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Biodun1929:
Who knows the name of this snake? I killed it in my house this morning. It is very small...like the size of a long earthworm...I would say just about 10 inches long.

I stay in a 4 bedroom bungalow, and I left the living room empty, as I only use two out of the rooms in the house (I stay alone). So, this morning, I went out to buy something and as I walked in through the kitchen door and into the living room, I saw the thing staying still in the living room. (From the way it was positioned, I could tell it came in from the guest toilet). At first I thought it was dead, cos I keep a bottle with Sniper by the guest toilet. I thought maybe the thing affected it or so, and it died. I stood still myself and watched it. Next thing, I saw the head move slightly. I didn't want to leave its sight, so I grabbed a broom nearby and threw it at it. It hit it and it started struggling to move on the tiled floor and get towards the toilet...but it couldn't move well on the tile. I ran towards it and stamped it out a few times with my leg. It kept moving around. I picked up the broom and hit it on the head a couple of times till it stopped moving.

I won't lie, even though the snake was tiny I was a bit scared. After killing it, I cleaned my whole house within minutes. Lol. Thank God I don't have much in the house, so there is really no hiding place. After clearing every corner, I poured sniper in every corner and went out. I just came back, hoping to meet a dead snake or something, but I guess that snake was the only one that came in.

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Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

my advice is tell ur sis b4 she finds out her self she could take u to a qualified gyna to see the possibility of getting rid of it , because I see that both of u are jobless and It will tell on the new being u intend bringing in into this world

kestolove95:
Any man that try dix rubbish with me, I swear to Jesus blood, I will kill him... My sister u better kill him b4 he kills u.. Dix is d best advice of 2020

U will rot in jail pls don't think of killing

Pls don't ever thinking of taking somebody's life , better u leave the person , if u try it u will rot in jail , pls don't ever think of it

Somzee:
Lol...if this story is true @OP then it was bad of her to do such, except if you are being economical with the truth.

No woman in her right senses would just wake up one day and leave with her kids without an issue on ground.

Only you can help yourself, start by telling yourself the truth. Then schedule a meeting to discuss way forward.

What I just told u is just the summary of the whole thing ,so my worries now is should I go ahead and call her ,or should I call the mother so that I could talk to my kids or should I just wait because most ppl are saying in as much as she left on her own I should just hold on she will call me , I should not be the one to call , but my kids are my worries

Mopolchi:
But mama still drinks and she dey old and kicking

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keepingmum:
How has your attitude being to your wife during the years preceding her leaving? Please answer truthfully

- Have you been physically abusive to her ie hit her with your hands or an object?
- Have you been verbally or emotionally abusive to her? Use negative words on her?
- Have you been cheating or has she caught you cheating?
- Prior to your "setbacks", do you provide monthly upkeeps to sustain the children and the home to her or do you expect the family is fed/sustained from the "business" you opened for her?
- Are there any of your relatives staying in your home, if yes, how long have they been around?

Thank u for the questions
1. I have Neva lift a hand or object on her .
2. As for abusive words no , but as human beings we do have some misunderstanding and at the end we settle
3.cheating is something I detaste in as much as I have not slept with anybody in the last 7 months including my wife .
4. As u know when the source of income in the family shakes it affects everbody.everyone one has to down size his /her expenses and adjust to the new development, I make sure home front is covered , she does not work ,she enrolled into a fashion designer institute, which I was the one that paid for it because I asked what she wants to do immediately we moved into the new environment .
5 . No family member from both families leaving with us , she is the last child in there family of 6 . I just have two young boys that help out in my business and a little girl that helps in house work .
The problem started after she went visiting her elder sister that leaves in another state she came back started acting funny I called her sat her down asked her wat the problem was she said nothing and I asked on 2-3 occasions but she said nothing so anytime I give her money for upkeep she would say it's not enough I will still tell her to manage it that my biz is still not moving fine as soon as it improves I will revat to the amount I give her monthly for upkeep she actually will use it but will always be moody not until last year dec I gave her money she started saying all sorts of things that I was even scared that she could say such a thing ,the next thing was on Jan 1 she asconded with my kids to there family house

Mariangeles:
It is true but according to our tradition, if you leave your husband's house with his children to go stay at your father's house, unless it is for a brief visit, other than that, you're not allowed to stay.
Once you've overstayed your visit, the father will begin to enquire if there's any problem in your home.
The only reason the father will allow you stay is if you're being abused or you were sent packing, otherwise, he'll send for your husband to come get you.
In our place, it's a disgrace for a daughter to leave her husband to go stay at her father's house for as flimsy an excuse as financial setbacks.

Ur rite its the same thing from where I come from , but its unfortunate that my father in-law is no more , that's why the family is not interested in what ppl will say .

meobizy:
5'07". 218lbs.
That boy needs to eat. He's too skinny.

