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temmytee2309:
thanks. I av also thought abt it bt d burden wil b too much on me as dere z no one to help me out.

The burden is not too much...

You have money all you need to do is sit down meditate, breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth with your eyes closed, this helps you to think..

Now think about the business opportunities you can get to survive in school...

You can do this

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

high arousal
slow and steady thrusting
use of condom
use of lubricants
and you will. be fine
Stay Healthy Stay Wise

I see... now let's say you have to continue with your business.. that means you might never go to school... because you will not want to create your own personal business and open something that will get you money when you are in school.... instead you are planning to accumulate money till its enough to go to school.

but it will never be enough..

a wiseman once told me that powerful men respect education and value it like good..

so instead of accumulating cash.. get into business...

you can become a merrybet agent.. that brings a lot of cash and you don't have to be there....

you can open a business center with a cyber cafe..

there are so many business opportunities...you can create with your salary to help you go through school.. and you wouldn't feel like you left school....

stay healthy stay wise....

I will be sharing some posts tomorrow which might interest you..

it talks about business opportunities and improving the way we think...

just follow me and I will follow. back

Don't try to impress people with your lifestyle, trying to make them wish to be you.. Instead build people inside and out and they will be forever be indebted to you, including those they will build

I hope you enjoyed the posts I shared today... If you did... tomorrow is another day.. don't worry about the misleading titles

33bandit:
OK .mine is very shy .she's more than 20 but gets shy of people like shes 16 .but once she gets comfortable she's lit .ion know till date why but I believe its low self esteem m helping her on that tho

Its the society that made it so... and it is very wrong... she may want to be in the dark places and talk to you whenever you come to see her..

Its something you should change about her

Lastbender:
I must say I didn't quite expect this, thanks a bunch for this

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I once posted a relationship advice post... (although I made the title different to attract more readers) you can check them out

One thing is that it is different from every other

https://www.nairaland.com/3392516/5-things-every-lady-must

Once more sorry for the misleading title but I am here to discuss something more than just entertainment news... For those ogas and madams I just disappointing with the title abeg calm down... take pure water take press...

I am sharing this information and will do so for sometime .. Just stay with me to follow up

Talking about Value

Value can be defined as worth, worth is defined as importance, I defined importance in terms of value and a highly respected positive difference.. You may have heard people saying how you should be different.. or the popular saying that all girls and are not the same but different..

The normal kind of value we know is when we see a girl wearing the latest high heels, latest Brazilian hair, fair in complexion (these days they are all fair) and a tight gown or trousers and a top,

either way when you see this girl you will first weigh your standard and you might say you never have a chance with her (although those are one of the easiest kinds of girls to date)....

Now that standard you weighed is the value I am talking about here and that is just a physical kind of value and not the real meaning of value

Value can show in many ways

How we think

Relationship partners we choose

Future dreams

How we see money

The activities we engage in

How we think

Thinking differently tends to grade your value .

There is a saying that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but a great man once said that everyone is entitled to the right opinion..

The right opinion which not only comes from how we feel, but from understanding how others feel.

When someone steps on our feet there are many reaction

a. you scream at him/her when he refuses to show remorse
b. You look at him/her pitifully knowing they are not up to your standard
c. You say God bless you
d. You smile and try to talk to the person why he/she wants you to feel pain, turn it into a conversation and get to know someone.

Which one do you think the person thought differently... that's the one with true value..

Some are so quick to react and in public blurt out a word, which they wouldn't normally, Ladies have done this a lot, even those who never wear trousers because they are church girls

This tells a lot about value

Value is a.k.a public image... How we make others see us in public... Some say they don't care about how people see them in public, but we should not forget there is a reason why Yemi Alade is forever greater than Mo'cheedah because of what they represent..

Back to thinking differently..

People like Bill Gates and Mark, Larry Page and Tim Cook are highly valuable, because they think differently... where someone sees a material, they see a product and a way to impact the world...

If you read my other posts on the difference between the actives and the passives you will understand this more

Thinking differently has to do with mental state of mind and someone who is interested in his/her mental state of mind has great value... It tells that he/she is not just a living breathing human being but a living breathing (esther or george whatever your name is)

Relationship partners we choose

Ladies in abusive relationships, or in relationships where you pray the guy will change, guys in relationships where they don't care about anything as long they get to sleep with her.

This tells of the kind of value they posses

To be continued...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

cc: Nightie firstking01 elkon Mologi Tiny23

and to UjSizzle I have something intellectually stimulating to offer.. Lets be friends

Just got one follower and many more to come..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise.. remember I am not asking you to follow me because am proud... am saying so because I want to share something and quoting all of you will result in a ban...

Remember I will follow back

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

firstking01:
Seems you a newbee here.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise.. another post is upcoming if you are still interested

firstking01:
I dnt check guy's profile.

