I will make it up to you. I will take you out for sharwarma and I took her to 212; then they used to sell sharwarma. This was the first time I took her out. There are emails to corroborate this. From then on we started talking. She was a very interesting personality. She is very brilliant and she reads a lot of books. I read a lot of books too and I don’t meet people who read a lot of book. I used to read a lot of fantasy books. All these Game of Thrones people are watching as movies now, I read them as books like ten years ago. Knights of Shallaman, Wheel of Time, Lord of the Rings, Inheritance Cycle, many many books I read years ago and there were very few people who knew these things. She was one of them. She read a lot and she wrote. She was a very brilliant writer; in fact, I think that was why she was working as someone’s secretary at the office. She used to write a lot of letters for the company. Claims have emerged from her that as at January of 2007 I was in a relationship with her and doing all sorts of wicked things to her. Just like now, in December, precisely December 17, 2006, I lost my mum. I was in the UK. I watched my mum die. I loved my mum. I brought her body back to Nigeria, so just like now I was going through a period of grief. So it wasn’t possible all the things she is claiming that I did. I would be mourning. How long did your relationship (affair) with her last? Our relationship lasted like a month and a half. Not even up to two months. I found out she was sleeping with my friends. She slept with a couple of my friends. I discovered and told her about it. She told me she loved me, she wanted to marry me and was madly and deeply in love with me. And I told her it’s not possible, we can’t get married because I am not at the stage where I wanted to be married. And you’ve had something to do with my friends, so the relationship ended. While we were in the relationship, she had told me things about her mum, that she hated her mum, her mum wasn’t there for her and stuff like that. She sent me an email once making reference to her having visions of violent rape the first time that we had something physically. She said she had visions of violent rape from a past memory and that we weren’t close enough for her to tell me the details. On one occasion then when we spoke on the phone, she said I shouldn’t abandon her, and then she told me that her mum’s boyfriend raped her. She said a lot of negative things about her mum. This was part of the reason I didn’t want to release these emails to protect her. But the main reason I am doing this is because I got a call today, someone told me that her friends disclosed that she’s being planning this for while, she is actually writing a book and planning to finish a book, she wants to start an NGO, she wants to appeal to the US government about surviving rape in Africa and she wants to use my family, because of my family’s political name to get traction. I heard she is getting influential people involved, I hear she has involved the lady behind the Bring Back Our Girls campaign, Dr. Oby Ezekwesili. Dr. Ezekwesili reminds me of my mum. She reminds me of someone who should have been my mum and if someone said something about your son, you shouldn’t immediately go to the world and say “Oh, you are this or that.” At least call your son, hear him out. And this is not even about me wanting to say anything to defend myself. Please read the communication between me and this girl. Everytime I sent her a message, it was always about “How are you doing? Hope you are doing okay? Don’t be too nasty in college. But I know you are very smart and you will do well.” Even in the emails, I mentioned that I encouraged her. She even sent me a message on Facebook apologizing for flirting with my friends, how she loves me and I told her, it’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. And now, people are saying I’m such a beast and I’m such a monster. You didn’t even talk to me. You didn’t even ask me… These things are so horrific. What kind of person can actually do these things? Not only did I do that and I did it with my younger brother that was just 15 back then? I did that with my older brother who was about 30 years old then? And this older brother is not my immediate older brother. He is two brothers ahead of me. Then my cousin? Then my friends? Then the Nigeria Police Force? This is such a movie. How is your family reacting to this? Of course it’s very hard. We are mourning. She’s been releasing these this for a while. She’s been doing this for a while but my family has kept quiet all along because we know the truth. Yes, some of my family members are really shaken right now. We are grieving. I have just been orphaned. I loved my dad. My dad is a hero. Anybody from Kogi State knows that. Look at his burial. How many people have received his burial? Look at the whole country? If we were such wicked people, if my dad was a monster, would people react? There was a rumour that my dad had risen. If you saw the people the way they were praying