₦airaland Forum

doyinisaac:
in the mighty name of jesus,receive sense.....

Amen, e no well

Lilshorecords:
Omo see that range as e crash! So sorry for the range tho!

And no sorry for the human being? U well so?

Is it by force to declare you a Governor, for an election that you lost?

Good one if they will have the balls to ask him tough and genuine questions he might not want to hear.

joeprince23:
That sham of an election should not stand,sometimes i feel edo is not even a true niger-delta state, no dogedness of igbos and ijos(ND) in edolites. Thats why i trust my rivers state,we sabi politics and if u want trouble we go give you double

The Edos are more civilized, urbane and politically matured. We will not kill our innocent brothers and sisters like your Rivers of blood, simply because of elections.

Does this headline tallies with the contents?

I think Peter Obi should prepare for a Vice Presidential role starting from 2019, thereafter, he can be adequately prepared to run for the presidency, when it will most convenient for my brothers across the East of Niger to produce a president for the country.

removing lice from her chest

Even if you are not my hero, i am touched by this. God bless you and your generations

Is this a soldier?

If it is true, all want more power to divert our commonwealth

Wish them luck

GdexFolami:
Hope youre not part of all dz attention seekers on NL.

Attention seeking with a family issue like this?

iamGraced:
Biko he is, go through his previous topics and spot all his mumu yarns...I am tired of NL with all its Wale Adenuga wannabees

You not comment, when you have not been forced to do so. Maybe you are guilty of same too.

olureignforever:
She's is lying. It's her real age that's on the certificate. Let her accept she lied to u,why is she confusing u. N do find it in your heart to forgive her.

I will, tnx

Harrychocoberry:
Go to any waec office nearest to you, they will help you.
Whatever happens let me know.

Ok, tnx

DrinkWater10:
My issue with your wife's explanation is; how on earth was it possible for the same mistake to be made during registration of common entrance, WASSCE ,NECO.
We know that students are mandated to be be physically present during exam registrations.

same way am confused.

nnamdibig:
Don't mind all these hypocrites, A wife lied to the hubby about her age and people are here calling the hubby names....
The question is
If the OP was aware that the wife is 6yrs older, would he got married to her?
Will the 6 extra yrs now make the wife older than the hubby? If so, what is OP's believe in getting married to an older woman?
Lastly, why will the wife lie to her hubby about her age? Could it be that she knew that he would not wife her, or she was thinking that is actually nothing to worry about?
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Until you are in OP shoes, I don't think you are in position to answer these questions which means you have no right to criticize OP for getting angry.
He has every right to be upset to discover that his lie has been lying to her about her age.
Are we even sure that it's only the age that the wife lied about?
OP please just be careful on how you handle this and am sure divorce is not the best. Try and find out why she did such(that is if she lied actually) but in my own Waec certificate, their is also a mistake on my date of birth though it's on the day not on the year.

Thanks for your nice comments

Allwility:
The fact that the wife didn't inform the OP herself of her true age but he stumbled upon it is quite bad. If I were the OP, I would be thinking about what other lies she may have told that I'm yet to find out.

Someone once said, trust is like paper once it's crumpled can never be made straight again. So I can understand if the OP's marriage will experience trust issues. The wife in question have lot of work to do...not the OP. Oga OP, calm down, divorcing her will be a harsh decision o. Think of your kids, you don't want them growing up without their mom. So chillax...everyone makes mistakes, w e just need someone to correct 'em.

Thanks

The gods are angry

I have an issue which i have presented for nairalanders' view and advice. Pls read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/3382431/help.i-discovered-wife-lied-age.

Based on some advices, I would want to know if it is possible to apply to WAEC or NECO for correction of personal data like date of birth, which was misakenly put on a Secondary School Certificate? If it is possible, how does one go about it?

Chubhie:
Sorry for the rude shock.You feel cheated right now that your wife over packaged and sold above the market value for her age?

You thought you were smart?Got outsmarted by the assumed weaker vessel?

I can tell you your wife is not proud that her sins has found her out this very moment.granted,she was over the moon when her dummy was sold at the beginning.

How is the body language of your wife with this discovery? Reassure her and give her genuine reasons not to further lie to you cos it insults your intelligence.

You must induce her to come clean and also spill any other best secrets of her.If you can get her to this state,you would have my respects.

Divorce shouldn't be an option.Manage this well as the man of the house.Be strong for her and the kids.

Passing shot......You could hear her burdens and stuffs that could break you and that marriage if your shock absorbers ain't strong.Dont judge her but try and understand her.

She would be lighter,more trusting and a better wife once you midwife her through this process.

Are you man enough?

Yes, i am. Thanks for your advice

afanide:
They Never won Edo the Election....

The Rigged it.....

But PDP won Rivers without rigging?

Na every where e dey kiss?

Fadamant:
Thanks very much@chuskbogus2001. The op, has an issue and is seeking for advice. Instead of providing advice the alphas and omegas in relationship matters on nairaland are calling the op names for discovering and feeling bad about the lie his wife told him.

Lies on any grounds in marriage are bound to erode trust between couples and eventually destroy any marriage's foundation.

@Op, please forgive your wife. Calm yourself down and have a tete-a-tete with your wife, stating how you feel about it. You cannot throw away a marriage that has been going on fine before the issue of age came up because of age. Moreso, marriage is more than age. So forgive her and shelve the idea of divorce.

Thank you.

chuksbogus2001:
All those that comment didn't address the issue at hand .you guys are absolving the wife of any wrong doing making it look like the guy I not suppose to feel bad after finding out this.what is there are other things this guy is yet to find out.I expect people to first condemn the wife for lying to the husband .in fact she deceived the guy into the marriage.if the guy is aware of the age then he can make an inform decision .

Now ,op I know u are feeling bad about this but you have to put urself together.has she not been a food wife to u? remember her good attributes and forgive her. I guess she did it cos she doesn't want to loose u.

Thank you.

My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

So, what should i do with this post now?

After the Edo election has been decided and a winner and losers emerged, there appears to be stock taking on both sides, anyway.

However, it appears in this picture, the PDP candidate is being consoled by the state PDP chairman, Dan Orbih and chieftain, Tom Ikimi and being urged to hand over the issue to God, since he is a pastor.( strictly my mind).

What do you think these men are telling Pastor Osagie Ize Iyamu?

I think FIFA consider these as 'balls' for the next world cup

alberson:
Tony aneni local government...

Not Tony Anenih, its Tom Ikimi Local Govt

I know Obaseki will one day, make us proud. Na God win