This is my word of advice to everyone out there, I believe that there's a way to end things politely without rumors or harm.

posakosa:

This is my word of advice to everyone out there, I believe that there's a way to end things politely without rumors or harm.

wow!!!
Is there?

Of course! Im certain theres a way to end things politely.

Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex

*Rolls eyes*

To my ex husband, Thank you for teaching me that men who have made oaths to you before God and man can and do still lie. Thank you for realizing what a scum bag you were and for leaving before doing further damage. Thank you for my wonderful stepsons who still love me today as their mom but despise you for ruining home. Thank you for 3 beautiful grandbabies you never see but who love me so dearly. Thank you for teaching me that agape love is for me to give myself first. Thank you for finding me last year (after being divorced for 7 years) and asking for forgiveness. U did not know I forgave you years ago, but it was nice to hear the words. I only wish u the best and hope you will maintain a relationship with your grown sons. They love you And long for you to be a father to them. Though I did not birth them, they know they have a mother in me but as men they really need you. Visit the grandkids! Their other granddaddy died and u r all they have and they dont know you! The girl has your smile,

Aww touching.

chai!

i cant read aanymore this is too emotional for me

This is actually a mail i sent my ex after she left, was just going thru my mailbox wen i saw this!

I understand ur desire to leave but I had always had fears about ur unwillingness to fight for what u love, if only u'd transfer ur anger to situations to trying to save ur realtionships u'd probably be married by now, well guess u have problems trusting men, pls work on it. I trusted u completely or y do u think I could go to sleep knowing u were bunking in another man's house in a foreign city until u flung the trust in my face! (for ur info, nothing goes for nothing in this world u think he's not thinking about u? if he's not is friends r probably laughing at him now and it's a matter of time) I was laughed at for you!

Men can neva be perfect but u're looking for the perfect man witout willing to get beat, God help yu, done my part really fell for you but now I'm getting back up, was ready to be called stupid and crazy or woman wraapper for u but it seemed neva to be enough, went sharing my problems wit ppl which I normally wouldn't do just cos of you but it wasn't enough took blames for wrong just to make u unblamed but it wasn't enough, controlled my manlyness for u but maybe u wanted more.
other men would have bleeped the living daylights out of you if they had the chances I had but u still did't see it as a big deal, I know i might not have made enough sacrifies but I think I made enough, always dreaming of our wedding night but maybe that looked blurred to u! I was ready to leave the shape I'd have loved to have for ur short and straight stature but that was insulting,
I was afraid and didn't want to tell u that it seemed ur dad did not approve of me, I am a man and I can read other men but I didn't want to tell u cos that was ur number one love I didn't want any emotions btw u guys (even though i was ready to impress and confirm myself to him) but u held it as I wasn't sure wat i wanted I don't know if I look confused to you!
anyways does are in the past now looking forward to see u happy n achieved I will also work on my loking like failing life and achieve something wit it.
this are ur pics and , watever It now history
HAVE A WONDERFUL LIFE BEST OF LUCK CATCHING GOOD TIMES

Dear James Bassey,

If I catch you, I will kill you. Simple as ABC.


You are a worthless piece of shit, and you prey and young girls , At age 31, you are still a FOOL.

Vic Bitch,

Lol,I bet you thought I was never gonna be better than what I was but damn,I got even richer 40 times more.Add the numbers up so you have an idea how much am worth now, Do you know what that means?, Now I own a Home,you once dissed me when I din't had much on me after spending it on you and your God saken wretched Family and now God is planning to get me to a better School and can you guess where bitch?, The United Kingdom.I hear your escapades and I just laugh and am like wow so good to dump a cheap bitch.Even with all the waka about,you can't afford to buy a generator for your wretched home.And when I was there it ran for 24 hours.No wonder they say Ashaw.o no be work

Just incase you never knew,I hated you right from when I knew you were cheating,Did I hear you exclaim?Who told you am not aware you were sleeping with Samuel,Who told you am not aware that lecturer bleeped.Who told you I dont know that night you went to that your Cousin Akere's place he bleeped you?Lol.I no wan talk the rest.I knew it but decided to keep you cos then I had it in my mind you were no more a lover but a BITCH to keep me busy whenever my D.I.C.K wants some action plus use you for the House cleaning and and doing dishes lol.

Wanna know why I finally dumped you cos you were beginning to disrespect me too much which was the contrary when things were going well for me then and you been no wan come dey give me T o T o Bleep well well again.Na im make me dump you.I don't wish you bad but please don't think you played me cos as far as am concerned I used my money out of you.House Girl and bleeped the hell out of your National Pussy


I never wanna set my eyes on you, CHEAP gay BITCH.

