you told him you were hungry. Is he your daddy?
Since he didn't jump the gun and propose to take you out to a fancy restaurant to get some food you now consider him stingy?

MLOL.

Never ask a man you just met for money. It's not a good look. I suppose you have a job; if you were hungry you should gotten food for yourself.

As i said earlier, i close late from office, and where i can get food from my office is really far, and there is no way i wud have gone to see him if i went in getting food first, so since its was getting late had to rush and see him.
Though i tots he won't take much of my time.


All thesame you bleeped up,you for bear the hunger until u reach your house na.

@poster

My friend what has not buying you food got to do with stingyness??
You were Hungry my friend and again you cannot jugde a playa with just one match so we need more examples otherwise; YOU HAVE JUDGED THAT YOUNG MAN WRONGLY No guy want to be a mugu. . . _{Me myself wont fall for that}

I just stumbled on this thread and I was really "tempted" to contribute.

I wish some ladies would learn the trade of placing VALUE on themselves. Some are not hungry , they are just beggars. They see it as the responsibilities of a man to foot all their bills. In this modern day, I am sorry it does not work that way. I hope at the same time that the men, will be bold enough to give it to the ladies straight away when they exhibit their art of "beggarism" and "hunger", instead of mumuring after they might have left.

_{Some ladies sha}

my dear poster
with your kind of grammar
i wont even advice my driver to spend a dime on u
sorry

its chicks like u dat spoil d reps of oda babes
u just met a guy u don dey ask 4 food money already
are u sayin if u had not met him u wld not eat
my dear step up
dis days girls dont ask guys directly 4 tins
even if u need smtin u go form small

well me i knw sure ooh

@ poster
Your man is not stingy. He's just not the type that likes spending on a first date that most ladies would end up calling Mr nice guy.

@ Poster,
Is he your father? You were hungry and demanded for him to buy food for you? All these hunger beaten babes sef.

Do not conclude yet. Do not use a single incidence and hear say from his so called cousin to judge him. Please give it time. He could be broke that night, feel uneasy admitting that to you. So take your time to get to know him better.

stingy men or women rarely change.

You have to learn to live with it if you fall in love with that kind of person.

Dear Poster plz define stinginess, cos the episode you just described above is that of a typical stereotyped Nigerian girl who for some strange reasons think the Ono's is for the man to prove himself worthy to be seen with, we have same issues with some girls in the UK and America too, cos they failed to change thier sense of orientation once they reach the advance world where women are almost equal to men, would it not have been So awesome of on your way to his office you brought him some takeaway and say hey babe, I got these for us, step up your game to add value to yourself, what you have just done is like Politicians saying in the UK, Vote me I will build a road and school here lol that only happens in Nigeria lol

girl if you are hungry buy food for yourself. wait for no man.

You just met him, he may think you are the demanding type. But at least, he suppose to offer you something just for the visiting. He is somehow stingy if he didn't at all offer you at least a drink for the visit, Haba.

@Poster, you just met the man and already concluded that he is stingy? Next time carry your own food b4 you go visit am . . .

This is the problem we have in our part of the world. Women expect men to do everything for
them. You are hungry and because a man you just met did not over reach himself and rush
you to the nearest MR BIGGS or TANTALIZERS you quickly conclude that 'he is stingy'. With a
mentality such as this, no wonder our ladies fall for men who offer them food and take them
to bed the next minute. Are you really that cheap?

Never ask a man you just met for money. It's not a good look. I suppose you have a job; if you were hungry you should gotten food for yourself.



@starstruck

I have never aske him for money,,,,,,,,, i only let him to understand my predicament, if that can make him to allowed me go home early, plz read all my reply well.
thanks

my dear poster
with your kind of grammar
i wont even advice my driver to spend a dime on u
sorry

its chicks like u dat spoil d reps of oda babes
u just met a guy u don dey ask 4 food money already
are u sayin if u had not met him u wld not eat
my dear step up
dis days girls dont ask guys directly 4 tins
even if u need smtin u go form small

@ sexyHotMom

with your kind of grammar,
Can u plz do ur own correction, in anywhere u found the grammertical error, madam too know


u just met a guy u don dey ask 4 food money already
are u sayin if u had not met him u wld not eat

is a month pluse, just meet by the way who told u that i was asking him for food, his he my daddy?
He invited me to his office, told him i need to go home so that i can cook as have not eaten since moring, but he said ( I said u should come to my office) plz do not misinterprite me, after all his not the one that has been taking care of me before, so why should i allowed that to be his problem.
But do not forget that its was his responsibility.

