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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:21am On Sep 03, 2021
If you have a wife or daughter...learn the art of female control . Put them in their place or you will be watching their unbridled foolishness from an early grave.

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 7:23am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:



They contribute through porn and supplying sex to people from a very tender age.

Spits

#controlwomen

Whenever he realizes that a female is more gifted than him, the average man subconsciously consoles himself with the fact that she does not have even a tiny penis.
Mokokoma Mokhonoana

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 7:24am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:
If you have a wife or daughter...learn the art of female control . Put them in their place or you will be watching their unbridled foolishness from an early grave.



Racism stems from the view that a particular race is inherently superior, and therefore more worthy than other races. Chauvinism has it’s roots in the false notion that one gender is ultimately better than another. And speciesism is bolstered by similar sentiments of superiority. Not white supremacy, or male supremacy, but human supremacy, which is as equally biased and nonsensical!! It allows us to feel OK about treating individuals of other species in ways which, all but the most psychopathic among us, would recognise as wrong were we to replace those individuals with members of our own species.
Mango Wodzak

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:25am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


Whenever he realizes that a female is more gifted than him, the average man subconsciously consoles himself with the fact that she does not have even a tiny penis.
Mokokoma Mokhonoana

You can only be more gifted than the unfortunate men raised by women.

Spits

#controlwomen

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:29am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:



Racism stems from the view that a particular race is inherently superior, and therefore more worthy than other races. Chauvinism has it’s roots in the false notion that one gender is ultimately better than another. And speciesism is bolstered by similar sentiments of superiority. Not white supremacy, or male supremacy, but human supremacy, which is as equally biased and nonsensical!! It allows us to feel OK about treating individuals of other species in ways which, all but the most psychopathic among us, would recognise as wrong were we to replace those individuals with members of our own species.
Mango Wodzak

Every specie has its place. They don't equally perform in sports or science or war.

The place of women is to be herded and controlled by men. Else civilization gets compromised. They're the weak link and achilles' heel of humanity.

Spits

#control women.

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 7:31am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


Every specie has its place. They don't equally perform in sports or science or war.

The place of women is to be herded and controlled by men. Else civilization gets compromised. They're the weak link and achilles' heel of humanity.

Spits

#control women.
Call it arrogance or male chauvinism, the male ego just doesn’t allow a woman to participate in key issues in family. Men seldom realize that it’s the housewife who has the most difficult job in the world: waking up early, preparing breakfast, getting the children ready for school, preparing lunch, cleaning up the mess at home and so much more. Even before they can some rest, the doorbell would ring and the children are back from school. Then, the routine again, and by the end of the day, they were tired. Women in the family are the last to sleep and the first to wake up. Sometimes, even during a crisis in the family or when there is a dispute, it’s the lady of the house that stands rock solid to calm things down and face challenges head on.
Jagdish

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by Ogbuefi2020: 7:41am On Sep 03, 2021
The solution to women's madness is polygamy

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 7:46am On Sep 03, 2021
Ogbuefi2020:
The solution to women's madness is polygamy

In the nineteenth century, the central moral challenge was slavery. In the twentieth century, it was the battle against totalitarianism. We believe that in this century the paramount moral challenge will be the struggle for gender equality around the world.
Nicholas D. Kristof

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:50am On Sep 03, 2021
Ogbuefi2020:
The solution to women's madness is polygamy

That helps.

That's why they're taking us for a ride in Christianity. That must stop.

#controlwomen

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 7:50am On Sep 03, 2021
Ogbuefi2020:
The solution to women's madness is polygamy

Man is a DOG, he keeps running after PUSSIES.
Amit Abraham

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:51am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


In the nineteenth century, the central moral challenge was slavery. In the twentieth century, it was the battle against totalitarianism. We believe that in this century the paramount moral challenge will be the struggle for gender equality around the world.
Nicholas D. Kristof

There's no equality between genders. Females need to be controlled for their sakes and for humanity's.

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 7:52am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


Man is a DOG, he keeps running after PUSSIES.
Amit Abraham

Women are flies, they keep spreading seduction disease

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 8:11am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


Women are flies, they keep spreading seduction disease

It is only dirty dogs that will get diseases from flies

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 8:15am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


There's no equality between genders. Females need to be controlled for their sakes and for humanity's.