Dear Ex,
i really cared about you. I swear my feelings were real. Only problem was you were too stubborn and i never could trust you.
Maybe i could have tolerated that but again you were too old for me. Being the baby faced guy i am, i wouldn't want people to wonder if you are my mother when we get married. I'm sure you'll get a good man soonest. i trust you're still very good in bed, that should thrill any man.
Thank God our break up was painless. Sorry i don't miss you it's b'cos an angel has crept into my life.
All the best.

For those that know the feeling too well,its not a physical pain, but something deep inside. Breathing gets hard.eating become tasteless,and love, well to me,wat is love any more.

I love him, and i thought he loves me too.He protected me,i guilded him.Unfortunately,it was all fantasy.Reality stuck for me to see,he was simply playing with me.He might have had feelings for me,I dont know.It's still hard to let him go,i still want to see him from time to time - but the hurt inside will always remind of that day.When you cheated on me,and lied to me in so many ways,setting me up with those guys that duped me,hurting me more than words can say.Playing me,cheating on me dating my friend.You betrayed me.

This has happened to me so many times.I cant help it but fall for it.Im such a bleeping idiot

Wow! Why are they so many heartbreaks up here? Evidence of artificial love!

@seeker,
If i do actually write an open letter to my ex, i would stand accused of plagiarising your manuscript. This sounds twisted but its like you're my twin and you dated my ex, lol.

Nice girl, still friends but our relationship lacked vital communiation, had to let it go

Isseywhite's letter was soo emotional [size=5pt]lucky me no ex[/size]

To : Y and T,
Good riddance! I kept my ideals, despite your lies and grave insecurities. It is not a crime to have hope and to try and snatch that from someone shows just what you were made of. I refuse to have regrets, my lessons have been learnt. As for being friends, i think i'll pass. I'm in a happy place and i'd be glad if i never lay my eyes on you again.

P.S i forgive the deceit, but i don't need to hear your excuses, you're someone else's problem now.

To E, Please don't waste your units. I've already noted your lunacy and i'm not going down that path. Don't call me, means DON"T CALL ME!

with aLL THESE dont think i want to break any heart o . so painful , revengful , and epe full. na wah o

Dear Ex,

I want to feel anger toward you, I really do. But I know you're not the sort of person who deserves that. I know you got into something a bit too big a bit too fast and didn't know what to do about it, so you did the only thing you felt you could do,

The only thing I regret, and the only thing I'll ever regret, is that we couldn't have been friends, after it was all said and done. If you ever need me, I'll be there for you, But don't expect me to come looking for you, ever again. You made that impossible. I hope it was worth it. Good luck in finding what you need to find.

your very loving and caring ex

tonye-t:

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Dear current chic,

i wish you know dat i aint goin to last, pls after 4mths more, find place in you heart to forgive me!


bye

U're already apologizing for the current chic, yeeesh! tough,

hey tonye-t, LMAO

@ letter to my Ex
I wish you well and all the success.
Thank you for being there to let me experience what love is all about.
I have moved on and hope you had no regret.

Dear Ex-,

Erm, yawn, yawn, yuck!

Dear Ex,
Trust you're faring well.Thank you for being a mentor, for the good times and your wonderful sense of humour. Yes, we went through thick and thin, we tried to make it work,but it didn't,
Like i told you before we eventually parted ways;it hurt me that you started to build your esteeem in seeking other ladies' attention just to spite your 'once professed love'(of course you know how much value i place on respect beyond love, i couldn't stand that!). I have forgiven u wholeheartedly but i have come to realize that no matter how much we feel threatened or hurt,the last attribute of love is to get even,
i wish u all the best and although i still love u as a friend,i love another wonderful dude as a lover,friend and big brother. I pray you find thru love again.
Take care

Before I let anything go, Ill teach that fool a lesson.

posakosa:

Before I let anything go, Ill teach that fool a lesson.

Dear M

You taught me what it means not to be alone,and i loved you very much.

you were always there when I needed you, you loved me the way no one ever had. you wanted us to get married but on condidtion i changed my religion. apparently i was not good enough to be a mother to your children the way i was. we had already been together 4 years and i had to face up to the fact that it wont work, because you wanted more than i could give.

That is all water under the bridge, you once asked me if i thought any man would ever love me or be as good to me as you were. my answer today as then still remains, even if not at least i will be true to myself and my faith. somedays i miss you so much i cry but i knew i could not be happy being what you wanted me to be. you now have a lovely family and i'm happy for you, but please do me a favor, stop coming round. its over and we cant change the past.
i wish you a good life and a rainbow at the end of every path you walk.
I will always pray for you.

tine