₦airaland Forum

@ jamesbona,

It is men like you who use their wives as girlfriend and vice versa. listen and listen Good.you should not joke with what you have . you better give your love back to her in return, be open to her always. Mbaise ladies love men who are "REAL MEN" NOT " MMANYI SI" . They are hardworking, protect their husband anytime as far as they are in love. Give them room to express themselves and dont take them for granted.

Morealso, we believe in communual marriage in the sense that you are not getting married to you and your wife alone, you have to extend hand when it is necessary which is important anyway.
In terms of " BRIDE PRICE" it is little but the list of "Umunna" is always long eg from my own clan , the list of marrriages comprises of those who attended school from primary, secondary and tertiary even those who went for skilled work. so it varies (lol) but in all the family decision is absolute . if you are in good rapport with your in law you will be good to go.

stop be skeptical , be a man and go for what you want. i have always wanted to marry an mbaiselites because i love and cherish our festivals , but god knows the best,

Goodluck.

@ SWIFTS,
I HAVE REGISTER WITH YOU BELIEVING THAT THIS WILL WORK SINCE IT IS FREE. I HAVE NEVER BELIEVE IN NET.MARKETING BUT GIVING YOU A BENEFIT OF DOUBT. PLS CAN YOU EXPANCIATE MORE ON IT SINCE AM ON YOUR GROUP.

WAITING FOR YOUR REPLY.

PLSSSSSSSSSS I NEED HELP SOON. HAVE ANYONE USED POSTITALIANE POST FOR DELIVERY BEFORE? I SENT SOME LUGGAGES TO MY FAMILY NOVE 29 TO FEDERAL MEDICAL CENTRE UMUAHIA AND MY FAMILY HAVE NOT RECECIVED ANYTHING. THIS IS A MESSAGE WE SENT FOR 25DAYS JOURNEY BUT YET HAVE NOT REACHED THEM. I HAVE GONE TO THE POST OFFICE IN ITALY WERE I SENT IT FROM , THEY TOLD ME THAT THIS IS THE FIRST PROBLEM THEY ARE ENCOUNTERING IN SENDING THINGS TO NIGERIA MAYBE IT COULD BE AS A RESULT OF PROTEST IN NIGERIA.

fUNNY ENOUGH THEY DONT HAVE ANY TELEPHONE NUMBER IN NIGERIA TO CALL AND CANT TRACK IT ONLINE BECAUSE IT IS NOT AMONG THE GOODS THAT ARE NEEDED FOR INSURANCE. I AM NOT HAPPY OVER THIS AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO NEXT. ONLY HOPE THAT THE PROBLEM COULD BE AS A RESULT OF THE PROTEST.

PLEASE I NEED HELP.

@ Sashaa009,

Hi dear i cant just stop laughing . All the answers and opinions are relevant to you depending on whom you are and what you want. Listen dear i have always said no matter how good or bad you are people MUST talk. i grew up , schooled and worked in nigeria before i left some few yrs ago because of marriage. Throughout my stay i dated black brothers, there are the good ones , the bad and the uglyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ones couple with family influence depending on whom you met. neverthless, i finally got married to an european whiteman who came down in nigeria did both customary , traditonal and church wedding not minding. I can tell you am happy were am because it was my decision and thanks for my family especially my brothers who have been very much explose to life and cultural diversities. Follow your heart and finally your knees on the ground so that when finally you made your decision it would be the right one. Gone are the days when people stick to things that are not relevance.
I pray that the good lord will soften your parents heart and made them to understand that a womans joy is were her heart goes. Goodluck dear.

@ Nnemdi21,

Below is my email add- negozie2@yahoo.com

I will be expecting your mail. ciaooooooooooooo

@ yoribs i dont understand the meaning of that ridicule . I was made to understand that every individual have freedom of expression anyway, @ Nnemdi i only made a request no hard feelings about it. The only advice just follow your heart afterall, you can never tell were MR Right man will come from. cheers and goodluck .

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE.

@ Nnemdi21,

Hi, Nnemdi i found your post very interesting. Am a married woman but will like to know you more A staunch catholic and Igbo. Can i have your email adress to discuss further with you if you wouldnt mind. I have someone whom you will be really interested with . just your email Add.

ONCE AGAIN KUDOS TO NNEOMA AND CHINEDU. WHO SAYS GOD DOES NOT HEAR OUR PRAYERS? IF COBHAMS ASUQUO CAN GET MARRIED AND HAVE A CHILD WHILE CANT CHINEDU HAVE? MAY THE GOOD LORD PROTECT AND BLESS YOUR FAMILY WITH BABY DUST. AMEN.

@ Hazureal. Are you from egba in ogun state? I love ofoda rice soooooooooooooo much . Back then when i was doing my youth service in abeokuta i used to go a place close ransome kuti primary school @ nurudeen to eat special one. Again there is one old woman that prepares it close to felas house all the politicians go
there to eat.