That's why I said you should follow.. Dont worry I will follow you back... If I am sharing highly important articles I have to be truthful....

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

firstking01:
Oga o, we no get time for this your[b] jabijantis[/b], paste whatever you have or bafuka

Check my profile

sibepoc:
I have been in relationship with this girl for over three years, we've lived together and been through a lot, but this girl has cheated on me with over 9 guys that I know of. I am someone who is stubborn when in love. I don't listen to advice. Each time I have tried to breakup with her cos of her indifelity, I couldn't cos of the pain. I feel more pain when not with her than when with her even when I know she's a nymphomaniac who has no control over herself. Just recently I broke up with her and I have been strongly fighting that urge not to go back to the relationship. Please I need advice on how to get over breakup and not make the stupid mistake of going back to her again and getting hurt as usual...

In other words what you are saying is that you have no value of your own, she is your lifeline.. without her you cannot breathe, you see only her....

One thing I understand here is that your woman lacks sexual satisfaction and she does not respect you... This is painting a picture of you in my mind.. the way you see life, how ambitious you and how valuable you think you are...

I can see that you are a very young guy, but I want to tell you something... Forget that shit of being a nice guy and loving women's heart, women love men who are powerful, valuable and ambitious... So rather than thinking of how to get over heartbreak.. .

Weigh what this girl has just taught you about life and get down to it...

Stop feeling pain instead feel that she just blessed you with a lesson... a lesson you might have learnt in a harsher way

I am sincerely looking for active people to follow and also follow back...

If you read the article I published this morning I said I will be publishing an article that was meant to tell us the three kinds of people.. and why Africa is not excelling due to the kind of people (not government)... in it...

I sincerely want everyone to read this article.. thats why I am chunking up followers... You might say I am seeking attention... and I agree I need that attention to change and improve your perception...

You might say you like who you are and you don't need any improvement... but let the article be the judge of that

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

MzLarem I once asked her (TrapQueen77) what kind of job she does... didn't get an answer up till now!

Lastbender:
how do I solve it After I've complained tire

you have complained, but you have not asked... Its normally for a human being to hide their feelings from others for fear of being ridiculed (called a child), misinterpreted or trust issues.. Imagine her telling you how she feels and you ask her if she is a small pikin..

One thing a guy must do when he dates a girl is to make her feel completely safe and secure with him, that is also being a friend, who she can relate everything to with you...

Just take her out to a nice outing and you guys have are having a good time with each other... talk to about it

Actually mynd44 does a pretty impressive and serious job moderating the politics section.. so it would be hard to replace her...

This is actually interesting... But the fact that we African will wait till the government does something is very appalling..

Did you know that 50% who saw this did not click to read .... not lets break those that clicked into 100% 50% who read did not care and those 40% that cared will just keep it in mind and keeping praying to God that disease does not catch them while the remaining 10% will get ready to improve their immune system

I accept all these facts and I accept that I have gotten all over all of them....

One thing is that if we stop being passive, we can become almost perfect

and yet you haven't solved this, but you just hate it...

Interesting

The abstracts in the bathroom are the real fit.. including that one in the dinning room.. As for the others they are beautiful... But they are not descriptive or fit the purpose of the room in which they are placed.

Very Beautiful

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I understand you... genieluv

The simple thing is that Nigerians, Africans are passive, when you understand this........ you will learn how to craft men and other people into what you want..

I will be posting an article explaining the three types of people, Actives, Passives and Inactives... You can check my profile for the post later in the day

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Jarizod:
[color=#679267] Oga I jus dey follow u play jare wey u come take am personal!!

u be woman ni wey u dey vexx anyhow [/color]

hahha

I will be sharing the post I promised above later in the day... Lets us all go to work first... you can check my profile later for the post.. or better still follow me

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Jarizod:
[color=#679267] Bros I won't lie to you.. I almost layed a curse on u [/color]

hahaa, you were planning to see a relationship in chaos right, but I am going to share something that actually makes more sense to you..

I am just looking for a few active people so that we can share these ideas.....

You can curse me if you want (was it not God who referred to Abraham and said whosoever curse you is cursed)

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

firstking01:
If what you are about to unleash is something to go by then i 'll be eagerly waiting, eventhough the heading is somewhat misleading.

Actually its something that we all need and want...

also for the misleading title, Nigerians are more interested in Romance and love than in stuff like this... so how do you attract someone who refuses to be attracted, you use what they like..

You can check my profile later for the post, or you can just follow me...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Luizkid:
wanted to call u an Idiot, but realised ur nonsense made sense...

finally someone who really wants to learn and share something... I will be posting it later in the day...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Kakamorufu:
Yinmu

hahahaha.. Wish you a happy morning