₦airaland Forum

gnykelly:
you should strive to seek balance. women are necessary for a stable society.

you shouldn't hate people based on what you see outside.

Proper balance is achieved when women are under the control of men.

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Akuruoulo:
God please I need both boys and girls

God please I need only boys

adekolaelect:
yes but uncultured / unwell trained men are the product of women who lost their sense of responsibilities through,claiming equality with men ,less value but money,Imoral dressing . claiming Western,human rite and civilization .

Thank you sir. They think we don't know what we are saying

adekolaelect:
when men committed all altrocities listed above they later return to spend the money and energy on women who gain attention of men through their uncultured dress and others. Secondly women are problematic bcs their want is numerous .women contributed 70% to the Imoral of our society through uncultured child upbringing and dressing .

Excellently put

https://www.nairaland.com/6733206/control-women-watch-world-get

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Fatale:
Cry me a river

Continue spitting as usual

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[quote author=kmcutez post=105448321][/quote]Don't waste your time.

Jesus is not ready to side with women in corrupting the world.

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Fatale:

Continue spitting to thy kingdom come
No one CARES

You care enough to be writing asinine epistles.

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Fatale:
You can spit from now to thy kingdom come

There is nothing YOU can do about it.

You hate or wanna control the female gender, na for your pocket.
Incase you wanna start your madness, it should be in and within your family.

WOMAN, WOMAN, WOMAN,

Are they the only problem you have?
Why are they giving you nightmare?

Oga Spitter, leave the women for us,
We love them, we respect them, we seek them.

No gender is holy or without wrong
Men got their wahala, like wise the women.

You can not make them extinct,
Infact, you are really HELPLESS!

And you were the one insulting Biden
I guess he is a female.

Biden, even in your next 100000 coming on earth,
You won't be like him and never aspire to be him.

Watch your mouth and control your thinking.

Anyway, i pray you find healing.


FATALE

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Zooposki:
Once women realize that men use marriage proposals to control them, one more chain of captivity would have been broken. That is why men are quick to shame older women that are not married so that the younger women will know their place and fall in line so they don’t end up like the so called “Evening Newspaper”. Men are scared of losing that control because it means they can no longer control the women.

I’m just happy that nature creates a balance to such control by having some women hide their true character until they hook the men, then their true character are unleashed on their partner. For every action, there is a reaction.

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beejaay:
you sure?? so who are the armed robbers, kidnappers, terrorist, ritualist?? most of all bad and worst crimes are perpetrated by men and yet you choose to focus only on the sex part... i pray to only have female as kids and not men cos with women, i will only be bothered by sex which i can manage with right sex education but as for men, they cant be managed and cant know what they do

its people like you that destroyed the world and i pray no one have someone like you as a child...

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joyandfaith:
See my signature

Not interested

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joyandfaith:
Women are still controlling you as you spit. It is dog that keep chasing pussies.

You only control the damaged products raised by hoes

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joyandfaith:
Why Do You Need to Control a Woman?
This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.
From time memorial, women have always been ‘controlled’ by men. In the olden days, a women’s existence was solely for the pleasure (or otherwise) of men. It all began from the perception that because a woman was ‘created using the ribs of a man’, a woman was made to be a man’s helper. This notion has been passed from generation to generation; the girl-child is taught at an early age, that she is inferior to the male gender and a man could lord over her. Once these girls began to reach puberty, older women started training them for marriage by teaching how to please a man – from learning how to cook for their husbands to learning how to dress for their husbands, to learning how to do this and that – all for their husbands. It began to seem like the whole existence of a woman was for the pleasure of the man. It also drove home the point that a woman was not equal to a man. So the husband was the lord of his wife – to do as he pleased – and she had to hang on to his every word and obey his every command.

This changed. Women wanted more.

Women wanted to have a voice and be listened to. They wanted to be recognised as an independent entity – a human who could think for themselves and make decisions.

Women became ‘disobedient’ to their husbands – rejecting ‘commands’ and an authoritative relationship. They wanted more inclusive and egalitarian partnerships. It sounded like women were ready for ‘war’ – they wanted to “be like the men”. This birthed many movements and the men ‘had no choice’ but to listen and (perhaps) join in the movement. Many men – believing they were supporting women – participated in ‘benevolent feminism’. You begin to hear things like “the man is the head, the woman is the neck. Without the neck, the head cannot move”. Things like this are always said to make the woman feel better about being ‘reduced’ to the position of the neck.

Anyway, the world is changing and women are ‘less controllable’ than they used to be. More little girls have access to education. Women work in industries that were hitherto deemed for men only. Women are now in politics, can make decisions, fight for their rights and can take full ownership of their bodies.

Sounds good, right?

So if we’ve all ‘agreed’ that humans are whole and independent entities who can think for themselves and are capable of making decisions – and taking care of themselves generally, so why do people (men in particular) still feel the need to control women – especially women they are in a relationship with or married to?

Why do men need to control women?
Just when we thought that by now, everyone would have realised that women are free to do whatever they choose to do – as long as it is not a crime; and when we thought that society was slowly moving against patriarchy, Nigerian artiste, Omoniyi Raphael, popularly known as Zlatan, reminded us that we are not as progressive as we’d like to believe.

There are certain ‘mumuish’ standards that ‘good’ and ‘submissive’ women have been held to: gentle; intelligent, but not too intelligent; hardworking but not too rich; highly domesticated (wife material hundred yards); obedient – which automatically means doing what you are told without question, and so on.