This is the problem we have in our part of the world. Women expect men to do everything for
them. You are hungry and because a man you just met did not over reach himself and rush
you to the nearest MR BIGGS or TANTALIZERS you quickly conclude that 'he is stingy'. With a
mentality such as this, no wonder our ladies fall for men who offer them food and take them
to bed the next minute. Are really that cheap?


George D:

I should say u do not know what u are talking why becoz u ve not read my reply well.

Fine if u did not have cash to take care of me at that moment why did u have to borther me coming to ur office when I alredy let u know my situation, Do u know what its mean for one to work since moring without eating, okay did u expect me disobey him or what?, Do u expect me go out while getting there to get food when the street is no go area, if am got and reap what will he do?, its seem u don't understand my point.

Please is rather adviceable to read well before contributing.

ammamat:


George D:

I should say u do not know what u are talking why becoz u ve not read my reply well.

Fine if u did not have cash to take care of me at that moment why did u have to borther me coming to ur office when I alredy let u know my situation, Do u know what its mean for one to work since moring without eating, okay did u expect me disobey him or what?, Do u expect me go out while getting there to get food when the street is no go area, if am got and reap what will he do?, its seem u don't understand my point.

Please is rather adviceable to read well before contributing.

There is nothing to understand here. Your attitude is a sad commentary on the kind of mentality
that is rife among ladies in this part of the world. A large proportion of women here fall into your
category, so maybe you shouldn't feel too bad about it. They're always begging, demanding one
thing or the other at the slightest excuse and when the men fail to respond, they label them with
all sorts of unsavoury nomenclature.
Please it's high time our women hold their heads high like their counterparts in other parts of the
world. Learn to depend more on yourself rather than expecting somebody else let alone a stranger
put food on your lap.

There is nothing to understand here. Your attitude is a sad commentary on the kind of mentality
that is rife among ladies in this part of the world. A large proportion of women here fall into your
category, so maybe you shouldn't feel too bad about it. They're always begging, demanding one
thing or the other at the slightest excuse and when the men fail to respond, they label them with
all sorts of unsavoury nomenclature.
Please it's high time our women hold their heads high like their counterparts in other parts of the
world. Learn to depend more on yourself rather than expecting somebody else let alone a stranger
put food on your lap


@ George D:

Sound very funny, lets forget about we talking online, i think at times is better u meet sombody one on one so that u can atleast know who the person is.

I can never in anyway depend on a man, even when am married i can't depend on my husband okay, i do not allowed men to take me so low, i do not allowed them to count me as cheap girl, why am I working, is it not to take care of myself and free man, If u have been meeting girls like that, plz change ur mentality coz all gilrs are not the same ok.
I am not feeling bad about his act, but my concered is that he should change coz is really bad,

Okay let me tell u what his cursin told me that his former chic came to his house,and her period occur unexpected, its was a problem for this guy to buy pad for this chic.
What is that one being call, is that one too food?

i would simply conclude you are a Hungry girl looking for a man to spend his money on u

look at your statements, you just met him, he asked you to stay back in his office till 10:30pm, r u less busy or u don't have work to go to the next day

or are u desperate that u were even expecting a free ride home, is it not too late for you to be out on a working day?