I believe in chinedu sooooooo much. The only thing that cheat on him is height but God that created him that way knows best. people like him always  have good heart, empathy towards human and above all fear of God. Marriage is not all about physical outlook because it is a continuous process-institution.  From the depth of my heart i think is love.  just  watch  the kind of kids they will have .  I  wish them  continuous   love, tolerance , sincerity  and above all  fear of God which encompasses all.  CHINEDU  I BU DIKE AND NNEOMA   JEBEEEEEEEEEEE  MAKA CHUKWUDUWEGI  NA-AGA

@ agiboma, You are just a God sent and i really appreceate all your words of encouragement. In fact this forum has really made me to understand my body. As big as i am i dont know when i ovulate . i do miscalculate but when i read on this topic last month i discovered an ovulation chart ( billings chart ) that is what am using and now am on my two days ovulation . But it not funny at all because of anxiety . Secondly because i put my husband in the picture during sex he finds it difficult to release after doing all to make him release. I dont really know. it just difficult to accept the fact that it has to come natural but tension, anxiety wont let me .

Pls i need your prayer and especially since two of my cousins i got married before has put to bed. infact i cant believe am experiencing all these,

@ vicjustice who is the lady that threatening to take your pix to BABA-IJEBU? Did you promise her marriage? if no ride on guy with your family . I hope you are really happy with your wify and your child. That is the most paramount aspect in matrimony. It does not matter whether black , red, or white you get married to especially when your are in-love and happy. As for the critics , is not just a problem . When you take decision to get married outside your race you must have gotten the nerves to accepts critics and challenges. Is been there so take your head up and ride afterall we come from different backgrounds and families. HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYY your boy is toooooooooooooo sweet . i cant wait to have my own mulato tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, God bless your familyyyyyyyyyyyyy,

@ PARISLOMO, THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS. I HAVE ALWAYS SAID IT , IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU IN AS MUCH AS YOU FIND PEACE. ANITA CONGRATS GIRL . MAY THE GOOD LORD CONTINUE TO STRENGHTEN YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. kUDOS TO YOUR HUSBAND BY STANDING BY You. The lord who gave you children will still give me mine so cheer up.

You cannot satisfy all. vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ciaoooooooooooooo

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i rock swatch and breil anyday, anytime. i have others but these two make my dayyyyyyy

Hi all the mothers in the house, i m really touched and encouraged after reading all the experiences and words of encouragement. I got married last year and joined my hubby recently.  so i have been worried why i have not taken in though since i came i have seen two gynacologist who confirm that i have no problem. When i arrieved  in europe for  six months, i will be having symptoms of pregnancy but before you say jack my menses is out. After doing in that way i  and my hubby decided to to see a gynacologist in different hospital  who confirms that i have no problem except i have an infection which was cured immediately. Secondly, because i was having constant pains on my colon and ccontinue fever at the night , i have to consult my doctor who directed me to carry out and analysis including preg test. i did about 13 test which was confirm i have a cytomegavirus  which  i was placed on antivirus drugs but my problem is after my menses stop i continue to have drop of blood. I had such experience initially when i consult a gyna who says that it is not dangerous .Also i have started taking clomid , i do alot of exercise,and my hubby have decided to go on sperm count analysis to be sure noting is wrong with him.

Pls  ladies what could be the course of this blood drop since i have consulted two different gynacologists in europe here. Pls help. My marriage is getting to 2yrs  though my hubby is much older than me.Am desperate pls,

Omg i love you sooooooooooooooooo much gal . Get going with our prayers.

continue from were the poster stop. eucharia anunobi. victor osuagwu , kanayo o kanayo, etc

Thanks you guys. i saw crest whitenning on google . Am going to get one from the pharmacy soon and give my report. In fact i drink a cup of tea with milk everyday .I hardly take coffe because i dont like it.

I will get back here soon.

please is there any medication or way of cleaning off my teeth as my teeth is becoming brown. i wash 2ice every day morning and night. i also use listerine sometimes but yet my teeth is getting bad especially since i left nigeria and over here going to dentist is soo much expensive. Please what can i use ?

Thanks.

The challenges in banking industry are so numerous in nigeria.Most people are there because there is no ther mouth watering job in nigeria thereby left no choice than to be there. To be a female banker as well as mum or wife is too much hectic especially when you are a marketer. YOU talk of the target, the problem of client probably you gave a facilities for a customer to pay at a minimun time and the customer flopps , you pay with your salary. Is it the numerous meeting you will attend especially on mondays and last saturday of the month with your manager or supervisor and on saturday with your regional managers were you be standing infront of other marketers attimes operators to give your PROPOSALS, CABAL.I n this aspect you tell the managers why you have been receiving salary and your Cabal is not growing or Why you allowed the customer to withraw its deposits without repalcement.

YOU will be given all kinds of names. There are some managers that will tell you tobring deposits from a particular customer which they know is a miser\randybut rich which is a hurclean task. When a manager tells you , you no sey yo be fine boy or girl abeg do anything you sabi to get dey money from Alhaji or ALHJA or Oga SOSOSO. IF you dont get it you have MEMO copied management and head office asup and you must get it. What do you do.(Applicable to both sex) Operators have there challenges especially when a manager or superior ask for DRY POSTING- this situation is a terrible integrity issue but it exist and can lead someone to be sacked.

