I have a girlfriend, I love her very much. However, a few months into the relationship, 8 months to be specific, she came over to my place after she had visited twice earlier. When she came, my instinct wasn't really down to making love to her but after 2 days I did. When I got in there, I found out she has gone wider. This was too convincing and I just was confused. I pestered her to know what was going on, she didn't spew no information. I pressed harder and she confessed to me that she actually had sex with someone else but it was a rape. I don't believe that one bit because I asked how it happened. The guy has always asked her out, she went to his house to ask for a movie and he told her he loved her and would want her. The next thing he forced her to bed. Asked her "what kind of clothes did you put on for him to have penetrated you?" He said he went there with a gown and she doesn't wear gown out to the best of my knowledge and I am sure she was on a jeans that day, now if she was how could he have penetrated her unless she agreed? "I bet he raped you without a condom" I asked and she responded that she used a condom on her but who rapes with a condom these days? This doesn't make sense to me at all. Please advise me on what to do. I need serious help here. I still love her but each time I think about this, I feel sudden hatred towards her.

pls 4get her

i cant stand a cheating partner

very annoying
KMT

TheSeeker:

I have a girlfriend, I love her very much. However, a few months into the relationship, 8 months to be specific, she came over to my place after she had visited twice earlier. When she came, my instinct wasn't really down to making love to her but after 2 days I did. When I got in there, I found out she has gone wider. This was too convincing and I just was confused. I pestered her to know what was going on, she didn't spew no information. I pressed harder and she confessed to me that she actually had sex with someone else but it was a rape. I don't believe that one bit because I asked how it happened. The guy has always asked her out, she went to his house to ask for a movie and he told her he loved her and would want her. The next thing he forced her to bed. Asked her "what kind of clothes did you put on for him to have penetrated you?" He said he went there with a gown and she doesn't wear gown out to the best of my knowledge and I am sure she was on a jeans that day, now if she was how could he have penetrated her unless she agreed? "I bet he raped you without a condom" I asked and she responded that she used a condom on her but who rapes with a condom these days? This doesn't make sense to me at all. Please advise me on what to do. I need serious help here. I still love her but each time I think about this, I feel sudden hatred towards her.

does it occur to you she may be wearing jeans now for a reason?

JJYOU:

does it occur to you she may be wearing jeans now for a reason?

I don't understand that question.

TheSeeker:

I have a girlfriend, I love her very much. However, a few months into the relationship, 8 months to be specific, she came over to my place after she had visited twice earlier. When she came, my instinct wasn't really down to making love to her but after 2 days I did. When I got in there, I found out she has gone wider. This was too convincing and I just was confused. I pestered her to know what was going on, she didn't spew no information. I pressed harder and she confessed to me that she actually had sex with someone else but it was a rape. I don't believe that one bit because I asked how it happened. The guy has always asked her out, she went to his house to ask for a movie and he told her he loved her and would want her. The next thing he forced her to bed. Asked her "what kind of clothes did you put on for him to have penetrated you?" He said he went there with a gown and she doesn't wear gown out to the best of my knowledge and I am sure she was on a jeans that day, now if she was how could he have penetrated her unless she agreed? "I bet he raped you without a condom" I asked and she responded that she used a condom on her but who rapes with a condom these days? This doesn't make sense to me at all. Please advise me on what to do. I need serious help here. I still love her but each time I think about this, I feel sudden hatred towards her.

Raped with a condom?  What was the girl doing while the dude was wearing a condom?
That story has holes in it.

exactly what i'm thinking
it does not makes sense
how old is the babe sef
this sounds very dumb i'm sorry 2 say sha

origina9ja:

exactly what i'm thinking
it does not makes sense
how old is the babe sef
this sounds very dumb i'm sorry 2 say sha

u av a point,

i dont know how u  measure the lenght and breadth of the clit,
but she is lieing and so i suggest you let her go.

_{i have never been convinced u can tell the  change in size of a clit from the last time u bleeped and presently.}

izeek:

i dont know how u  measure the lenght and breadth of the clit,
but she is lieing and so i suggest you let her go.

