₦airaland Forum

wany:
Sadly this will never happen in Africa and Nigeria to be precise, you know why? Nigerian men want a woman they can control and you definitely can't control who is at par with you. so you need that low-life woman , mostly the low self-esteem once , like they say mold to what you want but the joke is always double on them

Said it countless times. I'm not controlling anyone. What i want is genuine interest and respect for each other. You can't get that from a struggling low class bi***.

Maysdevices:
Lol. Except he’s read to drop the title ‘Man’ ‘head of house’. He is just deceiving himself

Of course I'm the man of the house.
And my wife is going to be the caretaker of affairs.

Maysdevices:
Men will never raise their standards because of their own egos

Most men can’t handle the mindset of women on their economic class for too long because they are too serious like you are about life and have no time neither the desire to act stupid or airheaded (which is what they term girliness) and will often end up desiring that false sense of manliness the bimbos below their level provide


The air headed characteristics of women below their class who pretend to be ‘soft and feminine’ just to get a man to dump all their responsibilities on will still appeal to them later on

Men want to lead all the time, you cannot lead a hustler so most of you will still marry bimbos with nothing to offer

Speak for your brothers and family not me.
I'm not leading anyone. Marriage is teamwork.
Not looking for a slave. I only do women who have a mind of their own, not some fake ass submissive pretender.

Babaibeji2020:
.........shingbai for akant.....🤣🤣🤣
Only thing I read up there!

😂

idahme:
It's better to choose a woman who has money and needs a man than to choose a woman who doesn't have money but needs a man( you can't determine wether she needs the man because she is poor and when you raise her economic value she now decides she doesn't need a man because she now can fend for herself).



This is how lots of divorce come from, a lot who are very poor and humble now become tyrants at home because they no longer see the value of a man since he has changed their economic bracket upwards. That's why I support those who go for people of higher economic value because they are more certain it's not because the women need palliatives as the first reason for entering a relationship.

I I'm not against those going for women of economic value with great personalities but I'm saying it's a better safety net for the man going into relationships with women who come from higher economic bracket with great personalities than their counterparts in the lower echelon.

From personal experience.
This is true.

GreatVocalist:
If marriage is finance, then how come most celebrity marriages are crashing on a regular basis?

Celebrity marriages are all publicity stunts. It's bound to fail.

Avast:
One of my friends told me the only reason she is still in her marriage is because she is not financially independent.

Can you imagine.
Sadly this is true for 80% of marriages.

Gerrard59:
Well, at the end of the day, you would still marry a woman who earns less than you. That is the truth, especially for Nigerian men who are antsy about their wives out-earning them. It is hypergamy women always aspire to men higher than they (women). It is evolutionary and
biologically. Heck, it is even economical, if not for gender equality which has reduced the number of jobs available to men.

However, where you come top is when you get women interested in you as you earn well. You would be accused of cheating by your wife or serious girlfriend, but to me, you are merely exercising your options. As long as you provide for the family and don't carry diseases to madam, I say go ahead. You are enjoying your prime, just as she had hers. Life na turn by turn.

P.S. My sister has told me the same and I laughed it off. Women are the same everywhere. In fact, Nigerian women's hypergamy is small. Swiss and Chinese Singaporean women's hypergamy are off the roof.

I feel you're the only one that gets where I'm driving at without sentiments or bias. Because you've been in the same situation too.😂

Kemadealadire:
Men are made to be providers, a woman's job is to assist where necessary.

Your quality of life is sumtotal of your choices, decisions, actions and inactions.

Nobody forces anybody to do anything. It's those who can't think for themselves and follow the herd mentality I pity in all these. Do what's right for you and pleases God, the world will adjust. Una no dey tire.

It's how bad guys want good girls, dumb guys want intelligent girls and vice versa etc. Man was made to provide, it's not the job of a woman to, this is unnegotiable. Even if you go for a rich girl, you don't expect her to provide. The earlier you start working towards being in charge of provision, the better.

In a modern world where women are fighting for equality and are favoured sentimentally in almost every aspect of living.
It's high time we start splitting the bills. Yes I'm a provider, but I'll be needing assistance.

