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gbalikuma:
I'm having similar issue but my own if I now another woman e go stand well well, I da even win the fight, what do u advice[color=#550000][/color]

I think you and your wife should seek medical help. There is nothing to be ashamed of here.

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hertz9te:
human Nature;show them love ,tthey will hate you,,,bring them close,,,they'll Bleep every member of your family in sight.......Lord I need robots or even aliens....fvcked up world we live in.

Yea I quite agree with you, humans are just too unpredictable

Nelton:
It is quite disgusting how some guys will want to end their marriage or for some stolen sex. Here's a story about a guy who is sleeping with his wife's best freind and does not care if it affects his marriage.

Tano has been married to his wife for the past Nine years and they have four kids together. Tano’s wife Agatha is kind hearted and lovely woman whom everybody seems to love because of her generous nature. However that is also not the gist for today. The gist is that Tano is sleeping with his wife’s best friend. You can imagine my shock when he told me that he was sleeping with her. The funny part of it is that he seems to be very happy about it. I asked him how it all began and he went on to tell me how it all started. Well Fatimah (The wife's friend) usually comes to my house to spend the weekend with my family because she’s always complaining about loneliness since she is living alone, so most of the time my wife will ask her to come over to the house. The thing is that most nights when the kids have been put to bed, my wife and I always stay up at night having late night drink, and when Fatimah is around she usually join us. I noticed that everytime I go outside the house to have a cigarette she will always follow me out to smoke. My wife does not see anything wrong in it. So one day while we were out again having a cigarette, I jokingly told her that my friends and I used to joke about how big her boobs were and the way she responded, I knew she was game for anything, so I followed it up and one thing led to another and before I knew it we were in bed. I asked him if he knew the implication of what he was doing. He said he knew, but the sex was too good to let go. He told me that the fact that it was a stolen sex makes it more appealing to him. When I reminded him that if his wife knows about this, it could lead to the end of his marriage and if he was ready to end his marriage for some stolen sex, he told me that he was confident that if his wife knows it about it, she will not end the marriage rather, she will give Fatimah the beating of her life and obviously that will be the end of their friendship but as for him the wife will always forgive him although it might probably cost him a dent in his pocket but he is confident that he will always get around it. I blame Tano’s wife for a lot of reasons. First is the fact that she allowed Fatimah into her home just like that, secondly, she is too complacent as to allow her too much room with her hubby, what is she thinking? The other day, Tano was telling me how his wife sent Fatimah to pick him from the airport when he came back from a business trip because she could not make it to the airport as she needed to pick the kids from school. Well, she might have been doing all these innocently with the belief that nothing can happen between her man and her best friend but tell me how can you leave a Goat and a yam in the same place and expect nothing to happen. I believe this should serve as a warning to all the married women out there, be careful with the kind of friends you keep. Now, that is not to say that all men are like Tano. There are a lot of disciplined men out there who will never even think of cheating on their wives not to mention doing it with her best friend. How callous can some men be? I can imagine if the reverse was the case here. Anyway that is a story for another day.

Culled from : www.true2man..com

It is quite disgusting how some guys will want to end their marriage for some stolen sex. Here's a story about a guy who is sleeping with his wife's best friend and does not care if it affects his marriage.

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chinoify:
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This morning I was reading some comments on facebook and came across this post by a lady, which said that "a relationship that does not get you to the altar should at least get you to the bank, and not just the bedroom or the kitchen" I had a good laugh over it, but then again it brought to mind the issue of women, sex and money. Severally I have heard this phrase that there's no romance without finance. I don't know how true that is, but Seeing that comment reminds me of the mentality of some Nigerian women who believe that their body is an avenue to wealth.For them, getting into a relationship with them means taking care of all their needs, and so they would assess any prospective toaster to see if he can cope with their demands. Their assessment of you involves, the kind of car you drive, where you live, and how you dress. Here in Nigeria, girls believe that if you have to be hitting on them then you have to show appreciation which comes in form of money and taking care of all their needs. Its no more an issue of loving you for who you are, but loving you for what I can get from you. I believe it seriously demeans a woman when money becomes the focal point in any relationship. However, their arguement is that they need money to take care of themselves, they need money to make themselves beautiful and attractive, so you, the man in their life have to provide that money, irrespective of the fact that some of them are actually working. Let us agree that is is in our African culture for the man to take care of the woman but like I said earlier when money becomes the focal point in every relationship then it leaves much to be desired.One can attribute all these to the level of poverty in our society. In a society with so much poverty in the land, the values are simply thrown away and greed takes its place. We have seen instances where some girls due to their love for money would leave their boyfriends who they really loved and marry a super rich guy because they want comfort and wealth and most times those marriages dont end well. Its either they are been maltreated by their hubby who sees himself as their God because he obviously provides all their needs or they resort to infidelity because they dont really love their husband, it is the money, and the comfort they love. Its a common thing these days to see young girls engaging in prostitution which they now call runz, all in the bid to meet up. What really irks me is our undergraduate girls in the university who will gladly sell body for money. They will tell you there are not into prostitution but rather what they are doing is runz or aristo. I wonder what the difference is between the runz and prostitution. I seriously fear for our future generation and what they would turn out to be. Its biblical that the love for money is the root of all evil. and every evil act usually leads its victim on a long and tortous journey to self destruction and perdition. However, in all of these there are still a few good girls who understand that money can't really buy love. I do hope and pray for these aristo girls to understand this and come to the realization, that most times its not all about the money, but your dignity as a woman matters alot.

