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aribisala0:
What statement did I make? Are you alright?

Calm down and check out the photographs you shared along with the post.

Candidlady:
location please

Lagos state.

If he had beaten a man, it would have resulted to something mild.
We should know that we cannot beg people to commit a crime on our behalf.... You missed SIWES, you want her to waive it and jeopardize her lecturing career.

It is now a habit to say "rising tensions" between China and US in any news.

AGROMERCHAENT:
message on Whatsap

There's nothing wrong in displaying photographs okay.
Yam is not contraband.

I remember the day he gave the speech "that no life was lost". That moment, he couldnt look at the camera direct.
In psychology, that means you are lying.

Guys, there are some questions you need to ask your girlfriend or boyfriend or fiancee and fiance face to face and not through the phone so that you can judge with high accuracy.

Getting caught is a sure part of that nefarious trade.

Sorry brotherly.
I pray it is rectified for you and others to smile ☺

For what if i may ask?

I was thinking siggy only gave campus news.
Okay, a prison also looks like a campus.

That was how i received a deadly threat from one loan app, claiming that i was used as the person's guarantor.
The message in part said "any gruesome action against the person" will affect me.
Can you imagine.!

[quote author=aribisala0 post=107657501][/quote]Brotherly, your statement is not correct. In the military, Buhari's pose is the way to stand at ease: hands clocked behind your back, with your feet apart.

I am not a supporter of Buhari, for the record.

Xenry:
Lol. Nigerian pastors can be funny shaaa. Any little thing, they will connect it with spirituality .

Even in Nature, we have negative and positive forces.
So science should stop deceiving the gullible with another name for what is known already in the religions of the world.

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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Madam, forget about being an introvert. Th opposite of Love is laziness. The Bible says Open rebuke is better than hidden love.... If you love them avoid that introvered laziness and make genuine efforts by extending yourself to show that you love his family (not necessarily about traveling to meet them) by calling.

In Nigeria, you marry the family too and not their son alone.
The are scared of you because they feel they won't be welcome to your home when you eventually get married to their son/brother. (Their own perspective)
Don't miss this time around, because very, very few men will want to marry who is not close to his family in Nigeria.

Hahahahaha
The name of Nigeria alone cannot bedragged into the mud for online hacking.

Nigeria is the 11th wonder!

Just like GoodLuck Jonathan back then.. Setting up another committee to check the work of another committee.

The are trying to identify with the proletariat

Kingmelly:
I respect this guy Tubaba. Ever since he got his shit together and stopped cheating he's been a role model.. I wish them a happy home and God's blessings everyday...

Hahahahaha
Role model indeed

Whether Irigwe or irrigation, e no concern me.

Oshlander:
This game be as e get o.

Goals only from penalty.

Na real wa

Brotherly, Argentina with Messi VS Nigeria with Mikel Obi that year, na penalty them us score us 2 goals to 1 carry the cup for under 17 tournament.
I'm still sad whenever i remember it.

Cheniron:
Hello,I am a lady,I need a friend

Location, please.

After God.... I'll still say God again.

Our elders that want to ensure that they continue to hold on to power, leaving the youths powerless.

This is despicable!

Ihiala wey we dey follow enter Orlu main come hot die so?

Why are people learning how to write the 26 alphabets above me?

Now to the topic: does Buhari know the meaning PEACE?

Are you kidding me?

AnthCunny:
Why do job applicants tell their recruiters that they are able to work under pressure? Is it suppose to be a criterion as a job applicant or it's out of sheer desperation?

This is like: when we get to the bridge, we will cross it kind of statement.

Only Justtice Abang can do this great work.
Appeal to a higher court loading.

Sometimes I ask myself this question: WHAT IF OUR PROTESTANT BROTHERS and SISTERS WERE THE FIRST TO HAVE AN ORGANISED CHURCH GROUP?
Because most of the things that they accuse The Roman Catholic church of in the time past, they are now doing it using another name.