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Family › Re: My Wedding Was Stopped 6 Weeks To The D-Day by neonly: 8:04am On Oct 07, 2022 |
Always two side of a story Bunch of liabilities Wetin yur own family contribute ( dem they look for respect) Thk God for d guy life oooo |
Travel › Re: Kogi Flood: 8 Days On The Road From Warri To Lokoja, Motorists Cry Out (video) by neonly: 10:23am On Oct 06, 2022 |
Wetin dis people dey do with d ecological funds they collect from FG Nigeria a county of miracles |
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Family › Re: As A Wife Should I Support My Husband In Paying Bills In The Home? by neonly: 8:03pm On Oct 05, 2022 |
It take two to tangle Two is better than one No matter how small u contribut is will always be appreciated |
Education › Re: Who Was The Teacher Who Could Flog The Most In Secondary School by neonly: 1:23pm On Oct 05, 2022 |
Roger Moore for finbarrs college in akoka if you know you know |
Properties › Re: Standard 2bedroom Flat To Let At Bariga by neonly: 8:21am On Oct 05, 2022 |
A good house doesn't need advert na people rush am My thought sha |
Romance › Re: My Message To A Female Nairalander by neonly: 8:20am On Oct 05, 2022 |
Yur topic is very deep but the girls in on dis 20's century will think differently Once a woman have good home training how to treat a man she wins all Many untrained children have become parents Now how do u expect to train der own children Na feminists dey come dey claim after failed relationship |
Romance › Re: I Almost Murdered My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me. But GOD Stopped Me. by neonly: 5:58pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Naso d girl Fyn reach dat u no fit share Just thank yur inner sef dat controlled u Mazimum kirikiri no bi beans oooo |
Business › Re: How To Choose The Right Solar Company by neonly: 3:25pm On Oct 03, 2022 |
Why kuku settle for tokunbo(carnada) types to save yur self from all this yur write up |
Family › Re: Man Comes Back To Claim Babymama After Social Media Contributed Money For Her by neonly: 9:48am On Oct 03, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Man Comes Back To Claim Babymama After Social Media Contributed Money For Her by neonly: 9:28am On Oct 03, 2022 |
No man lazy Abeg na hustling never click |
Family › Re: by neonly: 9:08am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Family first but most empty head women normally choose church over der family |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnseason7: Eight (8) Reasons Why It Flopped! by neonly: 9:04am On Oct 03, 2022 |
To me I think is 6-7 cause things are tough More over since they remove dat nake bathing for d show it became less intresting for me |
Politics › Re: Atiku: This Is Real Gym With Certified Instructors (Throwback Photos) by neonly: 8:59am On Oct 03, 2022 |
Upon all d money wey dis man get see d kind of cheap machine dis man dey use |
Family › Re: How Can I Travel With My Child As A Single Mother by neonly: 5:18pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Feminist una don start giving to Peter what belong to Paul |
Phones › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Data Monthly by neonly: 9:09pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Blackberry comes to my mind right now all dis networks are just proper OLE |
Phones › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Data Monthly by neonly: 9:08pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Period007: Stop using Facebook App,instead use Facebook from a browser like chrome Does it reduce data consumption |
Romance › Re: I'm In A Dilemma Right Now by neonly: 10:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Walai: Her mom is living with another man now and she was brought up by her grandma D main reason for d woman to send her to u knowing fully well dat you will take care of her d way u did to her |
Politics › Re: [9/30, 20:31] Mavericks: What's Animation? [9/30, 20:31] Mavericks: Animation Is by neonly: 8:55am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Stupid foolish clueless idiot president Oga history will never forget u Turning Nigeria back to d apes age God punish u |
Romance › Re: I'm In A Dilemma Right Now by neonly: 8:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
U wan do jazz to live long Guy free am it will be a burden to u Are u even sure is not her mum that sent her |
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Celebrities › Re: Artis Leon Ivey Jr. Is Dead! (Coolio Dies At 59) by neonly: 9:12am On Sep 29, 2022 |
Men guys Don fall ooooo A big RIP to u bro |
Health › Re: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by neonly: 12:32pm On Sep 28, 2022 |
Romanoff: Could be depression due to heartbreak.
