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I have been in her shoes before with my b/f (now husband), i can't compare the type of temper i had to anyones,

Yes, i advised him against SOME friends though i didn't go as far as handing out a list to him

Now i am as cool as ice, i realised it's all to do with age. Speak to her, don't give up

what makes you think the next girl will be better than her.

Every girl have their own issue at least hers is not sleeping around and stuff its temper which i believe can be controllled

i cant read aanymore this is too emotional for me

what is wrong with that? i dont see this as a topic, sorry

its not like they have a disease, they made a good decision by not aborting, does not make them exempt from marriage?

ykush, i second you on that,
Floxy your man should be someone you can tell ur feelings, other wise the thought of cheating on him will start crippling in and you don't want that hun!!!

@posakosa, pls take it easy o, as time goes on you will learn to forget and move on. Pele,

if there's anywhere i want my kuuki to play it's my booby
this topic is funny

maybe she was on her period hence, aran taaa

i was once in this trap , i had no choice but to pray, couldn't go thru the stress cos i knew a girl that hadn't graduated for 3yrs after her mates did
i just couldn't imagine myself in that state and i thank God for the opportunity to have an option

Hunk!!!!

Mr Hunk, i think i'll pass on that invite, what we say on nairaland stays on nairaland i don't wan to take it to msn level so i don't add to your trouble [url=http://Being Handsome, So Much Trouble!]Being Handsome, So Much Trouble! [/url]

r u tripin 4 mi

Call it advertising, i might as well do it since i have nothing tangible at the moment, i might as well help my fellow landers
Do you have a relationship problem?post it and i am sure to give you the best advise , TRUST ME

i cherished it until i read this story, [url=http://My Friend At GTBank Took 80,000 Naira From My Account]My Friend At GTBank Took 80,000 Naira From My Account [/url]

This is just wrong i don't care if you owed her 1m.

1) She isn't ur friend
2) She's a thief in disguise and am sure she's part of the people that withdraw from peoples account without their knowledge

This is just wrong, CRIMINAL, ANNOYING

if i were in ur shoes i'll report her if she looses her job it will teach her a lesson NEVER to tamper with people's account without their consent. Stupid Nigerians. People like her make moving back to nigeria a horror movie. hisses and angry

I just read through this story and i was tempeted to insult you but on second thought using a matured mind to think about this. situations like this aren't rare, you have alot of married women in nigeria now going after toy boys. So also some or most of the people getting married aren't marrying for love anymore, most people now marry for the sake of having kids and for the sake of been grouped among the "MARRIED" class.

My dear, the solution to your problem is prayer, tell God to help you, fornication,adultery are all sin, Lots of us on this site have worse skeletons in our cupborads than beccky does.
Let he who does not throw the first stone

As i was saying becky, you made a big mistake sleeping with him, but its not too late, ask for forgiveness, control ur sexual libido and keep urslef for ur man, This is what the devil does, when good things are about to happen he brings up "man of my dreams" kind of people , the purpose at the long run is to spoil the good thing coming ur way. Now you have a choice , decide and RUN. Bleep

nairalanders, am lucky to be in love even thought i know not how to show it most times. this credit crunch has put a strain on our relationship b'cos you know its less/no work and not much to do around,

Nothing i suggest makes sense to him, this depresses me and i just can't wait for this crunch to be over so we are back to our normal fun loving self,

What can i do/suggest to him to make him feel all is well?

bigmodo i would firstly like to thank God for your life today. That you are alife is a blessing, Most people have posted back harsh replies to this thread which i do not agree with.

Most of us have had the chance to travel back and forth and don't know what some people go through in other parts of the world including the  uk. when life is stagnant and nobody to help or turn to, it can be frustrating and one can almost commit suicide ,.


All he needs is encouragment, Bigmodo b4 i came to the uk alot of people ran away with my money with promises of getting me abroad. Today i am now a citizen, am not saying this so you think am bragging am only trying to encourage you, When the time came for me to travel i didnt give anybody money infact UK needed me. i want to encourage you today too never cease your prayers. God is not asleep , he has heard your cry and seen your tears and sooon he will answer you. I wish there was something i could do but my prayers are with you.

Secondly, i would like you to change the poverty city on your profile to land of plenty or land of blessings or something positve, cos your tongue is powerful, Most people are in poverty today cos of their tongue. Begin to prophecy blessings into your life. change your negative thoughts to positive. And i assure you before the end of this year your change will come,

Stay blessed

ronke80@hotmail.com

I would also like to see your work b4 i decide

thanks

the sensible people on this network have given honest advice and word(s) of encouragement which i really appreciate

a network can never be the same without some senseless ones that think they must make a comment on every topic even if what they have to say is stupid and senseless as they are

as i said earlier

SILENCE ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,OOL

am with u on this one luxoire,

am no longer angry at him but u know its not easy to just forget

To be honest, i don't want to go into details as to what he has done to me the fact still remains that am hurt and that's what really matters to

@ emany , u're right on point, yes i still care about him but time is not really on my side as per evaluating him and stuff but am keeping my fingers crossed and enjoying myself as life goes on

Thanks for ur advice whitelexi ,

i thot about jumping straight into another relationship at first when i was still really hurt but on the other hand thot,,,,hmm, i will only be hurting myself more so i try and get involved in other things to keep myself busy and to be honest it works so well and takes my mind off it

if y'all notice, i don't reply to those that make stupid comments

because i believe so much in this phrase

" Silence is the best answer for a , "

so u know what i mean, even if you go on, i won't because i really really don't have the time to


CIAO

Day 4


hMMMMMM, for no reason at all i just feel good today i got my hands real dirty yesterday, had too much to do and i guess i just didn't have the time to think about it, am no longer pissed or angry except when i think about it but so far , i'm a happy bird

Day 3

am still not as happy but i have no choice but to forgive and let go

i have to cheer up i have no choice and no one to hurt except myself, life must go on

man proposes God disposes, i guess that was the case here as it was said earlier


another boyfriend will get me

south african

my right

Day 2,

i thot they said sleep over ur anger and u'll be fine am even more pissed than i was yday,

and yes ofcourse i still care and thats the reason i hate myself too cos i which i could careless

what else will make a girl so pissed , i didn't catch him cheat but my heart doesn't deceive me i know he is cheating

its so annoying to know that after all this am still gon be with him

i wish i was as heartless as somme people -- DUMP HIM FOR HIS FRIEND

then i will see what he will do he needs to be thought a tough lesson

a lesson he will never forget for life

y'll know what, that's what am gon do

am still so in,

it didn't work, neither did sleep

infact i'm having a terrible headache right now

am so pissed right now i dont think i can get my point across if i try explaining ,,,

i just feel writing it on the net takes away the anger abit

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