stingy guy my foot, it is only in Nigeria u would take a girl out and the girl would want to run ur pockets dry infarct she might even invite friends to come along after choosing choicest restaurant she cant afford herself , after the whole show she calls u mugu

if you are hungry you tell him i would be back let me get something to eat, do u want some snacks while you work?? and see if you don't pass the first test he had just giving you. well ur greed and selfishness wont allow you think in that direction

my conclusion -- hungry -desperado

ammamat ignore the people insulting you

i myself misunderstood ur story until i read it all

my onl advice to u is,when u meet such a man again,dont do everything he tells u,if u do it,he will call u cheap and desperate

if i were u ,i would have told d okada man to stop,come down and walked away , instead of staying with him till 10.30pm

seriously i think u brought this insult upon urself,u acted desperate

Okay let me tell u what his cursin told me that his former chic came to his house,and her period occur unexpected, its was a problem for this guy to buy pad for this chic.
What is that one being call, is that one too food?
Chi POSTER, so you gonna or you are telling us that you could ask a guy to give you Money to buy sanitry Pad as well? man what vilage did you come from?I have to put that in my diary and warn folks to stay clear from them areas,common man life aint that hard in Nigeria Im very sure.

@ original poster,dat guy is a poor lover,a rubbish boyfriend,very scrawny,selfish and stingy,hes starting 2 magan you girl,u better drop d stingy motha bleeper quick.

erico2k2:

Okay let me tell u what his cursin told me that his former chic came to his house,and her period occur unexpected, its was a problem for this guy to buy pad for this chic.
What is that one being call, is that one too food?
Chi POSTER, so you gonna or you are telling us that you could ask a guy to give you Money to buy sanitry Pad as well? man what vilage did you come from?I have to put that in my diary and warn folks to stay clear from them areas,common man life aint that hard in Nigeria Im very sure.

sorry but i cant comprehend anything u typed on here

i would simply conclude you are a Hungry girl looking for a man to spend his money on u
How much can u spend on a woman, ?
can u take a woman out for shopping and stand watch her without sheking.

@ Kaecy5
look at your statements, you just met him, he asked you to stay back in his office till 10:30pm, r u less busy or u don't have work to go to the next day

I should say u are stupid for not reading well before u reply, Where did u see we just met that day and he ask me to stay back in his office, u better and ask questions


if you are hungry you tell him i would be back let me get something to eat, do u want some snacks while you work?? and see if you don't pass the first test he had just giving you. well ur greed and selfishness wont allow you think in that direction

Don't u have eyes to ready well, How do u wnat me excuss him get food at that time in a rough environment, if am rape, what do u think this guy will do?

or are u desperate that u were even expecting a free ride home, is it not too late for you to be out on a working day?


Who is talking about ride here, i can always go home anytime i close, so i do not think i was going to meet him so that I can get a free ride, u are wrong .

look at your statements, you just met him, he asked you to stay back in his office till 10:30pm, r u less busy or u don't have work to go to the next day

Can u copy where u get this, u go and read it well before u conclude, you are one of them am suspecting u, guys that will take a gilr to bed before offering them mineral, mugu

Thanks so much @ amebo no1, for understanding, don't mind this some of this guys that think up side down.

@ erico, are u saying if ur chic come to ur house and her period came unexpected, u will tell her go to house with blood stain so that she can get herself sanitary pad, nawoah i wonder the kind of men we are having now, , thiers is alway trade by bater, I pitty ur wife.

amebo no1.:

sorry but i cant comprehend anything u typed on here

probably cos you aint into txt typing, keep up to catch up

ammamat:

Thanks so much @ amebo no1, for understanding,  don't mind this some of this guys that think up side down.

@ erico,  are u saying if ur chic come to ur house and her period came unexpected, u will tell her go to house with blood stain so that she can get herself sanitary pad,  nawoah i wonder the kind of men we are having now, , thiers is alway trade by bater,  I pitty ur wife.

Look drop this topic it aint getting you the popularity you craive for oh I  aint married yet so stop feeling sorry for my wife whoever that may eventually be, well here in the advance world %80 of women have these little smart things in thier purse to tidy themselves if it sudenly leaks  and Im sure you are learnerd anough to count your monthly circle to know at least the week its gonna start,, so what you are saying now is if you where my GF  and you suddenly come on at mine, you want me to rush to  Boots to get you them PADS? or give you Money to go get em? what one would you preffer, lets see your sence of orientation kaprit

@ erico, na u sabi, u forget that, its do changes,

which ever one u can or will do all na ur cup of tea,

erico2k2:

probably cos you aint into txt typing, keep up to catch up

probably cos,you type in another language other than english,thats why u make no sense