₦airaland Forum

Well I like small weddings as is my  family way of doing things.

But  its a decision for both of the couples and I suppose if one is real bent on a big wedding then you have to accept to make things  easier.

A small wedding is usually less choatic,you actually know who is there and is likely to be quiet as it should be.No 8ft speakers giving you a headache on your wedding day!

Also if you talk about the money side then thats something else to consider.Personally , a lot of people forget about after the wedding.

A downpayment on a house vs a big wedding for instance?

But reading all this post I have come to realise it seems a good number of people are thinking of small weddings,which is a positive sign for Nigeria.

Also the white man who we inherited 50% of the ceremony from has also of recent had a change of heart.With wedding cost there now an average of £12000 no wonder .

So even if its not your style to consider a small wedding , think of what the money can do for your future.

it seems it be sorted.I am happy for you.

There is NO better or worse place to marry a girl or man.

While as humans ,we tend to generalize a nation of people ie this country the girls are more faithful but more money minded or that country less faithful but less money minded,truth be told its down to luck whereever you find one.

You can easily go to Nigeria and find your perfect girl or find a living nighhtmare .Then again you could just walk out of your house in the states and bump into the perfect girl who might be a latino,white,black,asia or whatever.

I would not advise you to have a set mind solely on just going to Nigeria to look for a wife.I would look around where you are,go for a trip to Nigeria and get introduced to some girls or even try internet dating .

That way you have explored your choices and met different people and can take time to decide which girl you want to have a serious relationship with.
But the important thing is to have an open mind on this matter.Love might be waiting for you in Nigeria but then again maybe the woman right for you is in china who knows!

Have you come here to look for approval to commit adultery

you might be the infertile one,think about it

you should know how to turn a joke around and not be too serious.nigeria is serious enough as it is.
All this have been people having a joke and even you got 1 reply which looks sincere.

chase her for what?
my friend we all know that men sleep around a lot.Where do you think they find the women to sleep with?
she is a honest woman which is rare.Most girls will deny ever sleeping with more then 1 person or having a abortion.
so calm down my friend.
we all like to marry saint but there is no saint left .a honest woman is the next best thing!

na wa for nigeria.
we like money well well.
Even now he don land girl who want do maths before she agree for am.
but my people na so e be .
only girls for here who don ask me how much money i dey make na nigeria girls!
and girls for home dey wonder why many guys dey carry foriegn girl.Who want money stress ?

Hi all .We have a small catering buisness in new york and run a new website called www.nigerianfood.info.

I be happy for comments about the site and i wish to say its nice to see a forum where we can discuss about nigerian food as we are constantly trying to improve our menu to taste as nigerian as possible for our nigerians in USA.

Also i am desperately looking for a yam pounder to buy in USA if anyone knows as pounding manually for 100s of people is no longer funny oooo

Great forum

hi am new and based in new york.So nice to meet all of you