and rejoicing. And now this girl has used this unfortunate incident to capitalize in painting my family as evil… How long have you been married? I have been married for like six years now. I got married December 15, 2009. And that was when my problem with her really started; when she found out I got married. Have you ever raped anyone? Come on, why would I do that? It doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. I can never and will never support such heinous act. Come on! It’s not even a question you ask a normal person. It’s like asking, have you committed murder before? Because it’s such an inhuman thing! And I understand why people would do this and she’s brilliant. Because she knows human beings are emotional and sentimental. Play on their intelligence. Play on the fact that women have been raped before and for us men, we hardly speak up. I am not saying men are angels. I’m not saying I am an angel. But I have never raped anyone in my life before. I am happily married. I have three little daughters. I can’t even imagine it. God! You know what? I am going to step out for those who have been accused falsely. There are a lot of people who have been falsely accused. You know, because of my last name, I am fortunate to have the opportunity to speak up. You see, people don’t even need to hear me speak. Just read the conversation I had with this lady and you can read her blog. It’s just a blog. You can compare the two. In my email conversations with her, you can tell that I have genuine feelings for her and she has genuine feelings for me. We are communicating as human beings. Then you read this blog and it’s something else. In her mails to me, you will read her asking about me, my brothers, my friends, my cousins, telling me how she knows that I’m so hardworking and that I’m a good person. I don’t understand how that translates to a blog that says I was such a terrorist. What do you think she wants from you? It’s fame. It’s simple. Fame. She has skills and in her heart, she’s found out that you know what? My blog isn’t really getting a lot of traction, I’ve been working on this story, I’ve been writing a book, so let me put out this story first. First, she got some Twitter people to put it up, when that didn’t get as much traction, she resorted to this. That was the groundwork for this. Now she has put this on her blog and everybody is going to her blog, she is about to launch a book on surviving rape in Africa; all of this is some sort of elaborate plan to make money and fame to the detriment of someone who hasn’t done anything to her. Whatever it is that’s bothering her, I think her mum should speak to her. Her mum honestly needs to speak to her. Her being in the US and being away might not be the best solution. She should actually have a sit down. What is bothering her? She told me she hates her mum, that her mum’s boyfriend raped her. Let her talk to her mum about that. cc: lalasticlala cc: ishilove SOURCE: www.bellanaija.com/2015/11/28/mustapha-audu-tells-his-side-of-the-sugabelly-story-in-interview-with-signalng/ |
Fashion / Re: Fabulous And Trendy Aso-ebi Styles That Will Keep You Drooling by Neemcie(f): 2:09pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Dmayor7: |
Fashion / Re: Fabulous And Trendy Aso-ebi Styles That Will Keep You Drooling by Neemcie(f): 11:24pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
ok gelewu 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Actress Uche Jombo Shares Cute Photo With Her Son As He Turns 6 Months Old by Neemcie(f): 11:08pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Its 6 months already... adorable |
Crime / Re: Tonyebarcanister Was Totally Wrong In Addressing Sugarbelly's Case by Neemcie(f): 1:37am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Go on |
Romance / Re: Is This Normal Or Is Something Terribly Wrong With Me.... Need Ur Help Guys by Neemcie(f): 1:35am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Dear friend, Go get your girl!!! |
Technology Market / Re: Breast Lifts / Bra - Nude by Neemcie(f): 1:19am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Cutehector:ok hugo |
Health / Re: He As Something Like Boil All Over Is Dick And They Are Itchy by Neemcie(f): 1:05am On Nov 28, 2015 |
could be a wart caused by HPV. see a specialist, and do a lab test |
Crime / Re: # by Neemcie(f): 1:00am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Was she living with her biological parents, before she flew abroad? She was just 17, not yet an adult. she got exposed to the working class life, i.e intern, (without the university exposure and moral lessons) meeting all kinds of people on a daily basis. {okay, that was somewhat okay cos she learned stuff, and earned money for herself.} BUT her curfew! midnight?? for a child?? She was broken, couldn't tell what was happening to her, she had her reasons. BUT Her parents/guardians didn't notice a broken teenager in the home?? for months?? There's more to this than it seems *thinking aloud* |
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