_{i have never been convinced u can tell the  change in size of a clit from the last time u bleeped and presently.}

Of course you can always know especially when it has gone exceptionally wider. I take note of these things. Do you know they use stuffs to tighten it too? I can figure that out too.

TheSeeker:

Of course you can always know especially when it has gone exceptionally wider. I take note of these things. Do you know they use stuffs to tighten it too? I can figure that out too.

how?

biola44:

how?

Like in this situation, I recall vividly that she was always tight each time I went in and this time, she was just wider and the whole thing was just too watery. Also, study the odor that ensues after each time you have sex. If a woman is having sex with you alone, the odor is always constant, the day another man goes in there, forget it you will perceive something else. As for the tightening, the clit will be so coarsely tight that usual.

did it ever occur to u that maybe u dint have a full erection?

D.C. could also make a womans opening to be wider than normal

izeek:

did it ever occur to u that maybe u dint have a full erection?

If I could notice she was wider, I would have noticed if I had weak erection even in my dreams. I had even the fullest erection, you know, I didn't have sex with anyone for 6 months since I last saw her until she came back and we did it?

emilyone:

D.C. could also make a womans opening to be wider than normal

Yes you're right. She told me she had that the first time we started dating and that was a few weeks before we started off the relationship. In all honesty, do you think I was stupid to have started the relationship in the first place?

obviously ur girl has been sleeping around with all those signs u noted. pronto! she only used rape as an excuse to cover up her act since u've cautch her already

TheSeeker:

If I could notice she was wider, I would have noticed if I had weak erection even in my dreams. I had even the fullest erection, you know, I didn't have sex with anyone for 6 months since I last saw her until she came back and we did it?
Yes you're right. She told me she had that the first time we started dating and that was a few weeks before we started off the relationship. In all honesty, do you think I was stupid to have started the relationship in the first place?

In my honest opinion, you were not stupid to start off with, but now you seem to be making a special effort to be Feeling all funky that you can tell a woman has recently been dicked based on the girth of her kitten

And the girl was dumber cos if that was me, I'd have given you a taperule and a wallchart with a graph to plot my vagina to see if I have been up to any hanky-panky, every time we wanna bang

Let this girl down gently if you have to, but go work overtime on your trust issue

@poster,
Don't think you made a mistake by going out with her at first,she slept with the other guy,she was not coarsed,why will she go to the guy's house to get a movie?man thats a lame excuse infact it confirms she really wanted it,cuz most girls use that as an excuse to visit men.so dump her sorry arse.or you will regret it at the long run.

sounds like shecheated on you though her 'widending' is not proof of this - more the lack of coherence in her story!

tell her how you feel and what you think and see how she reacts - if she is contrite enough to confess and apologise, then you know where you stand and can decide whether you want to find a cause to her cheating and work through it together or whether you want to leave

if you can't be bothered and dont think it is worth - it or she wont confess - walk away jeje-ly

@poster.
She.did.not.only.cheat.on.you? She.cheated.'repeatedly'.on.you. You.said.you,guys.last.saw.6.months.ago?. She.mos.def.was.with.someone.else.all.that.time.and.they.constantly.had.sex!. Else.you.wouldnt.have.easily.noticed.the.change.in.size.

The.more.frequent.a.girl.has.sex. . .the.wider.she.gets. And.for.you.to.have.noticed.an.incredible.change.in.size. . .she.was.getting.in.constantly!

Thats.what.they.call.'thoroughfare'!.

Not.funny.here.dude. . Give.up.the.girl.
But.if.you.think.you.love.her.enough.to.still.be.with.her. . .game.on!.
But.then. . .can.you, ever.trust.her.again?

justkunmi:

@poster.
She.did.not.only.cheat.on.you? She.cheated.'repeatedly'.on.you. You.said.you,guys.last.saw.6.months.ago?. She.mos.def.was.with.someone.else.all.that.time.and.they.constantly.had.sex!. Else.you.wouldnt.have.easily.noticed.the.change.in.size.

The.more.frequent.a.girl.has.sex. . .the.wider.she.gets. And.for.you.to.have.noticed.an.incredible.change.in.size. . .she.was.getting.in.constantly!

Thats.what.they.call.'thoroughfare'!.