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About two weeks ago I noticed that my friend Eke was not looking his usual self. He seem to have lost weight considerably Eke was what you would call a jolly good fellow, always fun to be with and there’s never a dull moment with him, so you can imagine my concern when he came into the bar we usually hung out and sat quietly nursing a bottle of beer and lost in his thoughts. He was not contributing to what we were discussing and seem to be in a world of his own. The Eke that I knew would always want to dominate the discussion and would not even allow others to talk, but on this particular day, things were different which made me believe something must have gone wrong. Later that evening, he called me aside, and started complaining about his wife to me. They have been married for nine years and they have an eight year old boy. He said for some months now, his wife has been refusing him sex for no reasons, and that right now, they are no longer on speaking terms with each other at home and his home has become so unbearable for him. He asked me to come talk to his wife. I wondered why he wanted me to talk to his wife and how I was going to start such a discussion. I however, agreed when he reminded me that his wife respects me a lot and looks up to me as an elder brother. (I was the one that introduced both of them together, the wife was my cousin’s best friend and they had both lived with me during their youth service year) That weekend I went to their house to see them. His wife was so happy to see me. She didn’t seem like a woman who was unhappy and they appeared to have mended fences. When she went to get us drinks, I quickly asked Eke if all was well now, and to which he answered negative. He said that he was quite surprised that she was gisting with him now as if everything was fine. He asked me to still go ahead and talk to her and find out what the problem is. When I called her aside later to ask what the problem is, she told me that there was no problem and that she was surprised that Eke told me that they had issues. She called Eke and asked him in my presence if it was true that he told me that they had issues, Eke could not reply, he simply kept quiet. So I concluded that Eke was the problem but I couldn’t really pinpoint what the real issue was, so I allowed the matter to die because I didn’t know how I was going to proceed from there since I knew the crux of the matter has to do with the bedroom. I simply advised them to sort out themselves. However, two nights ago, my phone rang late at night ,and when I looked at it, I found out that it was Eke’s wife that was calling me. I reluctantly picked up the call, only to hear the voice of their little boy saying , 'Uncle please come to our house quickly, my mummy and daddy are fighting. I tried to call back, to find out what was really happening, but the phone was not connecting anymore as it had been switched off. I called Mike, a mutual friend of ours and told him what was happening and he said we should meet at Eke’s place. I got there 30minutes later and met Mike who was already there. When I entered the house, the whole place was in disarray. I saw Eke sitting at the dining table looking so lost and frustrated. As I was about to approach him to find out what the problem was I saw his wife coming out from one of the rooms dragging a big box and their little boy crying behind her. I went up to her and tried to find out from her what the problem was. Justthen, she started crying and saying she can’t take this anymore. I allowed her to cry and she calmed down after a while and sat down. She asked her son to go his room that she will soon be with him and She asked Mike and I to sit down and then she started talking. She said that for the past 2years Eke has been having issues with his manhood. He is barely able to get it up and that most times she would need to work on it for close to two hours before he will get partial erection and even at that, he’s barely able to sustain it leaving her frustrated and in need. She said she had advised him severally to seek help, but he keep saying he’s okay. She said it got to a point she decided there was no need getting intimate, because of what use will it be when she cannot get any satisfaction from it. However, every now and then Eke keeps pestering her for sex knowing how difficult it is for him to get erection and how most times he ends up ejaculating even before penetration. She said she decided to bear all these believing that one day things would get back to normal. She said she has been suffering in silence and has not told anyone about this not even her friends, and was quite surprised when I asked her two weeks ago if they had issues. She had decided not to say anything not wanting hurt his ego believing that he had decided to get help since he told me, but she later realized that I did not know what was really going on. Ever since then she has been pressurizing him on the need to get help but he has bluntly refused yet he wants to get intimate and when she refuses he gets angry and violent. I looked at Eke, and wondered why he has kept this to himself all these while and has refused to get help. As far as I know there's nothing to be ashamed of here. 60 to 70 percent of men between the ages of 40-70 years experience erectile dysfunction at one point in their lives and this may be due to anxiety, depression, or psychological problems, however seeking help in the right direction often goes a long way in sorting this out. I pointed this out to Eke and told him that he should even be happy that he has a good and faithful wife. I often wonder why most men are ashamed to come to terms with erectile dysfunction. Having erectile dysfunction is not the end of the world and its something that happens in 1 out of every 10 men. The good thing is that it can be handled and treated so I see no reason why it should be hidden. Overall treatment for ED have improved significantly in recent years. These days most people are eventually able to get back to successful intercourse. So for those men out there experiencing this problem, do take a bold step and seek help. And for the wives that are affected, do not relent in your effort in helping your man

