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Dillusionist:
depends on your relationship with the female folks..

Not in all cases, some gurls have their emotions all over the place The day you tell them the opposite of what they want to hear ehn...truth or not..na die

But yeah, I'd always prefer the truth too. Self denial is one of the worst states a person can live in.

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agbonkamen:
By nature Igbo men are not romantic. The most important thing to them is money.

It must be only the ones you met then.

Op the quickest way to find out is to go to the middle of onitsha market and open your ponyor...if you live through that day, then you can say igbo men don't like sex

PrimadonnaO:
I'm done with you...

We weren't together in the first place, don't take debates to heart. Cheers.

PrimadonnaO:
All you've done is highlighted sections and extremely analysed it. I'm afraid we aren't on the same page, Sir.
I have no respect for liabilities either. But a woman needs pampering, no matter how independent she is. Perhaps I wasn't emphatic enough when I said I don't support those who come into relationships with the intent of heaping their financial needs on a man.
Let's take Beyoncé for instance. She can do more than look after herself and pay her bills, but Jay-Z's still got to step in, whether or not she asks for it, whether or not she needs it...and spoil her, too.

Who told you Beyonce doesn't pay her own bills or pamper herself? Was she with Jay-z from birth?? Only lazy women believe they are entitled to pampering. A man can choose to shower his wife or gf with gifts, same way a girl can choose to shower her husband or bf with gifts. Its a choice not a birth right or an entitlement.

You can't claim not to be in support of women who enter relationships to be financial liabilities but then still claim that women are entitled to pampering. It's like trying to look left and right at the same time.

ShyCypher:
At least im acting dominant on an online forum, its way better than being a pussy online - imagine how you'd be in real life.

Since you are an old man, how come you have time to engage in online keyboard warfare?

And finally, with God, there is still no hope for you. You are gone.

Whatever gets you to take your agbo and sleep at night man.

You're already boring, engaging you any longer will just cause the brain power of everyone reading the thread to lower.

Do yourself a favor and re-enrol in school. Let your parents not have died for nothing.

PrimadonnaO:
There is something inherently wrong with this question, and as far as I am concerned, it stems from human selfishness. Can anyone live without money? It is a necessity that has no substitute. So, how then does a guy expect to not meet certain financial needs of a woman he claims to love? She needs money to exist and more than that, to enjoy a few luxuries now and again.
A girl is justified in having those expectations when entering into a relationship. Any man who denies and cuts short those expectations is merely self -centeted and it has got nothing to do with being "wise" as a lot of guys tend to explain it.

What I do not support, however, is when a girl goes into a relationship with the primary intent of being a financial beneficiary. That's wrong. I also do not support a girl being primarily dependent on a guy to fix all of her financial issues at all times. Very importantly, too. A relationship should be hinged on give and take, but without keeping scores.

If a girl in a relationship feels she deserves luxury, she is at liberty to go get them herself. She is in a relationship with her bf and not her father. Any girl who enters into a relationship with the intention of being pampered financially is already a liability that will be discarded as soon as she no longer serves any purpose.

A woman should have pride. There is nothing wrong in asking your partner for money if you need financial support. What is wrong is when she looks down on him & abuses him when he can't provide. These kind of women should have respect for themselves.

No one is at liberty to pamper you and take care of your needs for life, you're not a queen. Even your parents will want you to be independent at a certain age.

The real OGs are those ladies out there hustling and reigning it in financially despite the challenges, those are the women that are respected...not the small oloshos that expect to be pampered by their bfs because they have a ponyor.

ShyCypher:
You are the pained one here. You and all your cowardly cohorts.

Just because you get beaten around and physically abused by women doesn't mean it's every man that stoops that low.

Some of us are dominant men who can handle a woman correctly and maturely.

That's the only pain I see on this thread with all of you attackin' me incessantly like bitches because I don't share your sissy views.

Man up & take the initiative. Even women want a man that they can rely on and can keep them in check.

Cunts.

Trying to act 'dominant' on an online forum, hahaha just how old are you anyways? You shouldn't have dropped out of school na, you'd have had to exercise more brain power.

