Sctests:


Na you and who dey build Nigeria. You buy cement keep for the building of Nigeria?

Thugnificent:
On Wednesday this week (Valentine's day) I experienced wickedness in it's purest or should i say unpurest form

A client I've been doing some work for since January this year finally paid me my wages ( about 50k). I kept thanking God because that was the only money in my account i swear. I was DEAD broke

The greatest shock of my life came when i checked my balance after receiving the credit alert.

What i saw startled me to my bone marows.

The sum of 18000 ( eighteen thousand naira) was removed from my account without any debit alert. I immediately called the customer care around 11 PM that same day after transferring the remaining balance to my Opay

Luckily i was able to connect with one. He told me that the reason for the withdrawal was because i was debited all the cost of sms alert charges since 2021 till date that amounted to the 18k.

I wasn't having any of that. The next day (yesterday) i went very early to the bank and made the same complaint. The cashier there directed me to the customer care.
The customer care also said the same thing and confirmed it from her system that the 18k withdrawal was from the accumulated sms charge since 2021 and showed me my history which corroborated with what they were saying.

I now asked them why they had to wait for three years before debiting me in bulk, they didn't give any reasonable answer.

I almost ran mad. I didn't know when i raised my voice out loud till the security ushered me out.

Right now I'm devastated and broken. Because most of the money i was to use to service some loans and feeding.

Right now i really don't know what to do.

How can i recover my money please. I have almost lost my mind.

Someone help me out with suggestions please. I take God beg you.

Edit: some of the debit recorded in the app. First Bank doesn't allow screenshot

Yankee101:
Doing igbos shege pro max in Lagos since Tinubu lost his own claimed state

Thinktwiceb4:
Good evening all,
pls someone should me because I can't think straight again since morning. I met a girl month ago, she has been on neck to have s*x with her for the past month but I always declined, at times I do reach the point but I always stop, but today's own was different cus I couldn't hold it any longer. Though it was not upto 2 minutes sex before I realized that the economy is not smiling but everything was inside already. After the s*x I contacted some people on what she can take, they recommended beecham and teem solar including the said girl, now she is feeling lizzy.
Pls I don't know what to do, I can't think straight at the moment.

This is my first time having sex and it will be the last for now

Astrid4:
I learnt this the hard way last year, this year I no even dey help any woman, most are damn selfish and too entitled, basically me helping woman is not for me to have anything in return, this is just me doing it for God, but they’ure damn ingrate, no good deed goes unpunished with women... if I wan do anything for God I’ll carry am go church or help my guys in my little way

Dtruthspeaker:
Look at it, sex is the only thing and place where we have restriction.

Considering The Law in Genesis 2 before The Law in Exodus, we were free in all things eg we were free to eat food,, clothes, travel, relating with people from any tribe, cars, houses, animals etc

But the only thing that we are not allowed to do is to have sex.

The Commandment even Said "Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die.

And it is in sex that we tell our liitle children as they are growing "Do not let anybody touch you ooh"

It is in sex we say "no dey touch my pikin like dat/i no like how you dey touch me"

It is in sex and for sex that you will hear women say "if you touch me, you go die"

It is in sex that touching is also cheating in marriage.

And it is in sex thst you are not allowed to have sex outside your marriage.

I think if it's actually a forbidden fruit, it shouldn't be accessible in marriage except if marriage is also a forbidden institution.

Sirchiboy:
Made a stand to stop sleeping with hoes coz I came into full awareness that nothing is so special about sex.
It will only drain your money and leave you in a state of perpetual regrets.

SETHARTHUR:
Landing high-paying freelance Gigs

Doolove:
Some time ago my boyfriend brought my matter here because I went to visit a male friend and I was called all sorts of derogatory names without anyone hearing my side of the story.

We met early last year, he was just out of school without a job but I still accepted him regardless. I had a stubborn ex that wouldn't go away so he was taking care of my bills while I was dating my new boyfriend which he was well aware of. I later had an issue with the ex that led to him calling the police on me accusing me of stealing the iPhone 7 that he bought for me while insisting that I return it or he would take the matter to his village and make sure I run mad. I stood my ground amid all the threats held on to the phone.

Coincidentally, things picked up for my guy when the ex left, he started getting lots of freelance gigs online so I didn't feel the absence of the old guy. My boyfriend made sure I didn't lack anything even without me asking. I had to break up with him once because I felt he was doing too much and I might be running him down. He laughed it off and gave me screenshots of some of his account balance.

Fast forward to this year and things went south again, The gigs stopped coming in, and some of the firms he worked for closed shop so he was surviving on his savings which were depleting very quickly. It's worthy to note that before now the major issue that I have had with him is the way he sees my relationships with other men. He practically doesn't want me to have male friends or even go on harmless sitouts with friends. He thinks it's a disrespect to him for me to have anything to do with other guys while I am in his place.