Culled from; www.true2man..com

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fartkay:
D man should ve said something to his wife. B it harsh or cool. It will ease the tension on wife. At least she knows wat her hubby is capable of doing. Bi omo ma Ku ni boya oma ye ni u self go know. Communication is key u know?

I agree with you. His silence was more terrifying for the woman that must have been what prompted her to commit suicide.

hotmolo:
an interesting piece op but i will strongly say that only in nigeria will d husband go to jail. what evidence is der to prove that d husband killed her? from your story d man didnt touch d lady and as such forensic investigation alone is enough to exonerate him. if proper investigation is carried out(finger print). the man will not go to jail.

In Nigeria, conviction is based on circumstantial evidence rather than forensic evidence so it is easy to conclude that the man killed the woman out of anger.

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fartkay:
If he really understand d scenario, he should ve said something to is wife dat night, perhaps

Are you saying he did not understand what was going on? He probably did, just that he didn't want to take any rash action in anger

I came across a story recently about a man who came back from work and met his wife sleeping with another man on their matrimonial bed, without saying anything to them he went to the sitting room, switched on the TV and started watching. A few minutes later, the man emerge from the room fully dressed and said, I am sorry, but before he could finish his statement, the hubby simply waved him off and told him not to worry that he understood that things like this happen, and so the man left. Tired of watching TV, the hubby switched off the TV and went into his room, where he met his wife cuddled up in a corner still crying, but without saying a word, the man climbed on his bed and slept off. The next morning he woke up to see the lifeless body of his wife, who had committed suicide while he was sleeping. Now the man was arrested by the police, charged to court for murder and sentenced to 20 years imprisonment for a murder he didn’t commit.
Now the question that was been asked was who do we think is unfair in this whole scenario? Is it the law, the wife, the man or the husband? Somebody was quick to say that the law was an ass, but then again, can you really blame the law? The law is blind, so of course cannot see the truth. However, in a situation like this, who will believe it was not the man that killed his wife. We have often heard stories of men who had come home to meet their wife, sleeping with other men in their matrimonial home and how it often ended. Just recently there was this story I saw on the internet of an Indian man who had beheaded his wife and was walking the street with her head in his hands after he caught her sleeping with another man. There was also this story from Bayelsa of a man who shot his wife’s lover in the farm where he caught them in the act. Sometimes ago I heard about how a woman cut off her hubby’s private part when she caught him sleeping with their neighbor’s daughter. There are a lot more of these stories.
The thing now is how does one behave when confronted with a situation like this? There was this story that was trending some weeks back of a Nigerian soldier who came back home from Maiduguri where he has been fighting Boko haram for the past six months to find his wife with another man in bed, only to parade them unclad the next day on the streets. That is quite barbaric I must confess, but a lot of people were quick to say that it serves them right. However, under the law, the Soldier should have been arrested for offenses ranging from indecent exposure to oppression and infringing on other peoples right. I was having this discussion with a group of guys and one of them said, the guy was even lucky that the soldier did not kill both of them that night, but I reminded him that would have made him a murderer.
In a situation like this, I think the best thing to do is simply to leave the vicinity and go somewhere else to cool down. You need to be as calm as possible because violence will not help in any way. Yes, you cannot take away the pain and the hurtful feelings of having someone else share your most sacred possession. For a man or a woman it is a painful experience to find your partner in bed with another person, but please don’t make it worse by doing something rash and aggravating the whole situation. Going somewhere else to calm down will give you enough time to think of what your next line of action would be, so controlling your anger is very important in situations like this.
Well I guess the guy in the first story did the same thing but at the end he was jailed abi? LOL.
Tell me what you think about this, and also who are we to blame in the first story, is it the law, the wife, the man or the husband?

