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nairamaniac:
you must be a bastard child of a bastard father.

I wonder why you fools always see Lagos as a place where You God, Tinubu opened up to other tribes.

What sort of illiterate Entitlement mentality is that?
U sound as if every other tribe in Lagos beside Yoruba that is currently living there only got there by Tinubu's direct handwork?

I am not Yoruba but my grandfather was a landlord in Lagos during shagari's regime.

My father became a landlord afterwards. Just as he became a landlord I'm other states beside Lagos.

Would you now look as me as a 3rd generation in Lagos and say *I am privileged to be in Lagos bexos of Tinubu or Sanwo Olu*?

Mind you, no governor of any sovereign country can give selective-conditions to Prospective-Lamdlords in his state.

The moment any Governor does that , you know what crime he has committed?

An ilitrate idiot like u from an ilitrate father and mother would never know the answer.

It's called APARTHEID.

Carry your dull head to check find out what APARTHIED means.

The last country in Africa that practiced Aparthied was South Africa. It was like the worst sin committed by the country ever.

For your information, both sides of the equation profit from the Transaction
It opens the states economy to productive external investors and the incoming tribe gets an opportunity to stay, work and do businesses in that state.

If Lagos state had said only Yorubas should buy properties I'm BANANA ISLAND and it's current rates, within a stipulated period of time, do you think Banana island would have been occupied as it is currently?

U don't even deserve to be educated.
Foolish slowpoke.

Honestly that guy was very annoying. I don't blame your anger and insults on him. But next time take it eazy

LordReed:
Yes we were related.

sorry bout that. May God give you the fortitude to bear the Loss.

Stay strong.

christistruth01:
Peter Obi never built a Party in his life

He only hijacked the ones others painstakingly built over decades

From APGA,to PDP to Labour Party

The man has no Political Ideology

Pls do you know what it is to hyjack a party?

It means to take over the political structure of a party.

Peter obi never ever took any control of any political structure of any of the parties he went thru, either as a Governor, Ex-Governor, or Presidential candidate.

So what exactly are you saying here?

Seun is just very very dull. Imagine him saying "peter obi left Pdp after loosing the Presidential primaries. Meanwhile peter obi never contested that Primaries.

LordReed:
So sad, it can't be easy as a parent. My condolences.

Gamine was not SS, she had cancer.

honestly, very sad loosing a child.

U seem to know Gamine quite well, are you related?

Such a very sad ending and a very touching video. Tears dropped from my eyes while watching it, as if I even knew her before.
She was well honoured.

I still don't understand how anyone would say this Anna banner chick is/was more beautiful than the love of my life, Susan

kaziblake:
Aww I pray you guys work it out.

Thanks dear. I would be rehearsing our to cry on that wedding day for Susan from now till then.

kaziblake:
Aww I pray you guys work it out.

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Im most likely to cry this much if/when I get married to my dream girl, Susan.

I know what I go thru all this while we haven't figured things out.

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olatricia:
NEVANA,
I was almost taking you serious when I on a second note, i noticed that u were just keeping your fingers busy. You don't even know the name of the woman u claimed you love. Vivian? Sussan? Oya tell me, sussan is her middle name!

Typographical error.

her name is Susan.

Vivian is my current gf I also reffered to in the post.

let's take this quite seriously.

ever fragment of this post may not apply to one person. but some little bit of it may apply to the person.

contribute based on what applies to you.

Michellla:
joined four minutes ago and already creating topics.
you no waste time at all

Iv been a nairalander for years. I only created this profile for this particular topic.

Have

Guys, have you ever met someone and within the first hour or day of your meeting see too many qualities of what you want in your dream girl or future wife?

Iv heard of "love at first sight". Iv heard of " soul-mate".

Trust me, iv never been an advocate or a believer of any of them.

I'm like any other guy that 1st gets attracted to a lady based on appearances. Then beauty, brains, sense of humour follows.