Haba the boy is still a teenager he will still add weight

Mandelus:
ok got your view but frankly speaking there is no need fighting because women go extreme when the want to do things. For her to take them show she is ready to take care of them and the new man if there is can accommodate but in a complicated relationship such as this where from her family everyone needs a richer and are in support of the lady every effort is a waste I know how painful to lose someone you love. Frankly speaking I have...

Thank u very much it seems u get the picture clearly I don't need to fight over the issue , why I brought out this issue is for ppl to help me weigh the options of me calling her or allowing her to be, till after some time I will now involve my family members

Mandelus:
While I was going through this chat again something enter my mind sir are you sure those kids are your? Have you done any DNA test

I don't need to do it they all look like me

LadySarah:
Women dey try. As for me I cannot take care of our children alone when my significant other is alive and well.
You must contribute so even if she ran off which was very bad of her should make a way for you to share custody.My kids needs their fathers love too and a partner shouldn't deprive them of that unless the court says it is dangerous.

If what the Op says is true cos we haven't heard from the woman, pray and try to woo her again. I f nothing happens, take your family to go meet hers and work out something.

She will still get tired last last and blame the devil who was minding his biz.

Thank u for ur concern I tried calling her to know exactly y she left , she only told me that I took her to a bush area that she is not ready to stay there and she wants to stay with the mother

vandp:
Are you from Anambra state?

Yes

johnkey:
Find your kids, take them forcefully with thugs, settle the rest in court, forget about her for life.

Do u think after involving thugs , u stand a better chance in the court room?

yvelchstores:
Sorry for asking, did you marry an imo state woman?

No she is from anambra state

I got married as everyone , we lived a quite life , because I grew up in family that we had enough money but we hardly allow the money to get into us , I have a business that I was doing and I got my wife a shop where she sales groceries . In the neighborhood where we leave , it happens that I had to build our own house in a new settlement and my wife was not doing anything anymore and she said she wanted to go into fahion design and I paid for her to start ,and all of a sudden my own business begin to have problems because of the new place we parked to , my wife after visiting the elder sister that leaves in another state she changed her attitude she no longer wants me to touch her , she talks a.ny how to me , last year December I usually give her #150,000 to shop for her self and the childen but because of the way things I gave her ₦60,000 to manage . She started complaining that I am a poor man that she would leave me and go and stay with the mother , only for me to wake up on 1st Jan she had left the house with the kids and I called her she told me she was not coming back again and I called the mother the mother said it's better she stays with her , I called the elder sis she went visiting the last time , she said it's high time I allow her sister enjoy her self that I have been a blocking stone to her , ppl would want to help her when the find out that she is married they will not want to help her , as it is now I have not called her and she has not even called me it's getting to 2months now pls I need advice from u guys ,should I go ahead and call her or should I just wait .

I got married as everyone , we lived a quite life , because I grew up in family that we had enough money but we hardly allow the money to get into us , I have a business that I was doing and I got my wife a shop where she sales groceries . In the neighborhood where we leave , it happens that I had to build our own house in a new settlement and my wife was not doing anything anymore and she said she wanted to go into fahion design and I paid for her to start ,and all of a sudden my own business begin to have problems because of the new place we parked to , my wife after visiting the elder sister that leaves in another state she changed her attitude she no longer wants me to touch her , she talks a.ny how to me , last year December I usually give her #150,000 to shop for her self and the childen but because of the way things I gave her ₦60,000 to manage . She started complaining that I am a poor man that she would leave me and go and stay with the mother , only for me to wake up on 1st Jan she had left the house with the kids and I called her she told me she was not coming back again and I called the mother the mother said it's better she stays with her , I called the elder sis she went visiting the last time , she said it's high time I allow her sister enjoy her self that I have been a blocking stone to her , ppl would want to help her when the find out that she is married they will not want to help her , as it is now I have not called her and she has not even called me it's getting to 2months now pls I need advice from u guys ,should I go ahead and call her or should I just wait and see how everything unfolds it's self

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I got married as everyone , we lived a quite life , because I grew up in family that we had enough money but we hardly allow the money to get into us , I have a business that I was doing and I got my wife a shop where she sales groceries . In the neighborhood where we leave , it happens that I had to build our own house in a new settlement and my wife was not doing anything anymore and she said she wanted to go into fahion design and I paid for her to start ,and all of a sudden my own business begin to have problems because of the new place we parked to , my wife after visiting the elder sister that leaves in another state she changed her attitude she no longer wants me to touch her , she talks a.ny how to me , last year December I usually give her #150,000 to shop for her self and the childen but because of the way things I gave her ₦60,000 to manage . She started complaining that I am a poor man that she would leave me and go and stay with the mother , only for me to wake up on 1st Jan she had left the house with the kids and I called her she told me she was not coming back again and I called the mother the mother said it's better she stays with her , I called the elder sis she went visiting the last time , she said it's high time I allow her sister enjoy her self that I have been a blocking stone to her , ppl would want to help her when the find out that she is married they will not want to help her , as it is now I have not called her and she has not even called me it's getting to 2months now pls I need advice from u guys ,should I go ahead and call her or should I just wait and see how everything unfolds it's self