₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Don't just sell what everyone else around sells. Rather look for goods and services that people around would greatly benefit from and look into building your business around that. That way you have reduced competition and are able to specialize.

Thank you

austine4real:
Where are u located?


You can buy charcoal here around 4500-5000 and sell at 8000 in your side there.


Food business is cool too raw or cooked .




I'm in Minna Niger state

I'm in Imo state thank you

muyico:
Selling drinks in pack

Thank you

Templee333:
Just observe your environment, what is that thing that is not commonly found in your locality. That's what you should go for. By the way, are you in a rural area or city?

I live in Imo state thank you

I am 20 years old I have managed to save 35k , I want to start business but I don't know what business to venture into, I will be feeding myself and paying house rent, please help me ?

Keziehenry:
Update us pls

they relocated to Canada , I will never get to see her again 😭😭😭😭

Akinowon123:
Okay nice to know. Know that Your sister can not deny you of your child when you are fully ready to take her. And that is when you have more than enough to take care of her. For now, focus on learning the skills and becoming ur own boss, make money and go for her. I know you miss her, she is your blood but that is part of the sacrifices you pay for what you did. Your sister want the best for you, trust me.

In another case, you can get her to be sending you video recording of her or pictures.

Ok thanks

Akinowon123:
Same baby you wanted to abort here

https://www.nairaland.com/5751460/im-pregnant-sisters-brother-in-law-im

Yes I wanted to abort her because I didn't want to go back to the village, I am happy that I didn't do it because she is the best thing that ever happened to me 😍

Shokoloko:
In Nigeria, rights come with money which you don't have.
You are focusing on the wrong thing.
You are wishing, and wishing cannot help you now.

Use this pain and anger to propel yourself to greater heights so that when you finally decide to take your daughter, she will not be ashamed of you.

Ok thanks

IkeIgboNile:
I understand how you feel and i also understand how your sister feels too but i don't think a lawyer now will solve anything. You said your mom is late but you guys must have a female character that can talk to your sister and her husband to atleast let you see your child from time to time since you're not financially buoyant to take over the responsibility yourself.

Unfortunately the female character is in support of her😭😭😭

Shokoloko:
You don't have wnough to take care of yourself?
You don't have money to take care of your daughter?
You don't have money for a làwyer?
So you want to take away this baby from a stable home and provide her with what?

You do not need to see her right now.
Go and find your feet and come back for her when you have something to offer.
There is a reason why Moses' mother allowed him drift away in thr Nile to be raised up by a princess of Egypt.

I want visitation rights 😭😭😭

Kobojunkie:
Your sister and her husband committed a crime here.

Yes they've kidnapped my baby 😭😭😭 but to Nigerians it seems as they are doing me a favour because i am hopeless.

Kobojunkie:
Has your sister, her husband and the brother given you that right yet? If not, then you need a lawyer on your side.

The baby daddy has nothing to do with this , he was sent to the village in april 2020 he hasn't met the baby. My sister and her husband are the ones whose keeping my baby away from me

IgiveLadiesBj:
Your baby should be walking now and I believe she's in good care. Moreover no be only you get the baby. Why not call your Sis that you want to come for weekend. Assuming she no send you money now, can you afford the transport?

Yes she is now a big girl 2 years and 4 months, she hasn't spoken to me since april 2021 when I left her house. Even if I call her with using a different number, as soon as she hear my voice she will cut the call. I don't need her to send me money ,i only need visitations right ,if she allow me i will borrow money for transportation even if it she will not allow me inside her house , that's fine I can see my baby outside of her house . I don't mind spending the night on the street just to see my baby.

IgiveLadiesBj:
You're very naîve if you're even considering a Lawyer. Kuku calm down your blood dey hot. You don't have means of taking care of yourself not to talk of a baby and you want custody. So you're not happy that your sister is helping out? Kuku finish the work you're learning. Negotiate with her to visit. Period

I don't want a lawyer i want visitation rights

frozen70:
But do you have a means of feeding and providing for that child assuming you take over the child

No 😭😭 but my life is completely shattered without her i don't really want to have her custody , i just wish she could give me visitations right even if it is once a year I will be so happy

frozen70:
Where are your parents in this home video

Mum is late and dad doesn't care

Kobojunkie:
You and I were created because our individual parents chose to have sex. That God created the process by which we were brought into existence does not then mean that God did it or that God wanted us to be. So, let's stop dragging God's name around as if he is the same level of scum we exist in.

Ok I hear you 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Mindlog:
You have no means of providing care for the child for now, your sister stepping in the prevailing situation is the best for the child for now as presently you are yet to establish direction in your life and bringing in a child into that uncertainty will be cruel, so you need to have that talk with your sister, about visitations.

I would love to have visitations right but she doesn't want to talk to me or visit and I can't cope with that 😩😫😭 I want my baby

Kobojunkie:
Then work hard and make money and then go get your kid.

Ok I will

Kobojunkie:
Which God will provide? Are you talking of the same one who made you have sex with your in-laws brother to give birth without yourself being able to care and protect your child on your own?

The same God who created me and you

Kobojunkie:
■ Get a lawyer
■ Get proof that you had a baby from the hospital where you had the baby
■ Have your lawyer inform your sister, her husband , and the brother that if they don't return your baby, you will take them to court in addition to having to pay you damages

I don't have money for a lawyer unless it is free of charge 😭😭😭

Mindlog:
OK. Should you get custody of your child now, what is the arrangement for the child's upkeep e,g feeding, clothing, medication, care in your absence when you go to where you are learning fashion designing etc?

To be honest I don't really know how I will manage with her but God will provide 🙏

Mindlog:
You were a minor when you had the baby and a dependent of your sister and her husband. You should be about 19 now, did you get to finish your secondary school education before having the baby? While in the village, have you been able to learn a skill or a trade?

1. I will be 20 this year
2. No I haven't completed secondary school due to the pregnancy
3. I just started learning fashion design

Mamayam:
The pikin go don forget ya face.

Forget am, u go born another one.

🙄 I can't forget my womb opener and I don't want more kids

Mindlog:
Were you above 18, when you had the baby?

The father of your child is the brother to your sister's husband, on what ground is your child in your sister's custody?

1. I was 17
2. Yes he is my sister husband brother
3. Baby daddy and I were living with my sister and her husband

YinkaOlusesi16:
Are you typing from the village?

Yes I am in the villa

everythinggirly:
Hmmm... Don't make same mistake twice, beg for her forgiveness and see what happens, don't go alone.

I did beg for her forgiveness but she is still angry with me and my dad can't help me. I am all alone 😭😭😭

Lance008:
Visit another guy to have another baby
U didn't think of how ur baby is surviving u missing her presence
Life don pass the one make u Dey do so

If you have nothing better to say , please shut up 🤐

Hello guys please help me out , my siser husband brother impregnated me 😢😭 i gve birth in october2020, i have only breastfed her👩‍👦 😔😟🙁😥 for 6 months before my sister sent me back to the village without my baby 😢😭😢😭, I have been in the villa since april 2021 and i havnt seen my baby again because my doesn't want me to visit them. I missed her so much i dont even know what she looks like now , i really want her back and i strongly believe my sister is suffering her because she always use to refer her as a bad luck 😭😭😭. I missed her so much and I desperately want her back. 😩 what should I do to have my baby back please help me out 😭😭😭🙏

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