Mr woman handler, everyone here is just calling you out on your crap, makes you even more of a wuss not to see how you're embarrassing yourself

But don't worry, with God there is still hope for you

ShyCypher:
How can a drug-dealin', about-to-be-executed junkie advice me on how to live?

It's obvious you must have mistakenly donated your brain for free along with your kidney that night.

Dingbat.

Biko who is executing me? Chai...e must have really pained u

Plz o, nothing concerns me about how you live I'm just telling you to apply more sense before you post on the internet next time...don't let everyone see how ignorant you are.

Rorachy:
Can a guy be in a relationship without asking for sex?

Is it only guys that enjoy sex? So girls don't enjoy sex too abi?

If a guy does not ask for sex, they will say he is gay. If he asks for sex they will ask for money...please do you know what they call girls who seeks money for sex?

JONNYSPUTE:
. Sis the man was wrong to cheat. But u Nd I should understand that they must have discussed the issue for sometime Nd when the man found out that she has refused to shave,he went out Nd sleep with someone else.U can also accept the fact that before they got married,maybe the man always enjoyed it when it is shaved,so she should maintain that statuesque. Little things in marriage can cause a big problem that can lead to divorce. This is where understanding matters a lot. But pls sis don't take it that submitting to ur Hubby's reasonable demand is a form of slavery.l

Didn't the man already sleep with her before or immediately after marriage to know she likes to keep hair down there?

If it was something he couldn't live with & he had spoken to his wife about it multiple times, he could have divorced her before going outside to other women.

Sex is not food. While it may not be hygienic to keep your privates bushy, its something he could gently teach his wife about.

Women don't have to mindlessly obey everything their husband say, only slaves do that. Only in Nigerian marriages is this the norm, only God can help us.

BlueRayDick:
From Festac join a bus going to Iyana Iba, from Iyana Iba join another bus going o egbeda. When you get to Egbeda at the Brt bus stop cross to the other side, walk staright down and tell any bike man you are going to Dominion Cathedral. You should be able to locate your destination if it is truly opposite dominion cathedral.

Alternatively, you can follow the oshodi route cos I don't know if work on that Iyana Iba has gotten to Iyana Iba towards okoko or not.

If you prefer the oshodi route, then board a bus from festac to oshodi, when you get to Oshodi under bridge you will see buses going to Egbeda. On getting to egbeda walk down to the bus stop, cross the main express and take a bike to dominion cathedral.

Thank you very much

JONNYSPUTE:
. .pls stop,Bn submissive to ur husband does not amount to slavery.The man was harsh but u should be at least civil enough to say the truth.

Being submissive IS slavery especially if the husband has a habit of making unreasonable requests.

When did unshaved ponyor become a reason to cheat? Please does that reasonable to you??

This is something the husband would have discussed with his wife, instead he punished her by cheating. That means, if the wife doesn't fulfill any of his requests immediately and without question then he will sleep with other women. Is that what marriage is supposed to be about??

ShyCypher:
If you have anythin' tangible left in your skull, you would know you just answered yourself here.

I already stated that you're an ignorant wannabe It's clear for everyone else to see anyways.

It may seem harsh but it's the truth. Next time try to be less of a keyboard warrior and borrow small sense before you post.

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That is tomorrow. For those that have gone for the interview, i want to ask....if you don't meet 75% of the supposed target per month, does it mean you don't get paid the fixed salary (85k?) Per month?

lacemose:
In Nigeria, one thing I know is right is women submitting to their husbands and this woman decided to do otherwise going against what he wanted and here is the result.

You're part of what's wrong with Nigeria today. When did wives become slaves to be dominated? Both parties are supposed to be able to compromise for each other in a marriage.

Even if the woman couldn't bear to shave, why didn't husband just talk with her...they are husband and wife.For a man to cheat on his wife because she didn't shave her ponyor is just sad.

This is why the tradition of parents demanding bride price before marriage and Nigerian girls expecting to sit at home while the husband toils tirelessly...is ruining the country.

ShyCypher:
Are you about to play that "marriage" card Oga?