By nature, average humans beings want to be ‘bigger and better than the person next door’, but the desire to control women is deeply rooted in our society. We live in a society where people are so quick to ‘break the feathers’ of women so they don’t fly too high, mould them to what you believe they should be and tame them so they don’t become ‘wild’. That is why people believe that women who are richer than their husbands are not submissive. That is because a ‘submissive wife’, to them, is one that hangs on to their every word and strokes their ego even when she’s dying inside. A dodoyo they can tell to sit and she won’t hesitate to. One that will ‘know her place’ in the family and society.

It is worrisome.

More worrisome because Zlatan spoke the mind of many people – people who believe that a woman should be controlled. More worrisome because it is this mindset that is holding more women back from harnessing their full potential.

This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.

Although we have started raising ‘strong’ women who are hell-bent on chasing their dreams, we should also raise women to have the option to live a life that is wholesome, with or without marriage. Women need to know that it is okay to reject men – or anyone – who want to control and diminish them.

We should also raise our boys better than this. Mindsets like this are inculcated into the male child from a tender age, we can break that by teaching our boys that women are not inferior to them, neither are they meant to be controlled.

As young people, we can also do better by letting go of archaic beliefs, unlearning certain things and relearning. Times have changed and people have evolved.

Let’s do better. Let’s be better.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2020/03/why-do-you-need-to-control-a-woman/

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kmcutez:
The Black woman is your God on Earth. Know that and know peace. Her womb is a portal/door to the heavens. Woman’s X,X chromosome is still at 1000,1000 since the beginning of time, while men, whom is a defect of woman with chromosome X,Y at 1000,800 has deteriorated to 1000,78. You guys might go extinct since we don’t really need men for anything, so be careful how you treat your God. A woman can procreate by producing sperm from her bone marrow to fertilize her eggs, hence the reason why you hear of virgin births. Human beings only seek to control/destroy/oppress those who are superior to them. Be guided.

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joyandfaith:
It is only dirty dogs that will get diseases from flies

Only flies spread disease

joyandfaith:
Man is a DOG, he keeps running after PUSSIES.
Amit Abraham

Women are flies, they keep spreading seduction disease

joyandfaith:
In the nineteenth century, the central moral challenge was slavery. In the twentieth century, it was the battle against totalitarianism. We believe that in this century the paramount moral challenge will be the struggle for gender equality around the world.
Nicholas D. Kristof

There's no equality between genders. Females need to be controlled for their sakes and for humanity's.

Ogbuefi2020:
The solution to women's madness is polygamy

That helps.

That's why they're taking us for a ride in Christianity. That must stop.

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joyandfaith:
Racism stems from the view that a particular race is inherently superior, and therefore more worthy than other races. Chauvinism has it’s roots in the false notion that one gender is ultimately better than another. And speciesism is bolstered by similar sentiments of superiority. Not white supremacy, or male supremacy, but human supremacy, which is as equally biased and nonsensical!! It allows us to feel OK about treating individuals of other species in ways which, all but the most psychopathic among us, would recognise as wrong were we to replace those individuals with members of our own species.
Mango Wodzak

Every specie has its place. They don't equally perform in sports or science or war.

The place of women is to be herded and controlled by men. Else civilization gets compromised. They're the weak link and achilles' heel of humanity.

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joyandfaith:
Whenever he realizes that a female is more gifted than him, the average man subconsciously consoles himself with the fact that she does not have even a tiny penis.
Mokokoma Mokhonoana

You can only be more gifted than the unfortunate men raised by women.

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If you have a wife or daughter...learn the art of female control . Put them in their place or you will be watching their unbridled foolishness from an early grave.

joyandfaith:
Even saudi is liberating women. Women contribute
to development in Western nations. Africa is still poor becaus women are relegated to kitchen and child bearing.

They contribute through porn and supplying sex to people from a very tender age.

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joyandfaith:
Wrong!!!
Wars destroy society. During wars, women are married by warring soldiers. Sexual immorality is least problem of the world. Murder, corruption, drug trafficking among others are worse crimes. Nearly all drug syndicates, assassins and heists are men.
It is only irresponsible and foolosh men that are being seduced by women.

No . It is men afflicted with the seduction disease spread by women that end up becoming weak and foolish.

The woman are the source of this disease and as such all great cultures learnt to quarantine women
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Bofoy4:
Avoid problematic women

The key to freedom


Yes Avoid dem

Wisdom

joyandfaith:
Any society that want to gag women against their collective will get destroyed.

No rather any society that doesn't keep women in their place gets destroyed...decaying from within.

See what single mothers are raising as sons? ...spits

joyandfaith:
Feminism is antidote to male chauvinism.
Men are destroying the world not women.
Most political, military, religious, academic and religious leaders causing chaos in the world are men.
Even saudi is liberating women gradually. No society can develop without liberating their women.

During iraq civil women, kurdish women were armed to liberate the villages.

Wrong.

Yet...the world easily recovers from conflict.

But society is being damaged beyond repair by women's seduction exploits and their role in damaging children under their care.

Legendforte:
I can't wait for science to create artificial means of reproduction.

Me too. I will be one of the first to use it.

Legendforte:
Problem with women is getting out of hand. Apart from sex, women are by nature problematic.

Extremely problematic.

This is why every male must learn early , how to control women . Its a must for a properly functioning society.

Good morning all.

And may you find the strength to put women where they belong.