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It was the same question i asked, but her reply was that she did not want just any random guy she does not know, she wants somebody who is she sure of.

Paulpaulpaul:
So, she hasn't met another man she could cheat with for those years?


The best solution is to tell your wife. She may support the business. Bargain with Angela and do it. Yeye

Angela and I were an item back then in our school days at the university. We were both admitted the same year, and were in the same class. We started out as very good friends and then became lovers. We were what people termed the perfect lovers. I will not say that my parents were rich but they were well to do and could afford us anything that we desire, however, Angela came from a humble background. She was the eldest of five children and she had lost her dad when she was just eleven years old.
In school we were inseparable and by the second semester of our first year I told her to move in with me since I was living off campus and she was living in the school hostel and that was how we started living as a couple back then. Our friends used to envy us then because we were always together and always doing things together so everybody thought that we would graduate and eventually get married.
However, that was not the case because by the second semester in our third year, Angela confided in me that there was this guy that has been pestering her to go out with him at her hometown anytime she goes on holiday. She told me that the guy has even gone to the extent of going to see her mother that he wants to marry her. She said she does not like the guy but her mother keeps pestering her that she should give the guy a chance because he was heavily loaded. Not too long after that she told me that her mother had forced her to get married to the man because as the eldest child, she has the responsibility of taking care of her younger ones and this was an opportunity for her rather than waiting for one small university boy (her words). That was how my relationship with her ended when she jilted me for this other guy.
Fast forward to 18 years later, I ran into Angela at Ikeja shopping mall last year during the Christmas holidays and we got talking. I introduced her to my wife because I was with my family at that time. She was very excited to see my kids and could not stop talking about how beautiful they were. We got talking and she told me that she had relocated to London with her hubby. We exchanged numbers and she promised to keep in touch. We have been talking since she travelled back to London and in the process of catching up with each other she had told me that she had not been able to bear a child all these years because her hubby has been unable to impregnate her and that they had gone to several hospitals but the story was still the same. The problem right now is that she has been disturbing me to help her out by getting her pregnant because she has almost past the childbearing age and she is desperate to have a child. I have bluntly refuse to do that and I told her that in the first place, I cannot sleep with her because I love my wife and would not want to cheat on her, and then secondly she was my married ex girlfriend who jilted me to marry her present hubby so she should learn to deal with her situation and leave me out of it.
However, she had persisted, and kept on calling me and crying on the phone that I should help her out. I have consistently told her that I cannot sleep with a married woman, so she had better find an alternative somewhere else not me. Just yesterday again, she called me and said since I cannot sleep with her, I can at least give her my semen so that she can use IVF in getting her pregnant. I never see this kin wahala before o. I do not want to get involved in this kind of arrangement, but this woman has refused to leave me alone. I am thinking of changing my number, but this is the number I have been using for years so I am kind of reluctant in changing it. I do not know what to do about this situation; please I would need your advice.