This has resulted in serious fights each I come back from seeing a friend, At times he gets so mad that he flings my things outside to go stay with whoever I went to see.

Meanwhile, things have been very tough for him recently to the extent that feeding has become difficult. He quickly invested in a farm with with a friend when his savings were going down and used the remaining money to startup a blog. Now it's looking as if the guy he's doing the farm business with has scammed him because it's been from one story to the other and he's so broke right now that he can't even afford data to write content for his blog which we all know blogging is even saturated and takes time to start paying.

I started work two weeks ago and I have been the one taking care of my transport fare, he only gives me 1k once in a while to support. It's this same men he doesn't want me to communicate with that has been helping me out all this while. He sits at home all day waiting for the proceeds of the farm so he can start mini importation of wigs.

Every guy that asks me out seems to be well to do than my guy and it really bothers me. They all have nice cares and ready to spend while my own guy now depends on begging to feed. Even though he's smart and all but I don't know where the break through will come from and it seems I am wasting my time with him.

On Monday was my off day and I was at home, I woke up with a mood swing so I wasn't talking to him. He was busy cleaning the house without mentioning breakfast so I had to call someone to come get breakfast for me. He got mad at me tagging it an insult to him. It caused issues and I left the house and dared him to do his worst and he asked me not to leave because I needed some positive vibes since he was boring me with his attitude. I actually went to my family house but he feels I always go to see a guy each time I leave the house.

I came back around 8pm to meet the house locked and he kept ignoring my calls knowing fully well that I didn't leave with my key and I wasn't feeling fine and needed to take my drugs. I got drenched by the rain and my sickness go worst. He came back home by 11pm that night.

Now I haven't been able to go to work for the past three days and he's been running around buying drugs and food on credit so I can get well when he caused it. On the other hand a guy that has been giving me stuffs asked me to take a break from work and rest and he will give me my full salary.

I am just confused, it seems I am leaving better things out there for a broke guy and it's bothering me. What do you guys think I should do

Please ignore any typos, I wrote in a hurry

Ltrust1:
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For ginger, untapped markets exist in Netherland, United Kingdom, Pakistan, Japan, Bangladesh, Canada, Malaysia, Germany, UAE and Italy. Estimated untapped potential is largest in the Dutch market with 4.5 million dollars of additional export to be reached up till 2021. The Netherland and UK are very interesting. There is a lot of additional export potential there. Try to access new markets like Pakistan, Japan and Bangladesh. Also, keep trying to expand export in Germany and the UAE.

Sesame seeds also offer promising markets with Asian countries leading the pack. China, Japan, Korea Republic, Mexico, Poland, France, Lebanon, USA, Canada, and the United Kingdom are the real markets. A real market is a positive market with China, the largest estimated untapped potential for Nigeria with over 110 million dollars in value. Sesame seed exports from Nigeria offers plenty of room for growth with over 170 million dollars untapped potential for the ten interesting destinations. Finally, try to increase focus on emerging markets of South Korea, Mexico and Poland

Deola2ty:
If you have 10m you're not using bring am come trade sunflower 🌻 seed. I no say make you send for me oooo. I will connect you with the buyers and show you where you can buy from

Make your money the work for you. You will only give me small commission

telleyway:



I need clarity on winery, someone told me about it, how reliable is it?

kernniejay:
My wife is my one and only Girlfriend up till now. We started dating 13 years ago, we are happily married now.

Zyxsc:
1. For a man, it's just a bills-paying institution. You go pay bills sotey you go forget wetin carry you enter the marriage in the first place

2. Enjoy your bachelorhood Wella before going into it. 40 is not too late for a man to get married.

3. You can't prove you're mentally strong until you're married because na then you go know what it takes to retrain an adult child like your wife. She go do some kain things wey be say, e fit make you go crazy.

4. If you can avoid it, please do. It's not worth it. Once you're married, you'll loose a part of your freedom. You can only regain it at the detriment of your home.

5. Don't go into marriage because of children. They may grow up and not make you happy by going against your wish (of course, they have their own lives to live. You've lived yours). Don't go into marriage because you love your girlfriend. Na this one go clear your eyes pass. Go into marriage because you want a life-long friend. Even at that, it's still a gamble. E fit shock you 10 years down the line.

Stiv19cuff:
Crazy kind of people, stay far away from them...mine then thought the world revovled around her, you will always be the one to say sorry...thier wahala too much abeg, the bible even said it is better for you as a man to live in the corner of your roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Peace of mind is everything..thank God, God blessed me with a perfect Woman now

BobbieZion:
They are usually very cute and charming.
Now that covers the underlying narcissistic tendencies,so at first you won't see it coming.

