@suv, i cannot describe how much i i felt after reading your advice. how i wish i can have a sister in law like you. one who can take care of my mother like hers . who knows the meaning of what family and marriage is all about. Not one who feels and think that her husband is the breadwinner or feels that she has degrees no one is above her. You are a blessing to your marriage and family .A good product sold its self.Continue in that way no matter what and i bet you in life that when you have your own daughter in law so shall it do unto you. Amen. Thats shows the kind of upbringing your mother gave you jisieike .

@ BANDIT C. HI thanks for your information's regarding life and schooling in germany. i live in Italy and married . i had an HND in marketing and actually i have decided to go back to university here in Italy hoping to study foreign language precisely German in the university but those in the university were i actually want to apply keeps telling me that lecturers are not giving them more attention and you have to study all alone or attend private lectures. i just want to know how difficult learning German could be and do you have any ideal if i could be giving admission from 2yr instead of starting from 1yr.

Note, i would have gone to the university to make inquiries myself but i am still waiting for my school documents which i sent to be legalized. so as soon as my documents are back from Nigeria then i can pursue my admission . i want to get an insight on how easily it could be to get admission and job as well if i finish my studies.

Thanks.

HELLO GUYS, WHAT KIND OF ATTACHMENT CAN I USE FOR DREADLOCKS REPLYING WITH A PHOTO WILL BE ADDED ADVANTAGE. I WANT TO GO DREAD AT LEAST FOR I YR.

OH WHAT A WONDERFUL GOD WE SERVE. I was OFF FOR SOME TIME I JUST LOG IN NOW AND DISCOVERED THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO (JERUSALEM AND JUDAH) BOYS. Thank god for his mercy and his grace among you and your household . may his name be forever praised. Take care ,eat and sleep well .It is your time to laugh but becareful for those who come to take over the kids talent .Yes try to work in the spirit always through prayers.

Well i went for check-up today after radiography my doctor told me to go that my womb , ovaries and Fallopian tube are all ok that they are giving me 1yr to try conceiving natural if nothing happen then they will start ivf for me. i begged them that i really need to continue the ivf now . my doctor refused and told me that i have no problem since the fibroid that bocked the uterus has been operated. I have to resigned to my fate and come back . SO now i have 1yr to try natural so ivf for me has been suspended to next yr. So much protocol peeps hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. PLS EVERYBODY SHOULD PUT ME IN PAYER FOR THIS TO HAPPEN THIS YR

@ALL, To all that wish me a quick recovery thank you all. i am highly delighted i am one of the members of this great forum . i came here whenever am depressed, when i have no one to talk to , when my heart is full of so many "why" My prayer is one day we all shall gather in person in Nigeria to celebrate our joy and get in knowing each other. I have a vision that one day this baby forum will get to a point it has to be an organisation were we gather assist and lend a helping hand in whichever way we could.I don't know when and how but i always have this feelings. So if you are here be serious to one another and show respect both in your actions and writings . Thanks all once again and may God bless you all.

@SLUSHAI Thanks for your prayer and kind words. @ Blenddy Thanks as well i am getting better . I have discussed the surrogate issue with her but she prefers adoption but adoption policy here in Europe is very high and demanding. For one to adopt you must have a house of your own and a good sum of money in a bank for the child inheritance etc and you know not everyone can meet the requirements including long ques of documents procession. Well i believe she can change her mind for the surrogate if she cannot meet the later. Once again a happy new year to all.

HI EVERYONE MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A WONDERFUL NEW YEAR TO ALL. I hope those who were at home during Christmas enjoyed their Christmas gathering with family, friends and food. To God be the glory. On my last message i wrote about going for surgery it happens to be during Christmas and all was successful. It was a terrible experience on that day i was placed on oxygen throughout the day and 4 hrs operation while A lady close to me who was also working along for ivf has been married for 14 yrs no issue and finally her womb was removed totally or else she has only 5 months to developed into uterus cancer. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm God has been faithful to me even when some doctors were recommending removing my womb due to outrageous size of fibroid inside my uterus but God sent an expert gynecologist who did an artistic performance. God has been faithful to me Brethren .Who am i to deserve this May his name forever be praised! funny enough i did not pay kobo all were (gratis)free including food.By his grace i will continue my Ivf by January ending even when the doctor gave me assurance to conceive naturally. I have made up my mind to go for ivf for there is no time for us especially my hubby age-wise. Thanks all for your prayer and encouragement you all are de-bomba.