Girls are weighed down by restrictions, boys with demands - two equally harmful disciplines.”
― Simone de Beauvoir

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 8:37am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


It is only dirty dogs that will get diseases from flies

Only flies spread disease

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 8:39am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


Only flies spread disease

And only dirty dogs get diseases from flies

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 8:45am On Sep 03, 2021
Why Do You Need to Control a Woman?
This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.
From time memorial, women have always been ‘controlled’ by men. In the olden days, a women’s existence was solely for the pleasure (or otherwise) of men. It all began from the perception that because a woman was ‘created using the ribs of a man’, a woman was made to be a man’s helper. This notion has been passed from generation to generation; the girl-child is taught at an early age, that she is inferior to the male gender and a man could lord over her. Once these girls began to reach puberty, older women started training them for marriage by teaching how to please a man – from learning how to cook for their husbands to learning how to dress for their husbands, to learning how to do this and that – all for their husbands. It began to seem like the whole existence of a woman was for the pleasure of the man. It also drove home the point that a woman was not equal to a man. So the husband was the lord of his wife – to do as he pleased – and she had to hang on to his every word and obey his every command.

This changed. Women wanted more.

Women wanted to have a voice and be listened to. They wanted to be recognised as an independent entity – a human who could think for themselves and make decisions.

Women became ‘disobedient’ to their husbands – rejecting ‘commands’ and an authoritative relationship. They wanted more inclusive and egalitarian partnerships. It sounded like women were ready for ‘war’ – they wanted to “be like the men”. This birthed many movements and the men ‘had no choice’ but to listen and (perhaps) join in the movement. Many men – believing they were supporting women – participated in ‘benevolent feminism’. You begin to hear things like “the man is the head, the woman is the neck. Without the neck, the head cannot move”. Things like this are always said to make the woman feel better about being ‘reduced’ to the position of the neck.

Anyway, the world is changing and women are ‘less controllable’ than they used to be. More little girls have access to education. Women work in industries that were hitherto deemed for men only. Women are now in politics, can make decisions, fight for their rights and can take full ownership of their bodies.

Sounds good, right?

So if we’ve all ‘agreed’ that humans are whole and independent entities who can think for themselves and are capable of making decisions – and taking care of themselves generally, so why do people (men in particular) still feel the need to control women – especially women they are in a relationship with or married to?

Why do men need to control women?
Just when we thought that by now, everyone would have realised that women are free to do whatever they choose to do – as long as it is not a crime; and when we thought that society was slowly moving against patriarchy, Nigerian artiste, Omoniyi Raphael, popularly known as Zlatan, reminded us that we are not as progressive as we’d like to believe.

There are certain ‘mumuish’ standards that ‘good’ and ‘submissive’ women have been held to: gentle; intelligent, but not too intelligent; hardworking but not too rich; highly domesticated (wife material hundred yards); obedient – which automatically means doing what you are told without question, and so on.

By nature, average humans beings want to be ‘bigger and better than the person next door’, but the desire to control women is deeply rooted in our society. We live in a society where people are so quick to ‘break the feathers’ of women so they don’t fly too high, mould them to what you believe they should be and tame them so they don’t become ‘wild’. That is why people believe that women who are richer than their husbands are not submissive. That is because a ‘submissive wife’, to them, is one that hangs on to their every word and strokes their ego even when she’s dying inside. A dodoyo they can tell to sit and she won’t hesitate to. One that will ‘know her place’ in the family and society.

It is worrisome.

More worrisome because Zlatan spoke the mind of many people – people who believe that a woman should be controlled. More worrisome because it is this mindset that is holding more women back from harnessing their full potential.

This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.

Although we have started raising ‘strong’ women who are hell-bent on chasing their dreams, we should also raise women to have the option to live a life that is wholesome, with or without marriage. Women need to know that it is okay to reject men – or anyone – who want to control and diminish them.

We should also raise our boys better than this. Mindsets like this are inculcated into the male child from a tender age, we can break that by teaching our boys that women are not inferior to them, neither are they meant to be controlled.

As young people, we can also do better by letting go of archaic beliefs, unlearning certain things and relearning. Times have changed and people have evolved.

Let’s do better. Let’s be better.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2020/03/why-do-you-need-to-control-a-woman/

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by Nobody: 8:53am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:
Women are a problem to themselves and everyone else.

The failure of every child's development is traceable to maternal influences.

Women ought to be controlled and not allowed to do as they please.

When women do as they please what you get is the destruction of societies morals.

