TV/Movies › Re: Ay's 30 DAYS IN ATLANTA Is Overhyped (opinion) by Neplusultra(f): 4:35pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
No be lie  |
Education › Re: Nigerian Breaks Academic Record At University Of Manchester!!! Photos by Neplusultra(f): 4:12pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
O42! Abakpa nti ike!  |
Politics › Re: Ndume, Na’Allah Ratified Senate Majority Leader, Deputy by Neplusultra(f): 3:41pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Dis country is messed up! God na ur hand we dey abeg  |
Crime › Re: How The Ikorodu Bank Robbers Operated, Plus Photos Of Victims In Hospital by Neplusultra(f): 1:35pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
I wouldn't blame dem much, if not for our greedy leaders, dis country won't be like dis, secondly, I love dem for not killing anybody! |
Celebrities › Re: Charly Boy Celebrates His Grand Daughter On AIT (photos) by Neplusultra(f): 1:24pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Very pretty |
Politics › Re: Senator David Mark Sack Brother, Son And Others by Neplusultra(f): 12:52pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
David Mark shud go and sit his dirty ugly bottom down!!! Must he continue to milk Nigeria dry with his 300 aids! Gosh! I just hate dis man now!!!!  |
Romance › Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 - Final Elimination Round (SEMI-FINAL) by Neplusultra(f): 12:19pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Tom French Flow 1759 Cc:NLJega |
Romance › Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 - Final Elimination Round (SEMI-FINAL) by Neplusultra(f): 11:09am On Jun 25, 2015 |
Tom French Flow 1759 Cc: NLJega |
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Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Lectures Jonathan's Minister Over Alleged $30billion ECA Fund by Neplusultra(f): 6:01pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
Jonathan is still giving Oby nightmares, she doesn't wanna hear anything GEJ. |
Travel › Re: Lagos - Ikorodu Road In 1947 by Neplusultra(f): 5:57pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
bushdoc9919: The Igbos were making great strides in education back then....covering up the gap between them and the SW.
(And if you mist recall....the first Nigerian VC of the University of Ibadan was.........an Igbo man. .Prof Kenneth Dike.).
And I am not Ibo by the way....or Yoruba. Oga iv bin wanting say you are Nairaland's patriotic and detribalized Nigerian |
Crime › Re: Man Slits His Brother's Throat In Onitsha (WARNING: Graphic Image) by Neplusultra(f): 5:32pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
They must have been sworn enemies  |
Crime › Re: Another Magodo Housemaid Plans With Robbers To Rob Boss, Escapes With Loot {PIC} by Neplusultra(f): 5:30pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
aspirebig: It is not poverty at all. Looking at the Nigerian society, the crime rate now is unprecedented.Poverty was more in the 70s,80s and 90s and the crime rate was lesser.I have to also add that the level of crime in Nigeria is nothing compare to these few cases that goes viral. A lot more happen that people do not get to hear on newspapers,blogs,tvs etc.
Housemaids are just one of those crimes. I want to look @ this housemaid issues from the following perspectives, spiritually,financially and morally.
1.Spiritually:First, i will not advice anyone to take a maid without a thorough background screening, spiritually and physically.I know a lot of people will say where is the time for all that,but it is worth it.Once you want to get a maid,take time to take the maid to a very prayerful church if you are a christian for prayers. I have heard of housemaids that were agents of darkness that killed the guardian children,spoil the man's business,initiate the children into their witchcraft.if you have the time at the point of recruitment,when the deed has been done,the time will automatically be available,but too late. 2.Financially:You need to do an evaluation of getting a maid into your home,or paying the 'day care' outlet in your neighbourhood.These days in Nigeria,especially in Lagos getting maids is a big business. The maids now have agents that are outsourcing them to their potential guardian,the agents will collect his or her own fees,just like house agents. There was a case of a particular agent who normally get maids for people around Ikeja area in Lagos,then the person pays upfront say like 3 to 6months. And monthly is like 30k monthly,so say 30k times 6 months is like 180K,times 3 is 90K minus the agent fees,then when you add that,do the math,you will know the total. Then,the maid disappears after two weeks,most times they leave when the guardian leave the house to work. Then a call is put across to the agent,the agent will not pick the call or busy the number. Though he was later caught,as a different number was used to call him by someone else to come to another part of lagos to discuss a new deal of bringing new maids to a family.