@ freshbabe , thanks for your quick response. i look forward for other responses though will still look into the site highlighetd.

@ freshbabe are you student or is there anyone studying in Canada that can give me information regarding doing a PHD program in Canada university which may not be expensive. I have a younger brother who had a degree in medical science and running his Masters to be rounded up by march next yr. i would like to know if it is possible for him to do his PHD in canada without difficulties financially if not he better stay in Nigeria and run the program asup he finishes his MASTERS. Though he is expecting 3.5 or 4 grade in his masters. Pls candid advice.

@ Goodtidings,

Please for Gods sake drop that stuff called clean-shield and anybody who is going for TTc should do so. i am a living testimony, it does nothing than to have rashes and itching all over your body. i saw the advert on the forum here and ordered for 10 bottles from Nigeria alas 2 were taken at the airport in Lagos and the rest which i took could not do nothing as regards to fibroid. My candid advice is don't take any self medication just go and register for any fertility hospital and continue attending only there i bet you with time all things will be fine. Just be patience and consistently be on your knees. For me i was supposed to be in theater on last week Monday for my fibroid surgery but was postponed .To be done on or before xmas . This came as a result on my journey to ivf so after my operation then continue with ivf with the same hospital. so don't complicate yourself just make a research of good ivf center especially st geoerge hospital with Dr Emeka in lagos . I have been communicating with him all procedures am doing i think he is nice. so pls whatever good that worthdoing worth doing nice. you are not alone not only in Nigeria i mean the whole world, not just a problem of old ages including the youths so brace up and smile once.

@BLENDDY THANKS FOR ALL ,

THE CLEAN-SHIELD DID NOT REDUCE ANYTHING INSTEAD IT HAD AN INCREMENT OF 2MM . I HAVE NO CHOICE THAN TO GO FOR THE SURGERY B4 THE IVF. THE BIBLE SAY THERE SHALL NEVER BE A BARREN WOMAN IN THE ISRAEL SO WHY WONT I HAVE MY OWN CHILD AND EXPERIENCE LIKE OTHERS? I AM OUT FOR IT AND I MUST SUCCEED TO PROCLAIM THE FAVOR OF GOD IN MY LIFE AND FAMILY.

WHAT DO YOU FOR A LIVING IN NIGERIA BEFORE COMING TO ITALY? ITALY IS FACING A LOT OF ECONOMIC CRISIS NOW. IF YOU ARE A CAREER PERSON JUST SPEND YOUR 3 MONTHS AND GO BACK UNLESS YOU WANT TO STAY AND BE SELLING TISSUE PAPER OR BAGS SHOE ON THE ROAD. DO YOU KNOW ITALY IS NOT AN ENGLISH SPEAKING COUNTRY? A LOT OF PEOPLE FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO COMMUNICATE THEREBY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST ONLY WHEN YOU ARE PATIENCE ENOUGH. THE FAMILY YOU ARE VISITING ARE THEY FINANCIALLY OK TO SUSTAIN YOU ABOVE THREE MONTHS? PLEASE IF YOU HAVE MEANINGFUL THING DOING IN NIGERIA JUST COME AND GO OR RATHER BE COMING HERE FOR BUSINESS TRANSACTION SHUTTLING NIGERIA AND ITALY THAT WILL REALLY PROFIT YOU A LOT . A LOT OF PEOPLE AT HOME ARE STILL MAKING IT.