Which ever way you handled women before marriage will remain same after you get married. Nothin' will change. So if you were a wussy while datin' you will remain a wussy in marriage.

That renders your potential point baseless.

Next!

Oh look, we got a badass over here with a PhD in handling women.

At least try to sound less ignorant in your future responses.

You're either extremely violent with women yourself or haven't met a vicious & violent woman for once in your life.

KAYD007:
Why the name calling? did you read what she wrote?

Yes i did.

The girl is cheating on her long term bf for no justifiable reason at all. The bf still pays her school fees and provides her with a place to stay despite her being unfaithful.

Now she is asking if she should be co-habiting? She doesn't seem financially capable of securing any other accommodation, her man pays her fees, takes care of her & is faithful to her. But she still poses her question as if she is with an unfaithful man who is taking advantage of her..

So my point still stands, she is ungrateful & a cheat. Her bf deserves better. I bet even you wouldn't tolerate such a gf.

The girl seems cheap and ungrateful...and that's after cheating on her man too.

Hope she leaves his place so he can find someone much better.

Yes it is, especially in Northern Nigeria where they don't mind marrying and fvcking anything as long as it's female.

No other details like name of the company?

alexialin:
I suspect he is.


He is telling my friend, hes ready to settle down with her before end of this year, if she agrees to anal.. And my friend hasn't done such before and she is inlove, worried and confused.
But when I get home, I will show her this thread.

The bf is a morrafucker!

Calm down, a lot of dudes that have anal with their gfs don't have homosexual tendencies, claiming otherwise makes you seem ignorant.

You'd be surprised at the amount of dudes that just don't see ukwu as grabbing material. If your 'friend' is not interested in it, she can simply say so to her bf. If it's a deal breaker for him, then the relationship wasn't meant to be.

No you are not asking for too much, it is sad that your wife cannot see that this unhealthy relationship with her friend is ruining her marriage.

I imagine it's not easy to leave a marriage especially one with kids, so i won't tell you to do that.

If i were in your shoes, I'd start detaching myself slowly but surely from my wife until she figures out how she's becoming a stranger in her own home. If she still doesn't change, in the long run i don't see how I can remain in that marriage.

Okah866:
Men are scum

Including your father and brothers right?

onyeezeigbo:
hey you shouldn't be rude,I have a good perception about you,be nice ok

Why should she be?

When some dudes will come on here & be embarrassing themselves with lame pickup lines at every female moniker that comments

Do you really have to attend the same church? That doesn't sound like something that should be an issue at all if you both really want to be together.

Also it seems like your husband-to-be has to make his stance to his family if he is truly ready to marry you. Even if his family doesn't like it, they would have to support it if they know he has his mind made up.

That's a talk you should have with your man before things get too complicated. Good luck.

Rorachy:
Why does sex end when a man cum?

Like seriously that's fuckng selfish.

Especially when the lady is about to have an orgasm .

Doesn't happen with every guy.

Mostly happens when the man doesn't have any feelings towards the girl & only wanted to fvck

When most guys cum, the next thing is to shower & get outta there or just sleep. A lot don't even like cuddling. It'll only take a guy that is in love with his sex partner to make out time & get her to cum even if he already has.

Op is on point too, thrusting during sex is all well and good. But it starts to feel even better for guys the moment they're about to cum. That's why most guys thrust faster when they want to cum.

Biafrareform:
Let me give u her exact words.

" I have been having feelings for you. When we had sex, I was having issue with my guy.
After the sex, I wanted to block u on Facebookand blacklist your no. Everything changed when you openly confess your feelings for me "

You don't know what "issue" she had with her bf

She had feelings for you.
She came to you for sex
She wanted to block you afterwards
She changed her mind when you confessed.

She is either naturally confused or she is lying.

Bottom line is, you can't fvck a girl who already has a boyfriend and expect to build a relationship with that kind of person...you have already set yourself up for heartbreak.

Run while you still can.

Wait...

So you woo'd another guy's girl, fvcked her and now you expect her to be faithful to you??

Your head is not dia yet