3. Morally: Most of these maids be them male or female are sometimes the first to molest the guardian son or daughter. Some people said they want male maids,so Oga will not be tempted to rape the person when they are not at home,the same male maids will be molesting the young daughters of say 4 to 10 yrs when their parents are out. Some diabolic ones even even sleep with madam when oga travels for business or work. If you get a female maid too,they may be molested or impregnated by the husband,their male sons,brother in-laws,drivers,gateman,pregnancy aborted or the maid will molest the little sons of the family too. I have watched a video the went viral 6years that a female housemaid was putting a little 3 or 4years boy organ into her private part. It was caught on CCTV.
Some house maids are even employ with pregnancy too. I know of a family that their first son pregnant the housemaid,the man insist that the son must marry the maid,that was how the first son marry the maid oo. Though they are from the same town. They two had like 4 children together.
It is better you call your mother to come and stay with you after giving birth,then later register your child in a day care or engage the service of an elderly woman if your mother is late or cannot be around.
For me,maid na no no. I don't want to write ouside the context of this topic,because Nigeria as a society many things have fallen apart. Hmmmm...now am scared  |
Crime › Re: Another Magodo Housemaid Plans With Robbers To Rob Boss, Escapes With Loot {PIC} by Neplusultra(f): 5:20pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
Are dese human beings or reptiles?  |
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Crime › Re: Photo Of People On The Run During The Robbery Incident In Ikorodu, Lagos Today. by Neplusultra(f): 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
Osondu agwuike  |
Politics › Re: 42 Killed As Boko Haram Loots Homes, Shops, Set Houses Ablaze by Neplusultra(f): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
If dese heavily built men are BH dat means it's no longer a Nigerian, Chad and Niger tin. |
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Crime › Re: Seven Youths Gang-rape Trader In Alaba Market by Neplusultra(f): 11:33am On Jun 24, 2015 |
Like i care, please rape ur sisters alone! Rubbish! |
Crime › Re: Seven Youths Gang-rape Trader In Alaba Market by Neplusultra(f): 11:29am On Jun 24, 2015 |
Emenahagos02: It should be "cases of rape in Southwest everyday, sad. konji full dat syd for no reason, maybe u guys should stop eating too much pepper, the thing dee disturb una for waist. LOL |
Politics › Re: Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe Tells Journalist To 'shut Up' On Live Radio by Neplusultra(f): 11:24am On Jun 24, 2015 |
Yea! Shut d hell up!  |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Wike Member Of National Salary Committee by Neplusultra(f): 7:48pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Firefire: haaaahaaaaa, Amaechi the "Civilian Coup Plotter"[/b] you see your life  May be, just maybe, dats another side to dis Greek gift,who knows..... |
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Wike Member Of National Salary Committee by Neplusultra(f): 7:42pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
There may be no post for Amaechi so they are trying to just see what dey can do for him instead of leaving him emptyhanded  |
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Wike Member Of National Salary Committee by Neplusultra(f): 7:34pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
cfame1: Mr man buhari and apc is being tactical. They want to appease wike so as to modify d imimminent corruption findings in the ongoing amechi's probe. Trying to protect amechi. Don't be deceived bro Exactly! Nothing more, nothing less!!! Very soon now, Wike and Amaechi will be pals and you'll be wondering what happened? Hehehe! Politics in Nigeria! |
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Wike Member Of National Salary Committee by Neplusultra(f): 7:29pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Crime › Re: Police Nab Three Inter-state Car Robbers After Their Operation(Pictures) by Neplusultra(f): 7:10pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
D same pple!!! This is sooo funny!!!!  |
Nairaland General › Re: Photo: Nigerian Man Has The Strongest Teeth In Africa. by Neplusultra(f): 6:56pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
mecuzee: A man's gift makes way for him. Una dey here dey condemn the guy teeth. Teeth don carry my guy go Germany! Dont mind Haters! Dey are still here living in abject poverty! |
Nairaland General › Re: Photo: Nigerian Man Has The Strongest Teeth In Africa. by Neplusultra(f): 6:53pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Kiliwi Nwachukwu has resurrected!!! |
Crime › Re: I’m Our Gang’s Armourer —robbery Suspect(Picture) by Neplusultra(f): 6:27pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Dirty, Lazy, Ugly, oh Lord!!!! Nothing Good about dem!!! Please burn dem with petrol an nd tyres! Good riddance!!!  |
Crime › Re: I’m Our Gang’s Armourer —robbery Suspect(Picture) by Neplusultra(f): 6:21pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
shikaan: The suspects, identified as Tunde Seun, 20; Abayomi Segun, 28, and Turheeb Kolawole, 19, SMH. BTW what part of Nigeria ar they from sef ? LOL!!! |