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Wait....so you think her punna is ugly but you are still spreading her legs because you want to collect ba?

Common sense fall on you.

Who told you ladies like swallowing it? Does your gf swallow it?? Biko no go end your relationship because you want make woman swallow akamu.

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MissRaine69:
Look not everyone is needy and needs to feel validated 24/7 some women are secure in their position in that relationship. It works for me not saying that it will for someone else. We are individuals after all.
My external relationships have never and will never take precedent over my core relationship. I interact with all involved differently and not certainly at the cost of my love life. As for his female friends they understand and respect my position and I do the same.
It works for me and he has no issues with that.

Good for you being secure and all.

But the success of your relationship is also as a result of you and your man acting out in the best interest of each other and that includes defining your friendship with the opposite sex.

You don't have to be needy to start seeing things you don't like in your bf's female friends. Besides you can't be sure they respect you as you aren't a mind reader, it could just be your bf setting boundaries with them to ensure your security in the relationship.

That validates the point that setting boundaries is necessary.

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Saintsammurai:
True,,how can a lady take a guy she is not that close with as a friend.. note: the guy here, is that guy that she can confide in...the guy ought to have been "just a friend" before turning to her male bestie.. a male bestie that she now knows his principles.. A guy that has already had his priority straight.

You actually don't have to be close with someone before you become friends. Many people meet for the first time & then later become friends.

It is not bad for a lady to confide in a guy or have a male best friend. But that is only if the lady is only invested in the friendship and has no relationship to protect.

No man will like it if his girlfriend has many male friends that take her out, call her and spend as much time with her as he does. The same thing with girls, no girl will like her boyfriend to frolic with other girls...they will say the girls want to snatch their boyfriend away from them lol.

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E pain u

babtoundey:
Whatever makes you conclude Islam preaches terrorism as a result of the individuals who hide under religion to perpetrate their nefarious acts should make you judge Christianity and it's teachings by the action of fake pastors and dubious prophets.

This is the typical response of a Muslim who is challeged with explaining the nefarious activities of other muslims.

(1.) Deny that the perpetrators are muslim.
(2.) Claim that they are actually Christians in disguise trying to slander their religion because Christians don't have anything better to do.
(3.) Call Christianity out entirely.

When you look at all these, you begin to wonder how a person can have a religion they feel so inferior about that they have to try and belittle another one to please themselves.

Saintsammurai:
Sigh!!!!! so in a nutshell,, what you are saying is that, females should not take males as the best friends....Well I think you centered your views based on the things you hear, male friends you had and movies you watch....Going into friendship with a male pervert as a female, its a time bomb.....IT all boils down to the type of guy a female take as her bestie....what are his principles, his discipline,e.tc. Before you take that guy as your bestie,,,,think about his personality,,,IS he the perverted type, the type that flex around in night clubs, or he is thy type that is strongly disciplined, cool headed, the type that sticks to one girl, the mature type...like i said...Look before you leap..

More like judge before you leap. It's only possible to catch a few signs of a person's true character without actually getting close to that person and that is why a lot of guys and girls fall prey to gold diggers, oloshos and mentally unstable people.

The Op is right, you cannot tell the true character of someone if you aren't close to them, so it's better to define the friendship & set your boundaries right from the start, especially people in a relationship.

These days, most find it easier to start a relationship as good friends and before you know it they are pouring akamu inside another man's gf's ponyor.

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Stevebamdex:
Are you married or you normally peeps on your sisters while they are at it. ?

Another sick nairaland pervert spotted. They are always active in romance section & will not hesitate to perv on anyone that has a ponyor, even if their sister.

If a guy is holding a girl like that & she isn't his blood relation, then they have strong feelings for each other.

Whoever they're dating should just run for their lives.

You have come again with your igbo dissing threads

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This animal is still here?

adajoe555:
like me I can't stand it

what a girl did to me in this life. I will never forget

What if she's in a relationship & her man only has female friends, wouldn't boyfriend snatching not become a risk she has to face head on?

But i can understand that's its more appealing making friends with the opposite sex, there is always an ounce of emotional and intimate attraction in these friendship which make each partner appreciate the attention they get from the opposite sex friend as opposed to the attention they'd get from same sex friends.

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MissRaine69:
Relationships function well with boundaries it's no different with friends.

Except that when you're in a relationship or are married, those boundaries are defined with the best interest of your partner at heart.

That doesn't have to be the case if you're in a relationship where you aren't ready to sacrifice for your partner.

MissRaine69:
That's the thing with friendship you have boundaries
I am respectful to his friends male and female and he is the same with mine. There is no crossover of anything. Listen it works for some and not for others let's leave it at that.

You're right when you say it differs for different couples. Still it is easier to say when you're not in a relationship or in one where you both don't need too much attention from each other.

In some relationships, either parties won't be able to tolerate their partner deviating their attention between them and his numerous female friends. It becomes even more harmful to the relationship after marriage. What wife will be ok with her husband keeping lots of female besties and spending time with them outside his house?

Prec1ous:
I do not think your self-security and self esteem is a factor here.

The factor here is, can you withstand your man spending time with same female friends (as he calls them) repeatedly.

You may be strong at first, but you will get suspecious and jealous (depending if the relationship is really important to you though).

I know you will not find it funny!

I didn't even check for your post before responding, you've got it all covered already.

MissRaine69:
I am secure in myself and I don't have self esteem issues.

Self esteem and belief in yourself has nothing to do with this Its all about believing in your partner

Btw even if you do believe he isn't cheating, it can be disgruntling when other females individually spend as much time with your man as you do.

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