They love bomb you and create a false perfect world for you, but anytime you want to talk about any thing serious they snub you.
They are the greatest at entitlement,they want you to become their parent.
They are never available emotionally and they lack empathy.
They are great liars and have countless sex partners, so they are great cheats.

They make you run mad and after some time you will start losing your sanity.
Their victims are mostly kind hearted and caring people.
They are very intelligent and they create scenarios in their head, which makes them great at acting and directing.

May God bless you.

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Saintinoo:


You are right, it is a both gender something.

In my case, she waits for me to complain about things she does, then when next we have an argument she accuses me of being that thing, e.g, she have an uncontrollable anger, when I complain about her anger issue, next time she accuse me of having an uncontrollable anger.

She does not really appreciate things I do for her, she has this materialistic mentality but disguise as someone who is not.

Like I mentioned up there, she yell at me when she is angry.

She insults and shame me when we have an argument.

When she is angry, if I am dying, she derives joy from it, she totally lack empathy when she is angry.

She loves being in control and always gets threatened when I mentioned mention being a man.

I don't wish my worst enemy such woman.

Dizzyyish:
Marriage is also a concept of man, created to further maintain order in society. Marriage works for man evolved, but unfortunately, not for female nature, and from a survival perspective, what good would it do for the weaker female? (It should also be noted that, as the weaker sex, the female's survival instinct is always active even with security/stability).
Women are quite willing to engage in this legal and holy union for the stability it brings. But while the legality and holiness of matrimony can suppress female nature to an extent, it does not quell the primal yearnings and chaos of it; so of course, a female strategy would be implemented (when given the chance).

Women can either see men as provider or sexual attractant - two mutually exclusive entities, or as Esther Vilar would put it; Father-substitute and Sexual partner (this also ties-in to the Dual mating strategy).
This is also why man and woman cannot truly be friends like man with his fellow men. She will either perceive him as Provider (providing money, favors and/or [free] attention) or Sexual Attractant (friends with benefits). Where the male cannot be perceived as either the "friendship" cannot exist.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and when a man sleeps with a woman he has, in a sense, defeated her; Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, and when a woman gets a man's commitment, or make him fall in love, she has defeated him.
The difference is that, while the man can still feel the virtue of love for a defeated woman; woman lacks this virtue, and consequently will begin losing attraction for the defeated man.
(Ephesians chapter 5 states "Men love your wives; Women respect your husbands" - It doesn't state that both parties should 'love' each other. In fact, it is never stated anywhere in the bible that women should love men because, as Lawrence Shannon would put it, It's a biblical principle that God doesn't ask from individuals that which they DO NOT HAVE the means to accomplish).

Because marriage or commitment to a single female is not a signal of a 'cold' strong male in nature the female can only perceive him as a Father-substitute to protect and provide for her and not a Sexual partner to sexually arouse her. This quickly transitions to the stage where she can only have sex with her father-substitute out of necessity, not sexual arousal.
This is also the foundation for the extremely common and infamous complaints of married men and their greatly diminished sex-life amongst other things... something I do find funny is when women and some men use the rhetoric along the lines of "If you're looking for sex just marry, you'll have sex till you're tired/Na you go f*ck tire..."

Now that the 'provider' half of her strategy has been satisfied with 'security', she can now covertly seek the other half outside (given she's not held back by circumstances). This is understandably a disgraceful thought and a bitter pill for both married men and single men enthusiastic about marriage.
It is a somewhat known fact that with many married women, bedding them is not exactly a challenge. Some of the most intense "green lights" given to single men are from married women.

(In line with this is a previously sexually active woman suddenly "disliking/hating" sex or losing interest in it - this is simply a sign that the male has been given the short stick of her strategy. Not excluded from this are non-virgins saying they don't want to have sex till marriage).

It is a bit unfortunate that many men only find out about the numerous problems of marriage and female nature the hard way, too late (several years into marriage with a few kids), with some daydreaming of vanishing into the night, while the more practical ones plan an exit strategy once the kids get older.
To show that women are quite intentional, fully aware of what they're doing and are only kept in check by circumstances, some married women will start acting a bit more 'sensibly' when their children mature, because now there's little holding the man back from leaving.

Regex:


Guy I so wanna fuck_ one. Any time I visit naija I go run one albino.

MN07:
Loosing all my millions last year 8.8 million.

Now I'm starting from 0kobo at 33 years old and I unconsciously beg God for a painless death every day because I'm too afraid to do it myself.

Likoya:
My biggest regret in life is following the advice of my parents instead of my passion. Now wey everything don burst, it's my fault and I just hope I don't commit suicide soon.

jeromestarks:

According to him, she always come back. She literally told him that she will not stay away from him.
He said he told her to just go her way and forget they ever met but she said she's not going anywhere. That she likes keeping people who asked her out around so that they won't feel bad and regret why they asked her out.

She said that she will be around him forever.

cheque:
I hacked her Whatsapp, wat in saw.....