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EmptyGarden:
WITCH! You better go look for woman marry o, cause we don mark you.

She is an attention seeker. Ignore her

So, none of these young money people are legit or what?

Na waa oo

Useless old fool

Useless evening newspaper olosho. At 28 still single like an idiot.

Spits...women are scum

TMKsouth:
Fill this whole page with these pics. I see all our challengers are quiet now coz they can't defend this.

I'll leave u to it as u rip their hearts out. I'll drop your profile pic below for demo

When you are done searching for pictures of disgusting isolated criminals in nigeria , we can address the issue of institutionalisation of rape in your country. The world is worried for you

https://tears.co.za › presentationPDF
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Interpol has named South Africa the “Rape Capital of the World”

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As you can see, you can never be our continent's giant because rape is now the world's greatest concern for you.

blozzynonny:
My own is who's the op here? Is it Modernizer or NewbornMacho. How come NewbornMacho is answering personal questions thrown at Modernizer the op in first person tense.

Confuse dimakwa

Two different people but my G. Left phone with him ,

uracefriend:
Why don't you sit her down and discuss it. Put it in the open so both of you can manage your temperaments as you go into marriage. Whatever you bring to the open is half conquered. You can also start adopting some phlegmatic qualities you desire. It is possible. Don't keep or maintain things like anger. It hasn't helped anyone in this life or yonder. Speak to yourself, speak the Word of God. Anger rests in the bosom of fools so says the Preacher.

Ok

BRATISLAVA:
Seems the guy is a killjoy..

Hear him talk about how he doesn't have empathy. And he doesn't want to change that. That's the last kind of man to go near.

Even though you say it with some disrespect, you're actually right. I'm not necessarily fun to be with. I'm a workaholic, highly cerebral, always thinking about solutions to difficult problems, hate parties, rarely hang out, hate company, prefer news for my TV relaxation, play very hardball to make money....classic choleric.

Will any other temperament cope?

Is it not a choleric I need?

Very confused

Asour:
Funny how you are hesitant about a trait (Hot temper) in someone else which you clearly accept that you have.

I am aware of my weaknesses so I know not to pile on someone with same... but I'm wondering if the two can go

koyyes:
A melancholic is a wrong choice for him because they are highly sensitive and suck in anger till they unleash it on whoever will be unfortunate to receive it. It will only work if he isn't 100% choleric. Take this from someone who 100% melancholic.

Oga oo

SUGARCyprian247:
Oops! I think I just learnt a new word today.

Choleric


Thank you OP.


PS: When it comes to marriage you can never play smart/wise. You can only be lucky or Unlucky.

The most compatible might turn out to be the most toxic.

Hmmmmm...really?? Can two cholerics blend?

womenareapess:
keep going on till that black female baboon of yours pour hot water on you or cut your pennnis during sleep

Scary

OJEEMAH:
If you decide to marry her at the end of the day, just ensure you make more money cos i have discovered humans especially women respects and adore rich/wealthy peeps.

If money can solve the problem, then it's all good. I'm not poor. But will money keep her under? If I provide Will she accept to be a housewife?

Harddiskng:
Brother leave her to become an evening newspaper in peace. Trouble dey sleep, yanga go wake am.

There are far better babes out there. Marriage is a life-time commitment, I don’t pray that you or even my enemy to spend a life-time with such a character as a wife. E no funny at all.

All these things plus “low empathy”, its like you don’t value your life nor peace to even consider. You see woman with bad behavior, your coconut head still wan carry am as wife. There is always a lesson to be learnt, you go see something.

Thanks bro

Walking:
Let me state that, you saw all these signs even before now but, you neglected them until now.

Truth is, to all temperaments, there is always a dominant and recessive one. In your case, what's your recessive and your partner's, if the recessive is complementary you guys can work out something.

Lastly, there is a place of self control and ability to work on your weaknesses.

You can sieve my write up to decipher your decision and let the Holy spirit guide you if you are a Christian.

Selah.

Thanks

LordIsaac:
The problem with martial incompatibility will not be evident months and years before marriage. It will become very clear a few months after; for some sef, it is on the marriage day the war begins. Who you need is someone who will be quiet and cry in her little corner when emotions are high...it is the only way you can keep thriving till both of you blend in understanding. Trust me, she will begin to annoy you the minute you realized you've just married another you, in stead of your opposite. And we will be here to read comments later if you fail to have common sense. Shalom.

Thanks

bigpicture001:
All these choleric phlematic ur discribing... Hope u k ow if u don't have much money, she will do u in five years...

Just so that u know!

I wish money could solve the problem. I'm not a poor man.

SimplyFacts:
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You are making a mistake, but I won't tell you

AutoChick4U:
See u can go ahead o let it no be that we put sand in her garri, besides you both need to discuss it

Not so nah...I'm here because I genuinely need to make a good decision. If it turns out that it's unwise, I have to forget it

Ayotemide:
Still not the reason to commit to someone forever. Does [b]Forever[/b]not scare you that you chose pressure to be the reason you will go on with it?

True talk sha. But with parental death in the picture and need for family preservation at issue, I lack the counter arguments to my people

Bro...I'm not interested in anything female for now. You know this .

TMKsouth:
So it's ok for black countries to look apocalyptic ? Wow the bar is set really low in Nigeria.

I'll ask my grandfather from Botswana how they transformed from being the 2nd poorest country in the world to one of the richest in Africa. I'll also ask the richest tribe in Africa the same question - the Royal Bafokeng in SA. But according to u we need whites to attain greatness as black people. What a lie and foolishness

No no no. You don't necessarily need whites to attain greatness.
BUT south Africa had white help.

TMKsouth:
The poor "new" train is still passing through serious slums. I give it 5 years and it will also resemble it's surroundings

cc theTranscriber

Until you build a black country from scratch, you have no grounds for this type of criticism

KingCold:
You need to sit down and listen, you need to be taught and do less talking since your head is empty. You were quick to downplay China's tourism and I proved otherwise.

Chinas tourism industry is so small compared to other countries in its league .

theTranscriber:
that's infrastructure

the people of south Africa are nothing to write home about

xenophobes

I keep telling them, our greatness lies in us as the Nigerian people. Not in houses and roads built by white people for them.

KingCold:
True. But its useless.

Yeah...well ...at least our people re productive even if leadership is f...ed up

TMKsouth:
Didn't we discuss all these things on page one ? U want to declare yourself as Africa's "Giant" without any facts to back it up with ? We've been through this before - u are getting into the realm of madness now and I won't be a part of it, go around in circles.

I didn't concede defeat then did I?

Nigeria is Africa's leading economy by gdp presently true or false?

TMKsouth:
A country of 200 million people, biggest oil reserves in Africa and one of the longest independence eras - and yet you're still arguing with South Africans, Ghanaians, Kenyans, etc over your "leadership". That's a serious indictment my guy - SA's position in Africa is NEVER debated by all other countries but yours is. Why is that? You've even resorted to hyping yourselves up coz no one else is - always bragging with nothing to show for it.

No arguments. Nigeria is Africa's big brother.

What we're investigating is whether anyone else can step up to the plate if we're no more as a nation.

Ghana For what ? How?

Even SA with all the white originated development can't argue with us

KingCold:
Black South Africans make about 80% of the overall population

That's about the lowest percentage of blacks for any black country I know .

KingCold:
If really this is your criteria, why is then the Negritude of South African blacks in doubt?

High percentage of indigenous non blacks