Note, most of these bankers are contract staff that their take home package is about £400,500 euro a month andwhen the chips are down they suffer most. Beloved, if you are in this forum please have a PLANB,C if possible ,D.

MAY GOD SEE US THROUGH IN JESUS NAME AMEN

HELLO doctor,

Please doctor can you enlight me more on what CYTOMEGALOVIRUS is? i went for a test recommended by my doctor due to incessant fever, backache, rashes especially my hands and all stuff constantly only for the result to come and my doctor said i have cytomegalovirus. She recommended an anti virus drugs IMMUDEK FORTE which i have taken two packs ,yet the rashes keeps coming but other ailments have stop. can you recommend any other drug i can take to stop the rash because it is giving dark spots on my skin and frequent itching.

Note , my HIV result is Negative .

Please urgent help.

SORRY I LIVE IN ITALY AND I WEAR MY AFRICAN ATTIRE ANYTIME I WANT. No complex or whatever. Besides whenever i put on some i always have compliments from white people. Wearing it makes me proud especially when you put on good styles and good stuff.

HAKEEM I LOVE THIS . MAY THE GOOD LORD CONTINUE TO STRENGHTEN YOU IN ALL YOUR ENDAVOURS. I WOULDNT MIND BE A DISTRIBUTOR IN SICILY ESPECIALLY CATANIA WERE I LIVE. BOUNA FORTUNA E COMPLIMENTI. CIAO

Plssssssssssssssssssssssss  dont advise your friend for abortion . Come to think of it have you ever wonderded why when people are single  people always get pregnant  but when they get married  attimes they begining  looking for prenancy,  A lot of women sleeps in churches now and then, been washed by both fake and good pastors, some drink different kinds of concortions to get pregnant , some are given unimaginable  advice on sex positions just to get pregnant while some are paying millions to adopt baby because they cannot get pregnant. Please tell her to wipe her tears away , leave the guy with his family  ,look for a menial work if there is non and take care of the baby. she will never regret it . i assure her  though mouth will speak but they are not God. As for the guy he may marry another woman and no child . i have seen  and hear soo many stories like that. Who tells him getting married with another woman will escape his family from having another hereditary sickness,hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm May  God help us.

@ nikkit  do you have a branch at owerri ,if not how can i get it at owerri . i need  12 inch and color 1b. ASUP. Can i get your nigeria number so that i can call . i dont want to have a fake product.

Almost all the topics i came across in this nairaland noting please me whenever i saw mrs chimas reply i felt fulfilled. He/she must be learned and educated. First , not all black/ nigerian ladies that married white or date white are slut/ passport . Thats a typical generalization. I got married to my husband based on love and compartibility. i was working in one of the finacial institution precisely in lagos before i resigned. My husband has only been in nigeria once, secondly for my marriage right in my village at imo state. I did a civil wedding as well as church wedding. Well in every aspect of life people tends to have either a positive or negative thoughts. It does not matter what and how they feel . My philosophy in life is make yourself happy before others. Whether black/ white wherever you find yourself make good use of it and make sure you are happy. I must confess that i am very very happy and contend with my marriage because i choose it. Besides i have every opportunity to travell anywhere.

One love everybody .No racism pls.

Finally the white magic did not work for Ohakim and his wife chioma. A new dawn for Imolites .All his arrogance and insult to men of God has bounce back to him. Now he will know that NDI IMO AWUGHI AGWO EJI AKPUKA NMA EGBU. Congrats all IMOLITES AND Congrats rochas .

hey guys,

Is it healthy for a pregnant woman to do yoga exercise say in her 1st trimester? I do regular yoga everymorning with fashionone programme but still want to know if it is good for newly exercise in order not to have miscarriage.

@ katy,

i am just new in this site and came across this topic which is quite interesting. Am a nigeria and married an Italian recently. I am advising you to go to nigeria and see things yourself like mrs chima advice. Dont just belive only on what people say. Yes is quite good to have a clue but i presume before you must have gone into that marriage you are matured enough to dictate what is good or not. i am having such experience too here in italy especially as i dont understand their language very much, But because i believe in my own philosophy and i believe that everyone created by God with his own image are one i get my head up and live my normal life eg Iwent to mass at a particular time when i newly arrived with my husband, during the time of greeting in church for people to exchange hands and all that , a lady sitting besides me refused her hand to greet me simple becase am black. so when the mass dismiss my husband started introducing me to people i guess people of families and close friends, i saw the lady moping at us .One evening during a festival unfortunately for her i met some of her friends i know we greeted ,hug and kiss, during her own turn i left her and greet another fellow. the rest are history. My dear go to nigeria espcially during chrismas if your hubby is an IGBO MAN( because they like travelling home during that period) Nigerians are very good in accepting foreigners. I wish you goodluck.