my dear the problem is not whether to attend the wedding or not., the issue is that have you gotten over him? do you have a new boyfriend, or any other interests or you are still smarting and brooding over lost love?

all this gist about being nice and wishing him well shows you are still in denial.

please face the fact and get over him and forget he ever existed. a guy dat dates u and another girl together and ends up marrying her has NO regards for you at all and considers u just as a can of coke that is dispensable once the juice is finished. at best u are like a toy to him. and he invites you to is wedding cos u are just a toy to him.

imagine he heard you were banging his best man would he still invite you? or is the girl too inviting all her ex guys?

so my dear move on with your life; thats is my suggestion.

but at the same time, pray about this, cos for all you know you could meet your future husband there

OMO - DONT DO IT.

He is an evil genius and the fact that u still like him is bad enough.

DONT DO IT.

You dont need that, why must you attend his wedding?

Cut every single tie you have with him, even if his siters were ur friends, cut them off.

Girl, this is dangerous, he cheated with you and then broke up with you? This guy has no credibility and has no intergrity - he will lure you back to his life and you will become his extramarital affair. And cause you like him so much, you will do it.

Girl i know this cause i never advice people on things i dont know - been there, done that, worn the tshirt and even given birth to th baby.

DONT DO IT.

Y' all, am sure the wedding don pass already.

initiate:

please face the fact and get over him and forget he ever existed. a guy that dates u and another girl together and ends up marrying her has NO regards for you at all and considers u just as a can of coke that is dispensable once the juice is finished. at best u are like a toy to him. and he invites you to is wedding because u are just a toy to him.

imagine he heard you were banging his best man would he still invite you? or is the girl too inviting all her ex guys?

Good advice! Let's hope she will take it.

initiate:
but at the same time, pray about this, because for all you know you could meet your future husband there

God can't be that wicked. He can arrange for her to meet her future husband, anywhere else. Why must it be at that jerk's wedding? If na play, make una stop am. I beg, if na home video talk be this one, make una fast forward am o! Ehen, I don talk my own.

don't attend the wedding! have u thought of the reason he might want u present?kissing his bride in your presence and making you feel she is better than you are.don't go, pray for the union.

yeah u can go if d relationship ended in a gud way,notin is dere to withness his weddin jst go n wish dem d best n chop wat is obtainable dere n find ur way home,

NOT EVERY LOVE THAT ONE TOUCHES THAT ONE
OWNS, SOME TIMES WE TOUCH LOVE AND SOME TIMES WE LET GO,
YET LIFE HAS TO ON, I UNDERSTAND HOW
U FEEL AND ALL THAT BUT IS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE
THE END OF THE WORLD, U ARE NOT THE FIRST AND
WILL NOT BE THE LIST, THINGS LIKE THESE HAPPEN
EVEN TO MEN.
ATTEND THE WEDDING AND DO THE
BEST U CAN, LET HIM KNOW THAT U ARE NOT WHAT HE
THINKS U ARE, THE BEST IS ON THE WAY FOR YOU.
HE IS NOT YOUR MAN.[/color]

So Anabib, how did it all end?? Did you go for the wedding at the end of the day?

Dear, please don't go, u are only going to hurt yourself further no matter whateva hunk u decide to go with. It's really going to hurt you that after all u've been through with him, someone else gets to wear the ring.

as long as u don't end up hurting urself, there's nothin wrong with dat

wedding wey don pass finish for almost two years now, una still dey argue whether to go or not, _{couple don born pickin finish sef}

well something this similar happened to me too,i was dating a guy wen i was in school,he told me about a lady friend,later i found out he was dating her,he was seeing the both of us, he left school before me and to cut story short,they are both married now,i was bitter with him before but God blessed me a guy who loves me and the good thing is i love him too .Take this advice,dont go there particularly if alot of ppl knew you with him you'd feel like you are the one ppl are looking at.sorry i cnt be matured about it cut loose now you can still be friends frm afar you know .

Forgive and move on with your life.

I havent found one good reason to. . .

_{in my case I wasnt even invited, & afterwards i got an apology that she wanted to tell me in person bla bla bla. . .WHAT BULL!}

Dont go there.

forget that wedding or u are going to fall ur hand. na wa for u ooo

Don't go. don't ever speak to him, reply his txts or make contact wit him

Nothing hurts more than being ignored. It wil pain him more. Baggah!

Mtschewwwww!!!!!

heart of men is desperately wicked. this born again thin, God say God say, u want to go and mock urself,be humiliated and cry at the wedding? let him beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

God will give u ur rightful husband. 4get him totally infact tell him to stop calling u.

if ur not careful the guy go brainwash u and still be having u

Mr Corky:

Anabib, madam why dont we hook up over dinner at my hotel and discuss this ? am very romantic

sm1 is talkn about a serious issue here ur talkn about meetn in an hotel to discuss. if ur d same "cork i know " am not suprised.

ori ee ti daru. u must still be growing boy

he wants to ridicule u. an ex is an ex., why make them ur friends, he told u he was through with u, lied dat his future wife was a friend of his and now he is making her his wife officially, and u the looser was invited. u better forget the whole rubbish and continue with ur life, dont attend any stupid wedding. good riddance to bad rubbish is wat i say.