@ BLENDDY77 HOPE YOUR KIDS ARE KICKING FINE AND OTHERS WHO HAVE SUCCEEDED HOPE YOU GUYS ARE REALLY ENJOYING THE UPS AND DOWN SICKNESS LOL .Anyway is one of those sacrifice you may need to make to become real mum. i dey wish una dooooooooooooooooo , ndooooooooooooooo or pele. For me am still battling in- between .I have done all tests including hubby all came out good except the same fibroid am battling with whether to undergo surgery or not but yesterday it has come to my notice after trans vaginal radiography that the fibroid increased by 2mm and blocked the entrance of the uterus so if operation is not carried nothing can happen even ivf cannot be done since it has to pass through the entrance. This is the third hospital i have gone all said the same thing but am really scared though i have no other choice than to go and do it since the doctors has confirmed that after the surgery i can conceive even without IVf . When i read about negative things of people who have done that in Nigeria and after continue bleeding could not take in i ask myself why me.But ladies i cant go back i have to summon courage and do it believing God all things work together for good.

Meanwhile, there was an advert here on nairaland especially on medicine on fibroid name CLEANSHIELD.i was able to get their contact in lagos called them they gave me a whole 100% assurance that the medicine will melt the fibroid . i sent someone to get 10bottles@N3000 each and sent it(N22,900) to me via airline to Europe behold after taking it all i saw was my skin full of rashes like chicken pox which last about 3months to stop. i have to go to hospital and done analysis before they could give me antibodies drugs. Please after spending such amount i plead all ladies should be very careful and avoid self prescription and all these quick short way to deliverance. ABOVE ALL I NEED YOUR PRAYERS .

@ELECTTRODAD,

I was searching into a particular topic when i came across this and believe me all the responses are quite interesting. First, let your girlfriend( fidanzata) enroll to any italian school as a base in her country for that will be an added advantage for her to cope easily when she finally arrived. most people that speak french and espanol also speaks italian easily than those that speak english since the former languages are related.Secondly, opening a business in africa is a dicey issue . have you carried out feasibilty studies about what you want to do in that country? Do you know their norms and culture and will you be able to adjust with their social responsibities? Have you calculated the advantages of your jobs over your gal? i think both of you need to sit down and look about the checks and balances before drawing a line. In this economic crisis one cannot afford to loose the little he or she has save.
if they can give her study leave ,let her come over and then decide. I got married to an italian about some years back but before then i was working in one of the finacial institution but after my wedding i left and joined my husband. WHAT i did was to calculate the advantages over my husband job and i and it happens to be that my husband job outweighs mine eg He has job security, he will have pension when he retired , he has good insurance and all that which is in practice not obtainable in mine so i have to quit. Yes getting job has not been easy even when i tried to diversy from my area of specialization to nursing( credo me Ma non e facile tanti stroria egaaaaaaaaa)not been easy at all especially in SICILY. NOW I have enroll to do a diploma in scuola assistant anziani and i been directed to go for translation of my degree from my (colleagement commune)to enable me apply for decent job if my degree is acceptable. TO CUT the story short , is not going to be easy there will be alot of challenges and both of you have to agree in order to confrot realities. Adesso devo andare a mercato credo che tuto andare bene fra te e tua fidanzata. ma soppratutto pazienza .

@ Blenddy 77,

Im sorry i could not reply on time . I am not in nigeria,am in europe and my husband is using his COVERING INSURANCE if there is any need for that for here in europe medicals are free.

@BLENDY77,
Thanks for your explaination, like i said before i had done series of tests in different hospitals before arriving in conclusion of fertility . This came as a result of fibroid in my uterus and2 gynacologist advised us to undergone surgering which i may not be likely pregnant if done while the third told us to go for ivf since i have 80% possibility of getting pregnant that is why we concluded of getting ivf done so that during delivery the fibroid can be removed as well. Meanwhile the hospital is a govermnet hospital were you have to book for appoitment before anything and we were told that there so many awaiting patients before us. I just believe God that all things be equal come 2013 i will sing a new song . Amen

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CONGTRATS TO ALL WHO WENT THROUGH THE RIGOROUS WAY TO ACHEIVED THIS. MAY THE LORD CONTINUE TO HELP US AND SUPPORT US IN ALL OUR ENDEVOUR AMEN. PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HIGHLIGHT US ON ALL THE PROCESSES TO UNDERGONE BEFORE TRANFERING EGGS. IS IT UP TO 1YR ACCORDING TO MY DOCTOR? I HAVE DONE THE FIRST TEST INCLUDING HIV WILL BE DOING TRANSVARGINAL RADIOGRAPHY ON 19 OF OCT WHILE HUBBY WILL DO HIS SPERM FLUID EXAM COME 27 THIS MONTH. SO FAR SO GOOD THE ONES WE HAVE DONE IS ALL OK. I JUST PRAY THAT ALL WILL GO WELL SO THAT I WONT BE EXPECTING TOO LONG BEFORE TRANSFERING.