Not.funny.here.dude. . Give.up.the.girl.
But.if.you.think.you.love.her.enough.to.still.be.with.her. . .game.on!.
But.then. . .can.you, ever.trust.her.again?

You are right and feel my point. The first time she visited me she stayed for a month and we had sex constantly she never went any wide, but I was just surprised that in 6 months she had gone very very wide. That showed she was up to something.

luxoire:

sounds like shecheated on you though her 'widending' is not proof of this - more the lack of coherence in her story!

tell her how you feel and what you think and see how she reacts - if she is contrite enough to confess and apologise, then you know where you stand and can decide whether you want to find a cause to her cheating and work through it together or whether you want to leave

if you can't be bothered and dont think it is worth - it or she wont confess - walk away jeje-ly

She said it was a rape and I doubt that in its entirety. I talked to one of her friends before her arrival and she felt a bit reluctant about everything and all, she felt my pains because I suspected something was going on. Some of us got instincts ya know?

TheSeeker:

You are right and feel my point. The first time she visited me she stayed for a month and we had sex constantly she never went any wide, but I was just surprised that in 6 months she had gone very very wide. That showed she was up to something.

She said it was a rape and I doubt that in its entirety. I talked to one of her friends before her arrival and she felt a bit reluctant about everything and all, she felt my pains because I suspected something was going on. Some of us got instincts ya know?

sounds like deep down you know the trueth question is HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT?

Busy_body:


In my honest opinion, you were not stupid to start off with, but now you seem to be making a special effort to be Feeling all funky that you can tell a woman has recently been dicked based on the girth of her kitten

And the girl was dumber cos if that was me, I'd have given you a taperule and a wallchart with a graph to plot my vagina to see if I have been up to any hanky-panky, every time we wanna bang

Let this girl down gently if you have to, but go work overtime on your trust issue

Let me take it from your last statement, I am one of the guys who trust ladies to any length. Even when guys criticize ladies for whatever they do, I always go on the defensive for them that they might not be what people see them as. But when I see a spade, I call it a spade and that is the truth. I can't be rude enough to smear the image of my girlfriend on here if I wasn't sure of anything. I have never distrusted any girlfriend I had my whole life except this one and that is what bothers me.

luxoire:

sounds like deep down you know the trueth question is HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT?

I'm so confused at this point. She seemed remorseful but I expected more from her and this happened. Just don't know or understand how a relationship will work without trust. I do still love her just don't trust her anymore, I told her that.

you be real seeker.  . anyway sometimes the cunt can feel loose. when a lady is very relax, or she just finished her monthly p.

but since she confessed, well i think u shl 4give her, shit happens, we are human u know, and body no be fire wood. we all get tempted

especially when we separated from our partners for long. just talk to her and try and build trust. and take a chill pill, and stop seeking

cos u can make someone confess to a crime they didnt do, or call up one in the far past, just to have their peace.

smooooooth:

you be real seeker.  . anyway sometimes the cunt can feel loose. when a lady is very relax, or she just finished her monthly p.

but since she confessed, well i think u shl 4give her, shit happens, we are human u know, and body no be fire wood. we all get tempted

especially when we separated from our partners for long. just talk to her and try and build trust. and take a chill pill, and stop seeking

cos u can make someone confess to a crime they didnt do, or call up one in the far past, just to have their peace.

LOL! I know cunts can be loose sometimes but that has a limit too and should contract within a few days to its normal size. She was not anywhere close to her monthly P then.
They accuse us of being disloyal to them but all those times she wasn't there even though I had lots of women around me, I never frolicked with any of them for 1 second and I kept my promises to her. I have forgiven her but trust is an expensive price.

TheSeeker:

LOL! I know cunts can be loose sometimes but that has a limit too and should contract within a few days to its normal size. She was not anywhere close to her monthly P then.
They accuse us of being disloyal to them but all those times she wasn't there even though I had lots of women around me, I never frolicked with any of them for 1 second and I kept my promises to her. I have forgiven her but trust is an expensive price.

blive me, there is no limit a cunt can expand when the gal is really high and wet. maybe u over did the pre-intimacy thingy b4 penetrating. bad guy

about 4giving, i think u shld, and if we want pple 2 change, we got to change what we think bout them first. cos if you continue to see her as a

cheat & make reference to what she did. she may cheat again. let it go, forgive and forget.

