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Career / Re: Is It Possible For OND Holder To Earn Upto 80k Per Month? by NenyeJay: 8:11pm On Nov 04, 2015
Its very possible. A banker with OND earns up to dat. An oil company can pay dat too.
Romance / Truth About Dwen Post: "My Wife Beats Me Up Anytime We Ave Misunderstanding by NenyeJay: 4:59pm On Nov 04, 2015
why on earth should you guyz judge without truthful details. Is it possible for a woman to beat a man dat strong. Of a truth, the woman hit him with her hand but her intention was not to injure him but to show how hurt she felt. Again, What led to the woman trying to show how hurt she was by hitting him. There was an argument, there has always been. The only problem they experience in their home, I mean the only problem is all about women, not money, not becos she does not love him, not becos of material things but women. He said by himself that the woman is very good on bed. She is always by him even though, they dont have enough but she is happy even with the little they have. She does not complain because the man in question cant afford much, she is supportive. I'm telling you guyz the truth and nothing but the truth. Even though we owe nobody that but posting such by him and seeing all these comments can be hurtful. Never wanted to comment or post this but just to clear the air, i had to do it. He cannot deny this if he wants to be truthful but only God will judge.

The man was wrong and instead of him admitting his wrongs, the reverse was the case. He always capitalized on the woman's weakness which is "reacting so hard when there's issues like that". And you know how annoying it can be especially with women when the other party does not see his wrongs as wrong.

The truth of the matter is this, " the man in question was always chatting with his girlfriends, even the ones that know the wife through him, always calling and receiving their calls (in the midnites too) even when they are together. Though he has not taken any of them to bed like he said, but their love chats was degrading and disrespectful to the wife. You can imagine where your husband would be professing love to another woman, telling them how beautiful and sexy they look. imagine where your husband of five years (Legally married), courted for five years before getting married with two beautiful kids, would tell one of his girl friends that the wife is his baby mama (Recent development, infact on the 2nd of Nov. 15 was when the cat was let out of the bag). Note: The woman was always confronting the ladies peacefully and they were responsible and reasonable enough to sincerely apologize (thanks to them) and to relate their relationships with her husband. This man in question would tell them that he is not married. One of them had to cause a great havoc at the guyz office some years back, because he promised to marry her without she knowing the man is married. She had to spend 100 of thousands when the man had an accident with his car on the 26th of June, 2010. He lied he was travelling to PH when that accident occurred, when actually it was on the day of his wedding. This has been going on for the past five years now. Ask this man in question the woman he was begging a nite after their weeding day because the woman found out from the guyz colleague who was her friend that he had his wedding the previous day. The wife in question would always cry herself out at the early stage of their marriage while the man would say she was shedding crocodile tears. At a time, the woman became hard-hearted, instead of crying, it leads to exchanging of words and probably hitting him with her bare hands and not with any weapon, please take note. So many things which I cannot put in words here. Please don't be judgmental without getting the facts. I can only say that God is the only judge here and he knows all that has happened. We humans can lie but God can never lie. The woman in question is really in pains and regrets. We read all your comments and its well. God knows the truth. We rest our case.
Romance / Re: My Wife Beats Me Up When Ever We Have Misunderstanding... Please Advise by NenyeJay: 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2015
why on earth should you guyz judge without truthful details. Is it possible for a woman to beat a man dat strong. Of a truth, the woman hit him with her hand but her intention was not to injure him but to show how hurt she felt. Again, What led to the woman trying to show how hurt she was by hitting him. There was an argument, there has always been. The only problem they experience in their home, I mean the only problem is all about women, not money, not becos she does not love him, not becos of material things but women. She is always by him even though, they dont have enough but she is happy even with the little they have. She does not complain because the man in question cant afford much, she is supportive. I'm telling you guyz the truth and nothing but the truth. Even though we owe nobody that but posting such by him and seeing all these comments can be hurtful.

The man was wrong and instead of him admitting his wrongs, the reverse was the case. He always capitalize on the woman weakness which is "reacting so hard when there's issues like that". And you know how annoying that can be especially with women when the other party does not see his wrongs as wrong.

The truth of the matter is this, " the man in question was always chatting with his girlfriends, even the ones that know the wife through him, always calling and receiving their calls (in the midnites too) even when they are together, though he has not taken any of them to bed like he said, but their love chats was degrading and disrespectful to the wife. You can imagine where your husband would be professing love to another woman, telling them how beautiful and sexy they look. imagine where your husband of five years (Legally married) with two beautiful kids would tell one of his girl friends that the wife is his baby mama (Recent development, infact on the 2nd of Nov. 15 was when the cat was let out of the bag). Note: The woman was always confronting the ladies peacefully and they were responsible and reasonable enough to sincerely apologize and to relate their relationships with her husband. This man in question would tell them that he is not married. One of them had to cause a great havoc at the guyz office because he promised to marry her without she knowing the man is married. She had to spend 100 of thousands when the man had an accident with his car on the 26th of June, 2010. He lied he was travelling to PH when that accident occurred, when actually it was on the day of his wedding. This has been going on for the past five years now. The woman in question would always cry herself out at the early stage of their marriage while the man would say she was shedding crocodile tears. At a time, the woman became hard-hearted, instead of crying, it leads to exchanging of words and probably hitting him with her bare hands and not with any weapon, please take note. So many things which I cannot put in words here. Please don't be judgmental without getting the facts. I can only say that God is the only judge here and he knows all that has happened. The woman in question is really in pains and regrets. We read all your comments and its well. God knows the truth.
Family / My Friend Needs An Advise Please by NenyeJay: 11:38am On Nov 03, 2015
This is happening to my friend.

She has been married for six years now with three beautiful kids. Ever since she got married, her husband has been keeping some questionable relationships with women. One day she saw love text msgs between her husband and his girl friend. when it became too frequent, she called the girl in question to ask some peaceful questions and the girl apologized sincerely to her and told her that her husband never mentioned he was married, and that he promised to marry her. The lady caused so much havoc, even to the extent of going to the guyz office to make trouble. She told my friend that the hubby called her that he had an accident on his way to portharcourt and she gave the guy One hundred thousand to fix his damaged car (Note: He really had an accident on dat same day and that was the day of their wedding). He later apologized to my friend and life continued. Later on, he had someone else again (he will always say he does not take them to bed), she began to loose confidence in him and was always searching his phones. fortunately and unfortunately for my friend, she bumps into another love text msgs with anoda girl and when she confronted him, he denied a visible chats. It has been a regular routine. Its been on and off like dat for the past six years. The most recent now is a friend he has since 2005, they have been chatting for sometime now. She calls anytime of the day even when they are together. she began to wonder if the girl was aware that the man is married. But when she called the lady to ask peacefully, she apologized also to her and swore she never knew her husband is married. She said the hubby told her that he has a baby mama. My friend is really worried cos its getting out of hand. Its not once, twice, thrice, infact its a continuous thing. And the worst of all is that he goes about lying to them that he is not married and at the same time promising to settle with them. She has lost her love for him and really wants a divorce. Kindly advise

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