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Klass99:


If I may ask, was it Chika (the gossipy wife) who brought her colleague (Dan) to collect his share of the kpekus and eat Susan's money?

I wasn't very clear on that part of the story either. Pls clarify

Klass99:
Loose lips sink ships.

Considering you all have a friendly relationship that goes beyond just being neighbours. I think you should tell your neighbour/village brother, you will be doing him a disservice by keeping quiet.

He already feels bad that he wasn't aware of the marriage introduction of your female neighbour and he may be wondering what on earth did I do, to be passed over with that information.

I'm sure he was aware of wifey's character prior to you moving to that area (I hear most husbands know their wives already and vice-versa) but perhaps if he hears it from you (a close friend) he may begin to really understand how her attitude damages relationships and he might do something about it.

Ngkman, please next time paragraph your post and use pen names like Dan, Chika etc for your narrative. The flow of your story wasn't easy to understand with the constant use of he, she, her, brother, sister - I couldn't tell who you were referring to sometimes, communication should be easy to understand my brother.

fannybaby:
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Are you always outside when they come to report or it is when you hear noise that you come outside??

CharisEleos:
All I see here is you trying to get back at her for causing quarrel between you and your wife, nothing more. Though I expect you to be a man and let it slide by minding your biz and telling your wife to cut off from such friendship.

You may think her husband doesn't know about her behavior and will be shocked that bringing his attention to it will make him team up with her and fight you or worst still cut you off. Remember, she's his wife and won't throw her out just to keep being friends with you.

Be wise.

fannybaby:
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Tell them to come back whenever her husband comes around......

fannybaby:
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Why are you apologizing on the husband's behalf What concerns you with that

Hello everyone, if you have people like OP and his neighbor's wife as colleagues at work, you will most certainly lose your job

Manq:
He's a man and tight men have a code.. being that you both are married, take him out to a new location a cool bar to be precise so he's mind starts to ponder about what might be going on.. don't go straight to the point just yet.. stylishly ask him to judge himself why he wasn't told about the introduction! I bet you he knows the answer only that the needs to hear it from someone else. But ignore this advice if he's a dull man and a woman wrapper cos she might have a way of poisoning his mind against you.. be guided.. real gees got each others backs even if our wives they forkup

hopeforcharles:
If you tell him, he might tell his wife and the circle continues. I think you just tell him its a faily decision

greatnaija01:
well, send this nairaland link to him.... AS IF IT IS JUST A STORY... and let him connect the dots... but if this account bears your name or anything that can be traced to you, then it will create more problem.

Sometimes, minding your own business works, and praying he discovers it by himself.

Rozcol:
All of you are amebos but here you are victimizing only the woman. Barack people smh

fannybaby:
I so much hate gossips , that your neighbor's wife and men like OP disgust me.. aproko up and down

farouk1989:
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You lied, you are the 6th to comment

altteemy:
At the top menu, you will see 'New'

New topics get there. Should make you a click faster. wink*

heykims:
U will be placed on CONHESS 7 and that's about 87k after tax.

Adamayinla:
Pls is it the same salary with non academic staff salary pls and like how much is non academic staff in a fed uni

kettykin:
so The chairman of Code of Misconduct tribunal was right after all

AK481:
These resident doctors are opportunist , who don’t mind using humans are soft target to make cheap and unrealistic claim.

Up on till now , now has come to rebuff what Ngige said :

The issue of group insurance for them is there but they want a special package for doctors while FG has there are 3 insurance which they are covered in.

I bet you, this is not about the good of the patient, nobody is fighting for the upgrade of hospitals , don’t be fooled .its just for selfish interest.

If the government gives in to their demand,I bet you johesu will go on strike too, and the cycle will continues.

How you ask yourself that why the health sector is the only sector where the public sector is more lucrative than the private sector

Kaduna1stson:
It won't work.

All these recent attempts to reverse some laws and then incriminate Buhari so he will be impeached is not going to work. Is it the president that is eating the money?

SilverNorGold:
Although I am an avid supporter of President Buhari cos of his many stellar achievements, honesty and integrity, it's things like this(his softness) that's making me not very happy with him. Why sit and watch wicked elements and fake news purveyors run this country aground? What's stopping him from declaring war on enemies of Nigeria and fake news merchants?

President Buhari is TOO SOFT for my liking.. If he were Obasanjo or Yaradua or Goodluck Jonathan, would criminal elements like Sowore, Aisha Yesufu and their cohorts dare attempt one quarter of the nonsense that he (President Mohammadu Buhari) has tolerated from them?

This is sad.. President Buhari should do something to nip this nonsense in the bud as quickly as possible before it gets out of hand!

And by the way, what happened to the Social Media regulation bill? Seriously, I am not happy with the way things are going.. I just hope Nigeria survive the wrath of these fake news vicars before PMB comes up with a decisive solution.

May God help Nigeria.

FatherBona:
Timaya banged the living daylights out of this lady

drizslim:
Get ur facts right Emmanuel Udubunch. What are u aiming at 2023? PDP is a dead issue on arrival

Buy Toyota muscle & oppress ur village people this xmas at low cost.