I admire the efforts of Muslims in this regard. It may be a little harsh sometimes but it is necessary to prevent women from destroying the society with their satanic penchant for depraved morals, lascivious behaviour and licentiousness.

I pray never to have a daughter.

I will never marry a wife I will not control 100 percent.


The Black woman is your God on Earth. Know that and know peace. Her womb is a portal/door to the heavens. Woman’s X,X chromosome is still at 1000,1000 since the beginning of time, while men, whom is a defect of woman with chromosome X,Y at 1000,800 has deteriorated to 1000,78. You guys might go extinct since we don’t really need men for anything, so be careful how you treat your God. A woman can procreate by producing sperm from her bone marrow to fertilize her eggs, hence the reason why you hear of virgin births. Human beings only seek to control/destroy/oppress those who are superior to them. Be guided.

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 9:42am On Sep 03, 2021
kmcutez:


The Black woman is your God on Earth. Know that and know peace. Her womb is a portal/door to the heavens. Woman’s X,X chromosome is still at 1000,1000 since the beginning of time, while men, whom is a defect of woman with chromosome X,Y at 1000,800 has deteriorated to 1000,78. You guys might go extinct since we don’t really need men for anything, so be careful how you treat your God. A woman can procreate by producing sperm from her bone marrow to fertilize her eggs, hence the reason why you hear of virgin births. Human beings only seek to control/destroy/oppress those who are superior to them. Be guided.

Spits

# controlwomen

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 9:44am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:
Why Do You Need to Control a Woman?
This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.
From time memorial, women have always been ‘controlled’ by men. In the olden days, a women’s existence was solely for the pleasure (or otherwise) of men. It all began from the perception that because a woman was ‘created using the ribs of a man’, a woman was made to be a man’s helper. This notion has been passed from generation to generation; the girl-child is taught at an early age, that she is inferior to the male gender and a man could lord over her. Once these girls began to reach puberty, older women started training them for marriage by teaching how to please a man – from learning how to cook for their husbands to learning how to dress for their husbands, to learning how to do this and that – all for their husbands. It began to seem like the whole existence of a woman was for the pleasure of the man. It also drove home the point that a woman was not equal to a man. So the husband was the lord of his wife – to do as he pleased – and she had to hang on to his every word and obey his every command.

This changed. Women wanted more.

Women wanted to have a voice and be listened to. They wanted to be recognised as an independent entity – a human who could think for themselves and make decisions.

Women became ‘disobedient’ to their husbands – rejecting ‘commands’ and an authoritative relationship. They wanted more inclusive and egalitarian partnerships. It sounded like women were ready for ‘war’ – they wanted to “be like the men”. This birthed many movements and the men ‘had no choice’ but to listen and (perhaps) join in the movement. Many men – believing they were supporting women – participated in ‘benevolent feminism’. You begin to hear things like “the man is the head, the woman is the neck. Without the neck, the head cannot move”. Things like this are always said to make the woman feel better about being ‘reduced’ to the position of the neck.

Anyway, the world is changing and women are ‘less controllable’ than they used to be. More little girls have access to education. Women work in industries that were hitherto deemed for men only. Women are now in politics, can make decisions, fight for their rights and can take full ownership of their bodies.

Sounds good, right?

So if we’ve all ‘agreed’ that humans are whole and independent entities who can think for themselves and are capable of making decisions – and taking care of themselves generally, so why do people (men in particular) still feel the need to control women – especially women they are in a relationship with or married to?

Why do men need to control women?
Just when we thought that by now, everyone would have realised that women are free to do whatever they choose to do – as long as it is not a crime; and when we thought that society was slowly moving against patriarchy, Nigerian artiste, Omoniyi Raphael, popularly known as Zlatan, reminded us that we are not as progressive as we’d like to believe.

There are certain ‘mumuish’ standards that ‘good’ and ‘submissive’ women have been held to: gentle; intelligent, but not too intelligent; hardworking but not too rich; highly domesticated (wife material hundred yards); obedient – which automatically means doing what you are told without question, and so on.

By nature, average humans beings want to be ‘bigger and better than the person next door’, but the desire to control women is deeply rooted in our society. We live in a society where people are so quick to ‘break the feathers’ of women so they don’t fly too high, mould them to what you believe they should be and tame them so they don’t become ‘wild’. That is why people believe that women who are richer than their husbands are not submissive. That is because a ‘submissive wife’, to them, is one that hangs on to their every word and strokes their ego even when she’s dying inside. A dodoyo they can tell to sit and she won’t hesitate to. One that will ‘know her place’ in the family and society.

