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addmole: I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.
Anyway sha, lets move on...
5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.
Omo... The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.
I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.
I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.
ANOTHER PART OF HER: My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.
There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.
We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.
I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.
I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.
Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.
i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.
Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.
She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.
What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
She needs deliverance, she probably have a spiritual husband.
Trying to hack or they’ve already hacked it. With tinubu SIM cards shared and customized Tinubu phones. Don’t be surprised more people will vote on your behalf. We need God this time our vote must count accurately.
nwekeugochukwu: Nollywood actress, Anita Joseph took to her Instagram handle to say that her husband, MC Fish has been wearing her shoes for her since she met him in 2017, IgbereTV reports.
Sharing a photo of her husband wearing her shoes for her, she wrote:
It's like comparing iPhone with Tecno. Benz all the way
NewDelhi: Sometimes ago, a nairalander compared the sudden madness for Benz cars to the madness Nigerians had for blackberry between 2007 and 2013. He was bashed , insulted and bruised. He was right afterall, it was the Yahoo boys and street musicians that made Benz so popular. It was so bad a particular nairalander was even comparing a Benz model to the rolls Royce wriath.
There was a time Range Rover was the reigning thing, Benz took over and Toyota venza came into the limelight briefly. Now it's Lexus. Which will be next?
DanceVille: Good evening Nairalanders! Hope you're enjoying the festive break and compliment of the season......
The year 2020 has been a rough years for some Nigerian musicians and had been a blessings in disguise for some musicians in which they broke out to the limelight and got more fame and publicity through their activities in musics.
Many albums lemme say many interesting albums were released in the year in which Nigerians music lover are been entertained and flexxing with it.
Albums ranging from Davido "About time".... Wizkid "Made in Lagos" Olamide "Carpie Diem" Burns Boy "Twice as tall" and many more.
What's your favourite album of the year and give us the reasons why you chooses it to be your album of the year ..
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Mine is Olamide "Carpie Diem"... Looks very entertaining and full of vibes... Especially the triumphant in which he sang about how he looses his dad and mum in which they were unable to eat the fruit of their labour.
Accountantgener: Good day everyone pls I want this message to get to front-page please.I bought card online from my bank today which is zenith bank amounting to 200naira only for me to discover that the sum of 364naira was debited from my account balance and that simply implies that the bank charges was 164naira.this isn't the first time I notice this as I also discover that each time I make a transfer,after the transfer is successful and am been charged back charges I also do notice another extra illegal 50naira that is usually been debited to my account after subtracting my current balance from my previous balance.every effort to reach the bank directly seems to be in vain.
your account abi bank account. I tire for their mata Dem no dey take eye see money for common man account na to dey do am anyhow be their way.
I will advice you to screenshot every debit on your account and dm them on Twitter, Dem no born Dem well, they go answer you chap chap.
ashacot: Veteran Rapper Ikechukwu has come out to request for proof of a reported fight that took place in Ghana between Davido and Burna Boy. The Rapper released the video on his Instagram handle where he was questioning the news of the reported fight.
"Are you trying to tell me that my boy Davido and my Boy Burna Boy will be fighting and throwing punches at themselves" he questioned. He will later describe it as a fake news and ask many to stop peddling fake news.
hashtagged: Twins , I remember my cousin slept with two twins on different occasions thinking they were same person, he later found out and lol
in Usher Raymond's voice:
We messing with the same girl, same girl How could the love of my life And my potential wife be the Same girl, same girl Man I can't believe that We've been messing with the Same girl, same girl Thought she was someone I could trust But she's been doubling up with us U, K, man we been messing with the same girl
Pepper Soup. All you need is 1 bucket of water, pepper, spices and 2500k beef.
iykbethany: I have just 3k and I want to cook soup that will last at least one week for a family of 12, that is me, my wife and our 10 children. My wife is 8 months pregnant and I don't want to disturb her. Please recommend the cheapest soup for a family of 12. Thanks
Talk to her about it let her know it’s bad and indecent for a responsible girl to watch porn and also pre-marital sex is a sin. I will advise you too, abstain from it until you do the needful
nashito: I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict
Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.
But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?
I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.
Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot
Programming › Let's Build Something Awesome With Laravel - Web Apps & Apis** by newspipo(op): 11:32pm On Dec 22, 2023