TheSeeker:

Let me take it from your last statement, I am one of the guys who trust ladies to any length. Even when guys criticize ladies for whatever they do, I always go on the defensive for them that they might not be what people see them as. But when I see a spade, I call it a spade and that is the truth. I can't be rude enough to smear the image of my girlfriend on here if I wasn't sure of anything. I have never distrusted any girlfriend I had my whole life except this one and that is what bothers me.
I'm so confused at this point. She seemed remorseful but I expected more from her and this happened. Just don't know or understand how a relationship will work without trust. I do still love her just don't trust her anymore, I told her that.

I wasn't privy to the fact that you had not seen each other for 6 months, sowwy Like i said, you no longer trust her cos you kept yourself for her whilst she did not, and she then had the audacity to lie she was raped.

Unless she is willing to confess whether she was with one dude who is no longer in the picture or slept with random blokes whilst being careful, start bidding adieu to the girl. A relationship cannot work without trust, you are gonna be on edge everytime she is late coming back from somewhere.

Not worth giving yourself a heart attack for. By the way how long did you guys date for?

Treetop20:

she is in the US i bet huh?
if so then she is a flaming liar!
her story isn't true one bit

Easy tiger Save that passion for when you meet Amber, good thing the coast is clear and she is now single once again for you to stake a claim

Nig knock the dust off that real good before she leaves then call her ass up on the phone and let her know it's over.  Better yet text her the break-up.

look, at least she confessed, which shows she got a conscience and can change. she just fell cos of the distance.

dnt mind all these posters, most of their gals are cheating, even rite now, and even if they put a gun to her head

she will never confess lai lai. so u berra 4give her and start again, b4 u end up with those die hard babes that will

deny even if you caught them in the act, and na those kind babes plenty pass nao o.

Busy_body:


I wasn't privy to the fact that you had not seen each other for 6 months, sowwy Like i said, you no longer trust her cos you kept yourself for her whilst she did not, and she then had the audacity to lie she was raped.

Unless she is willing to confess whether she was with one dude who is no longer in the picture or slept with random blokes whilst being careful, start bidding adieu to the girl. A relationship cannot work without trust, you are gonna be on edge everytime she is late coming back from somewhere.

Not worth giving yourself a heart attack for. By the way how long did you guys date for?

We dated for 7 months when this happened and I was feeling like we've been dating for as long as 5 years I trusted her, she still claims it was a rape although I have chosen not to talk about it anymore with her but deep down I know she's lying. I asked her lots of questions like, why didn't she scream? Where weren't they cuts and bruises from struggling with they guy not to do her? Why didn't she just have access to any object and engage the guy in a duel and I could really see she struggled? All these are daunting questions that she still doesn't have any convincing answers to. She told me no one could hear her if she shouted, absolutely upsetting. I felt more disappointed than hurt. Even if I am to continue the relationship, I am sure there won't be an iota of jealousy anymore, I won't be worried she's late home and I won't care about almost anything that has to do with her relationship with men, I won't ask questions and I won't show any signs of being hurt, in fact I won't be hurt

smooooooth:

look, at least she confessed, which shows she got a conscience and can change. she just fell cos of the distance.

dnt mind all these posters, most of their gals are cheating, even rite now, and even if they put a gun to her head

she will never confess lai lai. so u berra 4give her and start again, b4 u end up with those die hard babes that will

deny even if you caught them in the act, and na those kind babes plenty pass nao o.

Yes, but then I know she wasn't raped, she did it willingly, ok, how can you explain these? I asked her lots of questions like, why didn't she scream? Where weren't they cuts and bruises from struggling with they guy not to do her? Why didn't she just have access to any object and engage the guy in a duel and I could really see she struggled? All these are daunting questions that she still doesn't have any convincing answers to. She told me no one could hear her if she shouted, absolutely upsetting. I felt more disappointed than hurt.

Yes, but then I know she wasn't raped, she did it willingly, ok, how can you explain these?
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with issues like this, half truth is okay, the full truth is hard.

i once had a girl who said she only pulled her clothes and wore them

back. i ddint question further, i just thot the rest my self.