@BLENDDY77,

THANKS ONCE AGAIN, YOU ARE A SOURCE OF INSPIRATION TO WE WOMEN. DONT RELENT GOD WILL BLESS YOU UPON ALL BLESSINGS.

Hello ladies in the house,

i have been off for some time on the thread but am back. Finally my hubby have accepted ivf .Praise be to God for it takes two to tangle. First with what i read here about dr emaka ikenna geaorge i decided to call him and he is one in a million . From the way he speaks to me i was really relieved . Remember ladies in my last post i mentioned i have fibroid 3, 1 at the centre of the uterus and other surround my womb which two gynacologists which we consulted advice us to undergone suggery except one who told us to go for ivf and could be removed during child birth. I was so saddeing that i keep wondering if anything good can happen but after discusing with dr emeka via phone and email. i was relieved i saw a new change in me. I and hubby have consulted a doctor in ivf hospital here in europe and they have given us form to do some test during my 3rd mensuration this AUGUST and by september to do others including my hubby. i strongly believe God that come 2013 i am going to have my baby if not babies as i continue dreaming of 2 and 3 everyother day lollllllllllllll.

I PRAY AS MANY AS THOSE WHO HAVE COME TOGTHER IN THIS FORUM TO SHARE THEIR EXPERIENCES AND TESTMONIES MAY God continue to strenghten us, guide us and gives us good and obedience children , that will take care of us and cherish us . Not kids who will kill us and drag our names and hard labour in mud as we all are going tough times to have them
AMEN.

GUYS,

AM STILL WAITING FOR AN ANSWER....................

@ola am in italy not finland. All am getting in the information is vaasa finland. so i still need more expansiation.

Basically in italy not in other countries.Thanks.

Thanks ola.

my email add is negozie2@yahoo.it.ONCE AGAIN THANKS.

HI EVERYONE DO ANYONE HAVE INFORMATION ON HOW TO HAVE A CAREER IN NURSING SCHOOL IN ITALY. I LIVE IN ITALY FOR SOMETIME NOW AND ACTUALLY WANT TO PURSUE A CAREER IN NURSING SINCE GETTING A JOB IS DIFFICULT BUT SEEMS ALL INFORMATIONS AM GETTING IS NOT ENCOURAGING AS IN PEOPLE KEEPS SAYING THERE IS NO OPPORTUNITY. THE SLOTS IS ALL FILLED UP. PLS IF YOU HAVE INFORMATIONS ABOUT IT OR YOU ARE ALREADY IN NURSING SCHOOL IN ITALY PLEASE DONT HESITATE TO HELP A SISTER URGENTLY.

@TITIaelae,

Thanks for sharing your thought about cleansheild. i have bought about 10bottles expecting mine to arrive. i cantwait for it though my little sister took 1btl out of the ten and she told me that the medicines is really working . i just hope it works for me so that i can take in and share my testomony here like others. I really appreciate this forum . i have learnt a lot through this site in all ramifications even though my bills are always higher but it really does worth it.

@ mandate, thanks soo much for your advice .pls can i have the number of the iya alagbo? i wouldnt mind sending someone to get it over for me here. i strongly believe in the miracle of God . i know with time all things will be fine.The problem is been human is difficult to let go especially when you marry someone who cherish and adore you soo much mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. yesterday i was in the church during stations of the cross i didnt know when tears started roolling out of my eyesssssss behold after some minutes a little boy of 2 years that been carried by his mum besides me came and give me a MEDAL of OUR LADY VIRGIN MARY for meditation unexpected . i did not know whether to cry or laugh all i was able to do gave him a kiss b4 we dismissed yesterday.I have been meditating over that scenario. My prayer is that god should forgive whatever sin i have committed and answer me if not for any other thing for the sake of my hubby.