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Bemigho and Dunni have been married for over seven years now, and their marriage is blessed with three kids. However, trouble seems to be brewing in the house right now because of Dunni’s insatiable appetite for sex. Bemigho had been complaining seriously that in spite of the fact that they have three kids it has not changed or slowed down Dunni’s appetite for sex as she seem to be in the mood almost every time and wants sex every day. He tries as much as possible to please her by having sex with her at least four to five times a week. However, the most painful part of it all is that most times after having sex, she would say she was unable to reach orgasm and then grab her vibrator to help her complete the job. He finds this use of this vibrator very irritating and often complains because it makes him feel he is not man enough to satisfy his wife. So these days she waits for him to sleep and then take it to the bathroom to help herself. Bemigho is in his late forties and is 10 years older than her so her sex drive is stronger than that of Bemigho, which is quite understandable considering the age difference. Also he had recently lost his job and things has been a bit tight with him as he seem to be struggling to keep his family going, so sex seem to be the last thing on his mind most times. However, everything came to a boiling point about 4 months ago when Bemigho came home unexpectedly one day and met his wife in their room masturbating with her intimacy gadgets. He was so mad with her that he had to seize all her vibrators and throw them away for good because to him she was behaving abnormally and he was beginning to get pissed with her unusual appetite for sex.
The real problem right now is that Dunni may be pregnant for another man. Yes, another man, who happens to be her husband’s very good friend. In fact he was his best man when they wedded. According to her, she never had the intention of cheating on her husband as she has been quite faithful all these years they have been together as she really loves her husband would not want to do anything to hurt him. She has never ever nursed the intention of sleeping with another man even with her hubby’s sexual shortcomings.She had remained a faithful and loyal wife.She said the unfortunate incident happened about 2 months ago when they were having financial challenge in paying their children’s school fees and the term was coming to an end so they needed to pay up or else their kids would be stopped from writing exams. She had told her hubby to call his friend who was doing well financially but he had refused saying he had borrowed money from him previously and has been unable to meet up with the payment and so cannot call him to ask for more money. She then told her hubby that she was going to call him herself if he refuses to do so, because she could not stand the disgrace of seeing their kids been stopped from school because they could not afford to pay their fees, and at this, he agreed to allow her do the asking on their behalf. She then called her hubby's friend and explained their situation to him. He immediately asked her to come over to his office at Apapa to get the money. On getting there, he asked her to wait so he could quickly round up what he was doing and take her to the bank to withdraw the money and then drive her home. She said, it was on their way to the bank, he started making passes at her and told her how he had secretly admired her and was attracted to her before she got married to his friend. At first she didn’t believe what she was hearing and thought he was just joking and flattering her, not until he casually placed his hands on her lap and started rubbing her thighs. She had initially wanted to rebuke him but found out that she just couldn’t utter a word as her body seem to be responding to his touch. She knew she had to stop him, but didn’t have the willpower to do so. She had not had sex with her hubby for about 2 weeks before then because he was on a fasting program, and she had also stopped her masturbation which she used to do at least once a day, after her hubby had quarreled with her and threw away all her intimacy gadgets. She knew she had to resist this, but she was just too weak sexually, she just didn't have the strong will to resist his advances . That was how she had fallen for the temptation of adultery with her hubby’s friend. She had regretted seriously after the deed was done and it was as if she had regained all her lost senses. She had almost wanted to forget about the money, because it now looked like she had slept with him because of their situation, but she could not because she knew they needed the money. She had left him that day with a clear warning that he should never attempt to come close to her or her family again because she would react negatively if he does as she never wants to see him again. Now the problem right now is that she had missed her period last month and gone for a test and found out she was pregnant. She is sure the pregnancy is not her hubby’s because they had been using withdrawal method since they had the last kid which was three years ago and it has been working for them. She is at loss as to what to do, as she would not want to give her hubby a child that has been fathered by another man and she also cannot see herself going for an abortion, not after three kids she said. Now the question is what does she do? Well I really don’t know what to advise her. The deed has already been done, so she would just have to live with the consequences no matter how hard it is. While I am not absolving Dunni of her sins, I still feel to a great extent that Bemigho’s attitude contributed a great deal to what has happened. This should however, serve as a lesson to some of our African men who are still conservative towards issues concerning sex with their wives. Sex is meant to be enjoyed within the context of marriage, so both partners should do whatever it is to keep their better half satisfied no matter what it takes so as not to give room for this kind of temptation. A lot of men would wish for a wife like Dunni who enjoys sex and has a huge appetite for it, as compared to some other women who will make excuses and find every way to avoid sex, most especially after three kids. This is a case of you don't know what you have till you lose it. I do hope that Dunni finds a way to get around this problem and keep her marriage intact.Your suggestions on the best way she can tackle this will be highly welcomed. Do have a great weekend. Cheers
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In my church this marriage will be declared null and void. Although the church is against divorce but in cases like this it will be allowed because the marriage was based on deception so it is assumed that it never took place because if not for the deception things would have been different so they will be allowed to go their separate ways. Sad story though.

cococandy:
If I be this one wife, I'll collect the money for myself and divorce him.

Since he's willing to let the marriage go for half of the money, I'll be willing to let it go for all of it.