Omalicious1:

Till this earth passes away, you can't separate women from hypergamy...its in their blood. Know this know peace.

It's men with low standards that allow this.
Even the rich get married to the rich.

laivwire:
The world used to frown at social climbers but today, we have realized the end truly justifies the means. Call it what you want but marriage still remains one of the valuable tools to personal, spiritual, professional and life changing growth.

Getting married to a valuable individual can open doors for you in places you never dare step into, give you exotic citizenship or even make you entitled to a bloodline/monarchy beyond what you as an individual or if married to a 'lower class' individual can achieve. Your children sef fit fine pass you because of your marriage decisions.

Any aspiring individual is to open his eyes wide when making such decisions. It used to be women concerned about this before but even men need to take cognizance of this fact in these times.

You have a strong point. I can't count how many times I've accessed opportunities because of strategic positioning in friendships not to talk of marriage.

What's this animal called?

Araujo red card and substituting of Yamal the only player that could drive the attack was the final nail on the coffin for Barca.

Adegbolajrn:
They don start the fight today walahi ejigbadero carry squared enter Abule oki Iyana Ipaja

Please tell me more. I'm seeing people post about the commotion.

Poor man wey steal maggi, dem go show him face for crime fighter.

Ok welldone.

Senseless nairalanders were blaming Muslims.
Without checking facts.

Person wey still dey do live streaming. Even when they were treating her. Why she no stream the attack.

Oniradarada. Onpe

.

Well well.

Puss360:
I can't even read thread or post made by this op... The username is so confusing....
How will someone take you serious!!!

Pot calling kettle black

I only lose interest after i pipe her.

No sentiments.
If the babe was your sister.
What advice would you give her?

Winnin009:
Finally, someone that thinks. However, this goes beyond seeing naked women. The man tried to shoot his shot because he knew the kind of job she was into and the text messages on IG isn’t helping his case.

Even the panel knows the lady isn’t “innocent”. The man is just being punished for falling into the trap.

One has to be careful these days.

Oga no be Anfield you dey.
You go walk alone.

Illegal1:
omoh......i dn tire for legit hustle..


i've been hustling since i was 18yrs,and now i'm currently 26yrs,yet notin to show for all hard works...no money.,no house..no grl frd,talk more of wife..notin notin..i'm the real defination of"work lyk elegant bt eat lyk an ant......menh i'm tired


thinking dn make head begin pain me...i can't continue lyk dis i swr..

Do what you have to do bro.

I remember the time i wanted to learn g, after 3 years in the animation industry no positive results, just firms and clients using my head to play football with deadlines. I approached a friend who was steady cashing out. He set up all the tools on my laptop on my phone, gave me format and all. Same day, my samsung fell and broke and my laptop refused to come on the same week. Deep inside, I knew it's not my way.
I'm agnostic, no moral justification between right and wrong. It's not just in my DNA to scam anyone. I sincerely despise it.
Not saying I'm regretting I didn't delve into it. I'm indifferent.

Bro do you. Me i get luck say i get skills. I mean like really mad skills. I'm contended with what it earns me. Even tho my friends and acquaintances that are into fraud are making way beyond. I'm just satisfied. Taking it 1 step at a time.

Do it if you have no other option.
Your forefathers were scammed.
Your government is scamming you.
Pastors dey cash out, imams too.
You can join the bandwagon.

Are you overweight?

Do you know how many naked women this dude sees in a day?
The woman wan just rope am.

EreluRoz:
He's dead. So heartbreaking

Guessed as much.
Kos if not ehn. The picture of the dead body posted earlier seemed genuine.
Delta hospitals just use am do cash out.

Kay25:
didirin did he collect ur papa land abi why ur cry come heavy oass the bereaved i won follow join

Thank God say na all of us kuku dey suffer the consequences of their greediness.

opamoses1:
Ok uchenna

Ema binu oga ade.

JoeEeL:
WHY WAS THIS THREAD YANKED OFF THE FRONT PAGE?

IMAGINE THIS NONSENSE

@Seun, @JustWise @Lalasticlala @Dominique

Why is this match not on front page while others of yesterday was?

Maybe the mod dey support psg. Him ticket don cut.