Thanks rocksqueen,
Im not in nigeria . i do take a lot of aleovera with horney also eat healthy. Thanks alot indeed . i am still expecting more advice.

Hello ladies,

last week i wrote on how i did an ecographical diagnosis after having cramp blood for three days during ovulation. The test reads that i have fibroid infact 3 . 2 surrounding the womb and 1 at the centreof the womb were foetust suppose to take in. I and my hubby consulted about three gynacologists who also confirm so but advice us not to undergo surgery that i have about 80% of getting pregnancy. That if a surgery is done that means it needs the womb to be removed totally hence no child. but it can be removed along childbirth since there is a child.hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what a terrible situation.

Now one of the doctors advice us to go for insemination that insemination is likely to occure double since the womb will be removed after childbirth .My hubby has not given me a positive response as regards to insemination and i actually need it. Pleasa all the mamas and experienced ladies even doctors removing WOMB does it have a life threating effects because am on my middle 30s? How authentic insemination is and does it have an effect? Every lady want someone to call her mama or mum but the worst is when someone is not there to do that for you . No amount of thing you do to family friends and siblings can quantify what your own child could do for you.

Pls guys response and dieing silence but meanwhile i thank god to have discover my problem after drinking whatever ask to be taking including the almighty CLOMID. pls all replyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy am deing silently for reallllllllllllll

HI LADIES AM BACK AGAIN OOOOOOOOOOOOO . I SAW MY MENSURATION ON 8MARCH THIS MONTH , HAD INTIMATE DURING MY OVULATION , THEN I STARTED NOTICING HEAVY CRAMP BLOOD FOR 3DAYS . I BECAME SCARED THEN CONSULTED MY GYNACOLOGIST. YESTERDAY I DID AN ECOGRAFICAL DIAGNOSIS THE RESULT CAME OUT THAT I HAVE FIBROID. ACCORDING TO THE DOCTOR THEY ARE 3 . 2 STILL THINY BUT 1 ABOUT 2.4CENTIMETRE .THE FIRST 2 HAS NO PROBLEM BUT THE LATER SEEMS TO BE THE PROBLEM THAT IS HINDERING ME NOT TO CONCEIVE, ITS IN A DELICATE POSITION .THEN HE ADVICE US TO WAIT TILL THREE MONTHS IF THE BLOOD CONSISTS AFTER MENSURATION THEN WE WILL HAVE ANOTHER OPTION USING ANAGELSTICS SYSTEM.BUT HE IS NOT GUANRANTEE FOR THE SECOND OPTION THAT MOST PEOPLE HE HAS SEEN THAT DID THEY ANAGESTIC CONTINUE BLEEDING AFTER THE TREATMENT.

PLS LADIES AM CONFUSED . HAS ANYONE HAVE SUCH PROBLEM OR WHAT IS THE WAY FORWARD THOUGH MY HUSBAND IS GOING TO CONSULT ANOTHER GYNACOLOGIST FOR THE RESULT AND COMPARE THE WAY FORWARD.SINCE YESTERDAY I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO SLEEP . PLS HELPPPPPPP.

Thanks all for your consolations and prayer. i still hope and believe in god to prooof his word to all of us.

HI LADIES.

As i was reading all these tears started flowing from my eyes. i can just imagine hearing from left centre and right that people are getting pregnant and i still remain the same as if god has deserted me. i just came back from church now for STATIONS OF THE CROSS , on my way coming back i was told that a lady that i met with a new baby last year is expecting another baby. Also a lady i helped in preparing her wedding is last august is pregnant. i am just asking God why. funny enough these problem is among women that their hubby is madly in love with.hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. All tests from mine and hubby are alright , no problem but cant just say why the baby is not coming. Could it be the weather in europe or food or interracial ? I dont know ? each month my breast will become gumpy as in big , dark colour around my nipples back ache and frequent night fever before you know my menses will be out.i have done test for it nothing is found. i am getting tired oooooooooooooo cant believe all these are happening

for those who are pregnant this season congrats and may the good lord strenghting your body mind and soul amd see you all through throughout the period of delivery. A big Amen