There are only 3 options.
We say no ( first chiice(
Or say yes and stay married afterwards (second choice)
Or I collect it alone and we get a divorce.

LMAO you be real original Naija woman. The thing is that it will be difficult for any man to live with it afterwards so the best thing is either you take option 1 or you on your own take option three because option two is not feasible at all because even when you agree to stay married afterwards that thought will always be on the man's mind and problem will be coming from different direction and before you know it the marraige is broken.

uote author=jashar post=37991846]It's appalling to know that money is much important than human life

You no know Wetin the man carry and you go let am sleep with ya wife!!!

After una 2 don collect the money finish, you'll start hearing stories that touch, especially from the man.

The tired old song of these hoes ain't loyal blah de blah.

Can you with good conscience sleep with that woman again? Next thing you know, divorce papers come calling.[/quote]Exactly my point. A lot of people will want to take the money out of greed but would not be able to live with their concience afterwards. The truth is that any man that takes this kind of money in the first place does not really love his wife in the first place.

What will you do if a Billionaire offers you 1 million dollars ($1m ) to sleep with your wife for just one night. That was the question asked last week by Buki and Sholz of Classic FM on their lunch time program. According to them, there was this movie about a couple who were dead broke, so much so, that they couldn’t even afford to buy themselves a meal on the anniversary of their wedding. They were at this restaurant where they had intended to have dinner to celebrate their anniversary, but, on going through the menu, they found out that they could barely afford anything on the menu.

However, seated in a quiet corner in the restaurant was this billionaire who was obviously attracted to the wife and has noticed their predicament. He asked them over to his table and told them they could have anything they wanted on his bill. They got talking and during the course of their conversation the billionaire asked the husband, what will he say if he offered him $1 million to have his wife for just one night.
Initially the couple had laughed over it and looked at it like a bad joke but on getting home they realized that the billionaire was dead serious and the reality of their situation hit them. The fact that they could not even afford to pay their rent and many other things made them sit down and have a heart to heart talk on what they should do.

Well your guess is as good as mine on what happened afterwards. However, I threw this question open the other day at our usual hang out spot and Ola a 45 year old stock broker said he will take the money. We were all surprised when he said this, but then everybody is entitled to his opinion. I asked him, if he was sure of what he was saying, and how is he going to continue living with his wife knowing that he had shared her with another man for money? It was then he told me that he will split the money halfway with his wife and then ask for a divorce, because he definitely won’t be able to sleep with her again after the act. Ehime a 42 year old businessman on his part, said he cannot do such a thing, as it is against their tradition in Esan land where he comes from. He told us that while that kind of act maybe acceptable in the western world it would be a big taboo over here in Africa, and in Nigeria in particular. He said in Esan land, once a couple is married traditionally it will be a big taboo for the wife to sleep with another man, and if she does this, it will have dire consequences on both the woman and her children, as she may end up losing her children one after the other and eventually she will lose her life if she refuses to confess. However, if the husband is privy to this and is still married to the woman, he will be the one to lose his life. So he said he will not want to lose his life and so cannot accept that kind of offer even if he is offered a $1 Billion dollars.

Although I did not get to hear the responses from listeners on the radio program to know how they responded but I know that majority of Nigerian men will not accept such an offer. Just like Ehime said, our culture and tradition forbids such a thing. In Urhobo land where I come from, our tradition is just like that of the Esan people. Once a couple is married traditionally the woman cannot afford to sleep with any other man because it will definitely work against her and her hubby if the man is aware. Ola was however of a different opinion about this. He said that there are a lot of married women who sleep around these days and nothing is happening to them or their family.

It may be true that some married women do get away with infidelity but this can only happen under the following circumstances
(i) If the couple were not married traditionally. ( There are some couples who just did Court Registry)
(ii) If they were merely cohabiting and have not done their traditional rites.
(iii) There are some part of Nigeria where this kind of taboo is not applicable
(iv) Some women go to the extent of looking for the antidote to forestall any eventuality that may arise as a result of their Misdemeanor

So you can see why it will be difficult for a lot of Nigerian men to accept such an offer. Even without the shenanigan of our culture and tradition. It will be quite difficult for any man to accept money and agree to share his wife. This is Africa and in Africa such things are not acceptable. Although I know that with the harsh reality of the Economy some men like Ola might want to accept it considering the amount of money involved. The question however is, will they be able to live with themselves after doing this. LOL
let me tell me what you think. I will love to know

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