I've seen heartbreak make some ladies lose it.
First take her to a tertiary level hospital to be examined by a doctor, she'd be referred to a psychologist or a psychiatrist depending on her symptoms. U totally correct |
Phones › Re: The Most Powerful Smartphone On The Planet by neonly: 7:54pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
D most powerful phone in d world is HTC M8 |
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Technology Market › Re: Any Laptop Technician In Ikorodu? by neonly: 7:49pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
Go to behind d brt bus park were they repair phone D second upstairs ask of bambam he has leg issues sha Still d most trusted technician for PC there Thk me later I used him severally |
Romance › Re: Davido Rocks Chioma Big Yansh And Holds Her Big Breast by neonly: 4:20pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
Ever8090: as if it's your business how you choose to live her life.. D goat dey jealous |
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Politics › Re: Calabar City (a Call For Concern) by neonly: 7:56pm On Sep 26, 2022 |
Na election season nobody get time to clean up oooo Ayade is d most useless governor in history in cally |
Romance › Re: What Really do {Nigerian} Women have to Offer? Come in and Find Out. by neonly: 4:30pm On Sep 26, 2022 |
TONYE001: This is, perhaps, one of the most common questions raised in boy-girl discussions. On this platform, I've seen a lot of users pose this question too. Earlier today, I saw a thread which has a video of a lady promising to have a "fantastic time" with her husband after being given an important gift. Of course, lots of users were rather sad that all the lady had to show gratitude for her gift was sex. Again, they asked what ladies really have to show in romantic relationships.
I decided to create this thread to attempt to answer this question.
1. Substance.
There are many Nigerian women of substance. Many! There are many Nigerian women that are very successful in their careers. There are many Nigerian women that are excellent models of the younger generation.
Late Professor Dora Akunyili (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dora_Akunyili) is a good example of a Nigerian woman/wife/mother of substance. Her name, her successes must have added value to her family.
So, what did Madam Dora bring to the family table? She gave her family pride. She brought her children life lessons. She brought motivation. She brought comfort. I'm sure her husband would have been proud to have her stand beside him as his wife.
2. Ideas.
There are great Nigerian women whose ideas have opened ways for themselves and their families. Dr. Stella Chinyere Okoli (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stella_Chinyelu_Okoli#:~:text=Stella%20Chinyelu%20Okoli%20(MON%2C%20OON,manufacturing%20company%20founded%20in%201977.) is a typical example. This lady is a philanthropist, a pharmacist, and the founder of Emzor Pharmaceuticals. Emzor is one of the leading pharmaceutical companies in our environment.
So, what does this great woman bring to the table? Quite similar to Dora's story. She brings finances to the table. This can't be debated. She is a source of pride to her children (and late husband). Her name alone has the potential of opening new doors to anyone associated with it.
3. Gifts.
We're quite familiar with men buying expensive gifts for their women. How about stories of women buying expensive gifts for their men? This is also very common, but of course, some men have chosen to shut their eyes to this.
In this story (https://m.facebook.com/punchnewspaper/posts/4722540387784086), a Nigerian bride got a car for her husband! In this other story, a Nigerian wife got her husband a Benz to mark their seventh wedding anniversary (https://www.nairaland.com/6742931/nigerian-lady-buys-husband-benz).
Nigerian wives do a lot of stuffs, actually, not just buying cars and airplanes for their husbands. Some pay (or support their husbands to pay) house rents, school fees, hospital bills, etc. If we looked into our lives, we would recall instances when our mothers provided a certain fund we needed. In d lates 70's women were wonderful but you see now especially in dis buhari era women have actually reduced themselves Yes reduced their self Look around you even majority d riches ones among them still get her wealth From a man directly or indirect |