Next comes other qualities like Chemistry, compatibility, right attitude.

But all these qualities come if/when I wanna take her seriously.

But if its just for sex or fling: I only care bout physical qualities.

This is my experience with susan.
I met her sometime last year, November 2014. Approached her, used some tricks/chyking.

Luckyly for us both, we felt like eating . so we had lunch on me in restaurant. We ended up going back to our individual houses from there. We saw again on like 5 different different dates.

What's so amazing is that within the first 3 hangouts I saw just too many things in her that made me know she may be the one. None of those hangouts exceeded 2hours. I saw and listed almost 20things in her alone that I craved for in my future wife.

Iv had relationships for years before but I could hardly list up to 10qualities in one single of my ex's. And some of those relationships lasted for years. I loved them, but not having that many numbers of qualities as I could count in Susan. The irony of it is that I had spent less than 10 hours with Susan as compared to years I had with all those other girls.


This is the sad part if it all, which is also my challenge:

1) I am currently in a serious relationship with someone I don't see as my future wife.

2) I have financial instability to try dating Susan. By dating her, I don't mean sleeping with her or going out with her to marry her.

By dating-her, I mean the old fashioned way of being special enuf to her to be considered as a potential future husband.
Not that she's a gold-Digger or I feel I can only lure her with money. Let's don't decieve ourselves, we need financial stability to direct our scripts.

Im hardly the type to denigrate a girl for needing money in a relationship. I just feel its a necessary factor.


Now this is the thing: Iv been in a relationship for past 8months, but my current girl has shown too many things of all I resent in my future wife. At 1st wen we started, I used to freak out. But in BTW as soon as it dawned on me that she wouldn't be the one, all I did internally is place her in my "make-i-just-dey-groove-this-one-till-arrange-myself-ZONE".

Now, I know I'm being challenged financially to go out of my way to succeed in luring Susan to become mine.

This has nuffing to do with inferiority complex or she being a gold-digger.

But I'm a man DAT cant afford to fail when I want something.

Hence I want several factors to be in order be4 I enter the marriage-market.

Why I need to be more in order is because even those times I enjoyed Susan's company when we hung out. She didn't seen yo take me seriously. She was careless with certain details. The only escuses I made out for her was that " maybe we weren't dating hence the frequent nonchalant attitude from her. At times she gets Back home and never calls to say she's gotten home. I call her several times but doesn't pick. I did her Bb subscription but didn't call to acknowledge.

These things irritated me, but I made escuses for them that perhaps she doesn't take me serious enuf to think of me when she's Alone.

My thot is maybe if we were dating she would be more detailed.

Truth is I can never know till I date her.

And I can't date her till I arrange myself, financially.

I know I WD mk it soon by God's grace. But withing my first millions, I have plans of spending at least 14straight days of seeing Susan. It would even be more than a blessing if we spend those days in one room in another country. In order to take her out of the distractions of all the toasters and boyfriends she may have.

If I find out the wonderful side of her that I fell in luv with is the real side of her when/if she's dating someone, then believe me I would say "Iv found my soulmate".

Guys don't judge girls for showing you better attitude cause you have made money and started dating them.

Instead appreciate and love them that they showed you a better side of them cause you became important to them.

If your upgrade is required for you to become important to them, then your deficiency may have been the problem, not their long throat.


I would make it and date Susan. A none-Sexual date. If she takes me more seriously and all those numerous characters I observed in her within those first few days we met are real, Then Iv met my soulmate. Never would I suspect her of falling for my riches, but hold me former deficiencies accountable. Cause wen ever we were togeda, she was extremely respectful and down to earth. Although she was inconsistent and nonchallant most times we were apart.
I can't take that to heart, afteral I wasn't her guy, we had met just 3 to 5 times and she had a life before we met.

Iv never met a girl and saw too many loved qualities in her within such few hours.

Your contribution would be highly welcome.

Thanx!

Nevana