It is worrisome.

More worrisome because Zlatan spoke the mind of many people – people who believe that a woman should be controlled. More worrisome because it is this mindset that is holding more women back from harnessing their full potential.

This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.

Although we have started raising ‘strong’ women who are hell-bent on chasing their dreams, we should also raise women to have the option to live a life that is wholesome, with or without marriage. Women need to know that it is okay to reject men – or anyone – who want to control and diminish them.

We should also raise our boys better than this. Mindsets like this are inculcated into the male child from a tender age, we can break that by teaching our boys that women are not inferior to them, neither are they meant to be controlled.

As young people, we can also do better by letting go of archaic beliefs, unlearning certain things and relearning. Times have changed and people have evolved.

Let’s do better. Let’s be better.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2020/03/why-do-you-need-to-control-a-woman/




.spits

#controlwomen
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 9:49am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


.spits

#controlwomen

Women are still controlling you as you spit. It is dog that keep chasing pussies.
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 9:53am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


Women are still controlling you as you spit. It is dog that keep chasing pussies.

You only control the damaged products raised by hoes

Spits

#controlwomen
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 10:15am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


You only control the damaged products raised by hoes

Spits

#controlwomen

See my signature
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 10:20am On Sep 03, 2021
joyandfaith:


See my signature

Not interested

Spits

#controlwomen
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by joyandfaith: 10:21am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


Not interested

Spits

#controlwomen

See my signature
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by beejaay: 10:24am On Sep 03, 2021
newbornmacho:


I'm only a danger to myself. ...at worst.

Women are a danger to the entire world. Very pathetic disgusting depraved corrupt creatures.

you sure?? so who are the armed robbers, kidnappers, terrorist, ritualist?? most of all bad and worst crimes are perpetrated by men and yet you choose to focus only on the sex part... i pray to only have female as kids and not men cos with women, i will only be bothered by sex which i can manage with right sex education but as for men, they cant be managed and cant know what they do

its people like you that destroyed the world and i pray no one have someone like you as a child...

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by Zooposki(f): 10:26am On Sep 03, 2021
Once women realize that men use marriage proposals to control them, one more chain of captivity would have been broken. That is why men are quick to shame older women that are not married so that the younger women will know their place and fall in line so they don’t end up like the so called “Evening Newspaper”. Men are scared of losing that control because it means they can no longer control the women.

I’m just happy that nature creates a balance to such control by having some women hide their true character until they hook the men, then their true character are unleashed on their partner. For every action, there is a reaction.

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 10:44am On Sep 03, 2021
beejaay:


you sure?? so who are the armed robbers, kidnappers, terrorist, ritualist?? most of all bad and worst crimes are perpetrated by men and yet you choose to focus only on the sex part... i pray to only have female as kids and not men cos with women, i will only be bothered by sex which i can manage with right sex education but as for men, they cant be managed and cant know what they do

its people like you that destroyed the world and i pray no one have someone like you as a child...

Spits

#controlwomen

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Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 10:45am On Sep 03, 2021
Zooposki:
Once women realize that men use marriage proposals to control them, one more chain of captivity would have been broken. That is why men are quick to shame older women that are not married so that the younger women will know their place and fall in line so they don’t end up like the so called “Evening Newspaper”. Men are scared of losing that control because it means they can no longer control the women.

I’m just happy that nature creates a balance to such control by having some women hide their true character until they hook the men, then their true character are unleashed on their partner. For every action, there is a reaction.

Spits

#controlwomen
Re: Control Women Or Watch The World Get Destroyed by newbornmacho(m): 11:16am On Sep 03, 2021
Fatale:
You can spit from now to thy kingdom come

There is nothing YOU can do about it.

You hate or wanna control the female gender, na for your pocket.
Incase you wanna start your madness, it should be in and within your family.

WOMAN, WOMAN, WOMAN,

Are they the only problem you have?
Why are they giving you nightmare?

Oga Spitter, leave the women for us,
We love them, we respect them, we seek them.

No gender is holy or without wrong
Men got their wahala, like wise the women.

You can not make them extinct,
Infact, you are really HELPLESS!

And you were the one insulting Biden
I guess he is a female.

Biden, even in your next 100000 coming on earth,
You won't be like him and never aspire to be him.

Watch your mouth and control your thinking.

Anyway, i pray you find healing.


FATALE

sad

Spits

#controlwomen

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